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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been having some doubt lately.My bf and I have been together for almost 4 years, in a long distance relationship.He's my first boyfriend, and I've never had much experience with guys... the truth is I feel like there's something missing, like, there's no depth to our relationship... it seems that we kinda settled for each other.I know i have low self steem and that i'm too dependent.Me and my bf spend so much time appart from each other and i keep having doubts about how i feel about him... sometimes i think i don't love him anymore and that i've become so depend on him that i'm afraid to dump him and be alone. Sometimes i think i love him so much that if i dump him, i'll regret it for a long time.I also don't know if i'm crazy or he's too cold, but i miss him terribly... and he doesn't. he says that he's like that, and that he misses me, but there's no point in talking about it, or expressing it out loud.i wonder, is there someone better for me out there?i want a guy who i can talk to, and who loves me and spoil me (and my bf doesn't do that to me, it's actually the other way round). should i stay with my bf or start searching for someone who treats me the way i treat my bf?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 It would be better to love someone who loves you much more than you love him.
Be on the look out for someone who is more in tune with your ideals than one who is an also ran. There is nothing wrong with that.
Do not keep your options shut just because you have a b/f.
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