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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
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I want him to chase me
Q. "Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I ...
A. 20 March 2008: Dont play games, as only some men like the chase, while others hate it.
Just be forward and ask him out... (read in full...)
I masturbate and imagine I'm making out with someone, Help!!
Q. Hey I'm around the age of 12-14. I don't have a computer of my own but I have looked at porn on my gma's computer. I am always scared that she will find out and that other people will find out. Also when I am home alone I masturbate and act like ...
A. 19 March 2008: You dont really need help
What you are doing is natural and theres nothing wrong with it.
Though be careful on your nans PC... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 19 year old boy to like a 15 year old girl?
Q. hey am a 19 year old boy and a really like a 15 year old girl, but me friends and stuff say its wrong. what should I do?...
A. 18 March 2008: We cant help who we like, but we can help who we date
i personally think a 19 year old dating a 15 year old is wrong, wait until shes 16 at least to persue a relationship... (read in full...)
I slept with my best friend's boyfriend, should I tell her?
Q. HELP im 12 years old and i slept with my best friend's boyfriend we were at a party and we got drunk. We both decided we really fancied each other and when his girlfriend left we ended up in bed.I don't no if i should tell my best friend. She...
A. 16 March 2008: Why are you drinking at 12 and having parties without parental supervision?
Growing up fast may seem good but once your are actually older you will wish your were 12 again.
But for your question tell her, she deserves to know if your any type of ... (read in full...)
Can we cure my brother of his addiction to pastel-jacketed family saga novels?
Q. I'm embarrassed to say that my 39 year old brother has started to love reading family saga series - I find this pretty funny. I don't think I'd associate that type of fiction a male tends to read in his spare time. Ever since my family visited my ...
A. 13 March 2008: If he wants to read, let him read. Its not hurting anyone and reading can be good. Also i doubt it affects anyone and it makes him happy so leave him to it... (read in full...)
My boyfriend likes my hair combed down over half my face...
Q. I have pretty shoulder length dark brown hair and my boyfriend wants me to have it combed down over half my face all the time because he thinks it's sexy. Is this normal?...
A. 13 March 2008: Its not about hiding your face
Its about the style he finds sexy.
Some like fringes, some like it long down the back, some like it marge simpson style.
If you want to do it that way, do it as he has already said he likes it... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Some of you lot are nutters
Seriously
Ever seen the movie Alien Vs Predator?
If you swallow seman you will end up like them, having your baby pop out of your mouth to feed or the innocent... (read in full...)
Is he with me only for sex, if he has an erection every time he sees or touches me?
Q. My boyfriend gets an erection each time he sees or touches me, is that a good sign? or does it mean he is with me just for sex. i need much response from the male sex....
A. 11 March 2008: Hey be proud
He finds you really attractive enough you can turn him on just through looks, its happens to most males with one or more girls throughout their lifes.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay? Do I test him?
Q. Ok im goin out with a guy who is really sweet and is always hyper.................well a few days ago my friend told me that when they asked him to go out with me he told them he was gay!!!! and so now idk wut to do.......should i test him? cuz i ...
A. 11 March 2008: You are very young and are quite not getting it here.
I doubt hes gay, he was saying he was as either an excuse to get your friends to leave or as a joke.
Also this "test" shows that you shouldnt really be going out with him as it just shows yo... (read in full...)
When a guy apologises, does he mean it and does he care about you?
Q. when a guy says sorry for hurt feelings, does that mean he cares about you?...
A. 11 March 2008: It just means his sorry for whatever he did, he may care about you.But it isnt nessacarily linked to the "sorry"... (read in full...)
We both have braces... could we get "stuck"?
Q. I am about to get braces and this guy that I'm with has braces also but if we both have braces will we get stuck? or caught?...
A. 7 March 2008: Doubt it
Just kiss lightly and keep teeth away and you would be fine... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel unwanted in your old one?
Q. is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel like your unwanted in your old one?...
A. 1 March 2008: Well if you really feel moving is best its ok.
But i think with the reasons you stated moving may not help, i was a little shy at the start of school and only had a select few mates. i thought about quiting, but changed my mind i stood up and put ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel unwanted in your old one?
Q. is it wrong to move to a new school just because you feel like your unwanted in your old one?...
A. 1 March 2008: If you can make the switch go for it. But why is it you feel unwanted... (read in full...)
My fiance hangs out with other girls. Is this a problem?
Q. My fiance "hangs out" with other girls. Should I be concerned about this???...
A. 1 March 2008: "hangs outs" where? At a bar? Coffee Shops? At Home? Their place?
The situation depends on where, with how many and what time he is with them. He could just be friends with them or it could be worse. More info would be great. But otherwise you have... (read in full...)
His addiction to video games is causing problems! What can I do?
Q. hey people out there, well i need help my boyfriend is addicted to video games and it annoys me so much. i hate video games because with one of my ex it got between our relationship. and i don't want that to happen to me and him. because i love him ...
A. 1 March 2008: How much does he play it. If its a couple hours a day its not too bad if its much more he might have a problem, but tell him you want to spend time with him and he should turn off the game sometimes... (read in full...)
How should my friend handle her teacher's remarks, perhaps improper?
Q. my bestmate has been feeling really uncomfortable in one of her lessons lately. the teacher said she was really pretty and if he were the same age he would have probably asked her out. just yesterday he said that he had a girlfriend when ...
A. 28 February 2008: from what ive understood he did nothing wrong really. Teachers have difficult jobs and as teachers need ways to communicate with kids, i guess talking about his youth is one way of talking to her. Maybe she was a little uncomfortable but he may have ... (read in full...)
Old bf wants me back--what do I do?
Q. what should you do if an old boyfriend wants to get back with you ...
A. 26 February 2008: well considering thats why your not together, i see no issue with at least going out for some coffee and seeing if your still compatiable. If so go for it.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a man says 'love you' not 'i love you'??
Q. What does it mean when a man tells you 'Love You', not 'I Love You'?...
A. 26 February 2008: Collaroy is right, most men dont think as deeply as some seem to think.
He probably just said the shorter version by not adding "i".
I doubt its anything. Just stop over thinking the smallest of things and know he does love you. These are the thin... (read in full...)
How do I politely deny their invitation to go on a date?
Q. I regularly work in the evenings at my parent's family business. Of course, I get customers who are in their 20's, 30's, all ages. I'm 18, and some of the men have giving me their numbers,or myspace..or shown some sign of interest, such a...
A. 23 February 2008: A good way is to tell them your 16, that should send them packing.
If you dont wanna do that tell them you cannot accept dates as you wanna remain professional in your business... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?
Q. I am in a relationship and I am thinking about oral sex with him what should I do?...
A. 23 February 2008: your old enough to do it. Whats the issue?... (read in full...)
What causes people to fall in love?
Q. Hey just curious here but i've always wondered what causes people to fall in love? I've never had a bf before and i like this lad who i'm friends with and these feelings all came on so suddenly about 3 months ago. Its like, oh i don't know, how do ...
A. 22 February 2008: Personally i dont know,and there could be a scientific answer but i wouldnt wanna know it.
Love is one of those things that we may never fully understand, but its there.
As for what makes us fall in love. Fate? Body Chemistry? Something else? Th... (read in full...)
Old bf wants me back--what do I do?
Q. what should you do if an old boyfriend wants to get back with you ...
A. 22 February 2008: Think why hes your EX, and decide if you think it was a good enough reason, and if you wanna remove EX from the title... (read in full...)
Should I secretly text her and give her hints about her "Secret admirer". I don't know what to do!
Q. I'm 14 years old and at my school there's a new English teacher who's going to leave at the end of February. Over the past couple of months I have grown sexually attracted to her because I perform well in class she kind of... shields me! Once of my ...
A. 20 February 2008: Dont. Shes 25, a teacher, and has a boyfriend. No matter how you feel she wont recipricate your feelings enjoy the crush and leave it there... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem?
Q. My boyfriend doesn't think of me when he masturbates, is this a problem? He says men don't masturbate about the woman they love??...
A. 20 February 2008: Im gonna go with what everyoneis saying.It is not a problem as when a person masterbates its usually to a fantasy. So its no problem. Just know he does love youand its good he tells the truth... (read in full...)
He said we can advance by the time I reach 18 if I still like him. Why shouldn't we date now?
Q. I am 15 and i like someone who is 20. We both have feelings for each other but because of the age difference we have to wait until i am 18. he said that when i am 18 if i still have feelings for him than we should make the relationship serious. but ...
A. 19 February 2008: Yes age CAN be a number but this is when both are adults. He is 20 and your 15, your still a kid, in life a more importantly for him by law.
Say you did date and had sex he would go straight to jail if someone told the police, which wouldnt be too ... (read in full...)
Is Heartbreak An Illness?
Q. is heartbreak an illness because i have a lot of health probs at the moment and i think it could be to do with stress and heartbreak. i am in love with a teacher at my school (who i have NO chance with) and thinking that i will never be with him is ...
A. 18 February 2008: Well it is disputed
My personal belief is thats its a colective group of symptons rather than a illness.
You can have all of what Dazzerg said. But also theres a medical conditon fondly known as "broken heart syndrome"in which after a serious ... (read in full...)
Would I go to jail in a few months when I'm 18 if my 14 yr old girlfriend is pregnant?
Q. Hey hi! i need information because im kinda worried What would happen if my girlfriend gets pregnant but she is underage(14)? and im 17, plus she is from US, and im from México. She lives in USA, and i live in México. Would i go to jail in a...
A. 18 February 2008: Depends where you had sex and the age of consent? If your above the age of consent and someone told the police you could get into trouble. You need to say these or look them up to know what could happen... (read in full...)
Would it hurt if I told him he has a small one?
Q. would it hurt a mans pride to tell them they have a small penis? especially if they are already an insecure person....
A. 18 February 2008: Your beter of hiting him with a board and nail.
Why on earth would you even consider telling him, it would destroy him and put him off relationships probably... (read in full...)
Is it true that men prefer women of lower IQ than them?
Q. I read an article in Metro which said (although it was at Valentine's event for geeky Massachusetts Institute of Technology students) that men often prefer to have sex with a woman of lower IQ. Do you think that's really true, because I know som...
A. 16 February 2008: I personally make all potential girlfriends have an IQ test to make sure they are below mine. Below 130 but above 80 so i dont feel like im taking advantage of someone.
No men dont go for girls with lower IQs than them, some intellectually inse... (read in full...)
How do I disinvite my friend to the concert?
Q. I have been given two tickets to see a band in a few weeks and I invited my best friend to have the other one. However now I am having doubts because she has been really nasty to me this week, to the extent of hitting me in the eye. Therefore...
A. 14 February 2008: i agree with phil.
Tell her if she continues to be a bitch she might aswell not come.
And tell the guy that a ticket mite open up but no promises... (read in full...)
My BF wakes up with an erection. What's up with that?
Q. My b/f sometimes wakes up with a huge erection but insists that he's "not in the mood" for sex and though it puts me in the mood, I really can't get him interested so we just end up cuddling and talking and eventually his erection goes away. But I ...
A. 13 February 2008: an erection in the morning is completly normal, and happens to pretty much most men. Though theres nothing wrong, its a little weird he doesnt want sex, but he may just be a little tired. But its no offence to your sex life... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to wish my ex "Happy Birthday"?
Q. I was wondering what you would do in this situation: I went out with a guy during January this year. He was my first boyfriend (I'm 18). We were strangers, but we worked at the same place, and he was the one who asked me out. A couple of weeks ...
A. 13 February 2008: Sending a neutral text saying "Happy Birthday" would be completly ok. Make sure it has nothing else and cant be over thought. Maybe put in a nice simley face emoticon... (read in full...)
My ex doesn't want to be friends, but I do.
Q. Well, me and my ex split about 3 months ago now and he in another relationship(with a girl who lives half way around the world.) I've just started seeing someone also. Though we are taking it very slow, I can't help but compare it to my previous ...
A. 13 February 2008: you threw him a bone, he didnt want it. You did your part now just move on and let him be him.... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: Thats great news Andrew. Well done the all Aunts, Uncles and anons!!!!... (read in full...)
Could I go to prison for having sex with my girlfriend? She's 15.
Q. I have got a 15 year old girlfriend and I'm 16. I love her to bits and me and her both want to take our relationship to sexual intercourse but I have heard about being put in prison? Is this true? If so how likely is it? I have neices, will I be ...
A. 12 February 2008: Dapone 1 gave the best advice here. If you were to do it and you two broke up she could tell the police what happened and you will get in trouble, worst case scenario you could go to jail and put on the sex offeneders register. Your best bet is too ... (read in full...)
A simple question, why are guys afraid of commitment?
Q. why do guys get close and then run a mile?? im soooo confused?? guys help me out here for gods sake.!! thanks....
A. 12 February 2008: Men arent afraid of commitment, People are. Some women/men will find that one and never want to let go. Some men/woman see the first sign of their lives closing down and will run at the first chance. You just have to find that person who wants to ... (read in full...)
Is it sex or baseball???
Q. When people say, have you gone past 3rd base with them, what does that mean? What's 1st and 2nd base?! Is there a 4th?! Haha I'm really confused about it. Could anyone englighten me?...
A. 11 February 2008: 1st base = Kissing 2nd base = touching sexually 3rd base = oral sex 4th base = actually sex Thats what i know. But it can slightly differ from person to person... (read in full...)
How can I ask my mom's opinion on sexual health?
Q. about 3 weeks ago i went to the cinema with my friends and i needed the toilet really really bad, but because there were a few minuets left of the film i held it in and when i went to the toilet it hurt. ever since then somtimes (about once a day ) ...
A. 11 February 2008: You can visit your local GP as they can give the best medical advice here. Also if you feel uncomfortable you can have a female doctor or a practicioner nurse present. Just tell your mum that you wanna see your doctor and if she asks why just tell ... (read in full...)
I want my man to use a gigantic toy on me without offense. Will he?
Q. I recently visited a toy store and found a gigantic toy penis I want inside me on those fantasy days, especially when I am with my man. But, I am concerned because it is so big, oddly big, that he might get offended instead of turned on by my ...
A. 11 February 2008: We cant know if he would be offended but i can understand if he would be offended. Like DoubleM said apply it in private... (read in full...)
How faithful are men really?
Q. this is 1 for the guys can a lepord really change its spots ? my bf has cheated and sent flirty messages to toher girls and met up with girls behind my back will he change like he says he will do or will this carrie on ? from a mans point of view i ...
A. 11 February 2008: No men are not like dogs, at least not all of them. SOME men cheat, and Some women cheat. Basically people cheat.
Some will be faitful til they die and some cannot wait til they can get someone new. So thats my take and the anons view below is very... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my blood pressure go up?
Q. Hi, I was just wondering why when I have panic attacks my blood pressure never changes. I hyperventilate, I shake, my chest feel so tight yet the paramedic always says that my blood pressure is fine. Is this normal? Thanks for any help Lola x...
A. 8 February 2008: If the paramedics didnt see a problem with it i doubt there is one.
But ask your GP to be sure... (read in full...)
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