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Feelings for ex teacher

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18 June 2024, 52 minutes ago (F - I don’t know where to start :s I guess I’m just curious if anyone else has/is going through the same thing, I’ll try and keep it simple… When I started college I was 16 years old, I was at the same college until I was 21 and graduated. I had...

Parents repeat 2

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18 June 2024 (F - Hi, I’m American and we have an upcoming holiday in July that my MIL will be coming into town. I don't have any issues with my MIL but I do miss my own parents and would love to see them over the holiday weekend. My partner is normally out of ...

Should I be ok with him going away with his mates? Title (e.g.

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11 June 2024 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years, leaving aside that at my age I feel ridiculous referring to him as my boyfriend, he came home from work yesterday and announced that he intends to go away somewhere for the weekend with his friends in ...

Need some advice on dating. Is it my age? lack of experience?

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8 April 2024 (M - I’ve been dealing with a recurring challenge in my quest to find a romantic partner, and I’m seeking some guidance on how to navigate it. To provide some context, I’m a 35-year-old, black male, 5’9, who has never been in a romantic relatio...

Feel like an idiot - married man

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2 April 2024 (F - Two years ago, I started seeing someone from work. He is 20 years my senior and we seemed to get on like a house on fire. Prior to us meeting for lunch, we had met at a work event months before and I seemed to recall him mentioning a fitness class ...

Time to pull the plug or am I being too impatient?

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13 March 2024 (F - Hello all, So after seeing someone for five months, I initiated the "what are we" talk. When we first met we were both on the same page about wanting something long term and committed that would lead to marriage and having children. Wh...

Polyamory vs Cheating - are you in a polyamorous relationship? Will you do it?

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5 March 2024 (F - After several failed relationships or attempts at love, getting involved in emotional cheating, physical cheating (no sex just a kiss on the lips), I ended up with a conclusion that all these are rooted to lack of honesty in a relationship. And ...

Am I important to him still? Does he still care for me or is he just stringing me along?

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5 March 2024 (F - Everything was going so well, we had a plan. But then I made a mistake, a very immature mistake, that led him to back out of what we we're starting. His words "I won't pursue you romantically anymore. Let's just be friends. You have some growing up ...

Friend had long term affair...what do I do with this information!? Title (e.g. My husband

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25 February 2024 (F - Hi, I have a dilemma... I was contacted 48 hrs ago by a guy that I used to work with regarding a sensitive subject... My good (female) friend and him were always close in work and used to be friendly out side of work. Many people would comment on...

Should I ask this person is they have copies of our emails?

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24 February 2024 (F - Should I send the email and ask for such a favour? So, many many years ago(over 10) I met someone with whom I just clicked. We ended up having,very very briefly an online relationship, but that didn't come into fruition, we never actually got to ...

Fear of buttons

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19 January 2024 (F - i have a unusal phobia it is the fear of buttons,l please let me explain, i do dont believe the buttons can harm me in any way, its just the sight of them make me feel sick, i have been told that it effects around one in 20.000 people, weel anyway ...

Bastard dear Cupid

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19 January 2024 (F - Bastard dear Cupid just read the private messages and emails I have sent you. I will take a legal action against you for posting things without our permission ...

Should I try again with my cousin?

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12 January 2024 (M - i asked sex from my cousin but she refused en threatened evn to report me. I apologised en let her be. We dont talk as we used bt she shows mixed signals like one time when she made me feel her p*ssy. Should i strike again?...

Rf wont stop

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10 January 2024 (F - A couple of weeks before we broke up for the christmas school holidays i got an after school detention as a punishment for messing around in class, as i am normally a good girl and this is my first detention i didnt know what to expect, we finish ...

My mom is dating a woman

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9 January 2024 (M - My mom is dating a woman! What should I do? My mom just introduced me to her "girlfriend" and I'm just not comfortable with the situation. That was a total shock and I'm still trying to process it. My mom said she would move in with us. My youn...

How do I get rid of the feelings that I have

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9 January 2024 (M - You guys helped me out a lot with my last problem. I was getting ghosted a bunch and kinda had to accept I wasn’t very datable. (quick recap: 35, lives back at home, works at a comic store, wanted to be a comic book artist, never had a girlfriend, ...

Horny brother in law

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8 January 2024 (M - I have the hots for my younger sister in law, what can I do?...

Dating problems

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4 January 2024 (M - Do you think it’s transphobic if i don’t date a trans woman? I met this nice girl at a club on New Year’s Eve and we had a nice chat. When I got back and when we were making out I discovered she was trans. I stopped and told her this wouldn’t work. ...

I don't know how to handle or trust manipulative friend

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20 December 2023 (F - So I'm not in a relationship nor have I been or want to be with the guy in question. We are friends nothing more, although I think he wouldn't say no if I asked him to be my bf. We've known each other for years but lost touch for ages, started ha...

RF JK fight with sister

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14 December 2023 (F - please help, i just want advice from adults or teenagers, last monday i had a massive row with my sister she is 19 and i am 16, she made me very angry and i wanted to do everything i could to make her suffer, well when she went to the bathroom i ...

Is he gay and why would he lead me on for three years?

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23 October 2023 (F - I have been talking online long distance to man for over 3 years now (was supposed to see him this past summer but my plans changed) and thought we had chemistry and all but......... I've just learned that while he was in Spain recently he was ...

Just friends or more than friends?

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8 October 2023 (F - I don't know if my best friend likes me or if that's just his personality. We've only known each other for a year and a bit, but already we're so much closer than any guy friends I have ever had. He is very protective/defensive of me, especially ...

My boyfriend abused me and now I'm pregnant but I don't want to be a mother to his baby.

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25 September 2023 (F - Please don't make me feel worse, I'll probably get lectured by some aunts but I need your prayer and your advice. Disclaimer, there is some very intense stuff I'm going to discuss, please don't judge. I just found out I'm pregnant for the third time ...

I don't understand what happened

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25 September 2023 (F - Prior to the start of our relationship, we made an agreement. I wanted to become a mother with the right partner, and he agreed to take on that responsibility. In return, I promised to be good to his three daughters and accept that his ex-wife would ...

Split after 10 years and IVF

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24 September 2023 (F - Hi everyone! Me and my boyfriend of 10 years split last weekend. He has been off with me for a couple of weeks but I just thought he was struggling with stress being back at work and being a teacher. There is a lot of back story to this.. we’ve ...

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Parents repeat 1

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18 June 2024 (F - Hi, I’m American and we have an upcoming holiday in July that my MIL will be coming into town. I don't have any issues with my MIL but I do miss my own parents and would love to see them over the holiday weekend. My partner is normally out of ...

Is it ok to leave him with his mom while I visit my own family?

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16 June 2024 (F - Hi, I’m American and we have an upcoming holiday in July that my MIL will be coming into town. I don't have any issues with my MIL but I do miss my own parents and would love to see them over the holiday weekend. My partner is normally out of ...

I need dating advice am unsure how to navigate

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17 May 2024 (M - NOTE: This has been posted before. Apparently poster didn't get responses or would like advice not given before. I’ve been dealing with a recurring challenge in my quest to find a romantic partner, and I’m seeking some guidance on how to navigate...

My boyfriend showing signs of insecurity or controlling? Title (e.g. My husband is

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25 April 2024 (F - I have known him for about 2 years, between this time we were friends and we grew closer together to the point where we admitted we had feelings for each other. We started dating recently in February this year, however he has shown some signs of ...

Overbearing mother and partner getting on my nerves

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3 April 2024 (F - Hi this is not a relationship problem but a family problem I am nearly 40 years old with 2 sons the problem is my mother wont leave me alone I lost my dad 3 years ago she wasn’t there for me or my sisters when we lost him they had been split up 16 ...

I lost my best friend because of her jealous fiance

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3 April 2024 (M - I'm a male and my best friend is female. She's a tomboy who likes engineering, ships, planes, building models of those, so most of her friends in the past have been male. I'm happily married for 18 years, I love my wife and would never do anything ...

How can my children respect me when my husband over rules me?

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25 February 2024 (F - Hello People, I'm just wondering what I could be missing here. My husband and I managed to find some time to go out thanks to the family helping out to look after our three boys so we could go places and clubbing with my visiting cousin las...

We had a falling out but I would like him to be at my wedding

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4 February 2024 (M - I have (or should I say had) a friend that I’ve known since I went to college. He very much suits himself and doesn’t seem to own up to responsibilities when he messes up and because of this we’ve fell out quite a lot over the years. I have always ...

Guy friend does not trust me around his friends?

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10 January 2024 (F - My guy friend and I got into a heated argument at the start of last year, where we were not speaking to each other. The generally argument was about his and my behaviour, where I thought he never really cared about me as a person. And he thought ...

How to reframe my mind for healthy dating after toxic past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 177 days ago

22 December 2023 (F - So if you see my previous posts I was in what I now consider a toxic relationship for almost 2 years. I will spare the details but I essentially felt used, discarded, and led-on by my ex-boyfriend who I considered to be a pretty nice guy. I'm not ...

There are rumours at work that I fancy my female co-worker

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4 December 2023 (F - I thought I befriended a female coworker. I am also female and we work in a school. I admired her because we were similar in age, family background, and she is in a position I hope to eventually be in. I initially did not like her but then liked her ...

I don't want to raise a lost child

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19 November 2023 (F - I have two children with my ex husband ..we live in the same house….My ex husband still has feeling for me …2 years back I started seeing someone and I become pregnant …..when I informed my ex …he was okay for me to stay in the house and give birth ...

Should I go with my own flow in regard to relationships and friendships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 214 days ago

18 November 2023 (F - This is not really romantic relationship advice, but more friendship and life advice I am seeking. I usually come here if I need some real wisdom or advice. I always find myself in situations where I will do much more to hang out with someone or ...

Was she feet flirting with me on the plane?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 202 days ago

24 October 2023 (M - Was she feet flirting with me on the plane? This might be a stupid question to many of you but its been killing me. I was on the plane last week. I was sitting in aisle seat. I had a nice suit on. The middle seat was vacant and there was this b...

Pregnant again! How do I tell my parets?

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10 October 2023 (F - When I was 16 my high school boyfriend and I had a baby. Our parents were very supportive from day 1 and really helped us out a ton. Five months ago my boyfriend and I broke up and I didn’t take my birth control because I wasn’t planning on dating ...

Is it too late to learn basic social skills?

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8 October 2023 (F - I'm 24 and I feel like I've never learned social skills. Ironically, I was raises in a family where they were very strict, religious, big on manners and respect. For example, even if we were eating at a picnic with plastic silverware and paper ...

How to deal with a jealous friend when our husbands work together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 260 days ago

1 October 2023 (F - A couple of years ago I met the wife of one of my husbands colleagues and we hit it off and started hanging around with each other- drinks, cinema, dinner etc…. Unfortunately she seems a little jealous of the fact that I hang out with other f...

How do I handle working with someone like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

11 September 2023 (F - Hello! I have a bit of a work issue right now I’d love some advice on. I’m a creative and work on a few different brands in my job which has a set number of people working on each of them and whilst I lead on the brands, I have someone with ...

Interfering MIL and husband does not step in

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31 August 2023 (F - Sensitive topic as I know it's controversial and I have family on this group. I would really appreciate it if it can be kept anon as it's something I've struggled with my whole life. My MIL is really interfering with the way I'm bringing up my c...

Since I had the baby I've lost interest in sex

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17 August 2023 (F - I have a 15 month old with my partner,our first child together. I absolutely love being a mum and love seeing our son with my partner but our intimacy and sex life has drastically changed. Obviously I knew that it would change but it's both a ...

I think coworker has been sexually abused

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13 August 2023 (F - Trigger warning, sexual abuse. I don't know if this is the right place for this question, but this I don't know where to go for resources or advice for this. I work in the fast food industry, and I work with a lot of teenagers, but we also g...

Dad ruined my life before I got a chance to start high school

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1 August 2023 (F - My parents completely ruined my life and it's not even school yet. There were some kids I'm going to high school with who were going to have a party and somehow my parents heard about it. I did too but I didn't tell them. I wasn't invited anyway and ...

Boss repeat

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30 July 2023 (M - Me late 40s. My boss is a lady younger than me but much senior in role. We both were traveling in car for business trip. I was on wheels and she was in back seat. Suddenly, she was talking on phone in chivalrous tone briefly explaining purpose of ...

What is the deal with boss's conversation where I can hear?

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29 July 2023 (M - Me late 40s. My boss is a lady younger than me but much senior in role. We both were traveling in car for business trip. I was on wheels and she was in back seat. Suddenly, she was talking on phone in chivalrous tone briefly explaining purpose of ...

Do I have to choose between my brother or his ex wife for the sake of my neice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 326 days ago

28 July 2023 (F - Great site...I do come on here sometimes and get good advice. My niece is an actor here in Canada. Somewhere along the way she became addicted to fentanyl. To make matters worse she is based in Vancouver and for awhile she was out on East Hastings...

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