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writes:Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. He's sweet and treats me like a princess.I'm his priority in his life. We've both been through so many things together he's going to proposed and marry me next year.Problem is, I rejected his proposal and told him I can't be with him. Actually he's preparing our future so well, financially and mentally. I regret It with all my heart now. I'm such a jerk. My attitude towards him is so bad. I get mad easily, jealous and controlling. I'm so bad person before I've just realize that after we broke up 2 months ago. He's got a tattoo and he said his feeling is less than before to me. He still cares about me, but there's something that I feel weird like he's not obsessed with me like before. He's not calling or texting like before. I don't know whether he wants to take some time alone or he doesn't want me anymore in his life? When I feeling so down month ago, he told me why I don't try to make him love me again instead of feeling down all the time? He's not happy seeing me like this he said. I know I cause him to lose so many important things in his life, his time with friends, his hobby, and he's so patience to me. I don't know why I'm so horrible person before.Now we are getting back together, he's still care to me like before although he said he's not going to be the same person as before as he said he's too stupid to do what I want. He said he's going to do what he wants and needs for his life whether I like it or not. But actually when we met, he's just the same person like before. Still caring and let me decide where to go and what to eat etc. But when I ask him about our relationship is going. Will I be his future wife again? He said he needs time and he's not sure he could make me happy as we argue all the time. He said his feeling for me has change and less than before. I don't know why but I'm sure he still loves me by the way he treats me. But on the other hand I worry about our relationship. What should I do? He knows about my feeling to him and we've told about this before. He said he didn't know what he want and asking me what's the best for us? I think that answer is he's still love me but he's not sure about me? What should I do to fix our relationship? will he loves me like before? What should I do and react around him to make him comfortable and happy with me? I think I lack of that sense.. Lol. Thanks for advices before :)
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (11 October 2014):
When a man loves a woman and asks her to marry him and to be REJECTED IS THE WORSE POSSIBLE HURT FOR HIM. Yes he has changed and has changed through pain.You must have been confused when you said no and its not always easy to make your mind up .However have an indept chat with him and tell him how you feel.how sorry you are and how much you care for him.He needs to feel secure in your love for him.So plenty of tender loving care and in time it might be better than ever before.Ther is love on both sides so that is a great start .Best wishes NORA B,
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reader, NORA B +, writes (11 October 2014):
When a man loves a woman and asks her to marry him and to be REJECTED IS THE WORSE POSSIBLE HURT FOR HIM. Yes he has changed and has changed through pain.You must have been confused when you said no and its not always easy to make your mind up .However have an indept chat with him and tell him how you feel.how sorry you are and how much you care for him.He needs to feel secure in your love for him.So plenty of tender loving care and in time it might be better than ever before.Ther is love on both sides so that is a great start .Best wishes NORA B,
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