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Hi i James

Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.

I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.

Right now im at university studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system or whatever i feel is right.

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Do 'R'-rates movies turn guys on?

Q.   Hi! I'm a 17 yo girl and have just started going out with this amazingly sweet, cute, shy boy whose had no experience with girls whatsoever. this isn't a strictly "relationship" question---but... when guys are watching a very--err--rated R movie ...

A.   14 June 2008: At that age i could get happy from the mere thought of anything erotic, sometimes didnt even need to think of it. The glory years of a couple of months ago... (read in full...)

Does alcohol consumption kill sperm?

Q.   can i get pregnant if the guy drinks a lot and we had sex after?? Does that kill his sperm?...

A.   14 June 2008: have you ever heard of a girl getting knocked up after a drunken romp. NO? get out more. Of course you can get pregnant, perhaps drinking does kill sperm but theres millions of the little guys and it takes one to make a baby. So yes you can get ... (read in full...)

When do girls usually stop growing in terms of height?

Q.   Hi everyone, just a quick question really. When do girls usually stop growing in terms of height? I'm 15 now, 5ft 4 and I was just wondering will I get much taller than this? ...

A.   13 June 2008: it depends on the person and their family. Are you parents tall or about your height. Girls usually stop growing at 18 but it doesnt mean they will grow up to that day. ... (read in full...)

Why do you think young teens have sex? Shouldn't you wait for the right person?

Q.   I cannot understand why people have sex at such a young age. There're many posts on dearcupid coming from 13-15 year olds saying "I want to have sex with my boyfriend" or "Could I be pregnant?". What's the rush??? I'm 16 and haven't even had a ...

A.   13 June 2008: I have no idea why kids so young have sex. Maybe they want to be more grown up, impress their friends or think its part of a relationship like kissing. But at the end if they end up pregnant they relise they shouldnt of played adult games but then ... (read in full...)

Sex Burgers - or people?

Q.   Which of you out there feel the same as me. In an ideal world which would make me so happy it would be like this: Women would be celebrated for who they are in equal measure, whether it be because they were clever, great Mums, leaders, spo...

A.   11 June 2008: i completly agree with lazy guy You talk about woman being sought as objects but all i hear i how Hot Brad Pitt is and Look at the Footballers six pact etc Do i care about the sexualisation of my gender! No not at all, why you ask? i dont carry ot... (read in full...)

His father won't let him use the phone to talk to me. What can I do?

Q.   Me and my bf have been in a long distance relationship for about a year.Just recently his father decided he doesn't like me and punished my boyfriend off the phone with ME for 2 YEARS. This made me so mad. My boyfriend still sneaks and calls only ...

A.   11 June 2008: Letters and email are a good idea if not Also as the dad most likely pays the bills he has every right to cut him off when he wants as hes the adult and your bf is the kid. Unfair right! no not really but it does seem that way Another way to actua... (read in full...)

It's been over a year since I found a tape of my boyfriend and his ex having sex! How do I get over it?

Q.   About one year ago, i found a tape of my boyfriend and his ex having sex. I threw it away and he rerecorded it over one of my tapes. I still can't get over it but he tells me that we need to move on. It's been over a year since it happened. It still ...

A.   11 June 2008: Saying you have to grow up could be a little harsh, but is still justified. (im assuming he didnt cheat on you, and this tape was made during their relationship) If this is the fact, the fact that this still bothers you after a year is worr... (read in full...)

Why do I get scared when I have the chance to have sex?

Q.   Ok im always horny, but when i get the chance to have sex i get scared, why do i get scared?...

A.   10 June 2008: Because you know your not ready really. You may feel horny etc But your mind and body knows that your not really ready to... (read in full...)

How can I ask my husband for sex?

Q.   Hi I feel too shy though I need sex. How can I ask my husband for sex? ...

A.   10 June 2008: Your still shy with someone your married to. I have two courses you can take 1. Get into something sexy, make the bedroom romantic, then you wont even have to ask, he will know 2. Say "hey want sex" either way it should happen... (read in full...)

What is your opinion on a non-sexual relationship between a 14 and a 17 year old?

Q.   As a general question - what are people's opinions on a relationship between two teenagers with a three year age gap (not sexual)? e.g a 14 year old and a 17 year old? ...

A.   10 June 2008: Yes girls mature more than boys But try and have a non-sexual relationship with a horny (yes 99.9% are) 17 year old boy, and you may fail. He may be the nicest guy ever (i dont know) but think, will he wait until hes 19 to start having a sexual rela... (read in full...)

Can you love more than one person?

Q.   hello! can somebody loves more than more than one person? thank you for answering my question! Cathy...

A.   10 June 2008: i agree with LJ001 i dont really think you can love more than 1 person at once truely, not the same way anyway. In the case of exs i think its not the same as loving someone your in a relationship in. But in certain cases like the passing of a lov... (read in full...)

I like this guy who keeps asking me for sex and I don't trust him. What do I do?

Q.   thre is this guy that i met and he is 17 and i'm 15.he is really cute and i like him. we went out for 2 days and then i broke up with him cause he kept ansking me to hve sex with him and i do not feel like doing that right now and when i tell him ...

A.   10 June 2008: Uncle Sneaker is right This guy is an A class jack*** There are so many reasons to say why not to, but ill just say dont to make it simple... (read in full...)

Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them??

Q.   Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them?? As many people may have read or heard about students falling in love with their teachers then coming on websites like this to see what to do about it... ...

A.   9 June 2008: You cant blame someone for another persons emotions. Even IF in the hypothetical a teacher flirted with a student it does make the student like them, same applies to all crushes/loves throughout life. Anyway like eyes said Students have liked te... (read in full...)

What do 23 yr old guys want? Just sex or a relationship?

Q.   At 23 years old do guys just want sex or are they ready for a relationship?...

A.   9 June 2008: Some men do want sex at that age While some men are looking for longer term relationships (sometimes not marriage) Not all men mature at the same rate... (read in full...)

Is it possible to have sex without protection and still not get pregnant?

Q.   is there a time when you can have sex without protection and stil not get preg?...

A.   8 June 2008: No you always run the risk of getting pregnant There are lesser chances but you shouldnt run the risk... (read in full...)

I'm having sex with my best friend but he doesn't want a relationship. Should I end the friendship?

Q.   im in love with my guy best friend, we have a sex relationship, i dont want just that, he dosent want to be in a relationship right now. should i end our friendship for good?...

A.   6 June 2008: Did he say he would be in a relationship with you? Did you assume it? Really it depends on both your mindsets and did you talk before hand, if he said you could have a relationship, then changed his mind, kick him to the kerb If you never ask bu... (read in full...)

We both really like each other but are in different 'groups' at school...what should we do?

Q.   I really like this girl and she feels the same way, but at school we are in totally different groups and we never get the chance to really socialise. What should we do?...

A.   6 June 2008: Watch High School Musical, they break the status quo and go in different groups. Great Watching!! *kills self*... (read in full...)

Are chavs victimised?

Q.   are chavs victimised do you think?...

A.   6 June 2008: Pretty much everyone is victimised and has a sterotype The Blonde = Stupid Chav = Working Class Mongrel Teens = Hoodlums Red = Ginger There are more i left the racist ones out Some people fulfill there sterotype, but 90% dont and the people ... (read in full...)

Is this real oral sex (or just cheating)?

Q.   hey If a girl give you oral sex in condom is that a real oral sex or not....

A.   6 June 2008: Why wouldnt it be... (read in full...)

Is there any treatment for a person who is gay?

Q.   hi is there any treatment for a person who is gay??????...

A.   6 June 2008: If you mean turning a gay person into a straight person No there is no treatment unless you wanna believe some of the religous people out there.... (read in full...)

Is 5 years a big age gap?

Q.   i am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 25 years of age..so do u think 5 years of age gap between us makes a difference..do u think he is too old for me????...

A.   6 June 2008: its 6 years but no its not a big deal, in most cases age is no barrier the people are... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend looking at other women disrespectful to my feelings?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We live together. What bothers me the most is that when we are out together, he always is looking at other women, and not just looking, but he undresses them with his eyes, he imagines things. I have told ...

A.   6 June 2008: I agree with Replacement here Does you BF have a "im undressing you with my eyes" and a "i want to do things to you" look Because if he does, he should stop as hes a perv Otherwise looking at an attractive women is /usually/ innocent, and quick lo... (read in full...)

I have troubles coming to terms with that my boyfriend will always love his child more than me. I don't understand the concept of he loves his child in a very different way - to all parents out there - how different does it feel?

Q.   I'm really struggling with something at the moment which i am reluctant to admit to anyone. My boyfriend has a child and i am struggling to come to terms with "The child must come first". Obviously i understand that a man/woman should love their ...

A.   6 June 2008: Like everyones said Kids ALWAYS come first. Your an adult and can fend for yourself if need be Kids cannot do this and need their parents to help them through life until they are adults. So like Country Women said you either except this or find a m... (read in full...)

Mum pays more attention to sisters boyfriend than she does to me!

Q.   I'm so angry and hurt!! My sister is sick, she got some stomach virus from her bf. We share our bedroom. The thing is, she was very sick, and so was her bf. They've been dating for a month tops. And he's much older, she's 21 and he's like 31 or ...

A.   5 June 2008: Like eyes said Some mothers like to mother some men like to be mothered Though i took Wizs class in being a man, some men have yet to get the memo If your over 18 i really doubt you need your mummy still and if your mum wants to mother this man ... (read in full...)

I want a baby but I have no boyfriend and am only 12.

Q.   i want a baby but im only 12 years of age. im a single,im good with babys i baby sit my cosin 2. i feel like im ready, but am i. how can have a baby without a boyfreind....

A.   5 June 2008: Eyes and Uncle phil always provide a good laugh with good advice follow it... (read in full...)

I am only 12, but look much older. Should I tell my 21 year old girfriend?

Q.   i recenty met a 21 year old girl and we really like each other only problem is im 9 years younger than her(i look a lot older than i am)should i lie about my age or should i tell her that i think we should just be friends until im old enough.If i ...

A.   5 June 2008: Read this and then follow TELLULAHS advice http://glennsacks.com/blog/?p=2235... (read in full...)

My girl friend is pregnant!

Q.   I am 13 year old boy and i have a really big problem. i am dating a 15 year old girl and several weeks ago we staying at my house. its a long story but at the end we drank a bit and i was drunk and really horny so i had sex with her, i didnt use a ...

A.   5 June 2008: like everyone said DiovanLestat is right You wanted to play big men games and you did. Now like most adults you have to live with what you did. Talk to the girl and your parents. Nows of all times is not the place to play little 13 year old, you ... (read in full...)

Is it true that what you say drunk is actually what you think sober?

Q.   Is it true what you say drunk is what you have been thinking when sober?...

A.   5 June 2008: i have a friend who will tell you anything when hes a little tipsy But me and most of my mates can still lie and chat as much rubbish when drunk as sober But im more inclinded to be honest with my close friend but not others So it does depend ... (read in full...)

Is this possible? Science-wise?

Q.   is it possible to get pregnant if i have my boyfriend ejaculate in my mouth, and i save it in a syringe and then inseminate the semen into my vagina? ...

A.   5 June 2008: is its only me and eyeswideopen seeing that this is a 10-12 year old. You cant be 10-12 as i really hope you arent... (read in full...)

My lover says its not a relationship!

Q.   I have a problem. I like a guy who is really brilliant and has always been straight with me. He says he fancies me too, However he told me not to expect a relationship. I'm sleeping with him and all he says is 'we'll see' about the relation...

A.   5 June 2008: Your being used as a f**k buddy. Chances are there will be no relationship. Just dump him and get it over with... (read in full...)

Some men put work before their women, how is a proper ordering of priorities?

Q.   What ranking is a woman meant to come in their partners life?? What should be coming before them and after?? Some men put work before them, is this right?? Or should a women come before work?? Just a general question really. Something me and...

A.   5 June 2008: i dont think most men work just for the sake of it They work to look after their loved ones, to give them shelter, food a good lifestyle etc Its hard for some people to work 9-5 and more than that in some cases, then come home and do their fair sha... (read in full...)

Can I give my boyfriend's last name to my baby?

Q.   my babys daddy is out of the country and thers no way that he can make it here the day im going to give birth to my baby . but wer still together. can i still give my baby his fathers last name??...

A.   1 June 2008: Its your choice what name/surname the baby has. But like birdy says talk to the father and decide together if your raising the baby together. Also at the birth of the baby talk to the midwife as she can help with the legal stuff... (read in full...)

How do you get over the heartache?

Q.   how do u get over someone who u liked for 3yrs more than life? Someone who rejected you in a extremely nice way but u can't get over it. Someone who comes in ur dreams every nite? Someone pictures u luk at every nite. Someone u wish u saw everday ...

A.   1 June 2008: Ive been there and in my case it didnt work out, and i was hurt for a while and i wont lie its not easy at all its very hard at times. It may seem like a bad answer but time is the only real cure here, theres no fixed time it will take but you will... (read in full...)

Is there prejudice against bisexuals?

Q.   If it is okay to be bisexual then why do bisexual people have to hide it? Why do our parents scream at us about it?...

A.   1 June 2008: People will be prejudice against Bi-Sexuals because it does invole a degree of same sex relations. Though they are not completly gay, but this is what comes to ome people when they think of Bis. Some people are ignorant that way. As for parents scre... (read in full...)

Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are cheating with?

Q.   Do married men ever leave their wives for the younger girls they are sleeping with? in what circumstances. why? ...

A.   31 May 2008: yes some do Then they relise they left everything behind and will have to restart their lives, when their ex has taken half of their stuff and everyone hates them. Men like that wont be happy with their new arm candy for long and she wont be happy... (read in full...)

Am I too small?

Q.   hi im 13 and my penis size is really small its is like 1 in soft and 3 in hard and i am very scared people will laugh at me is there anything i can do about it?...

A.   31 May 2008: your 13!! you have years to grow and it will grow give it time... (read in full...)

I changed my mind about giving him oral sex, so he flipped out saying I am playing with him! I'm not!

Q.   hey guys im 15, so i told the boy that im together with in the begining of the week that i wanted to give him head. then i thought about it and i dont want to rush things and be so easy. i told him that today cause i am seeing him later. he FLIPPED ...

A.   31 May 2008: do nothing let him sulk as if hes gonna get angry over this you dont want to be with him at all... (read in full...)

Is it wrong if I throw away my boyfriends' divorce papers?

Q.   When cleaning house, I came upon my boyfriends divorce papers. Is it wrong if I throw the divorce papers away myself?...

A.   30 May 2008: You shouldnt throw away other people documents no matter how important you think they are to him. They were his documents and may have been important as he may need them in the future. ... (read in full...)

What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex and think it's fine to not respect her boundaries??

Q.   What makes a guy try to pressure a girl into sex? What makes a guy not listen to a girl when she says 'no'? What makes him think its ok to not respect her boundaires? And what makes a guy so controlling? I know those are all general questions, but ...

A.   30 May 2008: a simple answer is some guys a a-holes. And some guys just want sex from as many girls as they can get it from... (read in full...)

What's the best food to make you feel horny?

Q.   whats the best food to make you horny ?...

A.   26 May 2008: Kennys is right strawberries and oysters are known aphrodisacs.... (read in full...)

How can I stop sweating?

Q.   how can i stop sweating? i wear deodrant and it makes no difference...

A.   26 May 2008: Deodrant/anti persperant doesnt stop sweating at all. Sweating is a natural bodily reponse to cool the body. If you want to stop the smell try different deodrants as some work better than others... (read in full...)

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