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If I look down there it puts me off from having anyone touch me. How do I know I'm allright?

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Question - (21 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Heya. This is probally one of the most common questions you come across but you can never find an answer for, well at least i cant. Im worried if i look right or not down below and it puts me off from even having anyone touch me. How do you now if everything is alright down there??

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A female reader, Blue_Angel0316 United States +, writes (22 October 2007):

Blue_Angel0316 agony aunt If someone can't like you for whom you are then you don't need them anyway. Try not to fear something that another person pobably won't notice the way you do. It sounds like low self esteem or the fear of being rejected. At either rate tell yourself that you are fine just the way you are. Take your time becomming involved sexually and let the person you like get to know the inside of you first. If they like the person inside they shouldn't mind the outer shell. " You can never judge a book by it's cover".

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A female reader, JaffaZ Australia +, writes (21 October 2007):

JaffaZ agony auntHey,

Don't worry about it. I used to be a bit concerned about the same thing a couple of years ago too, and it's nothing to be worried about. Unless there's a really good reason for you to think something's wrong, then it's all good.

Like Phil said, try comparing with pictures. I'd suggest looking in medical books or websites, though. Just in case you do have something wrong, you should be able to find some kind of picture or description of it. But if nothing feels wrong down there, there's probably nothing to worry about.

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A male reader, merlyn United States +, writes (21 October 2007):

merlyn agony aunti agree that not two appear the same however comparing your vigina to some elses is obsurd. you are who you are and you look exactly the way you are supposed to. if it is a real concern of yours and you believe that you are not like other girls please consult a professional and trust me thye have heard the questions before. try to be comfortable with who you are and love yourself

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007):

I think you'll have to be a bit more specific about what your concerns are.

Is it your hairstyle or some anatomical irregularity?

Although similar, no two are exactly the same. All I can suggest at this stage is for you to get a mirror and compare what you see to those that appear in some of the more risque websites.

Phil

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