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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
Right now im at university studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system or whatever i feel is right. |
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Why doesn't my blood pressure go up?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering why when I have panic attacks my blood pressure never changes. I hyperventilate, I shake, my chest feel so tight yet the paramedic always says that my blood pressure is fine. Is this normal? Thanks for any help Lola x...
A. 8 February 2008: If the paramedics didnt see a problem with it i doubt there is one.
But ask your GP to be sure... (read in full...)
Should I take what she said in a bad way??
Q. i have a some pictures on my myspace and my friend said you look really nice and pretty on them she also said "you look so different", should i take that in a good way or a bad way?...
A. 7 February 2008: She just meant you look different from normal, she still said you looked good. Just take the compliment and dont think to much into it... (read in full...)
My children's grandmother wants to take custody of them from me!
Q. Hello, My name is Faith and im 21 years old. I have triplet 5 year old girls Their father died 11 months after their birth. 3 days ago his mother demanded that the children went to live with her as im struggling. Im not. I work a part ti...
A. 7 February 2008: No she cannot take you kids from you.
Youve been doing fine for 4 years, you have a steady job and a loving home. No court would ever take them away if your providing these.
As for why she wanna take them, she lost her son and these kids are what... (read in full...)
Could my cousin be bi and have feelings for me??
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and I need people's advice. I think my 17-year old cousin is bi or someting or maybe she has feelings for me. Whenever I sign on msn she always clicks me and says hey or hi. What do you think?...
A. 6 February 2008: You are thinking too much into this. Shes proberly lonely and wants to chat or likes you alot as a cousin.... (read in full...)
We argue because he buys a paper with 18 year old topless girls. Got opinions?
Q. Need your opinion!! Just found out my boyfriend who is 34, reads the Sun newspaper daily. He says he doesn't buy it for the page 3 girls but has admitted to having a look and reading the sleazy Deadries casebook. I feel very upset by this as I fin...
A. 5 February 2008: I have to agree with SamuriRick here.
The Sun is just a newspaper, yes it does have page 3, but then it also has around 40 more pages of "news" it has sports and politics so but only one page has a nude women on it. But most people dont see that... (read in full...)
Can you discover paternity without a DNA test?
Q. I'm pregnant with two baby daddy. I slept with these guy in the same month. How can I find out which one is the daddy without DNA test....
A. 5 February 2008: Well if the two men where different races, and that wont even work 100%
Truthly a DNA test is better as it leaves little room for error rather than a blind faith... (read in full...)
Was this an erection and does it mean he likes me??
Q. Does an erection mean he likes me? Okay well me and my best friend are amazingly close, he is a boy, and i really like him alot more than a friend, its a long story, but we are pretty much in love with each other, although we have never kissed o...
A. 3 February 2008: Well to be honest assuming he did have an errection it might not mean anything.
When you around his age anything can set it off, anything really, or sometimes they are just random.
If you wanna know if he does like you your better off asking... (read in full...)
How can I have sex with other girls without hurting my girlfriend?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been dateing for 7 mounths now and the frist couple day of our relationship she took my virginity and for the past 4 or 5 mounths i wanted to experience it with other girls but with out hurting her can sombody please help ...
A. 1 February 2008: There is no way you can do it without hurting her as long you are dating her you must be faithful to her... (read in full...)
Anyone ever have a crush on a teacher?
Q. Just wondering, have any of you had a crush on a teacher?...
A. 31 January 2008: Yeah seriously over the last few months loads and i mean loads of students have had crushes on their teachers.... (read in full...)
How can I get sex?
Q. I'm a 15 year old boy who needs sex, and I don't know how to get it. Any Suggestions?...
A. 29 January 2008: You can gather a few hundred dollars and buy a nice girl for the night! But at your age you wont get far! Also you dont "need" it, its not oxygen you will survive without it
Anyway first you find a girl you like, date and fall it love and the natu... (read in full...)
I want to move abroad with my daughter. Where do I stand legally in regards to her father?
Q. Hi i want to take my daughter to live abroad.Iwas not married to the father however he is on the birth certificate,how do i stand legally?...
A. 28 January 2008: Well im no lawyer but im pretty sure regardless of marriage the father still has rights to his child.
Now you could move but i believe you would need his permission, and with all the noise over fathers rights im pretty sure you would. But im no lawy... (read in full...)
Is this just a phase?
Q. Write now I am having a problem with my girlfriend drinking while she is studying abroad in England.I don't understand why she is doing it. She did drink her before when her boyfriend, now ex-boyfriend, pressured her into drinking. She didn't like ...
A. 27 January 2008: Yos is right. The drinking scenes in England and the US are different. Here drinking is a social norm among pretty much everyone. Students go out whenever they have money to socialise, i had a around 5 pints on Friday and a few shots, and ive done ... (read in full...)
What not to wear
Q. Hi im going to a linkin park concert later on tonight what would you advise me to wear? Because I dress like a chav and thats not a good look for a concert of that genre. Any ideas?...
A. 27 January 2008: Just all black is good. But where something that you can breath in as you proberly will get hot... (read in full...)
NI number criteria
Q. Can I apply for an NI number before Im 16? Im 15 next month can I apply for one because my auntie is trying to get me a job at hers...
A. 26 January 2008: I got mine around my 16th birthday with out applying. I dont think you can ask before as there are certain rules regarding child emplyement. You should look these up yourself but im pretty sure they are like only working a few hours.... (read in full...)
I do not have a driver's license yet, thus feel a bit embarassed. Is this a huge deal?
Q. Im almost 30yr old. And Im terrified of driving. So therefore I still haven't obtained my drivers license. Now is this a huge deal breaker for men ??? I don't lie about it but at the same time Im a little ashamed at times so I don't bring it up ti...
A. 23 January 2008: Well i guess no picking up your bf at 3am when hes drunk. joking.
But i doubt think its a deal breaker at all, and nothing to be ashamed of, i know a few people older than you who dont have their licence and dont care about getting one.
So dont wor... (read in full...)
Why do younger men fall for older women?
Q. Why do younger men fall for older women? This keeps happening to me, and lately a relationship with a man 9 years younger is getting quite serious... I am worried that this is just a passing fancy....
A. 23 January 2008: I completly agree with Yos and all his ponits.... (read in full...)
What does my new B/F mean, by this comment?
Q. My new bf asked me if anyone has "come down" on me, i didnt have a clue what he ment but answered no anyway. Can someone tell me what he was asking please....
A. 23 January 2008: He means has anyone given you oral sex. Thats what i got from the statement... (read in full...)
Can Exes really be 'Just Friends'?
Q. Can Women and Men really be just friends if they are exs? My boyfriend still talks to his ex. He was talking to her before he and I met, but she lives all the way in Japan! They send emails back and forth and it kind of bothers me. He says its ...
A. 23 January 2008: Yes i do think ex's can be friends. As for the reason why they talk i think you answered your own question.
Not all couples break up on bad terms, throwing pots and pans at each other. They broke up on good terms, which means they can still be frie... (read in full...)
Is it legal for me to leave home?
Q. Im wondering because my best friends mum and dad are planning to move to california and they have invited me to go with them. Is it legal for me to leave my house is my mum agrees to it? Please tell me anything you know on it thanks...
A. 22 January 2008: Well it all depends on your age. But i dont know california law but i reckon if you mum signed your living right to a guardian you could. But once again i dont know california law and your age... (read in full...)
Why does my ex wear my old clothes?
Q. Hello Out there, just a quick question. My ex left me for someone else 7 months ago and I am over her but during the 7 months I noticed she's been wearing my tops that I no longer wanted. I bumped into her at a bar and she wore my vest. I bumped ...
A. 20 January 2008: i agree with waterloo sunset. Maybe she likes your clothes and finds them better than hers. Or posssibly going through and tomboyish faze so finds your clothes appriopiate. I wouldnt read to much into it as you say she has moved on... (read in full...)
Do vasectomies work 100 percent?
Q. Just a quick question, if a man has had a vasectomy does that mean theres NO CHANCE of getting someone pregnant?...
A. 20 January 2008: Yes there is a chance you could. As sometimes vasectomies dont always work 100% But it is very unlikely though... (read in full...)
Does my teacher like me or am I confusing these signs?...
Q. Dear Cupid There is this teacher in my school. He is alot older than me but I have the feeling he's attracted to me he messes with other girls but I think he likes me. Here are a few things he has done: 1. If the desk infront of me is empty ...
A. 16 January 2008: Truthly i agree with all of female anons points. He is a teacher and is just trying to have a friendly working experience with his students. Maybe looking at your legs is slightly inappriotpiate but other than that he is being nice.... (read in full...)
Does she like me? Am I in with a chance?
Q. Need a guys opinion. On facebook, if a cute girl pokes you, and you poke her back and it goes back and forth for a while and you sent each other flirty messages. Are you in to her?...
A. 14 January 2008: Well he might do, but i would be careful as he may be doing it to others as its very easy on the net. Face to face is a better idea, try and meet up with him.... (read in full...)
She came to school the other day claiming she has lost her virginity to her friend's uncle and I know it's true as I have seen them together but I don't know what to do about it?
Q. Me and my best friend are 14. Recently she has been having trouble at home and is now living with another friend and her family, including her 40 year old uncle. She came to school the other day claiming she has lost her virginity to her friend's ...
A. 14 January 2008: it not kinda illegal, its straight up illegal. Mate tell a teacher, this is the best thing you can do to help this girl and her safety, let the teacher deal with it as this girl needs to be protected from this man, and telling a adult you trust can ... (read in full...)
Do boyfriends discuss their relationships in their friends' circle, as girls do? What about?
Q. hi this is for guys about 13-20 with girlfriends. do you discuss your girlfriends with your mates? i know girls talk about their boyfriends, how much they like them and stuff. but do boys do the same? and do boys comment on their mates girl...
A. 12 January 2008: Well yea kinda. I mean from my experience we dont exactly go into emotional detail like how we feel and what are plans are. Its more a quick chat of how its going, if its good or bad. How we like them. Not into much detail unless asked... (read in full...)
Why is I seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?
Q. why is i seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?...
A. 11 January 2008: Its ok for both. Thats just a sterotype. Proberly becuase noys will admit to masterbating, while some girls will not. In reality both do and its ok for both to do it.... (read in full...)
Sex with underaged - why is this case exceptional regarding punishment?
Q. i have an 18 yr old mate who has just been to court for sex with a girl 13. now take in mind that he is 18. he says hes not on the sex offenders register has no sex offenders programme to go on and is allowed to carry on seeing this child. i al...
A. 11 January 2008: Well first of all you need new mates.
Second the judge presides over the cases and punishes as he sees fit. I guess in this cases he thought that him being just of legal age (18) he shouldnt be punished, while your other friend who was 24 was well... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is smarter, what should I do?
Q. my girlfriend is smarter then me what should i do...
A. 11 January 2008: Accept it. Why does it matter anyway. Study and Pay attention in school if you want to be smarter.... (read in full...)
Should I be offended???
Q. i was talking to my friend about this boy who i meet who she knows and she said that he will say i am ugly should i be offended by what she said too me?...
A. 10 January 2008: im with phil.
Shes being a idiot, ignore it... (read in full...)
Why two condoms???
Q. me and my boyfriend have decided it's time for us to have sex,the only problem is,he wants to wear two condoms for extra safety,but i have told him that they will rub together and brake but he won't listen,how do i make him listen to me? thanks...
A. 10 January 2008: Simple
Say to him, if you wanna use two condoms, we are not having sex.
Two condoms is stupid as they will rub together cause fricton and chances are both will break.... (read in full...)
Why won't he say "I Love You" ???
Q. Hello! I'm a 24 year old Portuguese girl and I work and live in Milan, Italy. I've been in an excellent relationship with an Italian man. He's intelligent, fun, tender and dedicates all his time to me. Things go very well - we travel a lot, we...
A. 10 January 2008: well would you want him to say it and not mean it fully. He does love you but for some people it takes a while to say that they truly love you. As in todays world the word love is thrown around loosely and over used, and to some has lost all ... (read in full...)
Any ideas as to where we can go?
Q. Where's a good place to take a girl out on a date? I'm going to ask this girl on a date, but I'm not sure where to, I don'tr eally want to goto the movies, I hate going, it's the only place I can think of though. We both drink, so I would ask ...
A. 9 January 2008: How about taking her to a coffee shop like starbucks. Or take her to a park, i guess in canada your nights are a bit lighter, if not go early. Or how about pizza hut or a resturant.
Good Luck... (read in full...)
Is clingfilm an adequate birth control method?
Q. Is it good to use plastic wrap as protection for intercorse?...
A. 9 January 2008: You do have to be joking. NO clingfilm is not adequete birth control. If you have not heard of condoms then you should not even think of having sex
PERIOD... (read in full...)
Would it be alright if we used a condom?
Q. i have just recently started going out with this 17 year old...hes in the army!! that doesnt bother me in anyway. in told my dad and his fiancee and they were fine considering my stepsister is going out with his little brother, so they know the ...
A. 5 January 2008: i completly disagree with loulee. You only 13, you shouldnt be having sex at all, besides your bf is 17 going on 18. If you got pregnant he would proberly go to jail. You should wait until your at least 16 as doing anything sexual with this boy will ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with his friend?
Q. a 12 year old girl my boyfriend wants me to come over his hous tomorrow and have sex with ohis other friend who seems nice. what do I do, if I go I dont know wat will happen buut if I dont hell break up with me. I eed help please!...
A. 5 January 2008: cateyes i agree. Im not that old and i have no idea why kids at 12 are even thinking about having sex at 12. Look enjoy your youth and freedom. Go swimming watch movies, if i could go back to 12 i would in a second. You not old enough mentally and ... (read in full...)
Am I making a big deal out of nothing?
Q. ok on sunday i was talking to this boy on msn that most of my freinds know we were talking he said i was beutiful and fit he also asked if i wanted to meet up with him somewhere i said not this week because i am busy and when we go back to school. ...
A. 4 January 2008: No your not overreacting. He sounds like a player, the best thing to do here is move on and let people know that he is a player.... (read in full...)
How can I be sure I took her virginity?
Q. Before I met my girlfriend she was almost raped,a guy forced himself on her,but didn`t penetrate very far(just about the head),she was a virgin and she bled. A year ago, my girlfriend and I had sex for the first time,she told me afterwards that i b...
A. 4 January 2008: i agree with tellulah here. Shes not a car in which you want to be the first owner. Whether she was raped or not thats more than enough to go through and you hoping you "broke her virginity" is something uneeded and frankly sickening to think you ... (read in full...)
I have had sex once but I don't wish to repeat the experience since I'm underage. What can I do to keep my bf interested?
Q. Hi, I Am 14 Years Old, And I Have Had Sex With My (Also 14 Years Old) Boyfriend. However, It Was The Once, And I Want To Keep It To The Once But He Wants It More Now. I Dont Want To Lose Him Becuase I Love Him But I Want To Wait Til I Am Legal (...
A. 4 January 2008: I think you made the right decison here. Yes you did it once and relised it was a mistake, and now want to recitfy it. Tell yu BF now that you want to wait until you are 16, if hes OK with it the "things" will come naturally, like kissing and light ... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be a paedophile (or an ephebophile)?
Q. I'm afraid I might be dating a peadophile. My boyfriend (nealry 20) is attracted Hannah Monatna who is 15, and I am so grossed out I can't even kiss him let alone make love to him. He makes jokes about him being an ebophile to his friends online (he ...
A. 4 January 2008: I agree with tellulah here. You seem to be very insecure about yourself and goingthrough your bf internet going ons doesnt make it any better. Ive seen this hannah Montana show (and got the Cd for my little cousin, who likes her) and ill say i ... (read in full...)
I want to date my borthers friend, but how do you think he'll react?
Q. hi i wonder if anyone can help me. i have know my brothers best friend for over 10years now he is nearly 18 and i am almost 16. i have always had this feeling that there was something between us as he would always make time 2 come and c me n talk 2 ...
A. 4 January 2008: Well being a brother i think he will be kinda pi**ed. Your his little sister, in his eyes proberly still a little baby. While this is his mate who he knows in a different way to you, like how he really thinks. I think mixing these two groups would ... (read in full...)
Should I be offended by what she said to me?
Q. ok recently i was on my myspace and on one of my pics a girl in my year put "wow you look great not like you usally do " we have had arguments before but should i be offended by this comment?...
A. 2 January 2008: Well i got two things from this
Firstly yeah she could be a little bi*** and is just being rude towards you over the internet, if this is the case ignore it as its just stupid childish behaviour
Second by "not like you usually do" it could mean she... (read in full...)
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