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writes:I'm 18 and a virgin. Recently though I've told my boyfriend that I was ready to have sex. At the time that i told him i was becuase i trusted him, but now due to certain circumstances i don't feel like the trust is fully there and I'm not sure if i want to lose my virginity to him in case i regret it later. But i'm by no means planning on breaking up with him, i really do like him, but is this unfair of me to think this? I mean, relationships are meant to be based on some future hopes of progression, yet i'm not willing to progress in this aspect. What do i do? Do i wait for the trust to re emmerge in our relationship and then be ready again? I don't want to have any doubts but on the other hand, if i'm having doubts now isn't that a bad sign? Any input would be much appreciated, especially from anyone who feels they can relate to my situation. Reply to this Question
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reader, natnatxxx  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Just explain to your boyfriend carefully you changed your mind, lads are understanding too, so he should see this and wait. If you not ready for things like sex you shouldn't get forced into it, you should wait until your 100% comfortable. Relationships are built around commincating, so if you talk to him, his reaction shouldn't be has bad as maybe your worrying as you think. If it is, maybe hes in this for more than just romance?
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reader, rockelle  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 Have doubts is a bad sign. Losing your virginity is an experience that you will remember for the rest of your life. If you are not absolutely sure then you should wait. This is something that you will never be able to change once it is done. So please wait until you are sure.
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