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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
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Why do his balls disappear when he's erect?
Q. why do my partner's balls disappear when he is erect. he is 57....
A. 29 September 2008: Some mens disappear or retract when they have an erection... (read in full...)
Are there side effects from masturbating 5/6 times a week?
Q. i mastrobate 5 to 6 times in a week and i really wanna know if it will affect my health, or it is natural? or is there any side effects of that...sometimes i licked up some semen? so plz tell me that if its ok or shud i reduce it to 2 to 3 time...
A. 28 September 2008: its perfectly fine amount
The new sayig is a wank a day keeps prostate cancer away... (read in full...)
Why exactly do people have anal sex when it's so disgusting?!
Q. Here's the thing, all these people brag about anal sex, the porn industry claims that women love anal sex. We tried anal sex and all I can say about it is that it felt like i was taking a big crap. It was discusting and the thought of it made me ...
A. 28 September 2008: Well the easy answer is some women wont like it
some will
Thats how life works. Some will really enjoy this kind of sex others will hate it. Prehaps some will fake it to please others but thats them.
Theres no logic to wrap around its life... (read in full...)
I'm 14 year old with a 17 year old boyfriend. I just want to hang out with him, but my dad doesn't trust us.
Q. im a 14year old girl that has a 17 year old boyfriend that is turning 18 in two days. i really like him but my dad doesnt want me to date him and my mom think that she wouldnt care as long as she meets him. i want my dad to meet him too but i dont ...
A. 25 September 2008: Sorry but id have to agree with your dad (like most of us men we have been that age before and we know how we think)A 17 year old may be all sweet and supportive but no matter how nice he is there is always that one though lurking in his head. Why a ... (read in full...)
Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room?
Q. I want to do sexual intercourse with my girlfriend in a hotel. Is it legal to do sex between an unmarried couple in a hotel room? May I arrested by the police?...
A. 25 September 2008: I wouldnt know in india, but im pretty sure it isnt... (read in full...)
What emotional and common level would a 40ish man and 19 year old girl have?
Q. why would a 40ish male want a 19ish girl and visa versa. on what emotional and common level would they be. alot of people say go for it...
A. 24 September 2008: Truthly sometimes its not about an emotional connection sometimes at 40-something want a younger gal to make him feel younger... (read in full...)
Do guys also get a yeast infection? I noticed only once that his ejaculatory fluid was yellowish...
Q. I just want to find out from you uncles and aunts, do guys also get a yeast infection? One time my bf had yellow ejaculation. Was it an infection or it has to do with his smoking. I've seen it once, never again. What was it?...
A. 22 September 2008: some men do ejaculate with a yellowish tint. It happens
Depends on what he ate, drank etc... (read in full...)
I need help with an essay paper, can anyone help please?
Q. I have an essay paper due friday and I was wondering who is the villain in the catcher in the rye? I have to know how the villain changed the outcome of the novel and such. Any help will be greatly appreciated :P thanks....
A. 22 September 2008: i did my coursework on CITR last year (april) and there is no villian exactly
Do you mean Holden (he is his own villian)?... (read in full...)
He didn't send me a birthday card on Friday, I am deeply hurt and have ignored his calls for the weekend. Should I let him go?
Q. Im a little confused..ive been seeing a great guy for months and although hes a little forgetful we have a ball and i have no other complaints. But...it was my birthday on Friday and even though he had a wedding to go to that morning in England for ...
A. 22 September 2008: like kinkydude said alot of men dont think when it comes to stuff like this
And to be honest if we remember a birthday we dont even think about sending cards. For me it just doesnt clock into my head.
Yes he will be sorry and say it, but just don... (read in full...)
I'm embarrassed to wear braces. I need some honest opinions!
Q. i cant smile because i have teeth missing and out of place. Getting treatment but will take at least 2years. I feel so gutted because realistically how many girls want to date or even be seen with a guy who still wears braces when his aged 18! Come ...
A. 22 September 2008: I had braces and to be honest at first i hated them
But after while you dont relise you have them
BUT think about it, youll have them for two year (i was supposed to but mine was only 18 months) and then you will have nice straight teeth for the ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that my brother might be gay because he doesn't like 'man' things.
Q. Hi, my little brother is now turning 12 and sometimes I am really woried because he acts like a homosexual. He doesnt like cars, sports or any of those man things. Insted he likes cooking, helping in the house, fix clothes, HE LIKES EVERYTHING TO ...
A. 22 September 2008: There not being a man around doesnt make him gay at all
Neither does what you stated, i like cooking and am fairly clean. Some peoplelike different things its how we are made and hardwired. Hes only 12 and inding himself
Just be a supporti... (read in full...)
I want 'revenge'.....What can I do to prove my point?
Q. Hello everyone, My problem isnt that significant, but any advice possible would be extremely helpful to me in many ways. Me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up recently because i guess he didnt like me anymore and wanted to go out with t...
A. 22 September 2008: best way to get revenge is to move on and show he hasnt hurt you at all. Move on and be happy, show him what he missed by leaving you. And ignore him, make him feel small by being bigger.
Going out to show him your hurt only shows your the weak... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom my brother watches porn? He's been doing it since he was 12, and is 17 now.
Q. HI, I have this problem since my older brother was 12 he started watching porn...since I was a little girl I didnt really understand but while I was getting older he was still doing it. Now he is 17 and I have seem him watching porn almost every ...
A. 22 September 2008: i still wouldnt tell
Even though hes had sex, when hes single he can go back to it
Just let him do his thing and try and ignore it... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mom my brother watches porn? He's been doing it since he was 12, and is 17 now.
Q. HI, I have this problem since my older brother was 12 he started watching porn...since I was a little girl I didnt really understand but while I was getting older he was still doing it. Now he is 17 and I have seem him watching porn almost every ...
A. 21 September 2008: Umm nope
It would be devestatingly embarrasing for him and is natural for a teenage boy to do really... (read in full...)
Can producing too much semen be a problem?
Q. Hi all, I've been told a few times now that I ejaculate quite a lot of semen/sperm, so I started to read about it and discovered that the average man ejaculates about 2-6 ml of semen. I did my own little test (with an old medicine cup!) and my me...
A. 21 September 2008: From what i read theres nothing bad about it at all, but if you want visit your GP
Maybe your more fertile or maybe when the sperm mixes with the 'other fluids' your have more than others
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's 4 year-old sister hates me and I got mad at him!
Q. I been with my boyfriend for awhile (almost a year.) But his sister (who's only 4) hates me. One day when I went over to his house. He couldn't answer the door so his sister answer it. And cover me with silly string (he saw the whole thing.) I ...
A. 21 September 2008: Truthly theres not much you can do. It a four year old girl, just let her be a kid. Your bf wont do much as its his little sister. JUst try and be nice to her... (read in full...)
My ex rings me out of the blue...to tell me his g/fs brother died. Why?
Q. I guess i'm just a little confused as to why my ex (broke up 9 months ago) rang me after not holding a conversation with me for months. He owed me money and after he paid me all of it, (which i may add was like drawing blood from a stone) i tried to ...
A. 18 September 2008: just a drunken call!! or maybe he felt he could talk to you
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I really love gothic, black metal music. Does everyone go through this phase?
Q. i am a gothik girl but don't wear a lot of black.. but love the music.. black metal .. death metal..because of the state of war i lived in... anyways,i just wanted to ask if this a normal phase?i mean does everyone get threw with it?because it is ...
A. 16 September 2008: Dont hate the person you are
You like death metal and thats who you are, people have these "musical" sterotypes i.e Metalheads worship the devil, kids who listen to emo music cut themselve, grime is crime etc
If you like your music dont let anyo... (read in full...)
I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?
Q. I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...
A. 16 September 2008: Of course hes not a pervert. If you didnt know already porn is completly legal (as long as the actors are)
My question is how was your relationship before you discovered it, i bet it was good. If it was, why does the porn matter now?... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me, as a female, to enjoy watching porn?
Q. Hiya, I am just wondering if I am normal, or this situation is normal. Well, I have been in a relationship with my fiance for nearly three years and I have always looked at porn on the internet. He does not know this, nor will I tell him beca...
A. 14 September 2008: i bet he will like it. Porn can be added into your sex life and enjoyed by you both... (read in full...)
If his wife was taking care of him, he wouldn't have to lean on his female students. He isn't 'traditionally' attractive but should I flirt with him?
Q. A few months ago, I couldn't help but fall for my much older principal. Sure he isn't TRADITIONALLY attractive, but looks aren't everything. He has a big.....let's just call it a 'beaver'. I just know it. He also has a really cool voice, kind of ...
A. 14 September 2008: are you being serious here?
No you shouldnt flirt with him at all... (read in full...)
Why fret so much on appearance?
Q. Honestly...i dont get it...So many people fret about thier appearence, a lot. Understandable, but i mean the "Im not pretty enough for him" or "There are better looking guys" ect. ect. Why do looks matter. Cant we love each other as we are? Im a bit ...
A. 10 September 2008: i think we can all stand here and blame the media etc
But the only person who can let things bother you, is YOU
if you stand there with your head high from then start and love yourself , it wont get to you. If you let it get to you, it will.
L... (read in full...)
He posted as a bi curious male, views gay porn, so do you think my ex is gay (he denied this)?
Q. Hi IM 23 and female, my now ex partner is 22 and male, we have been going out now for a year and a half. A couple of weeks ago I found a dating account that my partner had set up when we had been goiong out for approx 5months, on this account he ...
A. 8 September 2008: From what you said he might be Bi-sexual or just bi-curious. If he put Bi sexual as his "status" and dates women he just might be BI. Not gay... (read in full...)
He posted as a bi curious male, views gay porn, so do you think my ex is gay (he denied this)?
Q. Hi IM 23 and female, my now ex partner is 22 and male, we have been going out now for a year and a half. A couple of weeks ago I found a dating account that my partner had set up when we had been goiong out for approx 5months, on this account he ...
A. 8 September 2008: From what you said he might be Bi-sexual or just bi-curious. If he put Bi sexual as his "status" and dates women he just might be BI. Not gay... (read in full...)
Why didn't he smile when I took the picture?
Q. On August 30th, I went up to take my boyfriend to the Mud Drags and my mom had asked for me to get a picture of my boyfriend and his dad, so I did and he asked if I was going to get one of me and him and I said "Yes, before we go." I forgot but took ...
A. 8 September 2008: not everyone likes to smile in photos. Your reading way too much into this... (read in full...)
I used a fake id to ask my bf if he had a girlfriend and he kept saying no!
Q. Hi!! i have a botfriend but i ws not so sure if he took things with me seriously so i kinda decided to check things out myself. so i made a fake id and added him as another girl.And i asked him out on that id. He told me(thinking i was the other gi...
A. 8 September 2008: Im going to be harsh here but its needed.
Whats the point of this relationship, it seems like your both a bunch of little kids. Mostly ou for what you did, you entrapped him, you didnt trust him and you went out of your way to "see if you can trus... (read in full...)
Do men who don't watch porn exist or should I give up and stay single?...
Q. when I commit to a special man I hope to be his only and for him to get his sexual arousal from my body alone...is this too much to ask.....I cant imagine ever needing to look at another mans body for arousal once commited....and I cant imagine ever ...
A. 6 September 2008: Yes prehaps there are men who dont watch porn. But if you expect a man to never be aroused in any other way besides your body is undreal. Men see other women, pictures and tv and can be aroused if they want to be or not. Fact is i find your points ... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 6 September 2008: not to be rude
but if you seriously dont know this WHY on earth are you having unprotected sex. Go try and get the pill and a pregnancy test. Straight away... (read in full...)
Is a 19 year old boy to old for a 14 year old girl?
Q. so its this boy that just turned 19 that likes me and im 14 so does tha age difference matter? he is soooooo sexy and fine i ant him soo bad but idk...
A. 5 September 2008: fact is in most cases age doesnt matter, but thats between two adults. Here, not to patronise, but your a kid and hes an adult. Nothing should happen here. Plus it doesnt sound like you like him for who he is really... (read in full...)
What is the age when guys start making sperm?
Q. at what age does the sperm generally come out ...
A. 4 September 2008: ill say 8-12, it all depends. But it takes a few years to fully develope... (read in full...)
Research that has shown negative effects of porn-watching? Why aren't we concerned?
Q. why do some people not care about all the research that has shown exposure to porn causes men to find their real life partners less attractive? I personally have experienced this when my husband started to compare me to the women in porn and a cl...
A. 4 September 2008: personally i think this article is not rubbish but out of date and conclusions are far too open.
When (some) men/woman watch porn they can be jerks and mean to their loved ones, as in your case. YES this is wrong but dont blame porn for it blam... (read in full...)
Could tick bites be causing my symptoms?
Q. okay so recently i went tree planting and i got bitten by some ticks. about 2 weeks later, the bites are still visible and itchy, and more inflamed. my best friend has been bitten by ticks and hers never got this bad. i have also noticed that my ...
A. 4 September 2008: ticks can carry a whole host of things from other animals/people they have bitten. Best bet is to visit your GP, and tell him. ... (read in full...)
When a guy's dad says, "has gone soft on her," what does that mean and why would he say that?
Q. hmmm ok when someone says like for example a lads dad says "hes gone soft on her" to his son or something what does it actually mean and what would make him say this? just curious...
A. 3 September 2008: i always thought going soft on her meant he has feelings for her. Im guessing your from the northern part of the uk... (read in full...)
How could she be so careless with birth control?
Q. Hi, im 25 and my girlfirend 23. i am a college student with one more year to go. I've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now. I took her virginity and we never use condoms. at first we used pull-out method, but after a few pregnancy scares, ...
A. 3 September 2008: why dont you take care of your own dangle and wrap it in a protective material when having sex condom prehaps?
You cant put all the sexual protection responsibilities especially with the amount of scares you are having take a step and wrap you piec... (read in full...)
How do I stop being horny all the time?
Q. Ive been single for about 5 months, which has ment no sex, the problem is im horny all the time, its driving me crazy and its all im thinking about How do i stop thinking about it? and how do i stop being horny 24/7? Should i just go and have a on...
A. 2 September 2008: just serve yourself whenever you get the need... (read in full...)
Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?
Q. should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...
A. 2 September 2008: Yes. you should. Just because they are not married doesnt make their relationship worth any less. How would you want a woman to be messing with your bf behind your back? But your not the only guilty party here he should feel worse.
Just stay away... (read in full...)
My cat is acting weird!
Q. hi, my cat just suddenly turned into different behaviour. shes always following us and she never used to but then shel suddenly turn round hiss at you, growl, then start faoming and dribbling at the mouth. im worried what sort of illness it is c...
A. 2 September 2008: im no vet which is why you should take her to one. it may cost a bit. If you can try and find a charity vet and make a donation to cover their costs, they are alot cheaper. But just take you pet to the vet.... (read in full...)
My cat is acting weird!
Q. hi, my cat just suddenly turned into different behaviour. shes always following us and she never used to but then shel suddenly turn round hiss at you, growl, then start faoming and dribbling at the mouth. im worried what sort of illness it is c...
A. 2 September 2008: im no vet which is why you should take her to one. it may cost a bit. If you can try and find a charity vet and make a donation to cover their costs, they are alot cheaper. But just take you pet to the vet.... (read in full...)
Why did he end his email this way?
Q. Well, this guy and I have being in touch for a year now. We met on a business and since then we are kinda long distance friendship. I mean, we like each other but we are just friends. We enjoy our friendship and emailing, share thoughts, pics, ...
A. 1 September 2008: i always thought warm regards was the same as the examples you gave.
Its like a hug in a way.
He seems fine... (read in full...)
Is it rape if it was your boyfriend?
Q. Was hanging out with my boyfriend one night and he wanted us to go to the drive in later that night after dinner so i agreed and when we got there we let all of the seats down to get comfortable and in the middle of the movie he starts unbuttoning ...
A. 31 August 2008: it doesnt matter who the hell it is if you didnt want to do it and said stop, and he didnt its rape.
Tell a friend and have the go to the police as i you dont this will continue.... (read in full...)
How do I convince my sister to stop wearing this bikini?
Q. My cute younger sister (she's 16) hangs around the public pool wearing a thong bikini. From behind, it looks as though she is totally naked. The boys there gather around her, many whispering, all staring, some spreading the word. If I ask her to ...
A. 28 August 2008: Anyone who says leave her alon, clearly isnt a brother with a sister.
Personally would go down the be a complete jerk route and not even let her go out in something like that, telling her not to mau work depending on who she is. But if were my sist... (read in full...)
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