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26-29,
*carlett101
writes:I don't know how to move on... Maybe I never will? We met senior year of HS and lasted a whole year until he cheated on me in college (we attended the same college). He is transferring. I can't move on. I have his snapchat password and I log on all the time to get a glimpse of his life. He's meeting new girls but the thing is I'm not even mad anymore I just want to know what he is up to and have been thinking about him since we broke up 7 months ago. It's like I enjoy the sadness. The more I look back the more I realize he never loved me as much as I did. I just don't know how to move on he is stuck in my brain. The thing is I liked what we had. It was my first real relationship. I even followed him to college only for him to transfer to another one. It's like I envy the life he has so close to downtown major city, while I live in a boring part. I was thinking if I could go out (strict parents) maybe I would get over him. I just keep thinking of all the time we were together.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (11 August 2015):
 There's nothing like the pain when your first love ends. In time it will be a beautiful, perhaps mournful memory. We all have them, and most of them will be cherished.
Take your time - wash around in it for a while - read poetry, go for long solitary walks.
Then bust out and have fun. You will have just graduated from a stage in the school of life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2015): My dear
Just move on with your life, dont waste your precious time worrying over someone who has already forgotten about you.
You have a beautiful life ahead of you and someone special waiting to meet and love you.
You deserve the best
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