How do I get my boyfriend to care more?
Q. Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 years. We are both 22 years old, have part-time jobs and go to University full-time. Recently, I feel like my bf seems to care less and less about me. I know he loves me and cares for me, but ...
A. 12 April 2010: Stop initiating those meetings and withdraw from him and he will come chasing after you . He has taken you for granted and basking in your attentions.
Or you can tell him your feelings and make him aware that you are doing all the running around i... (read in full...)
I feel so lonely cause I have no one to crush on.
Q. I just got over the crush i had for the last 8 months. It ended really horribly. Now i feel really depressed and sad. When i usually have a crush on someone i feel so happy. But my school has no great guys other then the one i just got over and all ...
A. 12 April 2010: You don't have to depend on others to make yourself happy. You can be happy whatever state you are in ,be it single or attached.
It is a matter of changing your perspective. Look at life from another angle and see the joys of being single where yo... (read in full...)
I wake up and can't remember if I'm at my boyfriend's house or at my house!
Q. This may be a weird question but here goes. So the background info is that I've been with my BF for 8 months, we're sleeping together but I never stay over at his, I always go home. My parents don't approve of me sleeping over...and yes I...
A. 12 April 2010: It is possible that the fear of over sleeping at his place could cause you to have those feelings.
You can wake up and momentarily wondering whether you are at your b/f's place until your eyes register the familiarity of your own room.... (read in full...)
I find women attractive and had dream about my teacher, does it mean anything?
Q. So I'm a female, I'm straight, and I could never imagine myself having sex with another woman. But I do find some women attractive, such as their personalities, the way they carry themselves, the way a woman's body is shaped, etc etc. Anyways,...
A. 12 April 2010: Woman's bodies are objectified in many forms as portrayed by those media and adverts.In our society, many view women as objects, sexual object, objects of beauty etc.
You could be thinking too much of her ass and in your subconscious mind.... (read in full...)
Passing gas
Q. is it awkward to fart in front of your boyfriend? Does it turn them off?...
A. 12 April 2010: Nope ! It won't but you will be assured that you will get a barrage back..LOL!... (read in full...)
I know size shouldn't matter, and yet...I just can't do it
Q. Background: I'm a 20 year old college student, female, only slept with two guys who I was in relationships with. Haven't had sex in almost a year after breaking up with my ex. My problem is that both of the guys I've slept with were larger than...
A. 12 April 2010: Whether he can make you orgasm or sexually satisfied or not will depends on whether he has those great love making techniques.
If he does not ,it will only reinforced your opinions about those small sized guys.
... (read in full...)
Am I just being jealous and holding on to his mistakes?
Q. I am having trouble trusting my boyfriend. We dated once before, for two and half years, and I was the one who broke it off. I felt like I wasn't ready for such a serious relationship, and I was unhappy and wanted to go back to school and get my ...
A. 12 April 2010: You are like his doormat and he only needs you when he has nobody.You will be his options only.
He is a serial cheater.... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of being in a relationship again
Q. I am a sophomore in high school and I feel like I'm losing myself. All my relationships have been utter crap. I have had five relationships and through all but one of them I have been cheated on, abused mentally and physically, drugged, and all in ...
A. 12 April 2010: I think you should stay away from any relationship for awhile. Get to know more people and enjoy going out with your friends .
Find some new hobbies or interest to keep yourself busy ... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't like the guys I date and says I pick "losers"
Q. So theres this guy, i really like him. We work together...we ended up kissing and hes just so sweet, hes had a hard life and is a few years older than me. He has kids and is divorced. I really like him and he really likes me. My problem from this ...
A. 12 April 2010: Her intentions maybe good but it is only her perspective . She may have her own bias and prejudiced views or stereotype opinions of divorced people.
What she says is not the Gospel truth. You don't have to accept them if you think they are not ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said I gave her HIV, but my test came out negative
Q. I'm in a relationship that is 2years now,recently my girl friend is behaving strange.In february,she came crying to telling me she has gone for Hiv test and is positive,and that she visited a habalist who told her i infected her and that he can cure ...
A. 12 April 2010: It is possible to be infected with HIV and have a test come back negative, depending on the test and how soon after infection you are tested.
If you receive a negative test, you should be sure to get re-tested at least six months after exposure... (read in full...)
Are there love spells you can cast that actually work?
Q. hi there are many webistes online claming to cast spells that would really work.there is this spell casting women named ashra she is the us top most american cast speller of 2009 do u think he can really cast a love spell that will work? Please...
A. 12 April 2010: If you do not believe in spirits or the existence of them does not mean they don't exist.
If there is a God , there are spirits beings . Delusional or not ,that is your opinions only. I do not agree with you .
... (read in full...)
Can guys feel if they have released pre-cum?
Q. Last night i may have done something stupid. I was in the car with my ex-boyfriend who I often hook up with, we were fooling around and he really wanted to have sex. It was quite cramped and he didnt have a condom on so I kept saying no initially. ...
A. 12 April 2010: "Can taking the morning after pill too many times affect your fertility?"
"The makers of Levonelle (Morning after pill or Plan B ) may well state that there's no reason why a woman shouldn't take it once every cycle, but on a cautionary note we ... (read in full...)
Should I just keep it to myself until I know for sure?
Q. Hi everyone... I am just looking for some advice with my current situation. I recently started sleeping with my ex boyfriend who I still have strong feelings for and he is not in a place where he can he give me the commitment that i want.....
A. 12 April 2010: By the second week ,you should know if you are pregnant or not. Going to the doctor for the pregnancy test will be more accurate.
I think you should keep it to yourself first until you are confirmed pregnant.... (read in full...)
Do I wait for HIM to contact ME?
Q. I met a man over 3 years ago, first we just talked( as friends) then we dated then we were FWB, i fell for him HARD...........he is sweet, well mannered, easy to talk to and he made me feel so good when we slept together BUT he was not ready to ...
A. 12 April 2010: You can always contact him first if he does not contact you . Then you would know where he stands with you .
Better this way than to wait and wait and worry about whether to call him or not.... (read in full...)
I'm very disappointed in my father
Q. My parents aren't divorced,I have always lived with them but I was raised by my grandmother therefore I don't have a good relationship with my parents,I'm not close to them.I know my mother loves me but I think my father doesn't love me because he ...
A. 12 April 2010: Generally speaking but with exceptions, it does not mean that in every family ,the man wears the pants.
Your mom comes from a domineering family and she learns from her family .
It is wrong to fight with your mom. As a child you should not b... (read in full...)
Could Iget pregnant like that?
Q. did i lose my virginity? his penis went in sort of, like it hurt like hell, but only like a quarter of it went in, does that count? could i get pregnant like that? we used a condom jus wanna know for definate , coz i dont think my hymen broke th...
A. 12 April 2010: If your hymen did not break, you are still a virgin. If you used a condom,there is no risk of pregnancy.... (read in full...)
Are there love spells you can cast that actually work?
Q. hi there are many webistes online claming to cast spells that would really work.there is this spell casting women named ashra she is the us top most american cast speller of 2009 do u think he can really cast a love spell that will work? Please...
A. 12 April 2010: I don't know about web onlines that cast spells. Maybe, those practitioners has gone high tech..haha!
I am not saying that it is a fraud or it is a bogus thing because where I come from ,there are real stories where those practitioners can cast... (read in full...)
I'm very disappointed in my father
Q. My parents aren't divorced,I have always lived with them but I was raised by my grandmother therefore I don't have a good relationship with my parents,I'm not close to them.I know my mother loves me but I think my father doesn't love me because he ...
A. 12 April 2010: There are many families like yours where the mother is the Queen and holds all the powers. She is the dominant partner and the husbands are passive and submits to them.
I don't think there is anything abnormal or wrong about that because it happe... (read in full...)
We've only dated for 7 weeks and he's asking me to move to his country
Q. Hi my boyfriend from another country asked me if I would go there with him. We have only been dating for 7 weeks and he says he is falling in love with me. I told him that I was flattered but not just to jerk my chain cause he just met me and how ...
A. 12 April 2010: Which country is he from ?
It would give us a better insight about that person. It could be some trap or some syndicate to lure girls into white slavery.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend said I gave her HIV, but my test came out negative
Q. I'm in a relationship that is 2years now,recently my girl friend is behaving strange.In february,she came crying to telling me she has gone for Hiv test and is positive,and that she visited a habalist who told her i infected her and that he can cure ...
A. 12 April 2010: I think she is trying to con you of your money or she is being conned by the crooked herbalist or they are in it together .
When you are infected,the virus will multiply in your body for a few weeks or even months before your immune system r... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to call him because it may push him away further. What should I do?
Q. So I posted before about my boyfriend being distant, not sharing his feelings, etc etc. Turns out he was really busy and stressed out this week, and he hasn't called me because he needed to clear his head, and he didn't want to talk to me because ...
A. 12 April 2010: I am not very sure about the manic depression but I found a link which might interest you
http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/manic-depression-symptoms-faq.htm... (read in full...)
He asked me to move to him and now he's making my life hell! Help!
Q. Ok I met my boyfriend of two years in London.. we moved in together.. He got stomach problems, couldn't digest his food properly, I asked him to go the doctors in London but wouldn't go cause didn't trust them cause they wasn't Italian, it became ...
A. 12 April 2010: If you can't find an alternative place to stay there , then your only options is to go back to UK.
Best of luck!... (read in full...)
Breaking up by text message. I find it rude and immature!
Q. My girlfriend of 4 years basically is trying to break up with me through a text message. I feel that is very rude and immature. So I'm thinking about writing this back. " I don’t understand the reason why you send a text to do this. Keep the phone. ...
A. 11 April 2010: Do whatever you need to do.Whether it is immature or rude, the message is the same.Send her that message and good riddance to her!... (read in full...)
Should I break up with the girlfriend I view as a kid now, ...or wait until her exams are over?
Q. i'm 16 years old and i've been in a relationship for 4 months,this is my second relationship but i feel that i don't love my girlfriend as same as before, every day we talk 2-3 hours i don't know i got bored or what? but i want her and i want to ...
A. 11 April 2010: It would be kinder to her to break it off after her exams. If you break it off now , she may be greatly affected and perform poorly in her exams.
You don't want to be responsible for her poor results.Do you ?... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to call him because it may push him away further. What should I do?
Q. So I posted before about my boyfriend being distant, not sharing his feelings, etc etc. Turns out he was really busy and stressed out this week, and he hasn't called me because he needed to clear his head, and he didn't want to talk to me because ...
A. 11 April 2010: Men have a tendency to keep their feelings to themselves because they don't want to add anymore burdens to their g/f's.
If is not a big matter , they can handle it themselves.They do not like to share their problems with their g/f's.
Always ... (read in full...)
She told me to text her, I did, but so far no answer
Q. Hi, i'd really appreciate your views on my situation. Basically, i've been on 2 dates with a girl. First date we had a couple of drinks at a local pub and ended up having a kiss at the end of the evening. Second date we both ended up getting drunk...
A. 11 April 2010: It could be that she loathe herself for what she has done and is feeling somewhat embarrassed or shameful that you may have the wrong perception of her . She may also felt being cheap or like a slut.
She does not know how to handle the situatio... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he needs space and is being distant
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now. when we were first an item we would spend so much time together like every weekend, as well as a couple nights during the week. and on weekends i would go over his house and spend time wit...
A. 11 April 2010: Your b/f is piqued at your behaviour and is giving you the silent treatment. He does not want to talk to you and will try to avoid you .
He could also be downgrading your status from top priority to only options.
You need to seek him out and... (read in full...)
He doesn't really love me, but at the same time we seem great together
Q. Hi, I've been with a wonderful guy since November 2009. We met online via a dating service. We have not dated anyone else since we met each other. We both want the same thing, a long-term relationship and possibly marriage, he is 28 and I am 27. ...
A. 11 April 2010: Love is patient and kind. You cannot rush it. It will need time for it to bloom like a rose plant.
Everyone has their own timing.Those who are patient will reap their fruits of labour.
Be tender , kind and compassionate to him. In time ,he will... (read in full...)
If I watch lesbian porn does that mean I am a lesbian?
Q. dear cupid, I regularly watch lesbian porn. i am a girl aswell. I dont know if i'm a lesbian or not because i'm still attracted to boys. But not attracted to girls. i don't know what to do! help!...
A. 11 April 2010: If you watch one too many , you may one day be tempted to try it with girls or meet a lesbian who has a hot for you.
For now, you are not attracted to girls but who knows what's in the future.
Your sexuality may change as you mature and somet... (read in full...)
He still lives with his parents -- should I wait for him to grow up?
Q. I am 29 and have two kids both boys. I am seeing a guy who is 23 and still lives with his mom and dad. We want to be together but his family doesn't want us to be. He says he has to obey his parents. Which if he was a child I would understand but he ...
A. 11 April 2010: He is not the right material for you . If he cannot decide for himself , he has not grown up yet.
There could be problems too with his parents who will control his life and make your life hell.
You are setting up for a big disappointment.B... (read in full...)
If I commit now, do I chain my free spirit?
Q. Ok so I'm very unlucky when it comes to my love life. I have a very free spirit and I like to be free. I've been dating this guy for eight months now and I'm so confused. Everything seemed so perfect until today. I looks back in all the happy times ...
A. 11 April 2010: Born free ,as free as the wind blows. You are still young and there are so many things to see in this world.
Enjoy your single life and let your spirit roam all through the four corners of the Earth.
Grow wings and fly as high as you can.
... (read in full...)
Cinderella complex
Q. (OP's suggested title) Hi there and thanks for reading. I need a little bit of adivise about the way my parents/family see me. I am a single woman, 20 years old. I've never been on a relationship with someone and i still live with my family (sin...
A. 11 April 2010: You need to change your self image and increase your self esteem and confidence.
Take an interest in other people and be more visual. Going to those places where all those people congregate.
Your chances of meeting people who share the same i... (read in full...)
Her family is moving away -- help me to cope
Q. Well my girlfriend's mom and dad are planning on moving up north and honestly its hitting me really hard i mean i dont think i ever expeted to fall this deep for this girl. But do you guys think we'd be able to make it work if she does move up ...
A. 11 April 2010: With today's technology , it does not matter where she goes, you can always talk to her or see her like she is near to you .
You can always love her in your heart.... (read in full...)
He used to treat me like a queen; now he lies and cheats
Q. Hi tonight i found out my husband is seeing another woman. We have been married for 4 years and got married you I am now 29 and he is 28. We met each other a year before the marriage but fell deeply in love and got married behind our parents back. ...
A. 11 April 2010: Take control of your own life from now . Do everything for yourself and be selfish .
Prepare yourself to leave this relationship. When everything is ready , leave him .... (read in full...)
Boyfriends screwing around gave me insecurites how do I face them and still stay with him ?
Q. *OP's own title* a while back i found out my boyfriend was screwing around on the computer with otehr girls , i confronted him we talked and worked it out blah blah blah but when i read some of the things that he wrote on the profiles he made it hurt...
A. 11 April 2010: See no evil , hear no evil and speak no evil.
Pretend that you did not see it and live your life as though those things are inconsequential.
As long as he treats you right , you have to let go of those small things .If you mind about every... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to call him because it may push him away further. What should I do?
Q. So I posted before about my boyfriend being distant, not sharing his feelings, etc etc. Turns out he was really busy and stressed out this week, and he hasn't called me because he needed to clear his head, and he didn't want to talk to me because ...
A. 11 April 2010: That is a red flag when one distance oneself from the other. No matter how busy you are, I am sure calling you would not take much of his time. It is whether he wants to call or not.It is about where is his priorities .
Do not call him because ... (read in full...)
Is this guy that I like...two timing on his gf?
Q. I take a class outside of school, and there's this very good looking guy who is my table partner. I'm almost 18 and he's 21. When I first met him, I asked if he's single, and he didn't say anything. Since then though, he added me on facebook, aim, ...
A. 11 April 2010: Know what you are dealing with and if anything happens ,it is nobody's fault but your own.... (read in full...)
He asked me to move to him and now he's making my life hell! Help!
Q. Ok I met my boyfriend of two years in London.. we moved in together.. He got stomach problems, couldn't digest his food properly, I asked him to go the doctors in London but wouldn't go cause didn't trust them cause they wasn't Italian, it became ...
A. 11 April 2010: I think his mother is right , you should call those men in white coats to take him forcefully and get treated for his sickness.... (read in full...)
My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend and I fear I will be all alone if we break up!
Q. I feel so alone! I've been with my bf for just one year and we're quite happy. Lately though we've quarreled more and more. Nothing too serious though, and he's always very sad afterwards and we make up quick. Anyways, this quarreling is making me ...
A. 11 April 2010: It is your happiness. You need to do what is right . Nobody knows your heart better except yourself.
Family will always be a family no matter what happens. It is like water, you cannot chop them and separate them.
I rather be happy and others... (read in full...)
What can make my girl friend start behaving strange?
Q. *OP's own title* I have a girl friend,and both of us are in good and deep relationship,suddenly she just started behaving strange to me,if i call,sometime she refuses to pick my calls,i dont know what to do again,because i love her die,infact am tota...
A. 11 April 2010: Go and see her and ask her what's the problem?
Check yourself whether you have unintentionally hurt her by careless words or actions. ... (read in full...)
I think he will leave me if I don't have sex with him.
Q. hi my name is xoxoxoxo and i am a virgin and i really want to have sex i have a boyfriend and i really love him hes not a virgin but i am i tried to let him do it but it hurts when he tries to go in so i make him stop is it me what should i do i ...
A. 11 April 2010: If sex is the only thing that you can keep him by your side , it is better off without him. When he gets tired of your sex ,he will leave you .
Have more foreplay's and use KY Jelly to help with the penetration. If you still encounter pain , y... (read in full...)
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