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Am I just jealous of his ex?
Answered by Honeypie + on 27 April 2024.
 Q. A long time FWB had open heart surgery recently. I told him I would help with whatever I could when he gets home as he lives alone. His ex-wife stepped in and started filling up his refrigerator, took care of his cat, and has been there every night ...A. 27 April 2024: You are an FWB, she is an ex-WIFE - big difference.
I get why you feel less important, because you are less important to him. He is #1, the ex wife (because she knows what he likes and how to take care of him, she is familiar) is#2 and you aren... (read in full...)
My ex ended things by attacking me verbally
Answered by Honeypie + on 27 April 2024.
Q. My partner of 4 years just ended things with me, I'm absolutely heartbroken. I thought wee were okay. Yeah wee had problems but always worked through them, he was good with my daughter too. It's not just that he ended it he ended it in the most ...A. 27 April 2024: Now I might be wrong here, but my guess is that he attacked you verbally to get you off balance, so you won't realize that He did something messed up, (like, cheating).
Sometimes the best defense is an offence.
That is my guess, HE either... (read in full...)
No sex drive with ex partner
Answered by Honeypie + on 27 April 2024.
Q. i broke up with my partner of 7 years in february, i did not feel sexually attracted to him anymore we argued all the time i did not even want to kiss him but stayed with him purely as we have two kids. I met someone else just for sex and found my...A. 27 April 2024: You are not attracted to your ex. You are not sexually compatible.
Learn to co-parent the best way you can for your kids.
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My boyfriend showing signs of insecurity or controlling? Title (e.g. My husband is
Answered by Honeypie + on 27 April 2024.
Q. I have known him for about 2 years, between this time we were friends and we grew closer together to the point where we admitted we had feelings for each other. We started dating recently in February this year, however he has shown some signs of ...A. 27 April 2024: I have so many questions..
You write:" I had said to him to not slap my butt in public or anything inappropriate to make people stare."
HAS he ever slapped your but in public or done anything inappropriate to make set that boundary with hi... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?
Answered by anonymous on 27 April 2024.
Q. My 20 year high school reunion is coming up in a few months. I never made any of my reunions (5 year reunion, 10 year reunion, or my 15 year reunion). I was bullied by a few students and most of the students just acted like I didn't exist. T...A. 27 April 2024: The only reason for people to try to get you to those reunions is for their gain, not yours. They are being nosy, or curious, however you wish to put it. They want closure on how you turned out. They aren't thinking of you, they're thinking of ... (read in full...)
My aunt embarrassed me in front of everyone at the wedding & I dread facing everyone now!!
Answered by malvern + on 24 April 2024.
 Q. Basically what happened we all attended a family members wedding last week. After the wedding breakfast and before the evening doo my aunt decided she wanted to go back to my house to freshen up - she left a change of clothes at my house as I...A. 24 April 2024: Your aunt is a bit of a bitch! She has shown you her true colours so at least you now know what kind of a person she really is. The way she behaved says more about her than it does about you and I am sure all your friends were horrified and ... (read in full...)
Torn between wife and lover
Answered by malvern + on 24 April 2024.
Q. Please don’t shoot me down for asking this question as I know I’ve done wrong and am struggling enough as it is. I’m a 52 year old male, married for 30 years. I’ve not been happy for probably 10 years. As the children grew up we both realised we...A. 24 April 2024: I would say move on with your life. You have been unhappy for years. I think your wife is clinging onto financial security and safety since you say you have no life together. Unfortunately you are going to have to sacrifice your current financial ... (read in full...)
Torn between wife and lover
Answered by Tinytina + on 23 April 2024.
Q. Please don’t shoot me down for asking this question as I know I’ve done wrong and am struggling enough as it is. I’m a 52 year old male, married for 30 years. I’ve not been happy for probably 10 years. As the children grew up we both realised we...A. 23 April 2024: You’ve made a life with your wife and family. Sounds like it’s all got a bit mundane for you. You have a new interest and it’s made you feel alive again I.e another woman. You must have had something there with your wife to be together all these ... (read in full...)
Should I just be straight to the point?
Answered by Tinytina + on 23 April 2024.
Q. I have been really struggling with my husband for so long; I no longer know what to do. I have become hopeless however my main concern, despite everything else i.e. I complained of him not being compassionate enough when I am sick...e.g I have been ...A. 23 April 2024: You do seem to have low self esteem. Try to stick up for yourself when someone disrespects you. Your husband doesn’t make it easy for you by telling you to shut up. Tell him to shut up.... (read in full...)
Am so sexually frustrated that it's destroying me in mind, body, and soul.
Answered by Tinytina + on 23 April 2024.
Q. Please give me some advice about how to deal with sexual frustration. I cannot STAND it anymore, I am so sexually frustrated. I have morals, so casual sex is off the table. I need sex so bad that I can't freaking sleep. I am a young woman. ...A. 23 April 2024: Sex isn’t everything. It’s just a part of a loving relationship. Meeting someone who can go through life with you and the ups and downs is more important. ... (read in full...)
Are we able to be friends
Answered by Tinytina + on 23 April 2024.
Q. Are we able to be friends One of the managers at my job I think has a crush and is attracted to me so he keeps me at arms length so to speak. He is not my boss or in the same department as me but sometimes we do work together and since ...A. 23 April 2024: Hi, I’m thinking because in the early days when he showed an interest you told him you wanted to be friends. Maybe he was hoping for more before you said that. Some men are afraid to spell their true intentions out. He might need a little push about ... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?
Answered by Tinytina + on 23 April 2024.
Q. My 20 year high school reunion is coming up in a few months. I never made any of my reunions (5 year reunion, 10 year reunion, or my 15 year reunion). I was bullied by a few students and most of the students just acted like I didn't exist. T...A. 23 April 2024: Hi, no there’s nothing wrong with not going to the reunions. It will only evoke the negative memories you had from the past. Move on with your life and make more positive memories... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?
Answered by anonymous on 23 April 2024.
Q. My 20 year high school reunion is coming up in a few months. I never made any of my reunions (5 year reunion, 10 year reunion, or my 15 year reunion). I was bullied by a few students and most of the students just acted like I didn't exist. T...A. 23 April 2024: No you absolutely do not need to go. If you don't want to, just tell the people reaching out to you on Facebook etc that you are busy that day or that you just don't feel like going.
Having said that, I don't see why you should let the bullies of t... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?
Answered by anonymous on 23 April 2024.
Q. My 20 year high school reunion is coming up in a few months. I never made any of my reunions (5 year reunion, 10 year reunion, or my 15 year reunion). I was bullied by a few students and most of the students just acted like I didn't exist. T...A. 23 April 2024: Not at all ! At least..that's something that never crossed my mind. I didn 't attend any high school reunion . I was not bullied or anything , in fact it was for me a very fun and interesting time of which I have good memories. Just, the few ... (read in full...)
Did I send a mixed message?
Answered by Honeypie + on 23 April 2024.
Q. From what I gather a girl who is someone I know and who is friends with one of my friends told him I like/have a crush on him. I never told her that but since me and this guy were fairly close and people know how I admire him or talk to him I guess ...A. 23 April 2024: Sounds like the "friend of a friend" was thinking she was "helping" you two get together by telling him you had a crush on him.
I have to ask, how old is she? 12?
Maybe tell her to stay out of your business? Tell her to stop ruining your fri... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?
Answered by Honeypie + on 23 April 2024.
Q. My 20 year high school reunion is coming up in a few months. I never made any of my reunions (5 year reunion, 10 year reunion, or my 15 year reunion). I was bullied by a few students and most of the students just acted like I didn't exist. T...A. 23 April 2024: "Is there anything wrong with me skipping my high school reunions?"
Absolutely nothing wrong with that. If you don't want to go, then don't.
"How do I get people to stop trying to convince me to go?"
Just say you have other (and better p... (read in full...)
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