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Hi i James

Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.

I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.

Right now im at university studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system or whatever i feel is right.

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How can I stop sweating?

Q.   how can i stop sweating? i wear deodrant and it makes no difference...

A.   26 May 2008: Deodrant/anti persperant doesnt stop sweating at all. Sweating is a natural bodily reponse to cool the body. If you want to stop the smell try different deodrants as some work better than others... (read in full...)

Can I date my child's teacher?

Q.   This isn't a totally serious question, and is somewhat tongue in cheek ;o) buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut... Went to my childs parents evening last night and quite liked one of his teachers! I picked up a bit of chemistry. Funnily enough, when me and my child...

A.   23 May 2008: like susan said. Two adults + both single = possible relationship. BUT keep it quite as it could be embarrasing for your child... (read in full...)

He's a millionaire but won't give me money for a deposit, how can I make him regret this?

Q.   I am a 25 year old female who has been involved with a married man for 3 years. We have an okay relationship, I dont ask him for much or expect much from him at. I respect his private life, and know where not to cross the line. He is a millionaire, ...

A.   23 May 2008: Im gonna have to agree with Kittys second post and all her words. Your having money issues, yet your haggling for a new car. Take the damn bus like others, get a cheap car if you really need it. Just because hes rich doesnt mean he owes you anyt... (read in full...)

How can I tell her she's pretty without leting her know I like her?

Q.   If a girl says she looks bad in her picture what can I say positive to make her feel good without being corny or giving signs that I like her???...

A.   23 May 2008: Ive been here before mate. My friend thinks shes ugly even though shes very beautiful. When she says she looks bad in photos i just say "oh shut up you look beautiful" or something like that. I try and say it in a way to be nice rather than fli... (read in full...)

How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?

Q.   I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...

A.   22 May 2008: I agree with koga Your a little girls still. your bodys still growing and your breasts will still grow. Secondly there is no way to improve your bust besides surgury and at your age it wont happen and getting surgury will only attract the wrong ty... (read in full...)

Any tips to induce childbirth so my beloved dying grandmother can see her first great grandchild? It would mean so much to me!

Q.   I am pregnant with my first child. However my grandmother who is the most important person to me in my life is dying. There is nothing more in this world that I want than for my gran to see my child when it is born....but the way things are looking ...

A.   20 May 2008: You seriously cant be wanting to put yourself and more importantly the rest of your child's life, even if he survives this early just so your gran can see him. Sorry your nan is dying but that is no excuse for this wild and irresponsible response... (read in full...)

Is this site legal?

Q.   hi i no this isnt a relationship question but ive heard some other aunts talking about it before, is ******.com illegal in the UK? thanks xx [moderator comment: site name removed. No it's not illegal. Just inappropriate]...

A.   19 May 2008: it cant be answered unless the site name is said... (read in full...)

What is spooning??

Q.   What is spooning, and why do people seem to make such a big deal out of it?...

A.   19 May 2008: I know spooning as what variety has said. Two people hugging each other. One facing away from their partner the other hugging them from behind... (read in full...)

If you are married a crush should stay a crush and not be taken any further right?

Q.   An old friend of mine (NOT a boyfriend!!!) said that he thinks that nowadays it is common expectation that a crush -- even one felt by a married man!!! -- should end up "consummated" whereas years ago this wasn't true. I think this is terrible and ...

A.   19 May 2008: You are 100% right Though at any time in our lives we cant help who we have a crush on and sometimes they come at the wrong time(during a relationship) they should stay a crush and thats it. end off nothing else. Anything more and your gonna en... (read in full...)

Sex with 67 men in the past, is that high or low in your opinion?

Q.   My wife had sex with 67 men before me...is that number too high or low for a woman?...

A.   19 May 2008: you know what they say Above 68, is too much Below 66, is ok And 67 is the grey area It all depends on her past relationships, how many shes had etc But in the end shes your wife and numbers dont matter right now... (read in full...)

I think my brother is gay, how can I know if he is?

Q.   i think my brother is gay how can i know if he is not ...

A.   19 May 2008: Ask him his favioute Madonna album If he says anything but "i dont like madonna" there you go hes gay had to get one i... (read in full...)

I'm only 10 and my friends are talking about sex. I don't understand!

Q.   I am only 10 but all my friends are talking about blow jobs. . . But i dont know what they are could someonw please help me so i know what my friends are talking about ?...

A.   18 May 2008: when your that young, sometimes especially girls they want to be older than they are So they were make up, dress different and talk as if they were older. Though i think 10 is too young to talk about it, its harmless just dont do it at age 10. Also... (read in full...)

I think my brother is gay, how can I know if he is?

Q.   i think my brother is gay how can i know if he is not ...

A.   18 May 2008: just leave him alone whether hes straight or not... (read in full...)

What can you do if you like someone but they don't like you back?

Q.   well am really confused what would you do if you liked someone (a boy) but they didnt like you back...

A.   15 May 2008: Well there is nothing we can do here. This is one of those things in life we sometimes have to go through, and as much as it hurts its something we can do little about. Only move on and find someone who does like you... (read in full...)

Dad says "work it out for yourself" when I ask him a question

Q.   My dad often says work it out for yourself when i ask him a question. How do you work things out for yourself?, surely its a lot easier asking someone else....

A.   13 May 2008: i guess putting it simply As we grow learn and experience life, answers come to us. With our unique lives we get different views and perspectives of the same answer depending on how it will relate to our indvidual lives. I guess your dad is sayin... (read in full...)

Do you consider race a factor when choosing a partner?

Q.   I'm a African-American male that likes all types of women. The women I used to be with are Latinos. I do not really care about ethnicity because if you look for someone that understands your needs and your strives, that someone may not be your color ...

A.   13 May 2008: Some people will say race doesnt matter, but in the end it does. BUT not for the wrong reasons. People have preferences when looking for a partner, i know a set of twins (white females) who are atracted to black males. I have a friend (black male... (read in full...)

Is masturbation murder?

Q.   well as u all know ''sperm'' is pretty mutch something alive ,i mean it turns into a human if u have sexual intercourse with a woman ,well if people masturbate is it a sin ,as my freind said it ''mastubation is murder'' then he followed on ...

A.   13 May 2008: No masterbation is not murder at all, and your friend sounds kinda confused. But just ignore him and do what you want to... (read in full...)

I want to find out his birthday so I can surprise him

Q.   I'm trying to find out someone's birthday! Are there any free birth data websites? I really need to know it so I can surprise him but I don't want him to know that I know... if that makes sense! ...

A.   8 May 2008: I doubt theres a birth data website around. But a better idea would be ask his mate? Has he got a social networking page? his bday might be there Ask his siblings/parent?... (read in full...)

One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?

Q.   One partner wants sex every night, while the other wants it once or twice a week, what's the solution?...

A.   7 May 2008: i dont think sex should be seen as a monotomous thing where it must get done a certain number of times a week. When its a good time its a good time... (read in full...)

Was he having a knock at me by introducing me to his parents as being 'Black Irish'?

Q.   I just started seeing this guy and we are just getting to know each other. We both seemed to have been hitting it off. But i'm a bit troubled by what happened when he introduced me to his parents. He introduced me to his parents who are Irish an...

A.   7 May 2008: not being irish ive never heard of either saying but guessing If hes parents are old irish and were in Ireland around the years of turmoil it could be about your religon just as a term they may have used to desribe catholics or simply yes it may ... (read in full...)

Who does he like, if he's flirting with me and my best friend?

Q.   If a boy keeps flirting, but is doing it really serious, and is doing the same to your best friend. Who does he like ?...

A.   6 May 2008: I really doubt he likes either of you as he is most likely a natural flirt... (read in full...)

How do I ask her out if she already has a boyfriend?

Q.   hi people,okay, so theres this girl i really like and well im pretty sure already likes me as well, the problem is that they say that she already has a boyfriend and well, im not sure ether to go for it or not. She really does act like she likes me ...

A.   6 May 2008: if she has a BF you dont ask her out. Simple you cant... (read in full...)

What do you do if your best friend is dating your brother?

Q.   What do you do if your best friend is dating your brother?...

A.   5 May 2008: i would think its akward but there isnt much you can do except hope it goes well... (read in full...)

Am I a slut? I need to know if this is normal for teenagers to do.

Q.   when i was 16 years old i dated my brothers friend,i dint like him that much cause he wasnt that gorgeous and i dint like his nature either..he wanted to have sex with me but i dint agree as i said i dint like him..i did not kiss or make out with ...

A.   1 May 2008: A virgin slut? No you never had sex with them so your nowhere near a slut You have no dark past, its pretty light... (read in full...)

Has anyone heard of linkng?

Q.   What does linking mean? Recently, boys having asking me and my friends to link them and none of us know what they mean? At first, we thought it meant to snog but we are now unsure and we are really confused. Is there anybody who could actual...

A.   1 May 2008: im 18 and ive heard it alot and have never exactly known what it means. But ive heard it mean 'going out with' 'getting with' 'setting up' so i couldnt say exactly what they meant. Im only 18 and i feel so old right now... (read in full...)

He asks for his butt to be played with and wants to use my vibrator in his anal,-is he gay?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years, however inbetween the years we have broke up alot, however one of the times we broke up he kissed his best friend, who is a guy.. he did it for a dare as his best friends gf asked them to do ...

A.   29 April 2008: Assuming your age is incorect. No he may not be gay. Some men like their aholes to be situmlated, in mens aholes their are certain very sensitive areas that is similar to the womans g-spot and i can be possible to make them ejaculate from this very... (read in full...)

Will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured?

Q.   hi i've been going out with this girl for about 2months now and we'eve agreed to have sex together pretty soon. but will it be different to have sex with a white girl since my new girlfriend is coloured? is it any better having sex with a coloured...

A.   27 April 2008: Yes it will be different but not because she is a different colour, it will be because shes a different person. And i reckon from now on you should really be more careful with the way you make distinctions between people just because of their race... (read in full...)

Will the leftover sperm on my penis get my girlfriend pregnant?

Q.   I was having sex unprotected but I pulled my penis out before I ejaculated. But about 30 minutes later we started to do it again. Will the leftover sperm on my penis get my girlfriend pregnant? ...

A.   25 April 2008: you cant be serious mate having unprotected sex PERIOD can get your gf pregnant, not matter if you pull out or not. She can get pregnant from pre-cum which does contain sperm in it and science lessons teach us it takes 1 sperm to impregna... (read in full...)

Do women tell the truth about their sexual past?

Q.   Do women tell the truth about their sexual past... do they feel men would leave them if they told the truth? be honest and men your thoughts also please. thanks...

A.   24 April 2008: the simple answer in my view is if they were to tell the truth some petty men will get insecure and not be able to handle it. Look up past questions about men hating their gf/wives sexual past and you will see why some women hide it... (read in full...)

Clueless about how to dress alternatively?

Q.   hey im thinking of changing my style. i want to become an indie but i have no idea about the fashions, hairstyles and music - i know that sounds a bit wierd bieng as i just said i want to be one but i want to be away from the mainstream fash...

A.   24 April 2008: well i see alot of indies where i live, though im not a fan of their music some boys do dress quite smart and i have a few indie clothes myself. Recently i went into the next website and found a few gems there, they may cost a bit, but are quit... (read in full...)

He tells me he loves me but he won't ask me out! Should I let him go?

Q.   there is this guy i like for almost nine years. and he knows i love him. he always gets red when he sees me or smiles at me... hes aways joking around with me all the time. sometimes he say i love you but doesn't ask me out should i let him ...

A.   24 April 2008: is there a reason you cannot ask him out?... (read in full...)

I touch myself in public which is embarrassing. Why am I horny?

Q.   why are we horny all the time! i dont get it. i look at porn enjoy it and still in public i have to mess with myself. its embarrasing. HELP!...

A.   20 April 2008: could be hormones or you could have a high sex drive Try and keep it at home and if you can 'satisfy' yourself at home so you know you will ok when your out. ... (read in full...)

He had pre-cum on his penis but I'm still a virgin. Could I be pregnant?

Q.   I almost lost my virginity....he went inside of me and we didnt have a condom on.he had pre cum on his penis.can i be preganant...

A.   20 April 2008: If his penis went inside of you, it means you are no longer a virgin. Also yes it is slightly possible that you could be pregnant if he didnt use a condom. So at first chance get yourself tested and get the 72 hour pill and from now on use a condom... (read in full...)

What is the term used for cousins in real love?

Q.   What is the term used for cousins in real love?...

A.   18 April 2008: incest really... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: New feature, "watched questions" list

Q.   I've added a new feature that lets you add questions to your "watched questions" page. It's just an easy way to make a list of questions that interest you and that you want to keep track of. It's easy to remove items from the list or clear it. ...

A.   17 April 2008: sounds great Keep up the amazing work Andrew... (read in full...)

Will this man ever ask me out?!

Q.   Will this man ever ask me out? I am a member of a sports club,he is a teacher there, we are both single and in our 30s. Have known him since august and its doing my head in not knowing if anything will happen with him! He gives me all the signals,...

A.   17 April 2008: why dont you do the simple thing and ask him out?... (read in full...)

I'm having trouble masturbating! What is this white stuff?

Q.   hi, im 15 years old and im having trouble masterbating. when its time for me to cum i only get a white liquid. anyone got any advice???...

A.   17 April 2008: Why have you answered you own question as if your a uncle? Anyway its probably sperm... (read in full...)

A question of who should be president?

Q.   During the recent presidntial election many have talked about relgion and morals. John McCain is remarried while his first wife is stil living that is adultery. Hillary Clintons husband is an adulter. Barrack Obama has no cases against h...

A.   17 April 2008: I know the nationality of the prime idiot..i mean minister. Since i do Politics at school i have to follow this election closely and i cant even vote in it. First how is what Bill Clinton did anything thing to do with Hillary. Second id rather vo... (read in full...)

After I ejaculate all I want to do is sleep. Is this a normal reaction?

Q.   Kudos to whoever had smth to say abt my previous problem. Though sm people really gave me the hair drier, it turned out to be the perfect advice from a true friend. But i do have this other problem. Is it normal that i should feel so exhausted ever...

A.   17 April 2008: Yes it is normal Same as after sex, after masterbating you tend to get a wee bit tired, and wanna sleep. ... (read in full...)

I'm bi-sexual and I'm 17, would it be breaking the law if I went with a man much older than me.

Q.   Hi, i am bi-sexual and i'm 17. I want to try sexual stuff with another man, however i do not want a guy my age but a guy a lot older and more experienced - like 35 - 50. Is this ok or am i breaking the law?...

A.   11 April 2008: Age of consent in the UK is 16, have fun(safe) sex with whomever you want... (read in full...)

What are signs that someone is gay?

Q.   out of curiosity what are signs that people are gay?? e.g taking shirt off with crossed hands and over the head. any more?? ...

A.   11 April 2008: only if they join the cast of the village people, though i must admit YMCA is a catchy song. There is no sign people are gay, some straight men and metrosexual and to some come of as gay, while even recently a guy i knew, who to me was one of the ... (read in full...)

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