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Have a made a fool of myself with this guy?

Answered by anonymous on 3 March 2024.

Q.   I recently ended things with my partner of 7 years around a month ago, things fizzled out a long time ago as i felt like i loved him but wasn’t in love with him and stayed with him purely for our two young children. I went online and was chatting...

A.   3 March 2024: To be blunt, yes you have. You started speaking to the guy a month ago and have met him once in person, is that right? In which case, he probably saw it as just a one off get together since I presume you offered it up so easily. Whether you m... (read in full...)

My husband buys the worst gifts

Answered by mystiquek + on 3 March 2024.

mystiquek agony auntQ.   It’s my birthday next week and I know my lovely husband has bought me an expensive gift. Unfortunately it’s not something that I want. I know that sounds so very ungrateful and even childish, but he does this every birthday, every an anniversary and ...

A.   3 March 2024: I don't think that most men mean to buy bad gifts its just that they are clueless. Isn't it easier to buy for your girlfriend sister mom than your husband or dad or male friend? Men usually just don't know. I was so lucky..my husband was so ... (read in full...)

Have a made a fool of myself with this guy?

Answered by anonymous on 3 March 2024.

Q.   I recently ended things with my partner of 7 years around a month ago, things fizzled out a long time ago as i felt like i loved him but wasn’t in love with him and stayed with him purely for our two young children. I went online and was chatting...

A.   3 March 2024: You didn't make a fool of yourself but you got attached quickly, which is really annoying from a guy's perspective. You're probably smitten with the "newness" of the situation, attention, compliments, probably overshared and assumed you bonded. You ... (read in full...)

My husband buys the worst gifts

Answered by Honeypie + on 2 March 2024.

Honeypie agony auntQ.   It’s my birthday next week and I know my lovely husband has bought me an expensive gift. Unfortunately it’s not something that I want. I know that sounds so very ungrateful and even childish, but he does this every birthday, every an anniversary and ...

A.   2 March 2024: I think some men are just not great at gift giving and some are. And... some CAN learn. My husband is the latter. You know, he gave me a steam cleaner for my birthday once?! Yep, a steam cleaner... After that I just gave him access to MY Ama... (read in full...)

My husband buys the worst gifts

Answered by Ciar + on 2 March 2024.

Ciar agony auntQ.   It’s my birthday next week and I know my lovely husband has bought me an expensive gift. Unfortunately it’s not something that I want. I know that sounds so very ungrateful and even childish, but he does this every birthday, every an anniversary and ...

A.   2 March 2024: How about suggesting a gift card for a specific shop (such as Amazon)? After this event is over, I mean. ... (read in full...)

How can I make my dream a reality?

Answered by Youcannotbeserious + on 28 February 2024.

Youcannotbeserious agony auntQ.   I know that this will seem like a silly want to others, but there is something I desperately want. Some women want a baby, some Women want a career, some women want a Gucci bag. I love horses and have always dreamed of learning to ride one, an...

A.   28 February 2024: As someone whose life has revolved around animals, especially horses, for around 40 years, I totally "get" your need to have a horse. Yes, I did use the word "need" because, for some, that it what it is, myself included. After losing 4 old horses in ... (read in full...)

How can I make my dream a reality?

Answered by Honeypie + on 28 February 2024.

Honeypie agony auntQ.   I know that this will seem like a silly want to others, but there is something I desperately want. Some women want a baby, some Women want a career, some women want a Gucci bag. I love horses and have always dreamed of learning to ride one, an...

A.   28 February 2024: Find a place that does adult classes for beginners and advanced riders. They do exit. "I’ve been shot down because I’m an adult and I’m “stealing it from a deserving little girl.”" A little girl can still get lessons, you aren't taki... (read in full...)

How can I make my dream a reality?

Answered by kenny + on 28 February 2024.

kenny agony auntQ.   I know that this will seem like a silly want to others, but there is something I desperately want. Some women want a baby, some Women want a career, some women want a Gucci bag. I love horses and have always dreamed of learning to ride one, an...

A.   28 February 2024: I think its important for each and every one of us to have a goal, to have dreams and to know what we want and where we are going. Nothing is going to happen over night but keep your dream with you and around you at all times. Instead of focusing... (read in full...)

Get together that left me feeling excluded

Answered by kenny + on 28 February 2024.

kenny agony auntQ.   Myself and 3 friends went out for dinner saturday night. I don’t drive so when we go out one of them usually picks me up (all 3 of them live quite close by to me) and I always offer to pay towards petrol or buy them a drink so it’s not as if ...

A.   28 February 2024: It seems odd that after 15 years of friendship they are being funny with you and excluding you. It really does seem a minor thing if its all about the driving thing. As you have said you have offered to pay petrol money and buy drinks. If n... (read in full...)

Get together that left me feeling excluded

Answered by Honeypie + on 27 February 2024.

Honeypie agony auntQ.   Myself and 3 friends went out for dinner saturday night. I don’t drive so when we go out one of them usually picks me up (all 3 of them live quite close by to me) and I always offer to pay towards petrol or buy them a drink so it’s not as if ...

A.   27 February 2024: I think they don't see you are a friend they want to keep. I would simply ASK the one you are closest to, what was up and tell her to be honest.. ... (read in full...)

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