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Be brave, Tell the truth. Be kind. If you can do that all in the same sentence, you will be an amazing agony aunt. Sign up. I'm still trying to reach that ideal.
I heard this quote recently: ""The truth is like castor oil. It’s difficult to take and hard to swallow, so we get them to laugh and while their mouths are open, we pour a little in." -Harold Clurman
If you have an urgent question, please post it on the main page. Real life keeps me busy and has enough going on to keep me from being on here 24/7.... I hope yours does too! ;)
Current book recommendation: Untethered Soul, by Michael Singer. A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now, also by Eckhart Tolle. Really powerful stuff in there about not letting your runaway thoughts take over your life. Be present in the Now. You have what you need, right there, right inside yourself. Do yourself a HUGE favor and read these books. They may lead to an important and fundamental shift in your well-being. "Unease, anxiety, tension, stress, worry — all forms of fear — are cause by too much future, and not enough presence. Guilt, regret, resentment, grievances, sadness, bitterness, and all forms of nonforgiveness are caused by too much past, and not enough presence." --Eckhart Tolle
All time fave relationship figure out book: A Fine Romance, Judith Sills, PhD. Buy if you are stuck and can't figure out why he won't commit, or why you keep picking guys who can't commit.
"Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck." -The Dalai Lama
"Most people are doing the best they can, given what they know and understand. Including you. If they knew more and were aware of more, they would do things differently." -- Louise Hay
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." -Mark Twain
I like these links right now: http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-4593/A-Simple-Way-to-Let-Go-of-Our-Negative-Patterns.html
http://www.positivelypositive.com/2012/04/04/25-life-lessons/
So here's the thing. Asking for help is a sign of strength, not a sign of weakness. Weakness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different outcome. Actually, according to Albert Einstein, that's the definition of insanity but I think that's a bit of a strong word choice.
“Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” -The Dalai Lama.
The choices you make may affect others. Think about the consequences, intended or unintended, before you do something that you may have to explain later. Imagine you are standing in front of a group of people and have to defend what you chose to do.... if you can't manage to do it well, that's a fairly plain indicator it's a bad idea.
If everyone who loves you hates your partner, there might be a problem. If you only have your partner, there IS a problem.
http://www.mindbodygreen.com/0-8202/12-signs-youre-in-a-toxic-relationship.html
If he’s mean to you now, he’s only going to get worse. Some people are energy vampires; they feed on the pain they inflict on others. They are broken. They will break you. Get out. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you can fix him. You can’t.
You have my permission to say “no.”
If you are depressed, think of it like an illness. You have to treat it. Medicine can help. Talk to your doctor. If you’re drinking a lot, you’re already self-medicating. You might as well get some prescription-grade pharmaceuticals to help you get to a point where you can figure out why you’re self-medicating.
There’s a reason it’s called ‘junk food.’
Yoga is good for the body and the mind as well as soothing the spirit. Try it. Brisk walks are great too.
Don't eat crap. Canned sugary beverages or canned diet beverages are NOT good for you, they have no nutritional value and set you up for a lot of bad stuff. Don't drink them. Water is good. Decide if you can tolerate coffee or tea (I love them both) and then drink those in moderation.
Life is nasty, cold, brutal, unfair, and crappy. It’s also amazing, beautiful, uplifting, awe-inspiring and fun. You choose how you’re going to approach it every day.
I have a few soapboxes that I tend to haul out: I don't like to see people put their health or future at risk and I REALLY don't like to see them put other's health or future at risk. I feel strongly that not providing good sex education or keeping sex education from children is a form of child abuse. It's like sending them out into the world not knowing how to buckle a seatbelt.
I love this video from plannedparenthood.org (How Pregnancy Happens): http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
More good information from plannedparenthood.org on the various methods of birth control:
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-topics/birth-control//birth-control-effectiveness-chart-22710.htm
I don't have any expertise in abusive relationships, but I do think there are some common sense basics that people who are in one might be missing. Find out more here: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
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How do I break the link with this married man?
Q. I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...
A. 26 July 2009: Personally, if a married man were interested in me, and I in him [this is hypothetical, of course, so take that with a grain of salt], I think I would wait for him to be single before doing any 'exploring' of feelings with him.
Let's play it out,... (read in full...)
I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 23 July 2009: What explanation did your doctor have? That's who I'd ask if I were you. There might be absolutely nothing wrong. Then again, there might be something wrong, and wouldn't it be better to find out from an expert who has actually examined you?
C... (read in full...)
What's with a guy when....
Q. Ok would like opinions from both guys and girl here please! :) Whats with a guy when... 1) he talks to your friends and starts converstaions with them on msn but doesnt with you! He only talks to you if you talk to him. 2) when he chose to s...
A. 22 July 2009: He sounds young, immature, rude, socially awkward and very rough around the edges. Not exactly charming, polite, attentive, kind, gentle, sweet and generous. Yet. Give him time to mature.
I have one other observation for you, one lesson I lear... (read in full...)
Do I have a problem with cocaine?
Q. If someone spends £230 on cocaine a week would you say they have a problem? It started off as trying it on a night out and im spending atleast £230 a week on it, and i mainly do by myself. I dont really have a family to turn to, all i have is fr...
A. 22 July 2009: Yes, that would count as a problem. Where exactly do you obtain over £1000 per month?... (read in full...)
How do I break the link with this married man?
Q. I'm 40 something married for 14 years and very much hopelessly in love with another man. I noticed him for the first time 3 years ago. Before then he was completely invisible to me in social settings with my husband. We collided while traveling to a ...
A. 22 July 2009: It seems to me that you are doing the right thing. I personally think you can choose to do this by phone, and it might be a good idea, if you feel helpless in his presence. Certainly not by text or email!
Why did I use the words "the right thin... (read in full...)
Why the sudden U-turn in his feelings?
Q. I have been seeing a man for 8 weeks and he just finished the relationship. He fell in love with me in two weeks and i said it was too fast. He said he had found the one, he spoke about moving in one day in the future when we were ready and that one ...
A. 22 July 2009: I think you're wasting your time trying to apply logic to his behavior. He's not a mature man, if he falls "in love" in 2 weeks. You barely have time to learn how he takes his coffee in 2 weeks! He was rushing the feeling because of some void, some ... (read in full...)
Why wont they accpet that I don't drink and stop pressuring me?
Q. My bf, his whole family, and his friends all keep trying to force me to drink through pressuring me. I keep telling them I dont drink, but they wont accept it, they continue to harrass me non stop. They buy me alcoholic drinks and say "you have to ...
A. 22 July 2009: You've made it clear that you are not interested in alcohol to them, yet they continue to pressure you? This is not healthy behavior from them. They obviously have a problem with alcohol, if they are pressuring you to do something you don't want to ... (read in full...)
Why am I so upset my ex got married to someone else?
Q. i probably sound really silly writing this but im really upset that my ex fiance has got married to somebody else. im upset because i dont understand why im upset after all when we were together we had a house which i left to him after our bad sp...
A. 22 July 2009: I expect you're upset as most people would be when they hear that. You imagine all kinds of things, like he's much happier than you are (which would not be fair), and he has changed if he found someone to marry him, and why couldn't he have changed ... (read in full...)
Questions abot the female form!
Q. i feel weird asking this this but does the libia of the vagina "stick out". because a few people when they are in their swim suits something sticks out a little and i was wondering if it was her libia...and what is a hymen?...
A. 22 July 2009: Let's remember people come here for help, not for ridicule. We're an agony aunt site, not a 'cause agony' aunt site! ;)
So it sounds like you need some basic anatomy lessons. Take a look at this video: (press on the arrow in the lower right hand... (read in full...)
Am I heartless for even thinking about this?
Q. I'm engaged to a lovely girl. We've been together for over 5 years, but ever since we bought a house together she's become very distant. She still chooses to live with her mother rather than at our house, and openly admits that she doesn't know if ...
A. 21 July 2009: I'm with Ask oldersister and Country Woman as well. The image that came to mind for me reading your question is that old TV medical classic: doctors trying to resuscitate someone. At some point, despite all the hustle and bustle and drugs and ... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: How do you control yourself? Um, the simple answer is don't put yourself into a situation where you know you will regret the outcome. Has he been your boyfriend for very long?... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: Quick quiz, answer True or False:
It is possible to get pregnant having sex in a hot tub.... (read in full...)
Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking?
Q. Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking? I wake up and remember quite a bit of what I have dreamt that night, and I thought that was quite normal, but many family members tell me that they never dream (or simp...
A. 21 July 2009: LOL, Birdy, I know we have a lot in common! Maybe we just forgot to brush our teeth before going to bed, and it's our subconscious' way of nagging us? It can't have anything to do with the fact that I'm uncomfortably close to 50!
Thanks for the insi... (read in full...)
Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking?
Q. Is it true for some people that you don't remember your dreams upon waking? I wake up and remember quite a bit of what I have dreamt that night, and I thought that was quite normal, but many family members tell me that they never dream (or simp...
A. 20 July 2009: Birdy, have you been renting DVDs of my dreams? I have exactly the same ones. The flying, the not being able to fit through doors, sometimes color, sometimes B/W. Mostly color, though. And moving through houses that are not mine. Escalators. Teeth ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been calling me horrible names but always claims he is joking after!
Q. my boyfriend and i have a very close relationship we've been on and off but recently he's been calling me a bitch a slag and a c**t wen i say thats rude he always replies with im jokin but is he really joking but i love him so much i could never ...
A. 20 July 2009: Run your relationship through this screening tool: http://www.mental-health-matters.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=171
If he keeps doing it and he knows it's hurtful, then he is doing it deliberately. I personally wouldn't tole... (read in full...)
Is it true that men will have sex with any female who is willing?
Q. Is it true that men can have sex with any female. If female is willing and approaching them , they never say no. Even if they love their partner, but for sex they everready for any female. Male readers plz answer this question...
A. 20 July 2009: My husband said that's simply not true. Not every man will sleep with whatever woman throws herself at him. I expect you've found an unreliable man; do not fall prey to the idea that ALL men are like that. They are not.
Be careful not to paint all ... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man and don't know what to do. I just want to be happy!
Q. I am sitting here with a very heavy heart . I have fallen for a married man and don't know what to do . To be honest I'm not sure if you'd say I was " in love " with him .... but very much " in like " . We have been friends on and off for years ...
A. 20 July 2009: Personal attacks with insulting, hurtful language, without any advice whatsoever other than inappropriate comments, are not tolerated here. A couple of these answers just skirt that line by offering some perspective from another point of view, but ... (read in full...)
No sex on my wedding night!
Q. I am writing this a day after getting married. We had a really special day and we retired to our room about 1am. My wife looked amazing and I couldn't wait to consumate the marriage. Unfortunately despite my advances she simply was not interest...
A. 20 July 2009: If you're really a traditionalist, you wouldn't have had a baby before getting married. Sorry, just a little semantics there.
Yes, I'm sure it was very disappointing. You're blowing this all out of proportion though, I think. Weddings are exha... (read in full...)
He never introduces me to people we bump into who know him, but when I did the same, I was told I'm "spiteful". Help!
Q. My b/f of 3 yrs. and I have had a long-standing disagreement about something. We are always running into people who know him (mostly women) yet he rarely ever introduces me. They give him a hug, ask how the kids are doing, how the job is going, ...
A. 20 July 2009: I'm with satindesire on this one. Stick to your guns.
Is he the type of person that must always be right, no matter what? Has he ever been wrong, and apologized?... (read in full...)
When do you know it's time to throw in the towel?
Q. When do you know it's time to throw in the towel? Been with b/f 3 years. We have alot in common and enjoy each other's company; good chemistry. But my b/f doesn't treat me w/respect and we're constantly hooking horns over his temper. I love him but ...
A. 19 July 2009: My husband and I have a code phrase: "Stop tape."
I will say it to him when I want him to pay attention to what he's saying. He does the same to me. Sometimes we get into very negative verbal habits, and perhaps this is what's going on with you.... (read in full...)
How do I get him to leave his wife for me?
Q. How can i get him to leave his wife for me? im 17 and hes 40 and really need ideas? he sees me whenever he can get away from his wife, and promises to take me shopping, and he calls me princess and beautiful, we have sex alot in his car, he has 2 ch...
A. 19 July 2009: Did you write this question too?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-says-im-hotter-than-his-wife-and.html
If not, you should read those answers.
Have you asked him to leave his wife? My guess is that you have and he's given you a load of excu... (read in full...)
Her mom died and now she wont make love
Q. My wife's mom died a month ago and she didn't want to anything sexual, she wouldn't even let me see her naked. Anyway one night I was really horny.and my wife was washing dishes. Well I went behind her and grabbed her breasts (she usually hates me ...
A. 17 July 2009: Next time, instead of grabbing at her breasts, grab one of the dishes and start washing or drying it. That's probably a better idea for you right now than physical gestures that aren't welcomed.
She's grieving, she's unhappy, what kind of supp... (read in full...)
One night stand with Lothario leads to pregnancy!
Q. I went on a girls night out a few weeks ago, had a good time, had fun, but unfortunately I couldn't resist the advances of a good-looking Lothario, and I slept with him. I didn't plan to sleep with him but was under the influence at the time. A se...
A. 17 July 2009: Interesting that you were told it was a boy at 5 weeks. Generally, gender can't be determined until at least the 18th week. ... (read in full...)
Is it just human nature to cheat?
Q. Does anyone have a straight-forward, happy, long-lasting relationship these days? My Mum and Dad divorced when I was a teenager, and my bf has recently cheated on me (nothing physical, but exchanging flirty texts and phone calls with a girl from ...
A. 17 July 2009: Not at all unrealistic. You just have to put in the effort, as Old Guy noted. And I agree with Cerberus' list of yeses and nos. Keeping a relationship healthy and strong takes WORK. Sorry, it's not all rose petals and footrubs. Communication and ... (read in full...)
Need ideas for a night in that don't involve cooking or the bathtub!
Q. having problems with my partener and want to have a romantic nite in she does not like eating so cooking a meal is out and dont have bath in washroom any idea's would be great...
A. 17 July 2009: Massage! Learn how to do some massage via youtube or by reading a manual, bring in some candles, some thick fluffy towels and sheets you don't mind getting massage oil on. Make it feel like a spa.... (read in full...)
Is my penis too small for my age?
Q. hi, i have a 5.5 inch penis and im proud of it and have no problems with my size. however i would like to know, is it small for a 16 year old?...
A. 17 July 2009: I really don't think they would think it was small at all. Unless they spend a lot of time looking at pictures of naked male porn stars, in which case, their sense of "normal" would be very skewed.
h... (read in full...)
Is my penis too small for my age?
Q. hi, i have a 5.5 inch penis and im proud of it and have no problems with my size. however i would like to know, is it small for a 16 year old?...
A. 17 July 2009: You're fine. Really.
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/teen-talk/watch/am-normal-behind-fig-leaf-26794.htm... (read in full...)
Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?
Q. Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...
A. 17 July 2009: Your logic that because she's not interested in sex with you, that she's finding somewhere else simply floors me. You seriously have no idea how a woman's brain functions. Look, I'm trying to say this very nicely but it may come out nasty.
The prob... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep
Q. i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent b...
A. 17 July 2009: I remember that post that TTM refers to, about waking up to oral sex. There are a lot of hot buttons here so let's just take this one step at a time.
Anatomical fact or fiction quiz: Being lubricated before intercourse is important so that a w... (read in full...)
Are these signs that she likes me?
Q. Here's a girl that I liked, and for months, she's showed me those signs: -she giggles and laughs at me (even at things I say which are not hilarious) -she gave me a thumbs-up twice two separate times just before exams started -she would some...
A. 17 July 2009: I think at this point, you could say something like, "you are so funny. I really enjoy talking to you. Would you like to hang out and maybe even go out on a date? Like this weekend?"
You won't ever know for sure if she likes you if one of you does... (read in full...)
My teenage boyfriend is horny and sweet talks to let him finger me, even when I am not ready
Q. Hey, I'm 13 almost 14 and I have been dating this guy for 6months and I absolutly love him. Please don't judge me cuz of my age. Well, he has been wanting to finger me but I'm scared and that's normal. But, I asked him if he would be mad if I ...
A. 17 July 2009: "He said he swears it won't hurt and he only wants to do it so we can make our relationship better but I just don't know if I want to or not."
A. How does he know if it won't hurt? What does he know about sex and anatomy and how did he learn it? ... (read in full...)
I pushed my wife away because of insecurities, now she's gone to study and all I want is her.
Q. After 9 months of marriage, i broke up with my 19 year old wife and now she's left town for further studies which i disagree with her because i felt insecure that she might be use by some male friends in her college just for enjoyment. I'm no more ...
A. 17 July 2009: Why did you break up with her?... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man keeps going back to his manipulative ex?
Q. Dear Cupid, What does it mean when a man keeps getting back together with his ex even though they have a very strained relationship. She is very manipulative and makes him feel guilty for leaving her and bad because she says she has no one else ...
A. 16 July 2009: The pop psychology answer is that they are feeding each other's pathologies. There's something inside him that feels connected to her, no matter how awful she is.
I would guess that neither of them have a solid and stable sense of self. She migh... (read in full...)
I don't want to be a trophy or a toy to him. How do I know if he feels the same?
Q. I'm kind of stuck in such a classic situation: really like a guy but I don't know if he's feeling the same! It all started when I met Stefan last winter at a job fair organised by the uni he goes to. We flirted a bit but that was it as I was stil...
A. 16 July 2009: Oh sweetie, I think if Stefan liked you as more than a friend, he would have let you know by now. The kissing is one thing, but the bj to him was just an extension of that, and I think he probably assumed you were okay with just a casual hookup. ... (read in full...)
Update: Thanks for all the advice and she said "yes" to my proposal!
Q. I just wanted to update what I wrote in here last week. I don't know how many of you will recognize this, but I'm the guy who wanted to propose to his girlfriend "Harry Potter-style". I took her to the HP Expo in Chicago Tuesday night and right ...
A. 16 July 2009: Hey! Congratulations! Well done! Of course we all expect to be invited to the wedding....
Just kidding.
We LOVE good news like this here. Awesome!
So have you started picking out the children's names? [Sorry, couldn't resist. That seems to be ... (read in full...)
Why do women place such importance on the emotional side of sex?
Q. Okay, I have a question for both men and women. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year. When it comes to sex, she claims to love it with me and tells me that I make her feel better than anyone has before - physically but then she ...
A. 16 July 2009: "Honey, your penis isn't very big and frankly, you're not manly enough in bed most of the time. You want oral sex but you don't wash under your balls and you reek. It makes me gag." ---now tell me you didn't have an emotional reaction to that.
H... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair with my friend's 16 year old daughter, and now she may be pregnant!
Q. Iam a married 40yr old who has been having an affair with my friends 16yr old daughter. She may now be pregnant and I think I love her. What should I do?...
A. 10 July 2009: What aspect of this situation do you feel you need help with?... (read in full...)
Would a guy still have sex with a girl even if he thought she sucked in bed?
Q. Would a guy still have sex with a girl even though he thought she sucked in bed? Or because he thinks she sucks would he completely turn it down?...
A. 10 July 2009: Isn't there a saying like, "any sex is better than no sex"? Or was it, "the only bad sex is NO sex"?
Despite this expectation that guys are ready for it all the time, some guys actually want to have a meaningful relationship with the girl they... (read in full...)
I seem to fall low on the list of my boyfriend's priorities
Q. im unsure with my relationship because of my boyfriends priorities. ive seen him once this week even though we're on our school summer break and when i try to make plans with him he wants his downtime with his computer games and his guy friends. i ...
A. 10 July 2009: I had a boyfriend like this one year. During the summer, he basically vanished. I never saw him, and I too felt neglected. I finally had to schedule a meeting with him, so that I could break up with him. I could have done it over the phone, I ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and my 17 year old bf is always mad at me!
Q. hi. i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. we have been together for 11 monthsz now and almost a year. the thing is he always gets mad over little things and always thinks i am lying to him...he doesnt trust me at all. and this one time he got really ma...
A. 10 July 2009: Mimi, have you talked to your parents about this? Your mom or dad? I think they would be the first place to start. Please read this link very very carefully and recognize how you can start to disassociate yourself from loserman.
h... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 10 July 2009: For those aunts interested in the history here, I've got a link for you to read:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-guys-boast-about-there-so-called.html... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: My mistake, Willow has just told me that she is NOT dyslexic. I apologize, Willow, I thought you had told me that you were a while back when we were discussing this same topic, about your situation. I must have not remembered correctly, perhaps it's ... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: Well, that is what Willow herself told me, and I don't see any reason not to believe her there. But then I have no experience in that arena, Eyes.... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: Willow, I don't think it can hurt at all to let people know that you are dyslexic, which is one of the challenges you face in life. Just so people understand why the letters sometimes are jumbled around in the words.... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: What I find very odd is that she never actually answers any of our questions. Well she did once for me, but then quit and wound up in exactly the same place, obviously. Instead, we wind up at "you just don't understand." But I don't see her trying ... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: We are having an interesting little set of PMs back and forth, Eyes. The basic thing is that no one (including me) can understand how she feels. Which I will grant. Feelings are individual, after all. But what you do with them and how you throw them ... (read in full...)
Will I end up an old maid?
Q. the only guy who has ever liked in my entire life said he is moving to america with his girlfriend is that big thing .he never said how long he stay in america?only one line i am moving to america with my girlfriend to USA and no more and bye . ...
A. 9 July 2009: Once she can understand that the change has to happen from within herself, that's when she can move forward. But right now, that negativity, anger and hate is keeping anyone who might be a friend far away from Willow. (That's my nickname for her, ... (read in full...)
Are these signs that she likes me?
Q. Here's a girl that I liked, and for months, she's showed me those signs: -she giggles and laughs at me (even at things I say which are not hilarious) -she gave me a thumbs-up twice two separate times just before exams started -she would some...
A. 9 July 2009: She sounds painfully shy or you might intimidate her in real life, thus she finds it easier to 'chat' online. Why don't you try to talk to her again in real life? Or is it that you've only got the internet as a way to reach her?
I'm not conv... (read in full...)
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