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It's been awhile since I've been on here, I'm peps I've had quite a colourful life with many mistakes that have helped me enormously to learn all I have. I'm open to all questions and only hope I can bring something good to help. I am a mum of 3 grown up children. I nursed (carer) for many years and loved my work.

Get together that left me feeling excluded

Q.   Myself and 3 friends went out for dinner saturday night. I don’t drive so when we go out one of them usually picks me up (all 3 of them live quite close by to me) and I always offer to pay towards petrol or buy them a drink so it’s not as if ...

A.   26 February 2024: Hi sweetheart If this was me and my mates of 15yrs acted this way I think I'd be having a good think and I would ask myself 'Are you worth more than this? I believe you are worth more than this, If you have 1 good friend in the group can you mayb... (read in full...)

Walking on egg shells. Am I falling out of love with my husband?

Q.   I have been married to my husband for almost 13 years. He is generally a good man but he is not easy to live with. All along he has had problems with light substance abuse, anxiety, anger management issues, borderline personality disorder (which i...

A.   22 February 2015: Hi hunny You just described my first marriage, i ended up being very ill because like you I was trying desperately to look after my husband. There are slight differences but the outcome was the same as you are going through now. I had to go and s... (read in full...)

How do I open up and trust my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi! I suppose I would put it by saying that I've having difficulty transitioning into my new (and first) relationship. I'm at my final year at university and I recently met a guy I really like, and who really likes me back, and we've been 'toge...

A.   22 February 2015: Hi hunny You say you have been together a week, That is a short period of time and trust is earned over a long period of time, It's great he asked you out. It's great he spoke about wanting a relationship but it's all very quick..You need to get ... (read in full...)

He gets mad over the small things?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I love him dearly but I'm starting to get fed up.. I go home a lot near tears or just in disarray because of his yelling and stuff. An example of this is when he had locked himself in his ...

A.   21 February 2015: Hiya hunny Have you tried taliking to him about these outbursts? If you are going home in tears then it's not at all good for your health or self esteem..Has he got anything he is worrying about of late? It's not fair to you if you don't know why ... (read in full...)

At the very beginning, a year ago, I said I was single. But that wasn't true back then. Do I tell him, now, about this lie?

Q.   Hello, So I am looking for a little guidance on a problem that is eating away at me. I have been in a relationship with my significant other for a year. This relationship is by far the best one that I have ever been in and my boyfriend is trul...

A.   20 February 2015: Hi hunny, Please stop punising yourself, I've been in toxic relationships and as often as you tell yourself these relationships will change they won't..From where I'm looking by just reading your post to me it appears your current boyfriend was ... (read in full...)

How can I stop cum leaking out after sex?

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but there is this thing thats been annoying me for some time now... Whenever my boyfriend cums in me after sex, it never like stays in me. Whenever I stand up I can feel it leak out, especial...

A.   20 February 2015: Hi hunny It's perfectly natural for this to happen, There really is nothing to feel embarrassed about. What goes up must come down. Keep feminine or baby wipes by your bed or in the lounge kitchen :) and maybe tissues. Honestly it's perfectly natu... (read in full...)

Should I just walk away from the first girl?

Q.   Hi Friends, I feel like I'm in a weird place. Several months back I met a great girl "Angela" and we really hit it off, spent a lot of time together, took a road trip with her friends, etc. A few weeks ago she got news that she was laid off fro...

A.   19 February 2015: Hi hunny I can see how your head must be spinning, it's obvious you liked this girl. She lost her job, May have to sell her home and is probably feeling pretty crap at this moment. When something like this happens it kinda pops a spanner in the work... (read in full...)

How small is small for a man's penis if the man is 5 foot and 11 inches and 195 pounds?

Q.   Hello everyone sorry to be the umpteenth guy asking this question but how small is small when it comes to penis size? Im 23 and have had sex with over 20 girls but its always been in the back of my head that I'm unproprtional and small. My size is ...

A.   19 February 2015: Hi hunny Trust me you have nothing to worry about, alot of men worry so much about this it's a constant humming as you said in the back of your head. you should go for girls you like, worrying about this will only ruin your enjoyment and find... (read in full...)

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