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HeY!!! Im Jenny! I live in Alafaya Florida. (Right next to Orlando and Mickey Mouse!!!) I am a student at the University of Central Florida: Burnett School of Biomedical Sciences- College of Medicine. My major is molecular, microbiology and neuroscience. I also have a degree in chemistry. School is my life and I love it!

Im in my early twenties...but I feel much younger and I prolly act much younger at times too and im not afraid to admit it. Its fun going back to childhood once and awhile! I don't want to grow up and I feel that being young at heart is important to enjoying life. But at the same time, I do handle my schoolwork, and other grown up stuff in a timely and mature manner as biologically and resposibility wise, I am an adult. But I don't let it get me down!

Career wise, I hope to earn my M.D./Ph.d degree and become a physician scientist. I want to practice neurosurgery and become a pioneering surgeon- developing new surgical techniques in spine trauma and perform research to restore people's ability to walk. Scientists are doing preliminary research on this right now and by the time I am done with school, I hope to join them. It may take nearly two decades or more until this surgery can be perfromed on humans as it is utilizing entirely new technology and medical advancements. (ie stem cells). But eventually, when it is perfected, we may be able to help those who lost their ability to walk in accidents...amazing! I also would love to teach and speak at medical conferences too. I want to go as far as I can in the field I love and make a huge contribution to medicine!! The possibilities are endless in the neuroscience field!!

I have only been in two relationships. But I have learned from them and feel I can offer good advice. My friends said I give very good advice so hopefully I can help people on here too. I am currently single now and just going with the flow. Right now, I am just concentrating on my education, staying healthy and achieving my dream career! :-)

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The Most Amazing Guy I have Ever Met

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4 July 2009: Everyone has been there. You fall in love with someone who you couldn't be with. Yet, you still love him and thinking about him from time to time brings a smile to your face. My time with this particular gentleman was relatively short and we never ...

I haven't been on here since March, thank you for all the compliments and I will get back to y'all.

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5 May 2009: Hey everybody, I just want to say thank you to all who sent messages to me and complimenting me on my education thus far. It is greatly appreciated. Sorry I haven't wrote back to any of you in forever but I haven't been logged on here since march ...

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Will he be better to her than he was to me?

Q.   Will he be different with her? My husband and I divorced mainly because he was very emotionally/verbally abusive and he walked out. We have a child together-so I try to maintain a civil relationship with him because of that. He has a girlfr...

A.   25 February 2014: Any person when entering a new relationship will show their very best side in the beginning. Then as time goes on the true colors often surface. As the other aunts have said, I bet he was real sweet in the beginning of your relationship. He reele... (read in full...)

How can he love me and want to share me?

Q.   I have met a man who seems wonderful in every way. We have an incredible connection on so many levels yet I have a question. He has said to me that if I feel the desire to have sex with another man in his presence he is ok with that. Even turned on ...

A.   18 February 2014: Sounds like he is a swinger. A relationship like that takes A LOT of trust, openess and honesty by both parties. When done the right way, a swinger relationship can last but ground rules must be put down before a couple engages in that sort of ... (read in full...)

I really like him and I want him to like me too!

Q.   This guy i like and I are both fourteen my mom doesn't want me to date him and doesn't like him. She doesn't know him as well as I do. He sits at my table at lunch and his name is Kai. He is super nice, and mentions some other girls a lot. We ...

A.   31 March 2012: Well all you can do is try talking to him some more.And be nice to him. How about one Monday you go over and sit next to him at lunch. Ask him how his weekend was, what he did, or what he would have liked to do if he didn't get to do anything. That ... (read in full...)

Any advice on how to help my daughter who is struggling to conceive?

Q.   please can anyone give me any advice of how I can help my daughter. She has been with her partner for 3 years and they have been trying for a baby for 1 year now, without success, her partner has had a semen test and it showed he had high velocity ...

A.   29 March 2012: Has your daughter been tested for fertility issues? She should consult her OB/GYN about her difficulty in getting pregnant as she may have a reproductive issue. Plus her doctor can also help her pinpoint her days where she is ovulating, and most ... (read in full...)

Do you think I should lie and tell my family that I have a job, or should I just tell them the truth?

Q.   I'm nervous about going to a family party this weekend. I'm unemployed, and my family members have really good jobs, and they seem posh ( i'm not saying that in a bad way ). They live in different parts of the country .I am from a very small town ...

A.   29 March 2012: Just tell them the truth. Everyone knows that the economy is bad now and jobs are hard to find. I doubt anyone will judge you, they are family and love you. Like Honeypie said, maybe somebody could hook you up with a job. And have fun dressing... (read in full...)

Do I tell my best friend I'm pregnant by him?

Q.   i ressonly lost my vaginaty to my best and oldest male freind (we have always been close and tell each other everything) i just found out that im pregnant do i tell him. we was waching dvds at mine drinking a bottle of wine with a takeaway we noram...

A.   29 March 2012: Yes!! Tell him you are pregnant. It is good that it seems like he is excited about being a dad, and hopefully he sticks to it. He should be there for you during your pregnancy and for the child once he/she is born.... (read in full...)

Should I tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when I'm not sure its mine?

Q.   Should i tell my gf that my ex is pregnant when i'm not sure its mine? I have a grIfriend right now, she became my girlfriend in february, when my ex found out that i have a girlfriend, a few days after, she told me that she was 1 month pregnant and ...

A.   28 March 2012: Don't agree to any child support until you get a DNA paternity test after the baby is born. I find it rather odd that your ex told you she is pregnant as soon as she found out you are dating someone else. Sounds like to me that she may be jealous ... (read in full...)

My family will not be happy that I am dating a man from another race

Q.   My friend recently introduced her colleague to me and to my surprise we actually hit off quite well. We've grown very fond of each other but since we both just broke up earlier this year we're taking things slow and getting to know the other party ...

A.   28 March 2012: You have the right to go out with whoever you want to, reguardless of race, ethnicity, culture, etc. If you guys like each other and enjoy each other's company don't let family influences ruin what could be a great relationship. Perhaps after ... (read in full...)

I'm afraid I'll be infertile by the time its right to get married and have kids

Q.   I turned 30 and have been feeling very worried about it. I have a great boyfriend and we have plans to get married but we are having some financial difficulties and cannot right now. He knows I want kids and wants them too but we dont have the ...

A.   28 March 2012: Don't think about it so much. There are women in their early 40's still having kids, so you have plenty of time. My mom was 40 when she had me and 43 when she had my sister and there was nothing wrong with us. The only thing with having kids at an ... (read in full...)

Was I wrong in suggesting that my girlfriend should use botox? She just flipped when I said it

Q.   I know this will make me sound like not a nice person (to some), when in reality I like to think I am decent, and am pretty diplomatic. Thing is, my gf of 3 years is aging badly. I love her to distraction, and that love is more about her lovely...

A.   24 March 2012: You probably hurt her feelings and made her feel uncomfortable and unattractive. Nobody is going to stay young forever and have forever tight skin. Maybe she doesnt have a problem with the way she looks. Does she have a very stressful career? ... (read in full...)

Bf does not pay attention to my breasts...but he does look at those of other women!

Q.   I have a wonderful boyfriend (we have been together for almost a year now.) Our sex life is pretty great except for one thing... I get upset because he doesn't take my top off during sex and doesn't pay attention to my boobs. I admit that i am ...

A.   16 February 2012: I am built just like you, kind of tall, thin and my I have a 32B. I feel self concious about it sometimes, and my fellow collegues joke around with me on how tiny my chest is, how it looks like im still in training bras, etc. I just laugh. But I can ... (read in full...)

If I ejaculate after her menstrual cycle, can she get pregnant?

Q.   if i ejaculate having unprotected sex after her menstrual cycle, will she get pregnant? ...

A.   16 February 2012: I really all depends on the womans menstral cycle and when she ovulates. Generally speaking, (very generally) a woman ovulates on the 14th day of the cycle. The cycle begins on the first day of the menstral period and a period is generally 7 days ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't anyone ever like me?

Q.   Okay so valentines this year has me thinking. I never had a boyfriend ever. The guys I always like never like me they always see me as their bestfriend. I am a smart girl, I'm chubby but I look good, I sing,have a nice personality,nice style I'm ...

A.   16 February 2012: The way I look at it, its not that nobody likes you, its just not your time yet. I strongly believe that serious relationships happen when one is at that particular point in their life where they are able to handle sharing it with someone. Its much ... (read in full...)

Female hygiene question....

Q.   hi a question for the ladies on dc. This is a question on female hygiene. How uncomfortable is it for you the day after a night of sex if you dont have time for a shower in the morning. I bring this up as my partner said she didnt want sex after she ...

A.   16 February 2012: It really all depends on the person's preference. Everybody is different. I don't feel dirty or uncomfortable after sex, and I don't NEED to take a shower post sex. Especially since I always take a shower before bed. But it is important at the very ... (read in full...)

Ladies: did you gain weight using the contraceptive pill? what contraception method results in no weight gain?

Q.   Hiya :) i've got a question about contraception and I was hoping you could help me out! Basically i'm 19, and since starting uni I went on the pill. I was on it once before, but stopped taking it after I broke up with my long term boyfriend, for ...

A.   26 December 2011: How about giving the NuvaRing a try? Its a flexible colorless ring that you insert into your vagina every month and take it out the week of your period. I was on NuvaRing for awhile when I had a longterm boyfriend and it gave me no problems. You ... (read in full...)

Am I too heavy to be a stripper?

Q.   Hello. I know this is a bit off topic but I was recently contemplating becoming an exotic dancer/stripper to make some extra cash but wanted some advice as to what a dancer should ideally look like. I workout about 3x a week running 30 minutes to 1 ...

A.   22 November 2011: There are strippers that are all shapes and sizes because men are attracted to women that are of all shapes and sizes. As long as you are fit and proportioned, there is nothing wrong with your weight. Your weight is much more than how much fat your ... (read in full...)

Is it weird going off to university as a virgin?

Q.   This is going to seem like a bit of an overreaction probably...and it's probably a silly question. I guess I'm feeling a little insecure about being a virgin. I'm only 17 and in my last year of school, but it's starting to look like I'll be hea...

A.   17 November 2011: Its not unusual to go off to college a virgin. In fact, I was a virgin when I went off to college. I lost my virginity in the end of my second year. The guy I lost it to didn't think anything of it, and he wasn't put off by it or thinking it was ... (read in full...)

Ideas for a first date? Would it be too forward to invite her to my apartment to watch a hockey game?

Q.   alright so there is this girl in one of my classes at university and i really want to ask her out. We have gotten to know each other a bit in the 2 1/2 months that we have been in class together, we usually end up sitting next to each other and get ...

A.   11 November 2011: I think inviting her to your place for the first date may be moving a bit too fast. Reguardless of your intentions, it gives off a sexual connotation, something you may want to avoid in the first few dates with a woman. Like the other aunts have ... (read in full...)

I'm paranoid that once he saw me naked he was turned off.

Q.   I met a guy and last night he stayed over for the first time. We had a couple of glasses of wine and we began to get frisky. However, when we got down to business he had a semi erection and couldnt get a full erection all night. Does this mean he ...

A.   11 November 2011: No need to worry. Chances are, it was the alcohol that made it hard for him to get turned on. Consumption of alcohol can affect ones sexual performance to a large degree. So don't let it bother you. Next time you two get together, skip the wine and ... (read in full...)

Any Harry Potter fans out there?

Q.   As a longtime fan, I became curious: If I were a student at Hogwarts, to what house would the Sorting Hat send me? I found this personality test on the internet, and, just for fun, I decided to share it: http://www.per...

A.   25 March 2010: Hey, don't worry, Im a Slytherin too. I think it mainly has to do with my determination and drive towards goals that I want to reach. I am the type of person who looks out for themself and never lets anyone get them down and in the way of thier ... (read in full...)

How to maintain a level of Respect from a Guy

Q.   I am getting to know a guy that requested my friendship online and I am trying to maintain my respect in the process.. what I mean by that is when I gave him my number he replied to my email through text and the reply was kind of on the "fresh" side ...

A.   24 January 2010: I wouldn't respond to his texts when he sends you those "fresh" messages. By doing this, you will send out the message that you are not one of those women who give it up easily. After a few failed attempts to get your attention from these sexual ... (read in full...)

Shes back to stripping, she says she will keep her knickers and ring on,all week I saw her for a few hours on wednesday and thats it! am I being unreasonable...?

Q.   Hi, I want some other peoples on opinion on this as I don't know whether its me being unreasonable or whether I am justified in being upset. I have been going out with a girl a while and we are engaged and we are very much in love. In the pas...

A.   24 January 2010: When two people are in a relationship one shouldn't keep their partner from doing something they want to do, except if it seems to be damaging your relationship, then they need to work out a compromise. This seems to be doing just that. Yes, time... (read in full...)

Men's opinions on this please!

Q.   I would like a male opinion on how the vagina looks with the inside labia bigger than the outside.... Women's opinions are welcome also! PLEASE BE TRUTHFUL!!...

A.   22 December 2009: Yep, I make lemonade out of lemons. :-)... (read in full...)

Men's opinions on this please!

Q.   I would like a male opinion on how the vagina looks with the inside labia bigger than the outside.... Women's opinions are welcome also! PLEASE BE TRUTHFUL!!...

A.   15 December 2009: Hey guys Im back!!! I didn't know my answer would start an entire convo among the aunts. To be quite honest, I was rather surprised! Code Warrior...thank you for your compliments. While I may have been a bit too graphic in my answer, I can defi... (read in full...)

I regret having my son because he ties me to this relationship! Should I leave or am I just bored?

Q.   I have lived with my boyfirend for three years and we have a 2 year old son together. My elder son of 17 also lives with us. I have two grown-up daughters who live away. Although I do still have strong feelings towards my partner I realise we are ...

A.   15 December 2009: The best thing for you to do in this relationship is leave. Its not good for you nor your son. Even though your son is only two years old, he still picks up on the negative cues that you may give off. He may know that you regret having him, just by ... (read in full...)

Men's opinions on this please!

Q.   I would like a male opinion on how the vagina looks with the inside labia bigger than the outside.... Women's opinions are welcome also! PLEASE BE TRUTHFUL!!...

A.   12 December 2009: It is actually completely normal for the inner labia to be slightly larger than the outer labia. Most of the time its not noticable, as the difference in size is really small. Some women's inner labia may be noticably larger than the outer labia and ... (read in full...)

His size is affecting our relationship. What should I do?

Q.   This may not sound as important but it is to me. I dated my former boyfriend for almost 7 months. All was well, especially the sex because he was well endowed. We broke up recently then i met someone else who is incredibly small. He's a great guy ...

A.   3 December 2009: In my opinion, some of the aunts need to stop beating up on the poster about how she really doesn't care for him because he has a smaller penis. People are entitled to have preferences, I don't think its shallow to be a size queen. I am one myself. ... (read in full...)

Do men enjoy giving women oral sex?

Q.   Right then... 'kay. I am sixteen and my bf has just turned 17 and is 11 months older than me, and we are just getting into the whole sex thing, and I was wondering: Do guys actually like going down on girls? because I've got a friend and he said...

A.   13 November 2009: I think your friend may have had a bad experience with someone who wasn't that clean down there or he may be one of those guys who don't like doing it. Just like there are girls who don't like giving a guy oral. If your boyfriend wants to to it wi... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?

Q.   Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...

A.   13 November 2009: Its totally normal and there is nothing wrong with a girl watching porn. I watch porn and masturbate too. I think its good cause allows you to get aroused enough so that you can explore your own body and find more pleasing areas. In some ways, it ... (read in full...)

He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!

Q.   Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...

A.   13 November 2009: You have some options here. You could: a) say no condom, no sex. b) go on birth control pills c) explore other types of birth control methods such as a diaphragm or IUD. Let me tell you that what your boyfriend says about condom use ... (read in full...)

Are breast implants attractive to men?

Q.   I am in great shape and all natural. As women we are inundated with images of women with the perfect breast implants. Women are getting boob jobs all the time. Honestly, to the men out there are breast implants attractive. Do they look fake? ...

A.   31 October 2009: Well like many of the other aunts stated, men like breasts of all sizes, shapes, and looks. The vast majority of them don't care wether they are fake or not. However, they may have preferences in size and shape including whether the boobs are fake ... (read in full...)

On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?

Q.   Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...

A.   31 October 2009: I would like him to ask me.....but in a silent way. That is how it was when my boyfriend kissed me the first time. We actually finished studying together and when he walked me to my car and gave me a hug. Then while we were still holding onto each ... (read in full...)

Is this just a nice way of him breaking up with me?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to break up for now. Here is the deal. We went to the same college for one semester and it was amazing. We did everything together. Then I transfered to a school about 2 hours away and the first semester was hard but it work...

A.   8 September 2009: I think he needs to focus on his school and fraternity, like he said. School is very stressful, especially as you move up in credits and classes as they get significantly harder, especially if he is a science major or med student. He may feel like ... (read in full...)

It burns when I pee

Q.   this passing weekend...i went over to a friend's house.... i had met him before and was very attracted to him, he was very nice to me and everything(this was 3 weeks back) the day before this friday...he told me that he wanted to have sex with ...

A.   8 September 2009: Let me tell you first off that this guy is a 'donkey'-hole. He has no respect for your feelings and is very selfish. He is never going to listen to you and enjoys the power that he has over you when having sex. A very controlling man. You need to ... (read in full...)

Do you know any married men that have managed to stay faithful?

Q.   Do you all know of any married guys who are faithful?...

A.   28 August 2009: I know my dad has been faithful and my uncle as well!!!... (read in full...)

Please tell me to go see a doctor immediately..

Q.   Hey, another probable. This is kinda embaressing. Emmmm, today i have noticed after going to the loo, that the water was all bright red!!! This has never happened before. Lately its been difficult going to the loo. Well not diffficult, more...

A.   28 August 2009: Please see your doctor immediately. Blood while passing stool is not normal. Many medical conditions can cause bloody stool such as hemmorhoids, ulcers, GI tract infections, and even cancer. Take note of your symptoms. Do you have any kind of... (read in full...)

I'd like to hear about women's experience with implants!

Q.   My question is about breast implants and confidence. I have very small breasts which appear very far from one another and no matter what I do they will not grow. Even on birth control they haven't changed in size or fullness and it really affects ...

A.   17 August 2009: If I were you I would not get implants. Yes, they will increase the size of your breats but there are too many downsides to getting them. 1) They are a lot of money. If you want them to look good you have to go to a good surgeon. Surgeons who char... (read in full...)

How many times a month or a year do you feel sick?

Q.   Just a quick question. Not anything to do with relationships but I’ll ask anyway. I would like as many people as possible to answer please. Just in general, how many times a month or how many times a year do you feel sick? Like just not feeling well ...

A.   17 August 2009: As far as being sick with a virus or bacterial infection, I would say less than twice a year. I don't remember the last time I had something as simple as a cold. Not feeling well in general however, depends on the time of year. During the schoo... (read in full...)

How big or not big do ladies like him to be?

Q.   Yes this is a freaky question but I'm in the mood so here it goes, ladies, when it comes to the cut of a penis for you, what's your preference. Yea we got all these topics about "I'm too small" or "I'm too big", but not too much on " what she ...

A.   17 August 2009: Im not too picky on sizes. I am rather petite and I find that a larger penis can be uncomfortable in some positions. I am currently dating someone who is 9 inches and we can't do doggie or have hard sex since it hurts me too much. I like the average ... (read in full...)

Having trouble with my mom, not sure what to do

Q.   Well i need a little advice.My mom is very Bi-Polar(not actually diagnosed).She is always upset about something or shes happy one minute then shes cursing and yelling another.For example:we have a bishon frise(puppy) and he is locked up all day ...

A.   12 August 2009: I know how you feel. I grew up in the same situation. My mom had significant mood swings. One day she would be happy and then the next day she would be in a really bad mood. It was always tough between me and her; I had an eating disorder throughout ... (read in full...)

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