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reader, drastic knowledge  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 yes you can break thru your hymen but your still a virgin intill you have sex for thr frist time with a penis in your pussy not your toy or finger but also you can break your hymen with your finger or alot other ways not just like that i think i read your other posts of you marrying as a virgin and your husban to scared to have sex with you in fear of hurting you
wel maybe try relaxing him and by trying oral sex on him and then maybe him going down on you to get you real wet and taking things slow
i wish you the best
good luck
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reader, lilie  +, writes (3 October 2007):
lilie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u so much for ur help all of u u are such a great poeple i wish i can help others too as u did with me thnak u a lots
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (3 October 2007):
 gcockerham is right you need to have sex with a man or a woman to lose your virginity.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 I'm with gcockerham. Your hymen would be broken, but you'd still be a virgin.
It seems you are concerned about the "breaking" of the hymen. I have found that many girls are. Perhaps a woman can advise you better in this regard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): You can, yes - inasmuch as your hymen will be broken. But I think you'll find it a whole lot more interesting to lose your virginity in the conventional manner! Apart from that, if your husband sees the odd drop of blood he'll be Soooo pleased that he was your first.
Phil
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reader, gcockerham +, writes (3 October 2007):
Yes you will "break" by using a sex toy but you will still be a virgin. You are a virgin until a mans penis enters your vagina.
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