She will be moving back to Thailand in 3 months, is there a solution for keeping our relationship alive?
Q. What can I do to not lose my girlfriend who is an exchange student and will leave in 3 months? We both love each other soooo much we're like the perfect couple you know and then sadly she has to go back to her country. She means everything to me...
A. 8 April 2010: If your love is strong , it will transcends all barriers. Someday when you are older and mature, you will be able to find each other again .
Concentrate your your studies first and the others will follow.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to overcome shyness/social phobias and go on to do what you want in life?
Q. I know this isn't really a relationship problem, although it affects my relationship, it's more of a life problem. I feel like I don't know what Iwant to do with my life, like I have no passion or real desire to do any specific career. I have begun ...
A. 8 April 2010: You need to be confident about yourself. It will take time and practice . Shyness can be overcome .I suggest you Google online for more tips to overcome your shyness.... (read in full...)
I cant imagine feeling this way about anyone else, what should I do?
Q. I have a really bad problem. I am in love with my nurse and I know there is no way I can be with her. I have no idea how to stop feeling the way I feel for her. Everytime I see her I just realize how special she is, quite honestly I feel as if I ...
A. 8 April 2010: Focus on your priorities in life or focus on God.You need to find something to replace those thoughts.... (read in full...)
Am I being sensitive & reading too much into these so called past friends?
Q. Hi I have a question. I bumped into an old friend 2 weeks ago. We were very close one time, but over the years lost contact. Anyway we exchanged numbers and emails... she missed called me the same day so a few days later i text messaged her...
A. 8 April 2010: They were certainly rude and without manners. Forget about them. ... (read in full...)
Will my husband know if I'm not a virgin?
Q. i am in relationship with a man last two years, now im going to marry other person, if leave my first relationship before 6 months of my marriage, will my husband know my virginity?...
A. 8 April 2010: Only a doctor can know if you are a virgin or not. Most men won't know as they are not that well informed or have wrong ideas about virginity.... (read in full...)
Sometimes he pays attention, sometimes he ignores me. Does he like me?
Q. I've know this guy for 3 years and he has always been a little flirty with me but he has been starting to flirt even more. The other day I was wearing a nice outfit and he walked back and forth staring at me. Everytime I talk to him he stands very ...
A. 8 April 2010: If he pays special attentions only to you and to none others, it means that he likes you and are interested.... (read in full...)
Marriage is a mess! Can anything be salvaged from it?
Q. I stumbled across this site through Google, and basically just need someone to listen. 11 years ago, my wife and I got married (second time for me, first for her). At that time, she was a little overweight, but sexy with it. Fast forward to 2009:...
A. 8 April 2010: Do you still find in your heart, the love for your wife ?
If there is no more love for her, it would be better that you let her go .... (read in full...)
I think he really likes me
Q. Help! I think a guy likes me. Whenever we are at lunch he will always sit next to me and start blurting into my conversation. When I am in class kids say that hes staring at me. Im not very popular and I dont see why he would like me. He seems alot ...
A. 8 April 2010: How old is he? What does he looks like? Do you know him ?... (read in full...)
Should I continue to pursue her when she's preoccupied with her friends and ex b/f?
Q. hi I've been going out with this girl for a year. ithe proble I have with her is what she's told me... She told me she cheated before choose friends over her man. Lied. She has a wicked attuite and hangs up . So also hangs out with her group of guy ...
A. 8 April 2010: A man is judged by the friends he keeps.
If you are not on her priority list but only an option , your efforts are like pouring water on sand.
... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 8 April 2010: One day of sadness is one less day of happiness in your life.
Don't be taken in by a wolf in sheep's clothing. Never listen to someone's sob stories. What they shed are only crocodiles tears .
It is not the externals that count but what you can... (read in full...)
He doesn't want what I want and I have fallen for him!
Q. DEAR CUPID I have been "dating/messing" around with this guy that works @ my job for two months now. He is 34 I am 22, in the beginning he told me he wasn’t really looking for anything serious but unfortunately I disregarded all of that and now I ...
A. 8 April 2010: If you have incompatible needs, it is hard to remain committed to each other.
I am afraid you will have to let him go and look for someone who will share your dreams and aspirations.... (read in full...)
Should I go on a date with a married man? He's so hot
Q. Hello guys I'm a 22 year old woman and well i was getting some work done waiting for the owner to get an estimate and this super hot guy walked in he kept checking me out so neways he was like your incredibly beautiful and I told him thanks he kept ...
A. 8 April 2010: Will you be satisfied with only dating him?
If you want to swim with the sharks, you need to take along those shark repellents...LOL!
A degree only means having knowledge in a specialize field and no more.... (read in full...)
Is fate trying to tell us something?
Q. okay well, i was in love with my best friend of four and a half years, and i think he loved me back, but he said he didnt believe in love, i was just 'different from anyother girl he'd ever known' etc im sure you get where im going with this so ...
A. 8 April 2010: Life and death is not in our hands.
There are some cancer patients who survived and there are some patients who die even when there are modern, sophisticated medical and scienctific methods
Not all diseases in this world are curable .
Who... (read in full...)
If he has not called in a month should I ring him or just move on?
Q. We hooked up at a party where we met 3 months ago and since then we have been going out on dates every week or every other week. And there have been a lot of making out with him. But we never made it official or talked about whether we are in a ...
A. 8 April 2010: Well! You could find out where he stands by calling him first. You could give it a try if you want.
It is a strong possibility that his attentions could have wandered to female/females during the time when he was not talking to you .
You wer... (read in full...)
How can I get our relationship back on track?
Q. help! my friend/boyfriend and i are very inexperienced in healthy, normal relationships and i need help to know what to do to resolve ours or get things back on track. my long distance friend/boyfriend told me recently that he cheated. there ...
A. 8 April 2010: Wait for him to contact you . If he does not contact you ,he has moved on and you should let him go.
Sometimes , what you want and what you can get can be different. You need to be compatible with each other if you want to resolve your differen... (read in full...)
Everyone says he wants to break up with me, but he does not do it.
Q. ok well,my boyfriend(ps:astrology belivers welcomed)he is a virgo and im a gemini, he is very demanding and im free spirited. hes passionate im not. we've always worked through it, but lately we've been having some troubles. well in highscho...
A. 8 April 2010: He may have shared his views about breaking up with you with his brother and friends through his frustrations.
Talking and doing are two different things.He is unable to come to the point of doing what he says.
He may not have the courage to b... (read in full...)
Does he like me or just want FWB?
Q. first off i am 21, and my brother is 19, but his best friend is 18. his friend is so attractive and we have soo much in common, me him my brother and his girl friend all bowl together and go to baseball games and things like that. we get along so ...
A. 8 April 2010: Let nature takes its course. In time you will find out what he wants.
If you are impatient , just go and ask him what he is looking for, friendship or relationship or FWB?... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 8 April 2010: Don't open his mails or read his notes. Throw them away or delete it and he will soon give up. Harden your heart. ... (read in full...)
Should I just settle for being loved even though the romance and sex has died?
Q. My husband and I have been together for 16 years. Initially we had a very healthy sex life. Over the last five years it has been reduced to almost nothing. Now I have spied on his computer and he is looking at transgender porn sites. I know that ...
A. 8 April 2010: The question you need to ask yourself is ,'Can you accept the present arrangement?'
If you can , you can always try to work to improve your marriage .
If you are unhappy and not contented, you could share your feelings to him and ask him to b... (read in full...)
If he has not called in a month should I ring him or just move on?
Q. We hooked up at a party where we met 3 months ago and since then we have been going out on dates every week or every other week. And there have been a lot of making out with him. But we never made it official or talked about whether we are in a ...
A. 8 April 2010: If he is interested, he would contact you .
If you want to contact him , just ask how is life or what is he doing at the moment.
It would be better to just move on as he has also moved on.... (read in full...)
Is my relationship at it's end If I am unhappy and find myself irritated all the time?
Q. I am just so confused. I've been with my bf for almost 3 years and we have a one year old,but I don't know if we were meant to be together. I find myself irritated at many little things he does now. For example how long it takes him to get ready to ...
A. 8 April 2010: When you have love, you do not see his sins or faults. You need to fall in love with him again.
Focus on his good qualities and not on his negative ones. Try not to have a very high expectations from him.
Love him for who and what he is. Lear... (read in full...)
He works 24/7 and either he's going to die or our marriage will!
Q. My husband is workaholic in denial. It slowly destroyed our marriage, what was 25 year long so far. His absence was causing lots of pain,and created a dysfunctional unhappy family..No, I'm not blaming everything on him,but I always tried to fix t...
A. 8 April 2010: Life is about balances. Family life is also important . If a man devotes too much time to career, his family life will suffer.
He needs to have a balance in his career as well as in his family life. Most of the time , they are working too hard and... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian, but don't want a relationship with my roommate.
Q. hey everyone I have a problem I am a Lesbian and I have a roommate who is my bestie friend of thirty five years and the god mother of my children... my problem is she always seen to undress in front of me when she get out of the shower which is next ...
A. 8 April 2010: I think she is just comfortable being naked in front of you and nothing more.... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 8 April 2010: I think the only thing you can do now is to get far far away from him and this problem. You are too troubled and unstable to come to any major decisions.
Take a 'time out' and go and enjoy your life. In time, you will see more clearly and will... (read in full...)
Unsure if I should go meet this guy! Help!
Q. hi this 19 yr old guy (and im 13) likes me and i like him back and he is planning for me to go to america to meet him when im 18 and im unsure whether to go coz of age differences and that ive never met him before, Sounds like a really sweet, ...
A. 8 April 2010: They are very clever to masquerade as an innocent 14 or 19 years old.
You don't expect them to announce that they are paedophiles or wear a badge around their necks.... (read in full...)
Is fate trying to tell us something?
Q. okay well, i was in love with my best friend of four and a half years, and i think he loved me back, but he said he didnt believe in love, i was just 'different from anyother girl he'd ever known' etc im sure you get where im going with this so ...
A. 8 April 2010: To each his/her own . You either believe it is fate or you don't. Whatever your opinions , you are entitled to it.
Whatever you want to say,it will never convinced me . Let's agree that we don't agree on this thing called 'Fate.'
Live and let ... (read in full...)
How do I keep him interested when he has lost interest in me?
Q. I am so confused and upset. I met a man who shares the same interests and has everything in common with me. We started to see each other 3 months ago after we got to know each other. I fell completely for him- he is perfect to me in every w...
A. 7 April 2010: Think of him as having some mental problems . He has a big mental block in his brain and he simply cannot get over it.
It may takes ages for him to overcome this mental block. If he is not ready to be committed, he won't be committed in the near... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart or listen to my head?
Q. My boyrfriend and i have been off and on for the last year, we have had about 3 break ups. 4 months after we first got together he hit me at school and left a bruise on my face. my parents decided that i had to break up with him. so i did as my ...
A. 7 April 2010: Better to listen to your head because it can make a better decision than the heart.
He does not know how to appreciate and love you . He has a lot of growing up to do.
Find someone who is more matured and who can appreciate you for what you... (read in full...)
How can I move on with my life if I still love him?
Q. my boyfriend and i has been in an on and off relationship for a year. we just recently broke up due to his continuous cheating and lying games. i just found out that he has been trying to talk to my cousin and asking her to come chill with him or ...
A. 7 April 2010: What are your priorities in your life?
Focus on them and soon he will fade away from you .
Reconnect back with your old world and what you have missed since the day you were with him.... (read in full...)
Should I call him?
Q. Hey all, thanks for reading this. I met this sweet guy when i was at the mall today. He was selling products, so i went over and pretended to be interested in the products to give us a chance to talk. The minute we started talking, we were getting ...
A. 7 April 2010: If he is not interested in you by not calling you , would you still be interested in a disinterested person ?... (read in full...)
I cant afford to visit a dentist, does anyone have any home remedies for toothache?
Q. hi i have been in agony over the last 2 days now with a toothache, it comes and goes but it always comes back. last night i took two asprins and put salt water in my mouth, it did help then i slept, now i have woken up to an even painful toothach...
A. 7 April 2010: You can Google for more tips online.
I found this useful site.
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/home-remedies-toothache-pain-relief.html... (read in full...)
Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 7 April 2010: Women during their mid life crisis wants to reclaim their youths and resist the aging process. They feel the pressure to maintain their looks .
They want to know if they are still beautiful and wanted by other men.They may feel as if they are stuc... (read in full...)
Is fate trying to tell us something?
Q. okay well, i was in love with my best friend of four and a half years, and i think he loved me back, but he said he didnt believe in love, i was just 'different from anyother girl he'd ever known' etc im sure you get where im going with this so ...
A. 7 April 2010: Yes! Fate can be kind or can be cruel. Whether you believed it or not , it does not matter .
Everything happens according to the way it is written in the 'Book of Life .'... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my track coach!
Q. im 15 years old and i run track. my coach is 33 years old and married and i think im in love with him. he's so sweet and helpful and he always encourages me. he's just so wonderful. and i dont know what to do. he sometimes flirts a lil, but not ...
A. 7 April 2010: I think he felt that he went overboard with you and have now withdrawn back to a safe territory.
He is getting more professional with your training and is careful not to over do on the personal side.... (read in full...)
I was really mean and now she's gone...
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend now for 9 months and in that time I have been mean to her on occasions in front of her friends which I deeply regret she now tells me she wants a break which we have done for 2 weeks now she just wants to ...
A. 7 April 2010: Apologize to her and asked her for another chance. Treat her well and always appreciate and cherish her .In time , she may warmth back to you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's sister doesn't want him to better himself!
Q. my boyfriend and i have had quite a lot of problems, but we always manage to get through them. and as far as i'm concerned, that's all that matters. he's had a lot of stuff to deal with and he's only 20. he's been living with his 22 year...
A. 7 April 2010: You are his inspirations and he is doing a fine job of bettering himself. All you can do is to give him encouragements, support and love to him.
He will reap bountifully if he sows bountifully.... (read in full...)
I'm 19, she's 15, and she's my second cousin! What can come out of this?
Q. Im 19 and shes 15... Thats my main concern, if it were 26 and 22 the idea wouldn't be that big a deal. Its just that our age group is a bit more sensitive. There is nothing going on yet, but we are both sending signals to each other and its pretty ...
A. 7 April 2010: She is too young to get involved with love. You should build your career first and think of love later. ... (read in full...)
I want to end my marriage without trying as I don't love my husband
Q. I am 28 yrs married for 1 1/2 yr to a man I knew 2 yrs younger to me.We met 5 times and agreed on marriage.After marriage it took us 1 yr to ve a physical relationship as he was not trying enough, as my work hrs were long, as he never tried to relax ...
A. 7 April 2010: Get any help from your dad. Tell him that you cannot stand it anymore and he would help you to settle it.
If you are unhappy ,there is no point staying in a dead marriage.... (read in full...)
Will he still chase after me after I sent him a text saying "Delete my numnber"?
Q. I met a guy I really like, was seeing him intensively for about a month, but then I went away for a month to Thailand. When I returned I saw him once and then he didn't speak to me again for three weeks. I was upset as we were becoming quite close ...
A. 7 April 2010: He could have text you and you would have read it. If he has determination to chase you , nothing will stand in his way.
It looks like he has move on.
... (read in full...)
Whenever things go wrong between us, he starts his emotional torture!
Q. when i first went out with this guy, i realized his the love of my life. he loved me for what i was. but then i was too possessive about him, and never gave him the space he wanted. and he too never complained until this came up during a fight, when ...
A. 7 April 2010: Before , you crawled back to him and you give him too much power over you .How can he appreciate a good thing when you do that? You are just his doormat to wipe his dirty feet.
You have to stand your ground and let him crawl back to you because ... (read in full...)
The love of my life is married to a monster! Do I help or step back?
Q. hi i have been with the love of my life for five years this year and we have become so close over the five years. We have been through alot, including a near death experience where she was nearly kidnapped. she is married and has two amazing small ...
A. 7 April 2010: Just listen to her and do as she says. If you go there, you would complicate matters and may even cause more problems to her.
Don't worry about the kids. No sane father would want to hurt them.
She does not need your help now and you only nee... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 7 April 2010: Give him a final ultimatum that if he does not stay away from you nor respect your decision ,you would make the final decision there and then.
It would be take about a few months or possibly a year to decide if he has changed.
... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 7 April 2010: That is a very sensible and rational decision.I would agree with you that he is only human and he made a mistake.
If you have love ,everything is possible.
Talk to him and tell him that you need more time to think about this issue and ask hi... (read in full...)
Unsure if I should go meet this guy! Help!
Q. hi this 19 yr old guy (and im 13) likes me and i like him back and he is planning for me to go to america to meet him when im 18 and im unsure whether to go coz of age differences and that ive never met him before, Sounds like a really sweet, ...
A. 7 April 2010: It is just sweet talk only and don't put too much faith in those words.
5 years is still a very long time away and anything can happen.
Wait until you come to the bridge and decide if you want to cross it.
He is just building castles in the ... (read in full...)
Is fate trying to tell us something?
Q. okay well, i was in love with my best friend of four and a half years, and i think he loved me back, but he said he didnt believe in love, i was just 'different from anyother girl he'd ever known' etc im sure you get where im going with this so ...
A. 7 April 2010: I believe in fate. Everything is fated.
Your destiny is preordained and you cannot escape from destiny.You either follow your destiny or it will drag you there.
All the other doors will be closed and only one door will open to you .
That i... (read in full...)
Need help not feeling guilty for wanting to move on from me ex who cheated on me..
Q. How do I stay strong and not feel guilty for wanting to move on from my ex who cheated on me and made a child as a result? Im finding it extremely difficult not to feel sorry for my ex.. I want to move on and heal my heart, so I changed my phone ...
A. 6 April 2010: Learn to say 'NO!' Be firm and stand your ground.
He is harassing you and you could take out an AVO against him. This will keep him away from you ... (read in full...)
Will allowing my wife to sleep with other men get her through her mid life crisis?
Q. My wife has came to me with the idea that she wants to sleep with other men. She is madly in love with me and our sex life is incredible. She has been chatting online with other men and has lined up her first "dude" for this Friday night. She is ...
A. 17 March 2010: She could just be daydreaming and speaking it out aloud.Fantasizing about all those sexual orgy's amidst her imaginary mid life crisis..
Maybe she is only testing your reactions.... (read in full...)
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