I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 2 June 2010: I suggest you try to write a letter to him but you will never post it and instead burn it .
Get in touch with your anger by feeling free to express your feelings to him without the fear of reprisals.
In the letter , you could tell him what he... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 2 June 2010: May God bless you and heal your pains and hurts. You have been through a lot and I pray you will recover quickly and find the love of your life.
There is a time for everything and you need to enjoy life and be happy whether you are single or in a ... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 2 June 2010: Well! If you want to forget somebody , you only need to demonize him .Think of all his bad and negative points.
Your mind will automatically reject him when his name comes up in your mind.
You can also write all your feelings on apiece of pap... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 1 June 2010: Hi,
Glad to see you are back.
I think you should change your name to a better sounding one as seeing your name will make you devastated.You need to think more positive and associate more with positive things.
You need to accept reality a... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 18 April 2010: You are taking the right approach and I think you will be able to save this relationship.
Best of luck to you !... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 18 April 2010: You should not lay of communicating with her daily because this will show to her that you care about her dearly and is thinking of her always.This is woman's love language.
She needs a lot of reassurance of your love and validate her thoughts... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 17 April 2010: She is coming over to see for herself if you really meant what you said.
Good luck to you .Hope and pray everything will come out fine.... (read in full...)
Horrible Pain when trying to finger.Help Please!!!
Q. *OP's own title* I'm a virgin 16 year old girl and when I try to finger my vagina I can't because IT HURTS A LOT.I can't even stick my entire finger in my vagina,I have tried but I can't,I have been trying to finger my vagina since I was 12 year...
A. 17 April 2010: I think you should go and consult a gynae to find out what is your problem.... (read in full...)
After all these months, should I continue to wait for him? He was my first...
Q. i hav a bf we hav 6 years seeing each other he lives 80miles away frm me....11 months ago he said he had to leave to another state for 4 months for work 4 months went by then 5 months n finally i got just a letter...after 8 months he txt me that he ...
A. 17 April 2010: First love is always melodramatic and that is as far as it goes. You cannot tie yourself down to some one who is a rolling stone which gathers no moss.
You may have made a promise to him but did he also promised you a lot of things and never ca... (read in full...)
If I didn't know she was married at the time I flirted with her and felt her up, could that get her thrown in jail on an account of prostitution?
Q. Last March, a 21-year-old girl I met let me come down to come see her. She was my girlfriend, and this was the first time I was meeting her in person. However, I broke up with her a week after we met because she was teasing me and all of that and it ...
A. 17 April 2010: She won't get into any troubles with the law but you are in a very precarious position.
If she has been spurned or scorned by you , she could lodge a rape or attempted rape report against you and you will be in big trouble.
There have be... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. *Op's own title* Okay its like this, i have been in a relationship with this girl for 4 and half years now, i was working abroad in Malaysia for the first 2 years and we were together, for the past few years i visited reguarly from UK to malaysia...
A. 17 April 2010: If she is willing to come over to talk it over,there is still hope. She is kindda disillusioned with you and you need to set her right and do what you need to do for her.Find out what she wants and try to accommodate her wishes.
She has given th... (read in full...)
Celibate marriage.
Q. *OP's own title* I am also in a sexless marriage. I have been married for almost 6 years. My husband has some very deep issues and hang-ups about sexual intimacy. Through these years he kept saying to me that he will go get help. He finally sees the ...
A. 17 April 2010: Sex and love are two very important issues in a relationship.It can make or break a relationship.
You have given him enough time to do something about it and that's it.
He does not value what you values and you have become incompatible par... (read in full...)
Do guys get erections over any girl, ... or just ones they like?
Q. Hey there, Just wondering, when I've kissed boys they've all got erections afterwards. Do guys get erections with any girls or just ones they like???...
A. 17 April 2010: If they are attracted to the girls, yes .But if they are not attracted to them , their brains won't send that "Stand to attention order.' to their head down below.... (read in full...)
I don't like living in sin, our lack of time, or feeling like roles are reversed in our relationship.
Q. hi, i am in a 2 years relationship with a guy i really love. however, we are very different from each other. one: i hate living in a sin (sex and all). he wiling to put hold off of his sexuality just because of this. but when he put off, he...
A. 17 April 2010: You know the situation he is in and you will have to make big sacrifices for this relationship. You need to do this because you love him and for your future.
It is like investing in a money making venture. You need to plough in some capital ... (read in full...)
My daughter puts hurdles in my personal life!
Q. Hello all, this is my first story-problem I would like to share with you all and expect your comments and advice. I am almost 37 years old woman and i have a sweet but bossy teenage daughter.I live outside Detroit just with her, since im divorc...
A. 17 April 2010: If you are working and is fiancially independent , you should move out from your daughters place so that your life's will not clash and you will have more privacy.... (read in full...)
I love my mum, but she irritates me to the bone and I am not able to forgive and forget.
Q. How not to hate someone that raised and gave birth to you? Yup you know it I dislike my mother very much. Why? I don't know why I have so many grudges against her. I love my mom but the sound of her voice trying to tell me that she loves me ...
A. 17 April 2010: Your mom comes from a different generation and her mothering skills probably learned from her mom.
She come from that kind of environment and it is difficult for her to change.
You have to accept her as what she is and forgive her .When you ac... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 17 April 2010: When their honeymoon ends and their feet touched the ground, expect fireworks in that relationship. His true self will come forward.
Go for a new self image of you . Increase your self esteem and confidence.
Everything happens for a reason and... (read in full...)
It feels like he chooses his friends over family.
Q. My fiancee(22yrs)of three and a half years spends a lot of time with his friends. Together we have a 13 month old and I am always the one left home to take care of her. When I try to talk to him about it he tells me I am nagging and that I take the ...
A. 17 April 2010: I think you should talk with him and allow you to have one or two days off per week, an all girls night where you can let your hair down and do what you want with your girl friends .
You need to have a rest from care giving and be your own self... (read in full...)
Frustrated by the lack of sex!
Q. Hi. I have a bit of a long winded problem but I'll explain as quick as I can. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years we both love each other very much and we are best friends. The problem is he has no sex drive due to medicati...
A. 17 April 2010: Watching each other masturbate is a dangerous thing because he could take those hot and sizzling pixs and upload online or pass it around.
Sex is an important part of a relationship. You should not short changed yourself .
You have a right to ... (read in full...)
Drank. Cheated. Stupid. Confused
Q. *OP's own title* I have been dating an awesome guy for 4 years. We are amazing for each other. i mean amazing but i've recently gone to college and he's in the military and that combination seems horrible. Everything was perfect but i decided to...
A. 17 April 2010: This is a recipe for disaster.
Today , you may lose your b/f ,tomorrow you may lose other important things in your life or even your life .
You need to exert more self control and be more assertive .
You are traveling into a dead end road... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my bf or start searching for someone who treats me the way I treat my boyfriend?
Q. I've been having some doubt lately. My bf and I have been together for almost 4 years, in a long distance relationship. He's my first boyfriend, and I've never had much experience with guys... the truth is I feel like there's something missin...
A. 17 April 2010: It would be better to love someone who loves you much more than you love him.
Be on the look out for someone who is more in tune with your ideals than one who is an also ran. There is nothing wrong with that.
Do not keep your options shut jus... (read in full...)
I want sex, ... but never when my boyfriend is around.
Q. I have been with my bf for 2 and half yrs. When we get to together we always have sex. But lately I have been wanting it when his not around. When his around I jus seem like I haven't been interested. ...
A. 17 April 2010: When he is not around , you fantasize about him and when he is around, you find something about him which turns you off sex.
Maybe, you need to to pin point what is it that caused you to put off sex with him.... (read in full...)
How do I let a guy know I want to go to the formal dance with him?
Q. Tonight I had this thing at my school for games and stuff things that are fun to do. Anyways, my friend kinda ditched me so I hung out with my friend and her bf. Later, my guy friend came along and we were flirting and being kinda sexual (talking). ...
A. 17 April 2010: He is not a mind reader and he cannot see what's in your mind.
You need to ask him directly if he is interested and be prepared for any rejections.
If he turns you down without any good reasons , so be it. Think as you never asked him...Forg... (read in full...)
I am having a very hard time maintaining interest in other men. What should I do?
Q. Late last year I was approached by a man in a pub and he offered to buy me a drink. I initially declined but my friends pushed me to accept so I did; at the end of the night we exchanged numbers (he asked, I gave). We began to text, then spend some ...
A. 17 April 2010: Don't keep all your eggs in one basket.
You should always keep your options open. You will never know if the one for you is him or somebody else.
What if he is not the one ?
You would have lose all those good opportunities to know ot... (read in full...)
What should I do, continue or break it off?
Q. dear cupid, Recently i have broken up with my partner of 22 years and have been contacting my ex-lover who which we broke up over 25 years ago we have now decided we want to get back together agian because we still love each other a lot. the only...
A. 17 April 2010: You will have to weigh the pro's and the con's.
Do you want it or you think this is not a suitable time to have a relationship.
Or you could let Mother Nature takes its course.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband I have had sex with his brother?
Q. hi, i had a question just before. the matter was about my husbands sex with his aunt during his early ages. he tells everything to me openly. but i do have a big secret and i really cheated him. his younger brother stayed with us and was v...
A. 17 April 2010: You know it is not right to do it with his brother.
He may not keep any secrets from you but whether he can just accept what you did to him is another matter. Man have a bigger ego.
If you were to tell him ,will you be able to take the punishm... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't come to my graduation... because I'm going to a BBQ!
Q. My boyfriend is mad because next weekend i have a BBQ to go to (that he was invited to, just refuses to) The BBQ is on sunday, i said i can go over his place on friday, stay the night and saturday then i will go home to the BBQ on sunday which wou...
A. 17 April 2010: The question is which is more important to you , your b/f or the BBQ?
Do you think it is worth to give up your b/f for a BBQ?
If you don't like his attitude because he wants to control your life, you can show him the exit door.
Sometim... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 17 April 2010: You are welcome. Don't shed a tear for that ungrateful man . It is not worth crying for him now. He isn't the same man that you loved and married.
You must do the reverse psychology thing. Be happy instead of sad .Be cheerful instead of glum. En... (read in full...)
Should I give up .... Does he even like me?
Q. Hey guys!!! I need some advice!!!! Ok I really like this Virgo guy…. I’m not really sure why exactly because he doesn’t really put himself out there much lol. We met about 5yrs ago. I worked at a mall and he tried to get my number. I was very att...
A. 17 April 2010: He felt under those circumstances, he cannot provide you with a bright future. He does not want to be a hindrance to your happiness. This could explain his cold behaviour towards you .
If with good behaviour he will have 1/3 remission and will be ... (read in full...)
Routine has put the Fire out, how do we get it back?
Q. hi! ok so i feel weird having to ask questions about my sex life...a part of my life that i have always been really happy with...only and this is probably important - when im with a boyfriend.... my current borfriend ill will be with for 3...
A. 17 April 2010: Wear more sexy clothes at home and put some makeup because men are the visual kind.... (read in full...)
Routine has put the Fire out, how do we get it back?
Q. hi! ok so i feel weird having to ask questions about my sex life...a part of my life that i have always been really happy with...only and this is probably important - when im with a boyfriend.... my current borfriend ill will be with for 3...
A. 17 April 2010: The right ingredients for sex is the right kind of food, exercise and enough sleep.
Take those food which is rich in zinc(Google them), regular exercise and plenty of sleep. This would recharge your sexual drive.
Go to the gym together and aft... (read in full...)
Nasty comments after my brothers death.
Q. When my brother passed away, an ex-friend from childhood came with her family to the funeral home. She gave me a hug and then said, "I'd say let's get together but I'm moving out of the country- so oh well!" with an evil smirk on her face. (Inside ...
A. 17 April 2010: Your heart is only that small and there is not enough space to fill it up with all those good and happy thoughts and memories.
You should throw out those negative thoughts in your heart and replaced it with positive ones.
It can be easily do... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to show my feelings to a boy I like, not sure if he's gay.
Q. Theirs this boy at school who i have started to have a crush on and i don't know if he is gay or not and i am scared to ask him because i don't want no one to find out. at school he looks at me sometimes like he likes my because he stair directly at ...
A. 17 April 2010: Be friends with him first and get to know more about him before you commit to him.
The more you know about him,the more you are able to make a better decision about him.... (read in full...)
Mixed Signs Or Am I Love Struck?
Q. I usually know what to do but right now I'm CLUELESS. I'm very close to this guy who I have known for awhile. We don't live close anymore due to me moving to Germany. Him and I talk every night and webcam a lot. The other night while on the phone he...
A. 17 April 2010: He has someone and you are his confidant,where he can pour out and share his feelings .... (read in full...)
Should we get married when he gets out of bootcamp?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years, Im 18 and he is about to turn 20. He recently joined the army and this has brought up a lot of conversation about the future and that conversation always leads to the marriage discussion. We love ...
A. 17 April 2010: If you cannot wait and you do not have any problems, why not ?
If you feel strongly for it, just follow your heart.... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend?
Q. My best friend and I have been best friends for four years now and we've had our ups and downs (what teenage girls haven't?) but we've always pulled through and our relationship has remained intact. She's always had a pretty hard time at home (di...
A. 17 April 2010: Just being there is enough because you showed her that she still has a friend in you .
You do not have to offer her any solution to her problems but by listening to her woes and rants , it is very good enough.... (read in full...)
Should I be just friends? He is married, too?
Q. I am a married mum of twins who has fallen out of love with my husband of 15 years. He was my first love, however we never go out and he runs up parking fines and bills and never pays, so bailiffs are always knocking on our door and he constantly ...
A. 17 April 2010: You could try to save your marriage and if it is not possible , you will have to leave.
Getting involved with another married man is not the answer to your problems. It will complicate your problems further.
He is only using you and there is... (read in full...)
He has my number, but I don't hear anything.
Q. really like this guy i met at the pub, he is a bar man! my friend B works there as well so i told barry i liked this guy B phones me to say that he told him i like him and he wants to be straight with me that he is in touch with an ex, they not ...
A. 17 April 2010: B should know him better and it is worth a try .Most guys would be pleased to be invited by a girl and would seldom reject the invitations.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 17 April 2010: You need to accept reality and that he is a changed man and not the man you married .
Do not cry or beg him to come back to you.You need to show him that you can live happily even without him.You have to hide those sad feelings from him.
He i... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 16 April 2010: Take each day at a time and try to think positive always. Focus on God and do not look at those waves in your life. You will be able manage your everyday affairs and will gain back your strength in time.
Every dark clouds ,there are a silver l... (read in full...)
Shoud I go along with what he says or not?
Q. My freshmen yr I moved to a new town and new school. I didn't know anyone at the school so that sucked. But I got to know this boy that got my interest. I actually meet him at a party and we started talking. We ended up messing around and later ...
A. 16 April 2010: You just have different opinions and both are right.It is just like looking at a cup half full or a cup half empty.
No matter what , you should respect his opinions and accept it even if you do not agree with him . Move on .... (read in full...)
He promised me so many things and then tells me I'm crazy!
Q. i was talking to this boy for 3 years on n off we was having sex n he promised me so many things n oneday he just put a girl on the fone saying she was his girlfriend it hurted me so much he told her i never had nothing wit me that i was on his dick ...
A. 16 April 2010: You have been used and treated like trash . Cut your ties to him and leave him. Learn from your mistakes.... (read in full...)
We don't have sex and he says he needs condoms to jerk off into. Is he cheating?
Q. I am 51 years old. I have been married for 30 years. I met my husband 30 years ago and married him in 2 days. We remain in a marriage. This is not a marriage I want to continue as is. About 15 years ago, I decided to stop having sexual ...
A. 16 April 2010: Go to your lawyer and he will advise you .You could divorce because of incompatibility, mental and emotional abuse and having no conjugal rights.
You do not need him to agree with the divorce.You can seek a divorce whether he likes it or not.... (read in full...)
I am afraid for my chidren! What should I do????
Q. Dear cupid, I had recently posted a question, I got some advise and was later able to find out the truth about him. This is my original question which only made my worries worse when I got my answers, and have to ask one more question. Original...
A. 16 April 2010: If your ex has drug or alcohol addiction problems, you should make sure that visits are supervised.
Likewise, if there is a history of physical, mental or sexual abuse, visitation should be closely monitored
Consult your lawyer for the b... (read in full...)
I need help to heal my heart
Q. I married my husband 6 mos ago after a yr of dating. 3 wks after getting married he got n a trk wreck (hes a trk drvr) well long story short he ended up in a different state for a couple of months on wrkrs comp. his co put him n a hotel there n kept ...
A. 16 April 2010: I am very sorry that you have been dealt with a very cruel blow in your life. You need to get up , pick up those shattered pieces , put them back together and do your best in that circumstance.
You will need to accept that your life will not be t... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't know if he still has feelings for me any more.
Q. after 5 and a half years my bf told me he doesnt know if he still has the feeling for me anymore. when we first got togtehr we started going out in the first copuple of days and we have been together since. we work togther and have been living ...
A. 16 April 2010: After 5+ years , everything seems jaded and routine.There is no more sparkle in the relationship and you feel you are only existing .
You will need to recharge your batteries and find the same interest which attracted you to each other.
A cr... (read in full...)
My LD partner lives across the street from her ex, I am jealous, what should I do?
Q. my partner and i are in a long distance relationship i am so in love with my partner, but there is one problem my partner live across the street from my partner ex- i am threaten by the distance my partner is the god mother of her ex grand child so ...
A. 16 April 2010: You should accept what you can change and what you cannot change in this world.
If things were to happen , it will happen no matter what you think or do. Life and death is not in our hands .
Let go of those insecurity feelings and pla... (read in full...)
Are my emotions clouding my ability to make sensible decisions? Or am I falling for him again for real?
Q. Hi, I need some advice. Over the past year, I grew distant from the man in my life and he had what we refer to as an emotional affair. He became emotionally close to another girl and lied about the time he'd been spending with her. At the time, we...
A. 16 April 2010: Sometimes an affair can make the marriage stronger . They found what they have missed about each other and they will go all out to make their marriage stronger and more successful.
For more;-
http://www.articl... (read in full...)
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