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I'm a virgin. Shall I pretend that I'm not?

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Question - (16 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi...im a sophomore in high school and well most of my friends along with myself have went into high school as a virgin but most of my friends have lost it this year i dont feel pressured into losing it but when they talk about how everything happened and some embarrassing moments i have no stories to tell and i feel left out should i just make up some stories of my own or just sit back and listen to theirs?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007):

hixxx dnt lie to ur freinds about nything. theres no point. nyway, wouldnt it be mre interesting if u waited? Wouldnt that be mre special? U being the only person strong enuff to wait? I am waiting, and if nyone calls me fridged or nythin like that, i sont really care, coz its wat i want. U dnt hav to lie, just change the topic of conversation nw n again!!!

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A female reader, sweetnsoursauce United States +, writes (17 October 2007):

sweetnsoursauce agony auntI'm a sophomore too. Don't lie about something like that, I would consider it a good thing that you're a virgin. I lost my virginity last year and it's definitely something i regret. You'll get your chance with a guy someday, so don't worry about it. Also, your friends sound like whores to me.

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A male reader, thewiseman United States +, writes (17 October 2007):

thewiseman agony auntIm also a sophmore. And in my own opinion. Lying will eventually bite you in the ass. Trust me ive done it more than once.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007):

Of course not. Why would you do that? You can't go through life doing things so wouldn't feel left out. You are too young to be talking about sex and losing virginities. So what if your friends have done it? Enjoy listening to their embarassing experiences knowing that's not you, Because you'll wait for the appropriate age and the right person to do it.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (16 October 2007):

Peer pressure is heavy. Maturity is being able to do the right thing in spite of it. It would be stupid to sully your own reputation.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007):

be proud of the fact that you are still a virgin - there are too many young kids these days having sex and having babies....

tell them I'm a virgin and proud of it!

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A male reader, Dextro69 United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2007):

Dextro69 agony auntdont pretend to be what your not, i did and it never did me any good. the only person who i didnt lie to was my current partner who i lost it to at 29 so dont worry about it. and to be honest most guys would prefer a virgin it makes us feel special to think we are the first for that person. Sit back relax in the pride that you will do it when you are ready and not before.

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