I'm afraid my children's father might hurt them!
Q. Dear cupid, I am worried about the safety of my kids concerning their father. We are not together because of our abusive relationship and I am worried that he might try to hurt our children after the court says he is okay to be around. (only a ...
A. 16 April 2010: You did great and those info's could be provided to your lawyer when dealing with visitations or any matters related to him.
He may have mellowed through the ages but you have to take extra precautions with your children.... (read in full...)
I like him, he likes me, but his friend might like him too ... What should I do?
Q. A girl, who is close friends with this guy, acted normal at the start of the school term (about 9 weeks ago). She was friendly, we walked together and talked between classes, she squeezed the information out of said boy that he likes me and told me ...
A. 14 April 2010: Some day you win and some day you lose. Forget about him , he is only two timing you .... (read in full...)
Obsession with Army Boyfriend's Ex
Q. Okay, so this is another "Obsessed With Ex" story. I guess I should explain more about myself and why I *think* I'm so obsessed in the first place... Before I met my current boyfriend, I was in a 4 year relationship. V and I grew up as be...
A. 13 April 2010: To stop obsessing about her , you need to change your views about her.
View her in a negative way and demonize her .Rationalize her away by telling yourself that you are much better than her and that you are the one for your b/f and she is in th... (read in full...)
I think he will leave me if I don't have sex with him.
Q. hi my name is xoxoxoxo and i am a virgin and i really want to have sex i have a boyfriend and i really love him hes not a virgin but i am i tried to let him do it but it hurts when he tries to go in so i make him stop is it me what should i do i ...
A. 11 April 2010: If sex is the only thing that you can keep him by your side , it is better off without him. When he gets tired of your sex ,he will leave you .
Have more foreplay's and use KY Jelly to help with the penetration. If you still encounter pain , y... (read in full...)
He asked for a break, is it really over?
Q. My boyfriend and I had been together for about a year and a half. He just turned 27 and I am 24. He started his new job about 5 months ago, and we had been in a long distance relationship since then. He would be optimistic about our relationship, ...
A. 11 April 2010: You are in a catch 22 situation. Men and women do not think alike.
You may have too high an expectations from him or you are moving too fast and he is lagging behind.
You need to slow down and take each day as it comes. Planning too far... (read in full...)
How can I apologise to her to make up for snapping at her?
Q. I feel terrible! I was very tired and cranky after work. I rushed home to walk my dog and make it to dinner with my friend *I am also her boss. She is much younger so I am like a mentor to her career and life. I have been her boss and friend for 2...
A. 11 April 2010: Leave a bouquet of flowers with an apology note on her desk before she comes to work.
Ask her out for lunch and give her a treat. Everything should go back to normal again.... (read in full...)
Is it really wrong of me to talk to his mate?
Q. Hi all, I just need to get your views on this stupid situation I am in. I've been seeing this guy for a few months. He introduced me to his friends a few months ago. I clicked with one of his friends straight away. Anyway this week, I saw m...
A. 11 April 2010: Thanks for your update. I see the situation has now changed and the path is clear for you .
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to google a guy your dating to find out info on him?
Q. Hi everyone. So I posted yesterday about me finding out that the guy I'd been seeing had lied to me about his age. I googled him because I do that with guys I date just as a precaution because I like to know who I'm dating, about a year ago I w...
A. 10 April 2010: That was very cool! BRAVO! Too bad, he is the loser.... (read in full...)
Should I walk, .. try to talk, ...or give him an ultimatum?
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for 7 years. Last year we decided to split up. We did have a few problems, but I never thought they were massive problems (e.g. he liked to party a bit too much!). I thought we could try and work them through. When...
A. 10 April 2010: Cut off all ties with him and ignore him for awhile and he will come crawling back to you .When his mind becomes clearer, he will pine for you again.
A person's emotions are like a rising tide. When he is low, he will reject you whatever you do f... (read in full...)
How do I stand out from the crowd and attract boys?
Q. Well im nearly 14 but everyone says im so mature for my age. At the moment, all the boys in my year seem like idiots and i wouldn't be seen dead with any of them... all the girls seem really prettier than me and get all the boys attention. But then ...
A. 10 April 2010: Men are visual creatures. Break out from your usual mould and have a complete makeover.
This would guarantee that you will get the looks and interests directed your way.
Be confident about your looks and abilities , smile and think positive a... (read in full...)
Should I file divorce? Is enough enough?
Q. Do I leave my husband?? I need help please. I have been married for 17 years and have two beautiful children. However I feel that I need to put an end to a failing or failed marriage. I feel that I am in it just for the sake of the children. S...
A. 10 April 2010: If you have tried your very best and all those avenues of reconciliations and he still does not change and you are very unhappy with the situation, the only road left to travel is divorce.
If you do not leave, it will only get worse. Take up ... (read in full...)
Should I go there or would it be unwise?
Q. there is this guy i might be into he is 8 years older then me please help theres this guy i've known because he is my sisters husbands friend he always gets me into this night club that you have to be 18 to get in..and he is super nice one night m...
A. 10 April 2010: You are somebody he knows and he has some respects for who you are. He cannot touched you without feeling any repercussions from your BIL.He has to be careful not to mess around with you .
It would be better to find someone who comes from a loving... (read in full...)
He knows how I feel, but where does he stand?
Q. I have a few problems I can't really solve by myself. am a shy person naturally and although I can try to act normal with others when it comes to the man I like I find it harder to overcome my shyness and embarrassment around him. Not only th...
A. 10 April 2010: He is definitely interested in you . Ask him directly if he is interested to have a relationship with you ?
This way ,you would know where you stand with him.... (read in full...)
Can I make him forget about them and come back to me?
Q. I'm going to visit my ex boyfriend to win him back. He's dating new girls, and i'm not sure how long, so i'm going in a month to see him. He said nothing has gotten serious yet, but that when I see him he can't promise we'll hook up but it will be ...
A. 10 April 2010: It is better to let the man chase after you then you chasing after him.
If he has no interest in you ,you would be like flogging a dead horse.
You could try to win him back but if the heart is no more there, it would be an exercise in futi... (read in full...)
I had everything I ever wanted but now she wants to leave...
Q. hi dear cupid... i have a few questions that i need help with, i got back from work yesterday and my partner of two years told me that she was not happy with me and wants to break up with me and said that i have two weeks to find somewhere to live, ...
A. 10 April 2010: She could be suffering from depression or postpartum and baby blues.
Although many women get depressed right after childbirth, some women don't begin to feel depressed until several weeks or months later.
Depression that occurs within 6 months ... (read in full...)
Moved too fast and now I don't think he's interested
Q. Please help, I think I really blew it with a guy I liked very much. I met him almost a year ago, but we have been hanging out together for a few months now. We live in different cities which are about 2 hours away so I don't see him all the time. ...
A. 10 April 2010: Sex changes the dynamics of the equations. Give him sometime to think about the new situation. If he texts you again , then everything will be back to normal.
If he does not contact you , it is all over. You should not crawl back to him.... (read in full...)
My friends aren't loyal
Q. I had this best friend for about the past 8 years. She started being rude and two faced and she started hanging out with the "popular/known" group. Eventually we had lost our closeness and she was ditching me. My friend then developed an attitude ...
A. 10 April 2010: You are like a doormat. When their feet are dirty ,they will come to you and wipe their dirty feet on you . Stop being a doormat to them. They are only taking advantage of your friendliness , gentle and kind nature .
True friends are difficul... (read in full...)
Sometimes boyfriend is sweet but other times he makes me want to cry
Q. Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend doesn't really love me. He's sweet and everything, but sometimes, he's just criticizing things like my driving (its not bad, he just has been driving longer than me and is better than i am and expects me to be like ...
A. 10 April 2010: Your b/f is immature and insensitive to you .He takes you for granted and thats why he is treating you this way.
If he was wooing you in the earlier days, he would not dare to criticize you at all.
You need to communicate to him when you are... (read in full...)
I like him, he likes me, but his friend might like him too ... What should I do?
Q. A girl, who is close friends with this guy, acted normal at the start of the school term (about 9 weeks ago). She was friendly, we walked together and talked between classes, she squeezed the information out of said boy that he likes me and told me ...
A. 10 April 2010: You are a potential threat to her . That explains some of her hostile actions towards you . She is jealous .
If you make a move, there will be outright hostilities between you.Perhaps a war may erupt.
The question is how much do you want this... (read in full...)
I lied to my g/f because I had to, not because I wanted to
Q. Hello everyone. I've this massive problem bugging me. My relationship with my girlfriend has been rocky these days and i'm not sure of what to think of now. Oh and she has trust issues because of her ex. Okay, direct to the point. My parents doe...
A. 10 April 2010: No matter what age you are , if you are still staying in your parents house,it is still their rules.What they say goes.
Give your g/f sometime to think about it. I am sure she will come to an understanding about your problems.
If she loves ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to hate my dad but I don't want to. Please help!
Q. I think I'm starting to hate my dad but I don't want to. Please help and give advice on how to not hate him! I don't remember much of my childhood but I do have flashbacks of terrible things happening to me and I remember a lot of physical abuse ...
A. 10 April 2010: You have to be realistic, you cannot change a person . You either have to accommodate him in your life or if that is impossible ,to extradite yourself from that place.
Do you have any alternative place to stay?... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my children's father might hurt them!
Q. Dear cupid, I am worried about the safety of my kids concerning their father. We are not together because of our abusive relationship and I am worried that he might try to hurt our children after the court says he is okay to be around. (only a ...
A. 10 April 2010: This link may help you search for some one's criminal records.
http://ezinearticles.com/?Free-Criminal-Records-Search-Tips----How-to-Find-Free-Criminal-Records-Resources-Online&id=474038... (read in full...)
Is there any future between a muslim girl and a non muslim man?
Q. i'm a chinese non religious man and i'm in love with this muslim pakistani girl. shes also one of my best friends, i've told her that i liked her and she said lets be friends at the moment and i said okay, although i know she likes me too. the pr...
A. 10 April 2010: There are only two options, either you convert to Islam or she leaves her religion.
Leaving her religion can be a big problem as she would be ostracized by her parents and her society.
It would be much easier for you to convert to Islam... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 10 April 2010: Best of luck to you and hope that you will make a wise decision .
God bless you !... (read in full...)
Why do men turn to protitutes?
Q. this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do ...
A. 10 April 2010: Many prostitutes are extremely attractive.They make their money by being charming, entertaining and flattering, unlike her indoors.
She will be probably be much more sexually experienced and more accomplished than most wives too.
They tend to ... (read in full...)
Why do men turn to protitutes?
Q. this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do ...
A. 10 April 2010: There are all kinds of prostitutes. There are the high end ones who are very beautiful ,young , sexy ,famous and very well educated.
There are also those young ones ,just out of their teens pushing their wares.
Lumping all prostitutes as d... (read in full...)
Would handsome Hollywood ask out normal pretty girl or woman who is not actress
Q. i have fairy tale question would Hollywood actor go out with normal average pretty girl or woman real or would prefer Hollywood actress who is fake and plastic or real person...
A. 9 April 2010: Those people have big ego's and it would be another thing to find another one with a bigger ego's than them.
Men are not very particular like women to look for someone who must be at their same or higher levels or standards.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend got another girl pregnant!
Q. I am going through a really hard time and im looking for some guidance or advice. im sorry if my questions seem all over the place but here i go. I have been dating my boyfriend since march of 2007... we have been through so much togethor and that...
A. 9 April 2010: You were not meant to be together in this life.
It is easier to walk away from this mess than to try to salvage the unrepairable ship.
Cut your losses and move on.
Save yourself more heartaches and have a clean break.... (read in full...)
I just hung out with my ex for the first time in about two months. What now?
Q. *OP's own title* I hung out with my ex today for the first time after about 4 months. We dated for almost three years. She started what I believe was a rebound with her best guy friend only days after our breakup, but she hooked up with me twic...
A. 9 April 2010: If she mentioned that it hurt her when you went on a few dates, it means that she still loves you .
Her subsequent actions showed that she wants to be back on your side.She may have regretted for the breakup and wants to be on good terms with you... (read in full...)
I can't be completely happy in the relationship I am in now because I feel like I can't let go of my ex.
Q. My ex boyfriend has a drug problem and he broke up with me because of it almost a year ago. I am still having a hard time moving on and still love him. I feel like if I move on I am abandoning him and everyone else in his life has given up on him. ...
A. 9 April 2010: You have given your best to your ex and there is nothing more you can do about him.
You need to accept reality and it is not fair to you and your present relationship .
He is in God's hand.He may have to descent to the lowest level before he ... (read in full...)
Leaving for the Navy, ... but my girlfriend wants to get married before I go.
Q. Hi, I am 23 yrs old, and have been with my girlfriend for about 3 1/2 years now. This isnt including a period of time we were broken up for about 6 months about a year ago. Anyway during this period of singleness, I enlisted in the US Navy. Th...
A. 9 April 2010: If you don't get married to her , you may lose her to someone.
You cannot expect her to wait 5 years for you to come back for her.
You will have to decide which is more important to you ,'Career or wife?'
If you can convince her to wait... (read in full...)
Should I see this married man or wait and see what happend with his wife first?
Q. this is a question that i really need answered. i went out with this guy about 16 years ago. for reasons we lost each other. about 10 years ago we found each other. and we were very to have. then about 6 months after that we lost touch again. we ...
A. 9 April 2010: Don't fish in a no fishing zone. It is not worth the risk .
It would be better to wait until he is divorced and single again to renew any relationship.
To go there and stir the troubled waters will only cast you in a very bad light.
Promis... (read in full...)
My whole family saw our sex tapes!!!
Q. My gf and I have been together for 3 years, she is 18 and I am 20. A few weeks ago we made a sex tape with my web cam and downloaded it to my computer. I thougth I put it in a folder that was private and needed a password to open. Monday we left to ...
A. 9 April 2010: Pretend and act as if nothing happens.Put on a straight face. It will be quickly forgotten.
Ask your g/f what she wants to do about that tape.You will have to pacify and console her upset.It will be awkward but it will soon blow over.... (read in full...)
I've dated all kinds of people, but I can't find Mr Right!
Q. Dear cupid, I dont understand what I'm doing wrong or if anything at all. I know what I am attracted to but it seems that every time I get involved with some one I get let down each time worse than the time before. Then I see my relatives and frie...
A. 9 April 2010: If you are not finding your Mr. Right , it means that you have too high an expectation from the guys. You need to lower down your barriers a bit.Your high barriers put off a lot of men.
You need to look at yourself in the mirror and see who you ... (read in full...)
I'm too nervous to keep my erection?
Q. Hi- First of all this website is very helpful and I'd like to thank all the people who give such thoughtful answers. Okay, here's my problem. I can't get actually hard or keep an erection around my girlfriend. We've been together for 5 months n...
A. 9 April 2010: Have you tried Viagra or Cialis or Levitra?... (read in full...)
Should I keep my relationship with my boyfriend who cheated?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and I don't know what to do because he asked me to forgive him and he said that he won't do this anymore.Should I trust him? Are men worth of trust?...
A. 9 April 2010: Words are not cast in stones.
It is only words, he needs to prove to you first before you can trust him.
If you love him and cannot live without him , you need to forgive him because nobody is perfect and he made a mistake.... (read in full...)
How do I leave my boyfriend?
Q. hey, i really need some help! Been with my boyfriend with 2.5 years, and live together with 2 other housemates. I havent felt that things are right for a long while but recently its been even worse. hes always been v opinionated and argumentative. ...
A. 9 April 2010: Take a time out /break and concentrate on your coming exams and leave everything to decide after the exams.
Just be a bit more patient and tolerate him for those few weeks. You don't have to let him know yet what you have decided to do with him... (read in full...)
Spending time with ex as just friends???
Q. I am still very close to my ex girlfriend. Our circumstances for finishing were complicated. It wasn't... a normal situation I know I still like her, and for a while she said we could date again then she said she only cared for me as a frien...
A. 9 April 2010: If you can do that with her, your love has not ended.
Off course ,she likes you or she would have no contact with you at all.... (read in full...)
The loveful blues....
Q. Hello People, I'm a 17 year old guy and I think I love this other slightly younger guy who goes to a different college and says that he is completely head over heels in love with me. All seems good.. Apart from the fact that he is an ex...
A. 9 April 2010: Don't under estimate or under rate yourself and over estimate or over rate him.
Love is not about your physicals. It is the chemistry and the sex appeals.
Just let yourself go and enjoy the friendship.Be free. Obviously he is attracted to som... (read in full...)
Could my friend possibly like me?
Q. Right, this is the classic question which I know gets asked multiple times by everyone regardless of how much experience they have. Does my friend like me in any way whatsoever?? I've known him for a year and a half. I liked him from March - J...
A. 9 April 2010: I don't think he is ready to commit into a relationship to any single girl.
If he is interested in you he would not go off with other girls and would stick to you like a leech,call or text, e-mail or Facebook .
If he likes you he would probabl... (read in full...)
Do we all find happiness and true love?
Q. do we all find happiness and true love?xxx...
A. 9 April 2010: Some may find happiness but no true love and some may find true love but no happiness.
While some may find true love and happiness.
Happiness and true love are sometimes very elusive .
Not all will find happiness or true love. Everyone has ... (read in full...)
Obsession with Army Boyfriend's Ex
Q. Okay, so this is another "Obsessed With Ex" story. I guess I should explain more about myself and why I *think* I'm so obsessed in the first place... Before I met my current boyfriend, I was in a 4 year relationship. V and I grew up as be...
A. 9 April 2010: I think you should make a pact with him not to mention the ex's in your conversations. This would help you to forget the past and live in the present.... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend back?
Q. Ive been split up from my boyfriend for about three months now, and i havnt had a day where i havn't thought about him, it's weird, ive never really had this before, ive had other boyfriends but they havn't been that hard to get over, but this guy, ...
A. 8 April 2010: If there is still a spark left in him for you , you may still stand a chance but if there is no more sparks in him , it would be very hard for you to expect him to come back to you .
Usually you will have to use the reverse psychology method t... (read in full...)
She will be moving back to Thailand in 3 months, is there a solution for keeping our relationship alive?
Q. What can I do to not lose my girlfriend who is an exchange student and will leave in 3 months? We both love each other soooo much we're like the perfect couple you know and then sadly she has to go back to her country. She means everything to me...
A. 8 April 2010: If your love is strong , it will transcends all barriers. Someday when you are older and mature, you will be able to find each other again .
Concentrate your your studies first and the others will follow.... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 7 April 2010: That is good,Explore your limits and live life to the extremes.Everyday is a new day and a new experience.
Just live in the present and let the past go.... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 6 April 2010: I am glad that you have such a positive attitude towards this issue.Always try to think positive.
He is in a rebound relationship and somewhere down the road , he may have regrets or remorse .
What then ? Would you still accept him back?... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 6 April 2010: What an irony! He is involved in a rebound relationship. It was not just the sex alone and he lied to you .
I am sorry and you cannot do much now except to let him go. You could wait for him but I think you are better off moving on from him.... (read in full...)
Not realizing what you have got until it is gone.
Q. Hello all, The feedback I received last time from you all was fantastic, so here goes current question: Everyone needs a little personal space. I am an only child, treasure my alone time, and am head over heels in love with my now ex-boyfriend...
A. 5 April 2010: Man can have sex with anyone without feeling any emotional attachments.
If you love him , you should not let that incident affect you . Even diamonds have flaws and no one is perfect. ... (read in full...)
Is it really wrong of me to talk to his mate?
Q. Hi all, I just need to get your views on this stupid situation I am in. I've been seeing this guy for a few months. He introduced me to his friends a few months ago. I clicked with one of his friends straight away. Anyway this week, I saw m...
A. 21 March 2010: Would you be concerned, wary and jealous if your guy text and talk to your g/f more than to you and texting everyday about your problems?
Would you like your g/f's and everyone to know what's going on between the two of you . You won't have pri... (read in full...)
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