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writes:dear cupid, i lost my virginity this weekend. i will admit it hurt a lot for me, we did it for the second time (same night) and it was better the second time. however, i was quite disappointed because i dont think my cherry popped as there was no blood in sight after both times. my boyfriend went far up both times and he came both times. have i misunderstood something? thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2011): your hymen probably broke due to other circumstances. i.e. Horseback riding, bicycling, high jumping, gymnastics or similar sports or Insertion of finger or instrument by doctor during pelvic exam, Tampon insertion. you can also get hymen plastic surgery but I think it cost like 5000 pounds. but I think what was most shocking inside this post was there was no mention of birth control would probally want to get the 72 hour pill if there was no birth control. I you can get it form a walk in clinic or a private doctor. if you do have a private doctor do not worry about him telling your parents patient doctor confidentiality agreement.
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reader, adamantine  +, writes (15 November 2011):
 Have you misunderstood something? Yes. Not every girl bleeds when she loses her virginity.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (14 November 2011):
 not everyone bleeds when they "pop their cherry"
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (14 November 2011):
 What do you think the term "cherry" means?
You sound quite normal, nothing to worry about. Remember, safe sex!
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (14 November 2011):
 Hello,
All sounds fine to me. Not all girls do. Sounds you both had fun!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 November 2011):
 Not all girls/women bleed when they have sex for the first time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2011): hii...
i didn't bleed when i lost my virginity, either. really, it's pretty common for girls not to bleed--i have several friends who have said that they didn't, and then, i've also got friends who say that they did.
i'm pretty sure that my cherry popped before i had sex (when i was being fingered), soo i'm assuming that that's why i didn't bleed. it might be that yours was popped before you lost your virginity, too. even if you've never been fingered, it's still a possibility; there are a number of ways that it can break. actually, a lot of girls break theirs without even realizing it and while doing activities such as playing sports.
soo, yeahh...hopefully, i helped at least a little bit. hahaa...seriously, though, i wouldn't worry about it. ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarah~
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