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Im carolann,, 23 years old! From scotland! Love talking to people about anything and love meeting new friends :) add me!! ... Say hi! :) a problem shared is a problem halved!! Xx

She didnt tell me she loves me before she went to sleep and now I'm really hurt, am I overreacting?

Q.   Hi. My girlfriend and I were texting each other late at night like we usually do, and joking around and everything. She told me she was tired and night. She always tell me 'night babe I love you'. I asked her if she was mad at me and she said no, ...

A.   21 November 2011: Your defo over reacting! - maybe she fell asleep! And she also told you she wasnt mad at you! So no need to look into it any more than you are, especially if she has told you she loves you since then :) xx... (read in full...)

Why can't they just get divorced?!

Q.   OK....so a bit of background, I have been with my partner for just over 2 years now...we got together at the end of falling out of his marriage... Since then they have been relatively amicable as they had dogs together and are both animal love...

A.   16 November 2011: You have to tell him if he is serious about your relationship he has to cut the marital ties with his ex! she must know she is dragging it on ab bit and probo knows its because you want to marry! Have a talk with your partner and tell him to nip it ... (read in full...)

How can I satisfy my wife? I think I'm too small.

Q.   i am 32yrs old and my penis is 4.5inch(erect).next month is my marrige. how can i satisfy my wife? plz help me ! i am worried about my penis! plz help me frnds....

A.   14 November 2011: Size doesnt matter! There are many ways to please a woman without having a big 'winky'!! Ask her what she likes- try sex in the shower!! :) hope you solve yous r little issue :) x ... (read in full...)

He says he's given me 3 chances. Says he will not talk to me any more if I don't allow more than kisses and touching next time.What do I say to him?

Q.   I like this guy ever since I was little , we grew up together and Finally one day we started texting dirty and he wants me to do stuff to him and I want to but I'm still a virgin and don't know if I could please him and I don't know how to do a ...

A.   14 November 2011: Tell him to bog off! If he cared for you he wouldnt be asking you such nastyness! So basically if you dont do as he says he going in a huff and not speaking to you!! ... Reverse psychology- hes making you feel as though your in the wrong for not ... (read in full...)

I need help getting over my feelings for this 16 year old girl!

Q.   So Ia am a 28 year old guy, and I think I am falling for a 16 year old girl. It started out as her flirting with me about three months ago, and I thought it is just a phase she is going through and just shrugged it off. But as time has passed the ...

A.   14 November 2011: Maybe if she saw you with someone else it may put her off a bit instead of having to confront her! Think that would be a little shamefull for her! But its a good way to let her no that you unavailable 'in that way' you never know she might back off, ... (read in full...)

Why do guys feels the need to brag?

Q.   Why do guys brag? He was a party boy and obviously I didn't give him anything sex-related/making out related to brag about. so... when people asked why we hung out around one another...he said that I hung around him and even the police couldn't...

A.   14 November 2011: What a wolly!! Hes very immature- keep your distance from now on, obviously he has his head up his own bum! Hel learn from his mistake when he starts loosing friends if he continues to treat people like this! X... (read in full...)

Why is sex hurting now?

Q.   I'm a worried seventeen year old and need some advice. I'm scared to whom I should turn to. My situation; I've been have sex for my boyfriend for the last ten months and just the last couple weeks, I feel like he has been hitting the top of my ...

A.   14 November 2011: His penis hasnt grown! Sounds like you may have a urine infection which i suffer from alot and feel like this too but im not a doctor and could be wrong! Dont be too worried though just get checked out! If it is a urine infection, cranberry juice is ... (read in full...)

How can a person just up and walk away and not care?

Q.   my husband of 7 1/2 yrs told me he was confussed and nobody in the house is happy, he deserves to be happy and left. the week he left he took off his wedding ring. after a month he filed for divorce. he says there is noone else. he is my true love, ...

A.   11 October 2011: What a waste!i do understand where your coming from! Didnt he ever open up to you? He could have atleast gave you a decent explanation after you giving 7 years of your life to this man! Well it just shows you how selfish someone can really be!! But ... (read in full...)

I want to leave him but so much is at stake!

Q.   Hi everyone just want some advice. I've been with this guy for 3yrs now. We live together but there is alot of problems. I have notice that he doesn't treat me as nice as he treats others around him. He is always grumpy with me. Never smiles or says ...

A.   8 August 2011: I would definetly leave, a guy like this don't deserve a girl like you! He's taking you for granted!! Tell hime that you have had enough of his selfish behaviour and that you desrve to be treated with respect,ask him why he is being like this? ... (read in full...)

Headaches and mood changes - do I have a reason to worry?

Q.   I'm a 19 years old girl and I feel a bit strange in the last time. The main thing is my head. I have headaches almost every morning after I wake up. My head hurts in different places - sometimes somewhere in forehead, sometimes in one or other side ...

A.   8 August 2011: You should really see your doctor its worth getting it checked over, you may need glasses or it could be something simple! I used to go through allsorts of emotions at 19, but if I ever noticed it to be unusual I saw the doctor, Don't worry about it ... (read in full...)

My parents would rather listen to other people than believe what I tell them

Q.   Please help me, I'm 16 years old and my parents refuse to listen to me! they would rather listen to people who have no idea what i do, and then they judge me based on what they hear from those people. Like this one time i got home late, because of a ...

A.   8 August 2011: Your parents are obviously concerned about what you do and your auntie is not doing the situation any favours by lying, why would your auntie lie to them about you? If you could prove to your parents where you where I would! Try speaking to your ... (read in full...)

I want to bed my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?

Q.   i love my boyfriend soooo much i have been with him for 6yrs. And he is the sweetest guy u will ever meet he does everything for i mean everything. But his friend is sooooo hotttttt i wanna have sex with him. what do i do?...

A.   8 August 2011: Well yous have been together for 6 years its along time!! Why waste that for one of sex with his mate! Think if the damage it could cause to your relationship and your boyfriends relationship with his friend! Stick with your boyfriend, he sounds ... (read in full...)

I don't understand his text message

Q.   I received this text off a guy. But this was part of the text. It said "I feel bad coz I enjoyed the flirting with you and that's why I haven't been talking to you..." What did he mean??...

A.   8 August 2011: There could be a few reasons Maybe he has a girlfriend, or it could b something else,sounds like he ovbiously likes you! Don't be scared to ask him why he feels bad x... (read in full...)

I want bigger boobs so I look sexy in front of my husband!

Q.   Dear all, Im 24 and married since a year, I want to increase my boobs size without cosmetic stuffs. I need 32 size bra. I dont know the cup size. Please suggest some medicines or something that make my boobs bigger and attractive... I want to look ...

A.   28 August 2009: hi ! i know exactly where your coming from ! i tred 2 types of breast enhancers, not to expensive, the price was ok,, but they didnt work,, i was so dissapointed in the end!! now all i do is buy sexy bras and padded ones even help!! i know alot of ... (read in full...)

Was this rape?? What do I do?

Q.   I have a problem.I doubt anyone will want to help me but I hope so.I took a girl out on our first ever date, and we went clubbing..we preceeded to get horribly drunk, and had to get a motel because I didnt want to risk driving her home...there was ...

A.   10 June 2009: you are not in the wrong, she could have said to you up straight No , or stop but she didnt! you need to speak to her ! the longer you leave the worse it may get because she will be thinking about it more! she could also get the police involved ! ... (read in full...)

Violent past

Q.   My new partner is really lovely and kind to me but i recently found out in his past relationship he was really violent and abusive. Do you think he will be the same with me or do you think he has changed? ...

A.   10 June 2009: a violent relationship is the last thing you want! speak to him about it!,there might be a reason, and though you say you didnt find out from him, its best to ask him about it im not making up exuses for a violent person! but his ex could have been ... (read in full...)

Anyone out there who has dated a stripper and made it work?

Q.   Is it possible to fall in love with a stripper? I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and weve gone on a few dates but we arent offically dating, and i wanted to make it official but she said she needed to tell me something, thats when she let me ...

A.   9 June 2009: when she said to you she had to tell you something,, it was obvious that she cared about what you thought, otherwise she would have told you anyway! at the end of the day shes still a person and that just happens to be what she does, if you think ... (read in full...)

Anyone out there who has dated a stripper and made it work?

Q.   Is it possible to fall in love with a stripper? I met this girl about 2 weeks ago and weve gone on a few dates but we arent offically dating, and i wanted to make it official but she said she needed to tell me something, thats when she let me ...

A.   9 June 2009: when she said to you she had to tell you something,, it was obvious that she cared about what you thought, otherwise she would have told you anyway! at the end of the day shes still a person and that just happens to be what she does, if you think ... (read in full...)

My wife has doubled in size, I've lost interest in sex..do I leave her to get her to get in shape?

Q.   When I proposed to my wife she was 5' and a perfect size zero. She had lovely long hair and walked like a graceful lady. Exactly my type. Now after 15 yrs of marriage she's a size 14-16 w/ short hair and walks like a chimp. Doubling her weight ...

A.   9 June 2009: hi maybe if you spoke to your wife about this instead off an out of the blue trial seperation!!!, speak to her! surely when you got married you must have realised that no one stays the same,, and yes youv gained weight too, why dont you suggest ... (read in full...)

Am I too you to propose marriage?

Q.   I want to propose to my gf but i think i mite be too young im 19 and my girlfriend is to.i totally love her.I've just got 2 questions to ask. 1.Am I too young to propose? 2.How could I do it ?...

A.   9 June 2009: if you feel ready then why not!! theres no perfect age to propose,, if you love trust and respect her and have an honest and happy relationship ,, why not!, There are loads of young people who rush in to marraige,, so before you do , tihnk about it ... (read in full...)

Should I trust him?

Q.   i caught my boyfriend cheating on me . He apologized in the sweetest ways , flowers, cards , sending my favorite movies, phone calls, messages , voicemalls constenly. I love him alot and without him i fell horible, but i dont know if i should trust ...

A.   9 June 2009: You abviously love this man! But if it was the other way around would he be so forgiving? Cheating can bring up all sorts off issues!(in your head too ), Trust issues! It can make you paraniod about what hes doing and when but do you really want to ... (read in full...)

I am tired of guys I like not liking me back, what do I do to improve my likability?

Q.   i dont feel pretty enough to deserve to be loved , they say its the inside that counts if that was true then i'd have someone by now right? im so lost and confused no one wants me the person i like just likes me as a friend sucha cliche. i need your ...

A.   8 June 2009: you need to think about yourself !! dont let what others think about you get you down!, if they dont like you thats there loss they obiously dont appriciate what they see ,, my mum told me that you need to learn to love yourself x... (read in full...)

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