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My boyfriend abused me and now I'm pregnant but I don't want to be a mother to his baby.

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25 September 2023 (F - Please don't make me feel worse, I'll probably get lectured by some aunts but I need your prayer and your advice. Disclaimer, there is some very intense stuff I'm going to discuss, please don't judge. I just found out I'm pregnant for the third time ...

I don't understand what happened

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25 September 2023 (F - Prior to the start of our relationship, we made an agreement. I wanted to become a mother with the right partner, and he agreed to take on that responsibility. In return, I promised to be good to his three daughters and accept that his ex-wife would ...

Split after 10 years and IVF

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24 September 2023 (F - Hi everyone! Me and my boyfriend of 10 years split last weekend. He has been off with me for a couple of weeks but I just thought he was struggling with stress being back at work and being a teacher. There is a lot of back story to this.. we’ve ...

Sister In law has caused problem with our rent

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13 September 2023 (F - Hello: My husbands oldest sister who s his power of attorney he is disabled she has went and not paid our rent and owes money to the housing authority we got a letter on Monday I called her left a message. She called yesterday mornin...

Dealing with a new partners sexual experience

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2 September 2023 (M - For those sensitive to sexuality, the following does contain some - I do believe modest - references ot sexual activity as they are at the root of what currently drives me into madness. I started a relationship a little over a month ago. I had...

Ruined repeat

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1 August 2023 (F - My parents completely ruined my life and it's not even school yet. There were some kids I'm going to high school with who were going to have a party and somehow my parents heard about it. I did too but I didn't tell them. I wasn't invited anyway and ...

Friend rejected me when I said I loved them but now acting very touchy feely

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31 July 2023 (F - I'm in a pretty painful situation with a best friend and I would love advice or an unbiased opinion. We have been very good friends for many years, almost a decade. My romantic feelings only developed in the last several months, and were quite a...

Slept with my ex and now he’s distant

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30 July 2023 (F - I’m so confused right now. My ex Dan who’s 33 and I have been over for a year. The relationship only lasted 15 months but the connection between us was incredible. Dan has a lot of personal issues he’s been through so much in his life and was ...

Boyfriends relationship with his full blood sister

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22 July 2023 (F - My boyfriend has only one full blood sister (4 years older than him) after his younger sister died 10 years ago in her twenties. I didn’t know her, as we have only been together for 6 years. I know all families are different, but I’ve noti...

Friend has a drug substance dependency.

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20 July 2023 (M - Dear Agony aunts and uncles, I live in a city where I suspect there is a high proportion of mental health issues and substance abuse (Berlin). I think this is linked to it being a city that is very creative and also very queer-friendly. These two ...

Is it ok to go to the dr when I feel sort of sick rather than waiting till I am extremely sick?

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10 July 2023 (M - I am getting over a case of bronchitis (I am still coughing and I am having problems falling asleep at night but I feel like I am recovering from it). One of the mistakes that I made is waiting too long to go to my doctor to get checked out. I ...

Friend that cut me off keeps texting me even though I haven't responded in a year. How do I get her to leave me alone?

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5 July 2023 (F - Someone I had considered a really good friend cut me off because she didn't agree with one of the decisions I was making (September 2021). We were coworkers at our previous employer. She questioned my judgement because she didn't agree with it, and ...

Does she want more? Friendly and flirty

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2 July 2023 (M - Dear Agony Aunts, It’s been over a year since I got out of a toxic relationship, and as I want to move forward with my life, I am willing to give love another chance. At my workplace, I have met with a very friendly Africain American girl,...

I don't know why he would want to date me

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29 June 2023 (F - I met this guy through mutual friends. His friend is marrying my friend. He's not my type physically, but I'm his type. We've met up a couple time and text occasionally. We also both coincidentally work at the same company (but in different ...

Do women hate being told " not to be shy"?

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16 June 2023 (F - just started dating girl that I really like who is 32. She is a naturally a shy person. We talked in my car and I offered her some of my snacks. She took few and I told her to take more and not to be shy. She said she watches her weight I gave he...

I want to change my sponsor

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15 June 2023 (F - I have a lot of things I've been wrestling with, faith is one of them. I understand that not everyone has the same faith and the good thing about having a variety of places of worship and freedom of religion here in the US is that there's something ...

Egocentricism: when it feels too good to be true... it probably indeed is.

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9 June 2023 (M - A female 'friend' whom I lost touch with 33 years ago recently responded to a 3 year old post of mine on our elementary school page where I was asking others to remind me what her first name had been. What we had in common was that we were ...

Am I being a brat or am I right to feel the way I do?

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4 June 2023 (F - For many years I have been very anxious and depressed regarding my mothers behaviour. I have spoken to psychologists about it and they say I should focus on trying to get to where I need to be and move out so I do not feel the way I do. I went back ...

Is my mum being mean by not getting me out of a saturday detention ?

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2 June 2023 (F - tomorrow i have a 5 hour saturday detention,this is my punishment for skipping a normal 1 hour 30 min detention we have to be in school at 8am in full school uniform, white shirt black skirt black blazer and a tie, we will have to sit at our desks ...

My sister-in-law's toxic drama is getting extremely difficult to bear

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20 May 2023 (F - Hi and thanks, So, my sister in law is pretty annoying. I try hard to avoid her and bite my tongue always. However, it's gotten extremely difficult. We have children the same age and they're now 29 and she's been always competitive si...

Long delay in reply to texts

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19 May 2023 (M - I ran into an old friend I knew when she was married. She is now divorced for a few years. We went on a hike with a group and hit it off. I never got her number but she asked a mutual friend to give me her number. so I contacted her after a few ...

Girlfriends mom won't move out, and I don't want to move in

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17 May 2023 (F - My girlfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and the plan had always been for me to move in with her after I graduated. About a year ago, due to some hardship, her mom moved in with her on what was supposed to be a temporary basis... A ...

I want to seduce my male cousin

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7 May 2023 (F - I am a 36 year old female and my cousin is 38 male. I have wanted to fool around with him sexually since we were kids and it just never happened bc we didn’t spend enough time together. He’s staying at my house without his wife for a death in the ...

FWB 2 repeat

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7 May 2023 (F - Hey there! So I used to be friends with benefits with this guy about a year ago but then I started to catch feelings for him and somehow we drifted apart. Now, months later, we ran into each and started keeping in touch again. He is still very ...

Cousin sex repeat

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27 April 2023 (F - I am a 36 year old female and my cousin is 38 male. I have wanted to fool around with him sexually since we were kids and it just never happened bc we didn’t spend enough time together. He’s staying at my house without his wife for a death in the ...

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How do I handle working with someone like this?

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11 September 2023 (F - Hello! I have a bit of a work issue right now I’d love some advice on. I’m a creative and work on a few different brands in my job which has a set number of people working on each of them and whilst I lead on the brands, I have someone with ...

Interfering MIL and husband does not step in

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31 August 2023 (F - Sensitive topic as I know it's controversial and I have family on this group. I would really appreciate it if it can be kept anon as it's something I've struggled with my whole life. My MIL is really interfering with the way I'm bringing up my c...

Since I had the baby I've lost interest in sex

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17 August 2023 (F - I have a 15 month old with my partner,our first child together. I absolutely love being a mum and love seeing our son with my partner but our intimacy and sex life has drastically changed. Obviously I knew that it would change but it's both a ...

I think coworker has been sexually abused

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13 August 2023 (F - Trigger warning, sexual abuse. I don't know if this is the right place for this question, but this I don't know where to go for resources or advice for this. I work in the fast food industry, and I work with a lot of teenagers, but we also g...

Dad ruined my life before I got a chance to start high school

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 55 days ago

1 August 2023 (F - My parents completely ruined my life and it's not even school yet. There were some kids I'm going to high school with who were going to have a party and somehow my parents heard about it. I did too but I didn't tell them. I wasn't invited anyway and ...

Boss repeat

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 56 days ago

30 July 2023 (M - Me late 40s. My boss is a lady younger than me but much senior in role. We both were traveling in car for business trip. I was on wheels and she was in back seat. Suddenly, she was talking on phone in chivalrous tone briefly explaining purpose of ...

What is the deal with boss's conversation where I can hear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 57 days ago

29 July 2023 (M - Me late 40s. My boss is a lady younger than me but much senior in role. We both were traveling in car for business trip. I was on wheels and she was in back seat. Suddenly, she was talking on phone in chivalrous tone briefly explaining purpose of ...

Do I have to choose between my brother or his ex wife for the sake of my neice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 60 days ago

28 July 2023 (F - Great site...I do come on here sometimes and get good advice. My niece is an actor here in Canada. Somewhere along the way she became addicted to fentanyl. To make matters worse she is based in Vancouver and for awhile she was out on East Hastings...

Friendless because I hate sexuality

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 65 days ago

21 July 2023 (F - I have been experienceing something all my life that is making me increasingly frustrated and angry It's people who assume single people are miserable and lonely. Well, I AM lonely and always have been but it's not bc I'm single - it's because I ...

Does he like me more than friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 80 days ago

7 July 2023 (F - I am really bad at picking up signs if a guy likes me. This guy we meet up monthly for a gaming community event with friends, and this is how we met. We mostly talk online because there is a 2-3 hour drive between us. I know it would be better taken ...

Do you think she felt put on the spot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 100 days ago

18 June 2023 (F - My friend has been single for awhile. The other day I sent her pictures of me getting ready to go out with a friend and it is not a date. I told her before that this summer I was taking a break and focusing on not dating and being single so I think ...

I think I'm experiencing a mid -life crisis

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 100 days ago

17 June 2023 (F - Hello all agony aunts and uncles- it’s been a while! I am once again asking for your experience and insight, and as always, it is greatly appreciated. Me and my fiancé have been together 13 years. Throughout this time, I’ve always been very confiden...

My Crush Like's My Twin Sister

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 97 days ago

15 June 2023 (F - Okay, I have had a crush on my friends brother who is my age (His sister is a year younger) but, I have had a crush on him for five years...WAY before I even knew he had a sister. He has shown some signs of liking me like looking at me a lot and ...

Cant move forward in relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 105 days ago

12 June 2023 (F - I have been texting a girl from school and we have been doing so for months. She is more popular than me and lots of people care for her. She is very nice, etc. Over time through texting we have shared personal things with each other. I am also a ...

Fighting for a terrible job

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 110 days ago

6 June 2023 (F - Hi! I would appreciate some help to prepare for a yearly evaluation at work. First of all, let me give you some facts: - I have a very bad contract. It's pure exploitation. Being a foreigner and a woman at that doesn't leave me a lot of choice...

I do not like the way my girlfriend just took off and I found her dancing with a guy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 114 days ago

31 May 2023 (M - Hi all, was celebrating a birthday on the weekend, I had my GF's bestfriends fella in my ear all night asking for advice, by the sounds of it his relationship isn't that great, and my GF had the same with her best mate, very annoying, how ever ...

Mother in laws inappropriate comments make me uncomfortable

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 82 days ago

23 May 2023 (M - My mother in law is 80 years old and has some cognitive decline. Doctors say it is early stages of Alzheimer’s. She has two daughters (one of them my wife) but they don’t take great care of her because they say she was a bad mom, verbally abusive,...

Long distant lies

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 127 days ago

22 May 2023 (F - Hi all. So my partner of 7 yrs has moved abroad for work so that we can save for a house as his new job has much better pay. He has a major problem with lying and its nearly ruined us. He's been abroad for 8 weeks now. A few weeks b4 he left he got ...

Friend repeat

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 128 days ago

21 May 2023 (M - A good friend of mine broke up with his ex around 1.5 years ago. He has been struggling with getting over the relationship and often is hurting and perhaps also dismantling his ex. I've often supported my friend who is also an amazing kind person ...

Emotional friend demands loyalty with ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 128 days ago

21 May 2023 (M - A good friend of mine broke up with his ex around 1.5 years ago. He has been struggling with getting over the relationship and often is hurting and perhaps also dismantling his ex. I've often supported my friend who is also an amazing kind person ...

Why would my mother and her siblings choose such partners?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 129 days ago

17 May 2023 (F - This is something that's been bothering me and I'd to get some insight please. My mother has 3 other siblings... An older sister and two younger brothers. My mom's parents, my grandparents, were good people. I haven't seen much of them but I hear ...

Can you go back to a friendship after developing attraction?

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16 May 2023 (F - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7.5 years and have had a group of the same friends for most of that time. One friend in particular is someone I have become a lot closer to in the last couple of years. This person came out to me as a trans ...

Family drama first

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 May 2023 (M - I am feeling torn. I have some family drama that I am doing my best to stay out of. Long story short, my eldest sister and my brother in law moved to my mom’s home due for convenience and allegedly it was only going to be a short period. I don’t ...

Is my sister hitting on my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 138 days ago

9 May 2023 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year. My older sister has been a source of drama for our relationship since the beginning. At first she use to be flirtatious with him when I wasn't around,always trying to impress him and get his ...

Is it normal to spend holidays w an ex’s family when the child is in their mid 20s?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 168 days ago

11 April 2023 (F - Is it normal to spend holidays w an ex’s family when the child is in their mid 20s? Supposedly it was an ugly divorce. He does enjoy the company of his ex in laws. So do I but I rarely see them because I haven’t been in laws with them in 15 years. I ...

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