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Nothing Qulifies me to help people except for my own personal experiences with in life, my mistakes, my regrets and my tiumphs.
I currently live in London, England and have my whole life, Although i do plan to Move when im Older. Havent decided where. Possibly Canada or Australia.
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What are signs that someone is gay?
Q. out of curiosity what are signs that people are gay?? e.g taking shirt off with crossed hands and over the head. any more?? ...
A. 11 April 2008: only if they join the cast of the village people, though i must admit YMCA is a catchy song. There is no sign people are gay, some straight men and metrosexual and to some come of as gay, while even recently a guy i knew, who to me was one of the ... (read in full...)
How can you tell is a guy is not a virgin?
Q. how would you know if the guys are already not virgin?...
A. 11 April 2008: you cant tell, theres no tell tell sign.
You have toask and hope they tell the truth... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 10 April 2008: Credit to a friend
A man and a women were in borders one day. and the man reached for a book, his elbow brushing up against her Breats. he said "if you heart is a soft as your boobs, no doubt you will forgive me"
she replied
"if you penis is a h... (read in full...)
12 years old - too young to have sex?
Q. i wanna have sex but i think 12 is tooo young!...
A. 10 April 2008: Yes your bloody too young... (read in full...)
My brother is a bully and my parents are away
Q. my brother is a bully. he is terrible, horrible and he hurts me. my parents are in holiday so they can't see that. i do not want to go to police of course because its my brother. please help me!...
A. 10 April 2008: either punch him in the nuts
or ask afamily member to come around and tell them whats happening... (read in full...)
What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?
Q. I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...
A. 9 April 2008: Wow i just looked it up and its as kinky as a spit roast
Its where a man preforms oral sex on a woman while shes on her period. Keeps the period "juices" in his mouth and kisses the women all over.
Leaving red kiss 'marks' on her... (read in full...)
I've only just turned 12, I'm pregnant and I lied to him about my age!!
Q. I met a really nice man nearly a 8 months ago, i'm 1 month pregnant and in a loving realationship with him. He was my 1st and i want him forever he adores me and asked me to marry him but i lied to him i told him i was 16 but in fact i've only just ...
A. 9 April 2008: how old is this guy?
Also you need to tell your parents as they are the best help you can get right now
You also have to tell the guy your pregnant and tell him your real age as its unfair to him
... (read in full...)
Why does she hang out with married men? I trust my hubby so am I wrong to be concerned?
Q. I need some advice. I am 31 yrs old, my hubby is 35. We have a one year old daughter and we have lived out of state from our family for approx 2 years. I am a stay at home Mom, and my hubby works outside the home. He has made a lot of friendships at ...
A. 9 April 2008: Some woman find it easier to hang around men
some men find it easier to hang around women
In this care im guessing this woman finds it easier to hang around married men as they are not looking to sleep with her and arent looking at her up and d... (read in full...)
Information on law related careers, please.
Q. Hi I've got a question for anyone who is studing Law or has any knowledge of law related careers. Is there any lessons in school I can try hard in? What GCSE grades do I need to get to be able to study law? Do I really need a maths GCSE to be able ...
A. 9 April 2008: Well to get into most Unis i believe a C in the core subjects are important (i.e Maths, English, Science) regardless of the subject.
For Law degree i think a English A Level some unis require different subjects so you will have to look into this... (read in full...)
I cheated on my guy and when he says it's over he really means it. What should I do??
Q. I cheated on my guy and he broke up with me and he told me before that when he says it's over he really means it. What should i do????...
A. 9 April 2008: move on
you hurt him and he broke it off. Leave him to heal... (read in full...)
He wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or not?
Q. okay so thank you guys for answering my other one, and I have made up my mind about sex. I'm going to wait till I'm older!!!! The problem is he doesn't want to wait, in fact he wanted me to finger myself, and kept begging me. Is he worth my time or ...
A. 8 April 2008: Youve said no to sex so now he just wants some form of sex from you.
So no he isnt really worth your time... (read in full...)
Should I give up football or not so I can do things I want to do with friends?
Q. Ive got a slight problem. Im really into football, and am doing really well at it at the moment. But all my friends are into smoking drinking and things like that. I do it with them aswell but its effecting how well i play football. I don...
A. 7 April 2008: Just play the sport you love, just because your friends are into stupid behaviour doesnt mean you should do it.... (read in full...)
I feel that masturbating is the reason my grades have dropped!
Q. I do masturbate and I feel so sick about it. I'm only 13 but everyone in my family knows that I do it. I'm not sure what to do. I need help and also don't tell me about how it's so healthy, and it's natural, because I use a back massager to masturba...
A. 7 April 2008: Masterbation has no ties to your grades, just study a bit more and your grades should raise back up.... (read in full...)
I caught my husband emailing his ex is he cheating?
Q. i caught my husband mailing to his old gf. what to do should i talked to him directly or wait and watch to get more proofs than talk. help me...
A. 5 April 2008: was he trying to hide it? what was the context of the message?
If it was a Hi how are you, i wouldnt worry. But it were flirting etc i would talk to him about it and get him to stop... (read in full...)
In love with my 'Doc', we're both married but I think he wants more. What should I do?
Q. I've been in love with my doc and we have become frineds over the last 6 months. He's called me a few times and I see him out and about sometimes. I've known him for 8 years. We are both married, but I think he wants something more and I know I ...
A. 5 April 2008: if your doctor has a relationship with you he will have his license taken away by the american medical association and will not be allowed to practice medicine again.
SO stay away, and get a new doc... (read in full...)
My fiancee is still seeing his ex, should I be worried?
Q. My fiancee would not stop seeing his ex wife. I would understand if there are kids involve, but they dont have any kids. He tells me that he loves me, but he wont stop seeing her. i confronted him and he said that they are just friends and he only ...
A. 4 April 2008: I agree with deejuilet here.
Just because Paul Mccartney wont ever be talking to Heather Mills again, doesnt mean all divorced exs dont talk to each other even if theres no kid involved.
If they were hanging out often and it were interfer... (read in full...)
Is the withdrawing method safe?
Q. me and my husband just had sex since last week but he never discharge inside he always dischare outside but i am confussed will i get pregnant......or not this time we never use proctection cause since long time we were using that so this time we ...
A. 4 April 2008: you cannot be 30-35 as no adult would think the withdrawal method is safe. Regardless of your age, its a stupid method. Either go on the pill and/or use a condom... (read in full...)
What is the most that a teacher can do with a student??
Q. Hi...i was wondering: What is the most that a teacher can do with a student???? Are relationships illegal, even if you are about the same age????...
A. 4 April 2008: Doesnt matter if the student is 8 or 18 or 58, student teacher relationships are illegal full stop. They are there to teach and thats it... (read in full...)
Is it normal for Europeon men to have a wandering eye?
Q. Everytime I go out with my boyfriend (he is Europeon and I am american) he keeps oopgling other women and has an extreme wandering eye. I have never had this problem before with previous boyfriends. His previous girlfriends have all been Europeon. ...
A. 3 April 2008: im british and sometimes i cant control my own eyes, they go everywhere.
But really its not a cultural thing, its an individual thing. I think as long as he doesnt have wandering hands, just talk to him about he roaming eye... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend?
Q. Is it wrong to make your boyfriend or girlfriend choose between you and a friend of theirs that they have had for a while?? I mean even if you think you have a good reason??...
A. 3 April 2008: Yes it is wrong to make them chose. It means your controlling and will end up dicating his life eventually.
Unless the friend is trying to break you up i doubt theres a good reason... (read in full...)
Why aren't you men wooing us any more?
Q. Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion th...
A. 3 April 2008: Ill agree with whats been said, im pretty young and have tried to act like a gentleman. Ive opened doors for a girl and when i did i was called sexist and i shouldnt by some and others call me rude when i dont open the door for them. Some people ... (read in full...)
Do you think he may be gay??
Q. Hi guys I have a guy friend who is a little more than a friend but he is different than most guys I met. He likes to put lotion all over his body after a shower and keeps his place really clean....he also likes to clean his house and keep everything ...
A. 3 April 2008: Jeez everyone knows men who keep clean and have nice things are gay.
Your sister must have read "backwards america 1930s edition"... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 2 April 2008: that was great... (read in full...)
A statement we should all abide by.
Q. TELL THE TRUTH ITS THE BEST...
A. 1 April 2008: In a perfect world yes but sometimes saying "yes, you do look fat in that dress" should be kept to yourself... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Over half a million visitors in March!
Q. I'm pleased to say that according to Google Analytics, March 08 was the busiest month ever for Dear Cupid! We had 519,747 unique visitors (i.e. people!) visit the site from 1st March 08 to 31st March 08 inclusive. Over HALF A MILLION people.... ...
A. 1 April 2008: It wasnt too long ago you posted 400,000 views and now its at half a million!!!! A million in 2008 should be easy!!
Well done andrew and the aunts who deserve alot of praise... (read in full...)
Is cuddling with another guy while watching a movie (minus the kissing or eye-gazing, more like just laying together) cheating if you're in a relationship?
Q. Is cuddling with another guy while watching a movie (minus the kissing or eye-gazing, more like just laying together) cheating if you're in a relationship?...
A. 30 March 2008: I would say yes... (read in full...)
He swears he didn't rape her, do I believe him...?
Q. a friend of mine has recently been summoned to court because a girl is pressing rape charges against him. supposedly he raped her at a party a few weeks ago, I was at the party and I don't remember seeing anything but he swears to god that he didn't ...
A. 30 March 2008: Well rape is one of those difficult crimes
If hes found guilty by Law he committed the crime, but there are cases all over the world where someone is proven innocent later on through either the witness recanting or new evidence, and you can see thes... (read in full...)
Made out with an underaged girl (15)... Could I get into trouble?
Q. Hi. I went out last night with a few friends. During the course of the evening, I ran into a girl from Germany. She hung around with us for a while, came to a club with us ect, I bought her a drink and we sat together and had a conversation. My...
A. 29 March 2008: unless making out is a new slang word for sex, you are fine.
Kissing underage girls isnt illegal or alot of parents would be in jail
Though morally it may not be right, you are in no legal trouble.
Your conscience will punish you enough
and ... (read in full...)
Do you think he's gross to like me?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl, well I'm almost 14. Recently since I've been on msn, someone added me on their list. I accepted them because I might know the person. I asked them who they were. He said his name and that he was 26. I told him I was 13. Don't ...
A. 25 March 2008: Hes not a perv?
You started talking to him yesterday and he has said he has feelings for you
Your 13 and hes 26!
Im sorrry hes a perv, no doubt. Block and Delete him from MSN... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 25 March 2008: that was great
2,5 and 7 are excellent... (read in full...)
Do men prefer bigger breasts?
Q. ok, silly question but do guys prefair big boobs?! my bf is happy with mine but i just wana know what the general outlook on boobs are?...
A. 23 March 2008: i personally prefer paler, not mime pale obviously, but i prefer it to a tan as to me it just feels fake.
But this is my preference, dont take anyone one mans word as gospel.... (read in full...)
Why would my boyfriend lie about a text message?
Q. The other night I texted my bf about some medicine that I am on and I also asked him some questions about his work. I never got a reply. The next day I sent a text asking if he got it, I wasnt angry, just curious if he got it or not cause I never ...
A. 22 March 2008: i agree with lazyguy
He probably read the first part of the text then thought he got the jist of it, or just plain forgot about it... (read in full...)
What use are dads? They just stop you doing stuff.
Q. Dad says I should concentrate on my studies instead of boys. He's always setting rules. Why can't I be like my friends and do as I please, they don't have dads. What use are dads? They just stop you doing stuff....
A. 22 March 2008: Well besides the fact your not even 16, and yes you should be concentrating on school.
So you dont end up an unemployeed bum living on benifits
Or come on this site a little more often and read about 14 year olds not using condoms getting preganan... (read in full...)
Do men prefer bigger breasts?
Q. ok, silly question but do guys prefair big boobs?! my bf is happy with mine but i just wana know what the general outlook on boobs are?...
A. 22 March 2008: Thats really a myth
Some men prefer bigger boobs
Some men prefer smaller boobs
most men like boobs... (read in full...)
Where do dads get their advice???
Q. Where do dads get their advice, I've been coming to this site for about a year, and I hardly hear anybody mention dads. Hope you can answer my question. Thank you Chloe...
A. 22 March 2008: from life i guess
though some dads do come on the site about there kids, relationships etc... (read in full...)
Should I tell her now or wait until they break up?
Q. I have loved my good friend since 3rd grade. She has an idea I like her from rumours and such be she has never heard it from me. She has a boyfriend. Should I tell her now or wait until they break up....
A. 22 March 2008: Dont do it for now
Wait until she is single... (read in full...)
What is "TriSexual"?
Q. Ive met a wonderful gril at college, i asked her out but she says o.k but she warned me she's trisexual. Ive never heard this before is she joking? She seemed serious. ...
A. 21 March 2008: From what i know tri-sexual means she will "tri" anything
TRI=TRY therefore Tri-sexual... (read in full...)
My friend 'got off' with somebody...what does it mean??
Q. My friend came back from the cinema a couple of days ago saying she had got off with a boy i know. At first i thought it was sex but shes only 13 and it was in the cinema so its unlikely to be that!! I really want to know what it means though. S...
A. 20 March 2008: from what i know (little) it either means kissing and or touching.... (read in full...)
I'm eighteen and my breasts are really small! What can I do?
Q. i am an 18 year old female, with small breasts, im still wearing a 32 a. It is really embarasing when i c other women or girls even younger than me with bigger breast than i. I really need help will my breasts ever grow? i am even self consious when ...
A. 20 March 2008: Well knowing there arent any magic pills to increase your bust, ill say one thing that applies to most men (who arent a-holes) breasts are breast, they will love them big or small as long as they are there.
Some men even prefer smaller breasts. Just... (read in full...)
My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat...
Q. heyx My brother went off to uni, and now he's back and he's said that I have gotten fat. When he says this to me, what comeback can I give him? I don't want him to see that it hurts my feelings, so what can I do to make this less obvious. How c...
A. 20 March 2008: Just ignore it, as its sibling rivarly and reacting makes it worse.... (read in full...)
I want him to chase me
Q. "Men want to chase not be chased" So how do I get the acquaintance from class to chase me? What do you do in order to increase a guys interest? He is sweet, quiet, and thoughtful man in one of my classes and I feel strongly attracted to him but I ...
A. 20 March 2008: Dont play games, as only some men like the chase, while others hate it.
Just be forward and ask him out... (read in full...)
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