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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
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Poll question: duration of the sexual act?
Q. Hey i would like to know how long on average a man can have sex for, i just want to compare. can you give me one number or 2 instead of saying it varies please? Thank you so much xx...
A. 11 December 2007: thats impossible to say without saying it varies. Cus it does. Sorry but there is no magical number that is good, bad or ecellent... (read in full...)
What should I get him for Christmas?
Q. Hi people, as you know its coming up to christmas and i dont have a clue what to get my boyfriend! its so easy for guys but what am i supposed to get him. i was thinking about a dvd but he dosnt have any cause he gets them of the internet and burn...
A. 11 December 2007: buying things for a man is hard? try buting for ladies, its alot worse.
How bout a console game. Or some nice smelling aftershave. Mercendise from his favioute sports team. If not ask his mates what he has said he wanted.... (read in full...)
My wife masturbates in her sleep - is this normal?
Q. Hi over the past several weeks i have been woken up by my wife masterbating in her sleep. she say she wasnst when i question her about it is this normal or is she wanting somthing...
A. 11 December 2007: it says nothing about your sex life. its in her sleep, her sleep. its normal. if it were for a different reason you would know... (read in full...)
How can I make my teeth whiter?
Q. Hey i was wondering if anyone has any tips for getting whiter teeth ? thanks x...
A. 10 December 2007: the obvious. Brrush often. Drink less fizz, try apples.Or if your in need bad talk to your dentist about whitening products you can buy at boots etc.... (read in full...)
Is "giving head" and a "blow job" the same thing?
Q. I know this is stupid, but is there a difference between giving head and a blow job? And how can I do it so it feels really good for my guy?...
A. 10 December 2007: giving head is more of a slang term for a blow job.
So yes to my knowledge they are the same thing... (read in full...)
My gf smokes although she has asthma. Worried about her well being, so what can I do?
Q. ok.......my girl and I started going out like a week ago were both 17 and I absolutely love her. We get to hang around a bot and so on She smokes....I generally don't mind people smoking cause in my opinion if they wanna kill themselves thats th...
A. 10 December 2007: well mate you already said it yourself. If people wanna harm themselves its their problem. As i smoker and from what others tell me it is really annoying when people preach to you the dangers of it, and it makes you resent them or just hide the fact ... (read in full...)
When is too soon to say "I love you" ?
Q. when is too soon to say "i love you"???...
A. 9 December 2007: when you dont mean it... (read in full...)
Will he always put me 'after' his Mom and sister...am I to be the last place gf?
Q. My boyfriends sister is coming to visit in two weeks. When we were discussing where she was going to sleep he said in our bed. He does not want his sister to sleep in the guest room because he doesn't want his sister to have to sleep in there. He ...
A. 9 December 2007: well not being rude i think your being a little selfish here. Its his sister here, shes staying a little while, and its proberly not often. He wants to treat her right, aas shes family (not saying your not) So he wants to put her in the nice room. ... (read in full...)
I found sexually explicit messages on my young brother's phone. Do I tell my parents, or talk to him firstly?
Q. I recently found some sexually explicit messages on my younger brothers phone not only from him by a number of girls some even younger than him. I am really worried about his emotional and physical state as he has been really agressive lately. Is ...
A. 8 December 2007: i would tell your parents as maybe its time they talked to him about the birds and the bees. Better do it now than him end up making mistakes soon.... (read in full...)
My-bf and his friend have seen escorts while we were broken up. I am determined to stop our relationship. Any advice?
Q. Well I feel unbelievably jaded right now. My boyfriend and I had broken up. I broke up with him for GOOD reason. And no he hadn't cheated on me. YET. Anyways we got back together about two and half months after breaking up. Two days later I found ...
A. 8 December 2007: well it does sound like you vented quite alot here, but heres what i think. You broke up with him, regardless of how many times you get together after 2 1/2 months, you still broke up with him, and i bet you said why and as you say it was a good ... (read in full...)
My partners been lying to me, help
Q. i have recently found out that my partner has been lying to me for the last 18 months how do i confront him,without direct accusing,need all the help i can get thanks...
A. 7 December 2007: it would help if you said what he was lyingabout. As what he lied about changes how you should approach him... (read in full...)
Do oral or anal or sex provoke pregnancies?
Q. I'm in a relationship and I was wondering can you get pregnant by putting the boys penis in your mouth? and could you get pregnant if the boy puts his penis in your ass?...
A. 7 December 2007: im gonna agree with the others. If your not old enough to know this, then you shouldnt be thinking about it. Your way to young to be thinking of sex.... (read in full...)
We are too embarrassed to buy condoms and don't know where we could get privacy, but we want to have sex.
Q. Me and my bf have been going on and off on our relation ship i want to have sex with him and he wants to have sex with me we are both ready but neither of use want to go buy condoms let alone he is to embarrassed to go get them and neither of us ...
A. 7 December 2007: deejuliet said it all. Too embarresed to buy em, you'll be more embarresed explaining your possible pregnancy or STD. So you got either women up or wait til you can im afriad... (read in full...)
Am I short for this age? Any resources to grow thinner and taller?
Q. im 5"4 and im 13. I cant help but feel i am small for my age and cant find a reliable source on google to clarify that im not. I cant help but feel veryone else towers over me. i get really frustrated about it cus im almost in danger of becomi...
A. 7 December 2007: 5 4" at 13! mate your taller than i was at your age. And considering your age i think your quite tall. I was around 4 10" at your age. Now im 5 8" and 17, ive grown to be ok with my height, taller than most girls, shorter than most guys. Plus i like ... (read in full...)
My husband has sex dreams every night and I am upset!
Q. My husband has strange bedtime habits - insight would be greatly appreciated. When he falls asleep he very often starts moaning, making noises like he's enjoying sex, occassionally he mutters something, and he is clealy in a sexually arroused state. ...
A. 7 December 2007: I think some of you are over thinking this. its VERY simple. Hes alseep, he cant control what hes thinking or dreaming of when hes alseep. And as a grown woman you should know this. Cut him a break he cant control his dreams, just let him enjoy his ... (read in full...)
I made him choose between me and the dog and he picked the dog.
Q. My husband and i recently separated, mainly because i gave him an ultimatum, me or the dog. He did choose the dogs. I miss him desperately and would consider going back, but he says that no one is more or less important to him than his dogs. I sai...
A. 7 December 2007: i gonna agree with babyduck also. I think this was his way of getting out and you getting some of the blame as you gave the ultimatum.
Why would you make him chose you or the dog anyway?... (read in full...)
Are there men who don't "Look"?
Q. I have been dating the same guy for three years (we've broken up a few small times for very short periods of time, but none recently). The main problem I have with him is that he tells me he does not look at the opposite sex "like that". meaning, he ...
A. 6 December 2007: Well maybe he is or isnt lying i cant say exaclty.
But if he is lying its proberly only to spare your feelings as some women are hurt by men looking at others regardless of how long or the intention. Some class it as cheating, some feel its degr... (read in full...)
Are there a lot of people with braces at University?
Q. I'm 17 and going to be 18 in may and i just got braces. im worried about having these in university. are there a lot of people with braces in uni?...
A. 2 December 2007: Well you cant for certain, but nowdays adult braces are alot more common due to everyone wanting perfect teeth. Just dont worry about it as once people notice you have braces they rarely give it a second thought.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to ask a guy out??
Q. Is it wrong to ask a guy to go out with you or should you just keep it old fashioned? ...
A. 1 December 2007: in todays world world i see no problem with it. If you like him, ask him out. As a guy i would have no problems with it.
Good Luck!!... (read in full...)
How should I ask her out?
Q. i really like my friend. We're both 17. I've liked her for a year. Any advice on how i could ask her out? How could i confess to her my feelings?...
A. 26 November 2007: just pull her aside and tell her you want to go to the cinema or out for a meal sometime. She will know what you mean. then go from there... (read in full...)
How come my boyfriend wont stick up for me?
Q. k well i cant get this outta my head and i really need your help. my boyfriend is always hanging out with his friend like 24/7 seriously and this one guy is always staying the night and i really dont even like him but when i try to call my boyfriend ...
A. 21 November 2007: i dont think its that he doesnt respect you. I think he just doesnt wanna tell off his mate. Theres a male saying "bros before hoes" (not that you are one) it means men before the woman. But youshould respect yourself enough to either demand he ... (read in full...)
I think my friends guy might be cheating on her. What should I do?
Q. hey this is a question that has been nagging out me for a long time now...its about my friend she has a boyfriend that lives 3 hours away form her she's only seen him twice IN HER WHOLE LIFE she thinks she's in love but this is just her first "real" ...
A. 21 November 2007: i agree with peoraiman here. All you have is your suspisions and what you think, you could be very wrong he could be busy. Keep this to yourself until you know for certain andcan prove it to your friend. As if you told her now, the whole shoot the ... (read in full...)
A boy called me a bimbo. What does this mean?
Q. ok this may sound like a silly question but recently in my english class a boy said i was a "bimbo" what did he mean by this was he calling me a slag....
A. 21 November 2007: bimbo is another term for slag. Just ignore him hes proberly an idiot... (read in full...)
He's loaded but he always counts value for money. He does not like to eat out, is always looking for bargain, will not help a friend when they're in need of money. Do I leave him?
Q. I am 45 just divorced. My husband has got very ill temper. He used to take me to a meal or buy my gifts or holidays to apologize. It's not working anymore as I cant bear it anymore so I've divorced him. Then I met this man 18 years older than ...
A. 21 November 2007: Well i know a few people like this and it isnt that bad. Just because people are rich doesnt mean they like to spend as much as they earn. Im cheap, yheres nothing wrong with looking for a deal no matter if your got a million and wanna spend a fi... (read in full...)
Bird brain
Q. Hi, Well it is Waterloo Sunset again and this story is not as good as the mouse story but it always makes me laugh when i think of it. I was with my ex at the time, the same bloke as the mouse story, so that tells you a lot! It was a warm s...
A. 19 November 2007: Very nice. and i wonder how he was charming with those swears?... (read in full...)
There is no way to get in touch with him
Q. I went too Canada during the holidays. As we are waiting in the waiting zone i notice this really gorgeous guy. He was looking after his 2 little brothers while his mum and dad went too get food. Although he was gorgeous he looked shy. Which was ...
A. 19 November 2007: Well alot of us have been there.
We see a person we think is attractive, and "fall" for them. It then goes away but sometime comes back.
Not to sound rude here but this is what happens. We create personalities for these people, what they are like... (read in full...)
Do I have some kind of intolerance to milk?
Q. Hello, I was just wondering if i have some kind of intolerance to milk. I can have it with things, like in tea or hot chocolate or in cakes etc. Its just, on its own when i drink it, i always end up throwing it back up again. I dont particul...
A. 18 November 2007: it could be.
Im not sure about having it in tea and coffee though, could have something to do with the heat of the drinks.
Go to a dietican, they should be able to find out if your intolerant to it.
i know someone who can have fruit drink but wh... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant if the hymen's not broken?
Q. is it possible to get pregnant if the skin is not broken?...
A. 16 November 2007: yes it is very possible.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's family is unsupportive
Q. In our culture when u have a baby with sum1 his parents has to visit ur parents to see their grandbaby but in mt case my b/f parents they had never visited me and see the baby. i am asking my self question if they want the baby or they just care ...
A. 16 November 2007: Ask him about his relationship with his parents. Maybe it isnt great and thats why they dont visit.... (read in full...)
I want to be a musician but my parents want me to go to college. What should I do?
Q. i am 16 year old girl an play a band , after my gcse i want to go ahead with playing music but my parents want me to go to college, what should i do?...
A. 16 November 2007: Well can you not do music studies in college? This could combine your passion for music and your parents want for you to go college.
You should still be able to play in your band and you will have A Levels. College is only 2 years and you dont spen... (read in full...)
How can I get her to give up the smokes?
Q. Well, where to start. I've been with my Fiance since march 2006. When we got together, she was smoking heavily, almost 2 packs a day. I informed her I abhor smoking and would like her to quit in the future, she said if I don't like it I can leave, ...
A. 16 November 2007: Ive been on both sides of the arguement here.
A few years back when i didnt smoke i hated smokers and tried to get my parents to quit, they dismissed me and said i nagged them. Lately i started to smoke (yes im a hypocrite) but people are alwa... (read in full...)
Why do I still have a baby face?
Q. ok i am about a same hight as a adult but i still have a baby face why do i still have my baby face i want my adult face i am 14 ?...
A. 13 November 2007: Im older than you and i have a baby face still. I get stopped from geting into movies. People think im 14/15 when im much older than that. Dont take it as a bad thing at your age but in a few years your face will grow up and if not you will have ... (read in full...)
Kiss a girl that's done oral sex.
Q. Is it ok to kiss a girl that did oral sex once, what do you think...
A. 12 November 2007: well as long as she has cleaned her mouth i.e brushing, mouth wash its ok... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as overmasterbating.
Q. I'm a 13 year old male and i have a odd question...Is there such thing as over masterbating?I do it atleast once a day could this effect me in anyway? Thank you for your time and help...
A. 12 November 2007: yes there is such yhing as over masterbating but at once a day you are way below the limit. You should really stop when it begins to hurt you, thats too much.
But 1 time a day is OK... (read in full...)
Is my brother correct?
Q. hi, my brother just told me that mixing fruit with pepsi or coke makes a drug and stays in your system for 70 hours and gives you illusions, the thing is i accidently did that and drank it i was wondering if its true, please help me. He also said he ...
A. 10 November 2007: From my knowledge, your brother is making this up, proberly just messing with you.
Its not true mixing coke/pepsi ith fruit has no effect on you.... (read in full...)
Is my teacher right or wrong?
Q. So, I was hugging my girlfriend as usual. Im 13, goin on 14 in january. My teacher saw me huggin her and said " No more physical contact with her". Seriously, I don't get why hes sayin that. He has 3 daughters. Its like huggin is against the law, ...
A. 10 November 2007: Well as dumb as it may seem its very true he can tell you not to hug your girlfriend and its wrong to try and sneak it around him or other teachers.
In todays world with sexual harrasment hugging in some cases may not be consenual, one person may ... (read in full...)
He has pictures of his ex throughout the house but wants me to get used to it.
Q. The man i have be seeing for a year has pictures of his ex wife in his bedroom and throughout his house. he says they are family and vacation pictures and they shouldn't bother me. i have told him it does, but he hasn't changed anything and wants ...
A. 9 November 2007: does he have kids in the photos?... (read in full...)
Is this cheating
Q. i kissed a lad on the cheek to say thankyou and he kissed me on the cheek back is this cheating on my boyfriend?...
A. 7 November 2007: nope, not at all... (read in full...)
Married without parents permission
Q. can a 16 year old who is pragnet by her 21 year old boyfriend get marry without parents permision...
A. 7 November 2007: Well it depends what state you live in. Inmost U.S states no you have to be 18 or get their permission.... (read in full...)
I googled my boyfriend's email address and found forums with him flirting with other girls, but also found a open message to me that he didn't intend for me to see!
Q. My boyfriend doesn't knwo I googled his email address, I found a forum of him flirting with other girls in other countries, not asking to meet up but jus saying how cute they are and posting pics of himself topless. On another forum I found hi...
A. 6 November 2007: Well how old are the messages tpo the other woman.
Before or during your relationship?
Im guessing before as afterwards he talks about how he cares about you.
So can you tell us when the forum messages were written as its important... (read in full...)
I'm embarrased because I have small breasts
Q. I'm embarrased because i have small breasts and get called names for them. Im like an A cup and im 14. 15 in feb. Im wondering if sleeping with a bra stops their growth because i always sleep with one on. I need help...
A. 5 November 2007: Since everyone discussed development im gonna tell you a secret about most men and breast.
When it comes to breasts, breast is best. Most guys dont care what size they are as long as they are breast.
Some men/teens prefer smaller boobs, some lar... (read in full...)
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