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Hi, i'm Edwin, a Simple 'Pure' chinese(i said this cuz lately i found out my new friends weren't full chinese) living in the peaceful country of Brunei. It's a boring place i know, but at least it's quiet.................. Anyways, people regarded me as a social-butterfly, i'm quite talkative and like to make new friends, but, really i'm an introvet, i enjoyed being alone many times, it makes me relaxed and more easier to think of things............ I'm young i know, but i'm not inexperienced, i dealt with lots of relationship problems before both with families and friends. I'm not immature, i'm (you could say) wise beyond my age. I love to read books, any kinds, but mostly sci-fis'. I'm single now, and i'm not planning to get into any BGF relationship. Why? I'm not sure, maybe cuz i'm not in the mood to? Anyways i like older women, cuz i find them sexually attractive(dont ask me why). I enjoy music too. I play the drum and guitar, oh and vocals too (Once i had a dream to set up a boy band). Haha, anything else? Oh, i know, ask me to tell jokes, i'll be obliged to. LOL. XD

He sees me only for casual sex and I care about him a lot! How do I deal with this?

Q.   I feel so lonely... I have great friends,I am surrounded by great people but I feel so low. I found out the guy I was seeing only sees me as someone for casual sex, and I know for a fact that he is sleeping around. There are 2 other guys who I...

A.   9 May 2010: Doesn't make sense at all............. Why not? It'll be much better for you if that dipsht just disappear from your life. ... (read in full...)

Its very important to be a virgin and I'm not one anymore

Q.   I'm 16 years old and I have been in a realtionship with my boyfriend for a year and half now and we had sex and when we did it i was a virgin... I lost my virginity with him.. we were really in love but now things are not the same that we have very ...

A.   6 May 2010: First of all, relax, it's okay......... You can still have a normal life and fall in love again and, yes, find the 'one' you're waiting for. I mean, come on, its not like the end of the world of something...... About your mom, i think it's better to ... (read in full...)

Does it make me gay if I want oral sex with another guy?

Q.   i have always considered myself straight. I find the idea of sex with girls extremely arousing. However recently i have been finding the idea of giving ang recieving blowjobs to/from other males. In particular gettting the ejaculate on my face. I...

A.   4 May 2010: Too most of people, they would see this as gay......... Including me...... Cuz from my pt of view, the penis is the only thing that woman does not possess and you desired that very thing.... (read in full...)

Still having nightmares because of the abuse

Q.   when i was 14 (4 years ago) i was abused, and left alone..i was scared and i didnt know what i had done wrong.. i thought i could trust the boy. but i was wrong and stupid. he was 14 too.. i just didnt think things like that went through boys hea...

A.   3 May 2010: First, i think you should tell us what happened when you're 14 in detail, then i'll understand the case better. But if you think it's really THAT bad, and you dont want us to know, okay no pressure, but i suggest you find a good ... (read in full...)

19 years old and still a virgin!

Q.   Im 19 year old male. I've only kissed one girl ever, and I am still a virgin. I've been alone for a long time, and I am really feeling low. I wake up feeling pointless, hopeless, and as if I will never find someone or lost me virginity... help i ...

A.   2 May 2010: Gee.......... Come on dude, cheer up man, i'm 17, and i'm still a virgin.......... Anyways, why? Ask yourself, why? Does losing virginity matters a lot to you? Does losing virginity gains your confidence or something? I'm popular 'round girls, they ... (read in full...)

Why won't my boyfriend tell his parents I am pregnant?

Q.   I'm 37 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend has not told his parents that I'm pregnant, whenever I ask him when he is going to tell his parents he always tells me that he will do it soon and its now 3 weeks left until our son comes... Please help don't ...

A.   2 May 2010: Laura's right, your BF's a dope......... Tell her mom yourself, or regret it for your life.... (read in full...)

At 14, am I too young for sex?

Q.   I'm 14 . my bf is 17 . one question , is this wrong ? we are both in love w / each other ( told each other in october ) and want to have sex . both our first time . question # 2 , I too young ? we've been together for the 2 nd time in august ....

A.   2 May 2010: Man, you're 14??? Dang....... Well at least you're not like me(you wouldn't wanna know). Anyways, no, believe me, living 17years in a muslim country told me so. Just think: you had sex, got discovered by boy's family, you're forced to be married to ... (read in full...)

Can you love someone with bad skin?

Q.   I have really bad skin. I don't mean acne or some dry skin, I actually mean eczema and chronic dry skin. On top of that I suffer from allergies and hay fever, so all year round I just have horrendous skin. I have rough hands, dry flaky nose and ...

A.   2 May 2010: Course you can...... Just believe in yourself, you'll find love. You will. I'm not just saying, it really DID happened, not to me(i have baby skin), to one of my friend. He's a nice guy and very handsome too. One day he just went up to me and told ... (read in full...)

What does "I'm physically attracted to you" mean?

Q.   What does it mean when a guy says he is physically attracted to you?...

A.   2 May 2010: Simple................ It means that. He/she is likes you for what you have 'outside' ie: Breast, waist, butt or looks. He/she may not care about your personality.... (read in full...)

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