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writes:My boyfriend is mad because next weekend i have a BBQ to go to (that he was invited to, just refuses to)The BBQ is on sunday, i said i can go over his place on friday, stay the night and saturday then i will go home to the BBQ on sunday which would be a total of me doing 3 hours travel time. he said no, if you're going to the BBQ dont bother coming here.Now its my graduation tomorrow night, he has said for ever he will come. So i called him to make a plan to get there and he says i cant come any more, i have too much uni work and wont have enough time, is that all? and i said yes so he hung up.Then he calls me back and says i have changed my mind, i do have work to do, but i could manage to come and make time, but im not going to because i have better things to do and hung up on me.Why should i not go to my best friend's BBQ just because he doesnt want to? he is being so rude to me i mean this is my graduation and now i will be walking up accepting my award with no one there for me, and he knows this :-( what do i say to him?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 The question is which is more important to you , your b/f or the BBQ?
Do you think it is worth to give up your b/f for a BBQ?
If you don't like his attitude because he wants to control your life, you can show him the exit door.
Sometimes you have to seek a compromise in a relationship.
Give him an ultimatum,if he does not come to your graduation , you would kick him to the kerb.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): Dump him. that's completely unacceptable behavior. He needs to grow up
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 March 2010):
Do you see yourself with this seriously immature, pathetic boy for the rest of your life. Or would you prefer an actual man who understands that you're allowed out with friends or to go out socially? I think the second option. Far too many people settle for second rate partners. Don't make that mistake. If he's this petty or a BBQ, what will happen if you have kids? Dump him.
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