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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
Right now im at university studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system or whatever i feel is right. |
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How do I convince my sister to stop wearing this bikini?
Q. My cute younger sister (she's 16) hangs around the public pool wearing a thong bikini. From behind, it looks as though she is totally naked. The boys there gather around her, many whispering, all staring, some spreading the word. If I ask her to ...
A. 28 August 2008: Anyone who says leave her alon, clearly isnt a brother with a sister.
Personally would go down the be a complete jerk route and not even let her go out in something like that, telling her not to mau work depending on who she is. But if were my sist... (read in full...)
How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?
Q. I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger? How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?...
A. 28 August 2008: honestly i think we all have our turn ons and you shouldnt be condemed for yours. Your an adult they are adults. DONE
Prehaps go places they enjoy. Being much younger i have no idea, but look around.
Im sure an older woman would love a younger ... (read in full...)
Why does everyone condemn FWB? We are just doing something we both enjoy...
Q. I have had sex with this guy a couple of times now. It is not very serious, but whenever we have had it has been great. Well he is really a f**k buddy. I have never ever had one before. I know most people think it is wrong to have a f**k buddy bu...
A. 28 August 2008: As long as there are two consenting adults, doing something they want its no one else's problem
But be careful as FWB arent always as simple as they seem as some people cant keep emotions and sex separate... (read in full...)
Is it immoral to fall in love with a married woman with children?
Q. I have been a mentor to a beautiful woman in management. She is an awesome manager now, and married with grown children. We are very good friends only, but we both fell in love with each other, since we both married , we do not have any type of...
A. 28 August 2008: its not immoral, sometimes we cannot control our emotions
But it is wrong to act on them sometimes, and this is one of those ocasions
Seeing as you cant really adviod her, keep it profession for yours, hers and your families sake... (read in full...)
Why is my mom doing this? Is she in denial or something?
Q. my mum has totally baffled me! she WILL NOT, as in no way hozay! never ever ever let my boyfriend in my bedroom, which is fair enough, its her house and i do abide by her rules, she pays for it so she says what gos etc.. but i have been with him now ...
A. 28 August 2008: Simply put condoms protect against STD etc
while the pill does not, it protect against pregnancy.
Maybe your mum trust you, but she doesn't know where you bf is putting his diddle and doesn't want him putting it unprotected into you, which can caus... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might be infertile because unprotected sex did not lead to pregnancy...
Q. me and my boyfriend had sex and he cummed in me, i didn't get pregnant which was a good thing but now it's got me wondering how come? and is it because i might be infertile? im so paranoid, please help...
A. 27 August 2008: so you played with fire and wondered why you didnt get burnt?
Just count yourself lucky... (read in full...)
Tell me...why does he run off to the bathroom after a handjob?
Q. I have been giving my boyfriend handjobs for his pleasure. I noticed that recently after I stop moving my hands. He ends up running to the bathroom? Did I do something wrong? I always ask him if I'm hurting him or not while giving a handjob, but he ...
A. 27 August 2008: i agree with troubledtoomuch he either needs to go pee, which is pretty common or just wants to finish himself off... (read in full...)
What should I do about my significant other telling me about their past sex life in detail?
Q. Quick question.. What should i do about my significant other telling me about their past sex life in detail?...
A. 27 August 2008: Just sit her down and tell her you would not rather hear about her sexual past. She should stop... (read in full...)
When does puberty start for boys?
Q. When do most boys start going through puberty?...
A. 26 August 2008: There is no certain age some people start early
Something like 9-14
But if it hasnt happened for you dont worry it will happen, you just have to wait... (read in full...)
How do I hook a guy up with my mom so she leaves my boyfriend alone?
Q. My mom tries to hide it but likes my boyfriend a LOT. (I don't blame her cause he is one yummy beefcake ;) ). So whenever he comes over she'll do things like make him brownies or tell him what a nice shirt he'd wearing. I've tried talking to her a...
A. 25 August 2008: personally i think your mums older enough to get out there if she wanted, and if she needs help you are there.
But as for your bf and mum, it seems like she being extra friendly she might really like him. i mean you wouldnt want her to be rude to h... (read in full...)
Should I tell my best friend's mum that she hurts herself?
Q. hi everyone i need some advice obviously my very good freind has recenly started cutting her self and she makes me very worried ....should i tell her mom ? or should i leave her alone?thz alot,me!...
A. 25 August 2008: of course you should
Its the best thing for her to have some adult help. Your her friend and you have to look out for her. She needs some sort of help and you should defo tell... (read in full...)
Could you tell me what this word means?
Q. ummm i was wondering what bukkake was??? x thanks x...
A. 20 August 2008: Another one to the manual
If you must know (i wouldnt want to) keep reading
its when multiple men ejaculate on a woman's face... (read in full...)
How do I give away my identity to a mature, strong lady?
Q. I'm 19 and I want to give away my identity to mature, strong lady. How do I find that kind of woman and signify my willingness?...
A. 20 August 2008: I have no idea what you mean by identity... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 20 August 2008: i guess Artistry said the point going through most peoples mind. Bush dugg a deep hole and people are thinking McCain will be the same, so they go for obama. WHY? prehaps the lesser of two evils, but in my opinion it doesnt make him any better. ... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 20 August 2008: First one thing that annoys me. Obama is mixed race (50% white 50% black) i have no idea why this makes him black because he is just as black as he is white. So i see him as a potential first mixed race president
On to the question even though i'm ... (read in full...)
The guy I am "kind of" dating kissed another girl at a club!?
Q. the guy im kinda dating kissed another girl at a club right after he had called me on the phone telling me how much he wants me... he admitted it to me, and his excuse was 'well u said the other day, that u are single, u can do what u want, so ...
A. 18 August 2008: Well if you did say that i guess he thought it gave him freedom to do what he wants
To sort this out i reckon you two should just talk, decide where you stand as a couple or not and go from there, no point kind of dating and expecting to be excl... (read in full...)
Should I insist that my girlfriend tells me about her fling?
Q. Last november me n my gf went out for a night out n she got drunk n then started talkin bout past bf's. And then she started saying something about this fling she had with a guy( she had already told me about this n knew it bothered me). Anyway I st...
A. 18 August 2008: If it bothered you why would you want to know more?
Just let the past be the past and move on or it will hurt you more... (read in full...)
My new guy babysits his ex's cat! Are they too close or what?
Q. I have started dating this guy and its been going great. He seems very interested in me, but the problem is he is still very close with his ex. He has told me its totally over but she is his first love. He is always on her facebook, shes on the top ...
A. 17 August 2008: Wells its up to you
Trust him and realise exs aren't always sworn enemies and sometimes are friends
Or
Relise they are too close and find someone who is less attached
Also to Lexilou cats do need as babysitter, not one to watch them 24/7 but th... (read in full...)
Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace?
Q. Why do guys add "hot" girls on Myspace? My bf has a band and he's the admin of their Myspace. He got a friend request from one of these stripper types, you know, those girls that have Myspace pages where they're almos naked, they're hot, etc...
A. 17 August 2008: I agree with whats been said
Firstly its his bands myspace, when your in a band ill assume you would want as many friends as possible to advertise your band, no matter who they are
Secondly its myspace, not like hes gonna secretly flirt with thi... (read in full...)
Why did he ejaculate in seconds after I initiated fellatio?
Q. Ok so i was giving my boyfriend a bj..and he cummed like after just afew seconds...is there anyway that can stop?...
A. 16 August 2008: Hes a horny little boy thats why.
To make him stop, keep it calm, in time he will get better... (read in full...)
Was it my fault? And is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman?
Q. Hi, Is it ever O.K. for a man to hit, push, and rough-house a woman? My boyfriend of three years bruised me up pretty bad a few weeks ago, but claims he had the right to do it, saying he was defending himself. What happened was, I ended up slap...
A. 11 August 2008: Its not ok for a man to hit a woman
Its not ok for a woman to hit a man
End of... (read in full...)
Being a teenager is hard, with growing pains and other stuff, why is it that adults think it is so easy?
Q. why is it that adults think being a kid is so easy? i mean they lecture you about how good their childhood was but they can never accept the fact that we are not perfect... not like they were..i think they should spend a day being a teenager with ...
A. 11 August 2008: Im not that old and ive relised i would be a kid again. Growing up is hard, ive got uni to fund, exams, jobs and planning my next three years that will shape my next life.
Yes being a kids is hard, but the problems will seem petty later on in life... (read in full...)
He kept putting his hand up my top! Is he just after sex?
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend, him lying on top of me between my legs, when he put his hand up my top and started slowly putting his hand further up my top. Does it seem to you like sex is all he is interested in? Or was i leading him on? I pu...
A. 9 August 2008: Tell him straight up, NO putting your hand up your top and tell him your not ready for sex right now.
He may be a horny teenage boy thinking you are letting him do it but you cant keep your thoughts to yourself, communicate and tell him your boun... (read in full...)
What should I do about my sister watching lesbian porn?!
Q. Many times i have caught my sister watching porn and kind of grinding to a stack of pillows (the way a man would to a woman). anyway, it was lesbian porn and shes 12 years old. i didnt tell her i knew in case of embarrassment. but i dont know if its ...
A. 9 August 2008: Mate do nothing. While its not right, for a 12 year old to be veiwing porn, its better than the alternitives. From now on eyes outta her room... (read in full...)
I still snoop into his e-mail even though I'm no longer with him
Q. I was seeing this guy and he gave me his password to his email to help him set up an account. However I have never forgotten the password. He and I are no longer together and i find myself occassional snooping through his email. How do I get past ...
A. 8 August 2008: Best way to stop is too stop, if you have the conscious decision to turn on the PC, load up the internet browser and log on his email and then read them, you sure can stop at logging on his email and do something else on the net... (read in full...)
The size of my boobs is worrying me
Q. i have a slight problem, i'm only 17 but i constantly feel paranoid about the size of my boobs. i dont know my actual size, but i am rather small. i was just wondering what types of bras are better to push them together and up. i currently wear g...
A. 8 August 2008: Daletom is completly right
Big boobs arent as adored as the magazines may make you think, yes they are nice to look at sometimes, but in the woman i like i prefer smaller frames.
Basically daletom has said everything but to add confidence is much ... (read in full...)
Do people still get emails from 'Adult Friend Finder' if the account is not in use?
Q. ive recently found out my b/f has an adult friend finder account. he says it is not in use. naturally i am very hurt about this. i am just wondering does that site still send emails to people even if the account is not activated??? or do they keep...
A. 6 August 2008: unless you delete your account you may still get emails.
I get emails from sites i no longer use at all.... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant. I'm looking for herbal ways to induce a miscarriage.
Q. My boyfriend and I recently had unprotected sex and i am 3 days late for my period. I do not know if I am actually pregnant yet, but we can not afford a child or a pregnancy right now. I have been looking on line for herbal ways to induce a ...
A. 5 August 2008: Holy s**t you cant be real. I find it hard to answer this
All i can say is find out if your pregnant, if you are see a real doctor not a quack, if your not refrain from sex til you grow up mentally... (read in full...)
Is sex between siblings incest?
Q. Hi, I am a student of human psychology. I have a question. Is sex between siblings incest? I mean I have read it somewhere that it happens more often than we think. Has anybody had sex with their own brother or sister?...
A. 5 August 2008: Yes that is incest. plain and simple
But like O conner said alot of preteens/early teens come on with sexual attraction placed at a sibling. This may just be misplaced hormones, or other issues. To each his (weird) own... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and guilty what should I do???
Q. Im sleeping with a married man and Im 14 years old. Ive fallen in love with him but recently he's been really really close to his wife in front of me and i just feel jealous and guilty. help?? what should i do??...
A. 5 August 2008: You'll get no sympathy from me either
You wanted to act big and now you know
Stop being a stupid kid and grow up, knock of the games... (read in full...)
Can you lose your virginity masturbating?
Q. I only have this question, does masturbation take your virginity?...
A. 5 August 2008: No, Masterbation in no way takes your virginity... (read in full...)
I've been seeing a married man for 6 years and I think he's talking to other girls online!
Q. Hi: I have been seeing a married man for 6 years now, he tells me he loves me but he keeps chatting with women on line and wanting to get to know them better. When I ask him about he says it is not true but I know otherwise, what should I do?...
A. 5 August 2008: Hes cheating with you......and you expect him to be faithful?
Where did you get that idea... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin after like 'semi' sex?
Q. me an my boyfriend had like semi sex, he didnt get far really, but he was in far enough to break my hymen. am i still a virgin?...
A. 5 August 2008: I have no idea what semi sex is but from what ive understood your boyfriend penetrated you, so no you are no longer a virgin... (read in full...)
I'm 18, seeing a 16 year old... is it wrong?
Q. I am 18 and i am seeing a 16 yr old he is 17 soon but my parents think this is wrong and make me look immature. i dont no what to do . we both really like each other. please help me . i cant let go of him . i need to no if i am in the wrong. ...
A. 4 August 2008: Your OK
Your legally Ok and as long as you love each other its ok. Ignore what your mum says, though they are usually right in this case shes wrong, your an adult and may date who you choose... (read in full...)
I always have erections when I'm near my (first) girlfriend, should I be worried?
Q. I'm new to tis gf and bf thing I just got a first girlfriend about a week ago and it was thnx to advice from this site but now i have a problem i get really hard around her a lot of time i have to litterarly stop what im doing and think about some...
A. 4 August 2008: Ill be more worried if you didnt. But seriously dont worry at this age, you can get an errection over anything to do with girls a hug a look a smell, so enjoy it... (read in full...)
When will I find a true love?
Q. When will I find a true love?...
A. 3 August 2008: we cant tell you, you just have to wait... (read in full...)
I'm wondering, is there such a thing as love at first sight?
Q. Quick question. Is there a such thing as love at first sight? I never really believed in it but three weeks ago at a party i met this cute girl and we've been dating since. Im 15, she's 14 turning 15 and she lives quite a while away, but it feels ...
A. 3 August 2008: i used to believe in love at first sight, but know i know that yes there is such thing as strong infacuation at first sight, but not love.
Too many people throw the word love around like a normal word and its lost all meaning, true love takes year... (read in full...)
Can a relationship work without trust?
Q. Can a relationship work without trust? trust is only one way....
A. 3 August 2008: Nope... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't seem to fancy anyone. Is something wrong with her?
Q. I have a question on behalf of a friend. She is 14 and last year she had a serious - I mean serious - love for a male actor (she is female btw). She often talked about wanting to bed him etc. However, now she has not mentioned a crush of any...
A. 2 August 2008: Of course shes normal ive only ever truely fancied two girls in my whole life and im fine, People dont find "love" every 5 mins and then get over it and then find someone else.
Let her find her someone whenever it will be... (read in full...)
He's keeping photos of his Ex girlfriend. Why?
Q. hi im 24 years old and im in this relationship with my boyfreind for a couple of months and i discovered in his email and as well on his computer pictures of his ex they were all over i spoke to him about it and i told him to get rid of them and ...
A. 1 August 2008: A couple of months doesnt mean you can erase his past, like the two ladies said, the guy had a past, had exs maybe long relationship that shaped him into who he is today, as humans we can erase something just becase its over. Everyone has memories ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to use my hymen to avoid sex?
Q. I am 21 of years n wanna know Can hymen be somehow tightened avoiding sex for 1-2 years?Pl help!!...
A. 1 August 2008: From what im getting your not a virgin and want to stop having sex for a while to appear as one. If so Tisha is spot on... (read in full...)
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