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I want sex but how do I tell my boyfriend...

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Question - (7 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

i am 14 years old and i think i am ready for sex.

i have a shy boyfriend who i have dated for about 3 months now, and we barely do anything. i feel left out because the closest of my friends have all had sex; i don't think its fair. i get horny very easily around my boyfriend, but its hard to tell him what i am really thinking; about having sex with him. i no i sound very imature wanting it at my age, but i am seriously ready and i need help telling my boyfriend.

can anyone help??

thanks :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

just get the boy to your house when your perants arnt there or go to his he wont exspect a thing just kiss him nd add more to it nd den start taking the cloths of ask im if he is ready if he says no say well i am babe so lets trie it please for me if he says yes go for it but dont forget be carm and dont get annoyed if he says no good look

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2007):

hey im in the same situation and i think the best thing for you to do is just get into a sex conversationrandomly bring up the topic and say it you should be honest and tell him how you feel but not in so much graphics just say you think you are ready and ask how does he feel about that

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A female reader, bovvalicious United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2007):

bovvalicious agony auntkiss him on the cheek one day and speak to him about things if you are ready for sex it will happen dont rush into things take time and just live for the moment life it too based around sex

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A female reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (7 October 2007):

Phoebe Halliwell agony auntHey,

make sure you are ready. And it's not just your body telling you to.

I know some girls your age who have lost their virginity and regretted it. Make sure, if you are ready you and your boyfriend want to.

You may be ready but he may not be, when he is, you'll both know. You may tell him you want to have sex and he may turn you down because you're not on the same page. Your first time with your boyfriend should be natural, not suggested to him so he can think about the pros and cons.

hope this helped,

Phoebe xXx

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