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Friend temporarily staying with me is costing me money and she isn't considerate

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3 March 2024, 2 hours ago (F - My friend is living with me temporarily until her apartment is ready. She went through a break up last year so had to sell her house and needed somewhere to stay until her new living place is ready. She’s been with me 2 weeks and it will pos...

Friend had long term affair...what do I do with this information!? Title (e.g. My husband

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25 February 2024 (F - Hi, I have a dilemma... I was contacted 48 hrs ago by a guy that I used to work with regarding a sensitive subject... My good (female) friend and him were always close in work and used to be friendly out side of work. Many people would comment on...

Should I ask this person is they have copies of our emails?

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24 February 2024 (F - Should I send the email and ask for such a favour? So, many many years ago(over 10) I met someone with whom I just clicked. We ended up having,very very briefly an online relationship, but that didn't come into fruition, we never actually got to ...

Fear of buttons

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19 January 2024 (F - i have a unusal phobia it is the fear of buttons,l please let me explain, i do dont believe the buttons can harm me in any way, its just the sight of them make me feel sick, i have been told that it effects around one in 20.000 people, weel anyway ...

Bastard dear Cupid

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19 January 2024 (F - Bastard dear Cupid just read the private messages and emails I have sent you. I will take a legal action against you for posting things without our permission ...

Should I try again with my cousin?

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12 January 2024 (M - i asked sex from my cousin but she refused en threatened evn to report me. I apologised en let her be. We dont talk as we used bt she shows mixed signals like one time when she made me feel her p*ssy. Should i strike again?...

Rf wont stop

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10 January 2024 (F - A couple of weeks before we broke up for the christmas school holidays i got an after school detention as a punishment for messing around in class, as i am normally a good girl and this is my first detention i didnt know what to expect, we finish ...

Guy friend does not trust me around his friends?

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10 January 2024 (F - My guy friend and I got into a heated argument at the start of last year, where we were not speaking to each other. The generally argument was about his and my behaviour, where I thought he never really cared about me as a person. And he thought ...

My mom is dating a woman

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9 January 2024 (M - My mom is dating a woman! What should I do? My mom just introduced me to her "girlfriend" and I'm just not comfortable with the situation. That was a total shock and I'm still trying to process it. My mom said she would move in with us. My youn...

How do I get rid of the feelings that I have

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9 January 2024 (M - You guys helped me out a lot with my last problem. I was getting ghosted a bunch and kinda had to accept I wasn’t very datable. (quick recap: 35, lives back at home, works at a comic store, wanted to be a comic book artist, never had a girlfriend, ...

Horny brother in law

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8 January 2024 (M - I have the hots for my younger sister in law, what can I do?...

Dating problems

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4 January 2024 (M - Do you think it’s transphobic if i don’t date a trans woman? I met this nice girl at a club on New Year’s Eve and we had a nice chat. When I got back and when we were making out I discovered she was trans. I stopped and told her this wouldn’t work. ...

I don't know how to handle or trust manipulative friend

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20 December 2023 (F - So I'm not in a relationship nor have I been or want to be with the guy in question. We are friends nothing more, although I think he wouldn't say no if I asked him to be my bf. We've known each other for years but lost touch for ages, started ha...

RF JK fight with sister

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14 December 2023 (F - please help, i just want advice from adults or teenagers, last monday i had a massive row with my sister she is 19 and i am 16, she made me very angry and i wanted to do everything i could to make her suffer, well when she went to the bathroom i ...

Is he gay and why would he lead me on for three years?

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23 October 2023 (F - I have been talking online long distance to man for over 3 years now (was supposed to see him this past summer but my plans changed) and thought we had chemistry and all but......... I've just learned that while he was in Spain recently he was ...

Just friends or more than friends?

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8 October 2023 (F - I don't know if my best friend likes me or if that's just his personality. We've only known each other for a year and a bit, but already we're so much closer than any guy friends I have ever had. He is very protective/defensive of me, especially ...

My boyfriend abused me and now I'm pregnant but I don't want to be a mother to his baby.

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25 September 2023 (F - Please don't make me feel worse, I'll probably get lectured by some aunts but I need your prayer and your advice. Disclaimer, there is some very intense stuff I'm going to discuss, please don't judge. I just found out I'm pregnant for the third time ...

I don't understand what happened

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25 September 2023 (F - Prior to the start of our relationship, we made an agreement. I wanted to become a mother with the right partner, and he agreed to take on that responsibility. In return, I promised to be good to his three daughters and accept that his ex-wife would ...

Split after 10 years and IVF

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24 September 2023 (F - Hi everyone! Me and my boyfriend of 10 years split last weekend. He has been off with me for a couple of weeks but I just thought he was struggling with stress being back at work and being a teacher. There is a lot of back story to this.. we’ve ...

Sister In law has caused problem with our rent

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13 September 2023 (F - Hello: My husbands oldest sister who s his power of attorney he is disabled she has went and not paid our rent and owes money to the housing authority we got a letter on Monday I called her left a message. She called yesterday mornin...

Dealing with a new partners sexual experience

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2 September 2023 (M - For those sensitive to sexuality, the following does contain some - I do believe modest - references ot sexual activity as they are at the root of what currently drives me into madness. I started a relationship a little over a month ago. I had...

Ruined repeat

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1 August 2023 (F - My parents completely ruined my life and it's not even school yet. There were some kids I'm going to high school with who were going to have a party and somehow my parents heard about it. I did too but I didn't tell them. I wasn't invited anyway and ...

Friend rejected me when I said I loved them but now acting very touchy feely

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31 July 2023 (F - I'm in a pretty painful situation with a best friend and I would love advice or an unbiased opinion. We have been very good friends for many years, almost a decade. My romantic feelings only developed in the last several months, and were quite a...

Slept with my ex and now he’s distant

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30 July 2023 (F - I’m so confused right now. My ex Dan who’s 33 and I have been over for a year. The relationship only lasted 15 months but the connection between us was incredible. Dan has a lot of personal issues he’s been through so much in his life and was ...

Boyfriends relationship with his full blood sister

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22 July 2023 (F - My boyfriend has only one full blood sister (4 years older than him) after his younger sister died 10 years ago in her twenties. I didn’t know her, as we have only been together for 6 years. I know all families are different, but I’ve noti...

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How can my children respect me when my husband over rules me?

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25 February 2024 (F - Hello People, I'm just wondering what I could be missing here. My husband and I managed to find some time to go out thanks to the family helping out to look after our three boys so we could go places and clubbing with my visiting cousin las...

We had a falling out but I would like him to be at my wedding

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4 February 2024 (M - I have (or should I say had) a friend that I’ve known since I went to college. He very much suits himself and doesn’t seem to own up to responsibilities when he messes up and because of this we’ve fell out quite a lot over the years. I have always ...

How to reframe my mind for healthy dating after toxic past

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22 December 2023 (F - So if you see my previous posts I was in what I now consider a toxic relationship for almost 2 years. I will spare the details but I essentially felt used, discarded, and led-on by my ex-boyfriend who I considered to be a pretty nice guy. I'm not ...

There are rumours at work that I fancy my female co-worker

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4 December 2023 (F - I thought I befriended a female coworker. I am also female and we work in a school. I admired her because we were similar in age, family background, and she is in a position I hope to eventually be in. I initially did not like her but then liked her ...

I don't want to raise a lost child

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19 November 2023 (F - I have two children with my ex husband ..we live in the same house….My ex husband still has feeling for me …2 years back I started seeing someone and I become pregnant …..when I informed my ex …he was okay for me to stay in the house and give birth ...

Should I go with my own flow in regard to relationships and friendships?

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18 November 2023 (F - This is not really romantic relationship advice, but more friendship and life advice I am seeking. I usually come here if I need some real wisdom or advice. I always find myself in situations where I will do much more to hang out with someone or ...

Was she feet flirting with me on the plane?

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24 October 2023 (M - Was she feet flirting with me on the plane? This might be a stupid question to many of you but its been killing me. I was on the plane last week. I was sitting in aisle seat. I had a nice suit on. The middle seat was vacant and there was this b...

Pregnant again! How do I tell my parets?

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10 October 2023 (F - When I was 16 my high school boyfriend and I had a baby. Our parents were very supportive from day 1 and really helped us out a ton. Five months ago my boyfriend and I broke up and I didn’t take my birth control because I wasn’t planning on dating ...

Is it too late to learn basic social skills?

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8 October 2023 (F - I'm 24 and I feel like I've never learned social skills. Ironically, I was raises in a family where they were very strict, religious, big on manners and respect. For example, even if we were eating at a picnic with plastic silverware and paper ...

How to deal with a jealous friend when our husbands work together?

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1 October 2023 (F - A couple of years ago I met the wife of one of my husbands colleagues and we hit it off and started hanging around with each other- drinks, cinema, dinner etc…. Unfortunately she seems a little jealous of the fact that I hang out with other f...

How do I handle working with someone like this?

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11 September 2023 (F - Hello! I have a bit of a work issue right now I’d love some advice on. I’m a creative and work on a few different brands in my job which has a set number of people working on each of them and whilst I lead on the brands, I have someone with ...

Interfering MIL and husband does not step in

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31 August 2023 (F - Sensitive topic as I know it's controversial and I have family on this group. I would really appreciate it if it can be kept anon as it's something I've struggled with my whole life. My MIL is really interfering with the way I'm bringing up my c...

Since I had the baby I've lost interest in sex

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17 August 2023 (F - I have a 15 month old with my partner,our first child together. I absolutely love being a mum and love seeing our son with my partner but our intimacy and sex life has drastically changed. Obviously I knew that it would change but it's both a ...

I think coworker has been sexually abused

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13 August 2023 (F - Trigger warning, sexual abuse. I don't know if this is the right place for this question, but this I don't know where to go for resources or advice for this. I work in the fast food industry, and I work with a lot of teenagers, but we also g...

Dad ruined my life before I got a chance to start high school

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1 August 2023 (F - My parents completely ruined my life and it's not even school yet. There were some kids I'm going to high school with who were going to have a party and somehow my parents heard about it. I did too but I didn't tell them. I wasn't invited anyway and ...

Boss repeat

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30 July 2023 (M - Me late 40s. My boss is a lady younger than me but much senior in role. We both were traveling in car for business trip. I was on wheels and she was in back seat. Suddenly, she was talking on phone in chivalrous tone briefly explaining purpose of ...

What is the deal with boss's conversation where I can hear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 216 days ago

29 July 2023 (M - Me late 40s. My boss is a lady younger than me but much senior in role. We both were traveling in car for business trip. I was on wheels and she was in back seat. Suddenly, she was talking on phone in chivalrous tone briefly explaining purpose of ...

Do I have to choose between my brother or his ex wife for the sake of my neice?

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28 July 2023 (F - Great site...I do come on here sometimes and get good advice. My niece is an actor here in Canada. Somewhere along the way she became addicted to fentanyl. To make matters worse she is based in Vancouver and for awhile she was out on East Hastings...

Friendless because I hate sexuality

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21 July 2023 (F - I have been experienceing something all my life that is making me increasingly frustrated and angry It's people who assume single people are miserable and lonely. Well, I AM lonely and always have been but it's not bc I'm single - it's because I ...

Does he like me more than friends?

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7 July 2023 (F - I am really bad at picking up signs if a guy likes me. This guy we meet up monthly for a gaming community event with friends, and this is how we met. We mostly talk online because there is a 2-3 hour drive between us. I know it would be better taken ...

Do you think she felt put on the spot?

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18 June 2023 (F - My friend has been single for awhile. The other day I sent her pictures of me getting ready to go out with a friend and it is not a date. I told her before that this summer I was taking a break and focusing on not dating and being single so I think ...

I think I'm experiencing a mid -life crisis

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17 June 2023 (F - Hello all agony aunts and uncles- it’s been a while! I am once again asking for your experience and insight, and as always, it is greatly appreciated. Me and my fiancé have been together 13 years. Throughout this time, I’ve always been very confiden...

My Crush Like's My Twin Sister

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15 June 2023 (F - Okay, I have had a crush on my friends brother who is my age (His sister is a year younger) but, I have had a crush on him for five years...WAY before I even knew he had a sister. He has shown some signs of liking me like looking at me a lot and ...

Cant move forward in relationship

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12 June 2023 (F - I have been texting a girl from school and we have been doing so for months. She is more popular than me and lots of people care for her. She is very nice, etc. Over time through texting we have shared personal things with each other. I am also a ...

Fighting for a terrible job

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6 June 2023 (F - Hi! I would appreciate some help to prepare for a yearly evaluation at work. First of all, let me give you some facts: - I have a very bad contract. It's pure exploitation. Being a foreigner and a woman at that doesn't leave me a lot of choice...

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