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Why am I not getting oral anymore?

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Question - (22 December 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, my bf has recently stopped giving me oral sex. I am not sure why we have been together 11 months now and when we first started dating he told me it was his favorite thing to do. I asked him what his reason was he said idk I just don't ever feel like it. My suspision is that he doesn't want to because I had broken his trust earlier in the relationship. Either that or it tastes bad, but I always thought I was perfectly healthy. Any way how can I fix this. Its not that I don't put out, because I give him oral everytime we have sex, but nothing out of him.

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A female reader, jessicalynne United States +, writes (29 December 2010):

jessicalynne agony auntDo you enjoy giving him oral? I mean, I don't enjoy it with my men. It's a fun thing early in the relationship because it turns the other person on massivley. That might be why he said it so early in the relationship, to turn you on. Don't look on it as an insult. It's a lot of work and he's probably just tired lol.

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A female reader, No watered down advice here! United States +, writes (24 December 2010):

No watered down advice here! agony auntYou're fine! Nothings wrong other then you spoiled him! ijs! UN-SPOIL him! And he will straighten up and fly right! LOL!

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (23 December 2010):

DanceInTheDark agony auntYeah, stop giving him oral every time you have sex. I've had this happen.

Make him work for it. He has to give you oral if he wants it back.

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A male reader, LovelessAct1 United States +, writes (23 December 2010):

Now that you're further along in your relationship, he's become a receiver. Next time your in bed hint to him that he needs to return the favor, or at least that you'd like him to.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 December 2010):

DoubleM agony auntYou may have spoiled him by giving head although he does not reciprocate anymore. Perhaps he's just taking the "easy" road while you're toting the load.

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