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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me ...

I'm pregnant, he's distant and I'm not sure if he's cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - OK, here's the story: My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 8 months now and have been in a relationship for just over 5 years (much of which was during college and quite long distance). I've been really happy for the majority of ...

B/f no more sex he's afraid of pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - So, basically, I have been with my boyfriend for five months now, and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have always been safe and responsible, using condoms as protection. However, recently, I considered going on the conraceptive pill as ...

Condom split and now I'm worried about pregnancy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i started taking the pill, i wasnt fully on the all clear so i used a condom too, it split. i thort i was pregnant so i stopped taking it i then started to bleed, but not like a period. i got a few symptoms of pregnancy, tired feel sick etc, then a ...

Used protection but could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Straight to the point - I had sex with my boyfriend a few weeks ago. We used condoms - No splits or anything, as far as I'm aware. I also recently just started the pill. And yet I have really sore breasts and the odd spotting, so could I be ...

Have a baby with my guy or wait for someone better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Just a quickie Im 36 and in a relationship that I'm very unsure of. My boyfriend of 2 yrs can be sulky and childish and is never wrong. He wants us to have a child and I really want to start a family more than anything. He wont ever change an...

14 and worried about getting pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - hey im 14 and i have a 17 year old boyfriend and i want to have sex with him he says he is ready when i am as long as its not years and years he said , now im fine with that im just worried of getting pregnant its so scary on tv i dont want it im ...

Genital Warts present During Pregnancy in Last Trimester

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am currently 36 1/2 weeks pregnant with visiable warts present.I was reading someone else's questions about the same topic and agree that I am always getting a different answer from various people, including mid wives and doctors. I am worried ...

Missed pills... can she be pregnant???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has been on the pill for 2 years. Two weekends ago we went on vacation and she forgot her pills, so she didn't take them for 3 days. During those 3 days we didn't use condoms but I tried my best to pull out before ejaculating (a ...

Problems conceiving...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been trying to conceive since July, and so far nothing. I'm starting to worry there may be a problem. Should we go to the doctor or keep trying another few months? Also I noticed when my husband ejaculates most of the time...

Used protection..pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I'm kinda in need of some help. well I think I might be pregnant. But idk. I'm really nervous about it. I'm 15 and I usually have my periods at the end of the month and my boobs hurt but thats normal for me before my period. My boyfriend and I ...

I'm sick of being alone in his house!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Hi Right so my bf and i have been dating for six months at first everything was great, until I moved to a different town for him and in with him, first night he didn't come home, he made some story up and three months later I found out the ni...

Cramps and period pain...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hey I have a question. So I'm kinda scared I might be pregnant. I havn't had my period yet this month I started on the 27th last month and the 28th the month before that they both lasted about 7 days. I've been cramping and my boobs hurt but they ...

Pregnant? Could I be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - let get to the point. i jerked him off, he cummed, he washed his hands, then fingered me. am i pregnant???...

Blood spots... should we be concerned about pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Hey guys, So me and my girl friend had Safe sex but the condom broke.. Although i did not come inside her but i have her the MORNING EMERGENCY PILL within 24 hours.. She had a complete 5 day normal period this month. She had gone for track...

Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...

Can father's drug use have effect on unborn baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am 3 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend and i have been trying for months, but when i told him the news, he confessed that he had been using angel dust, cocaine, and marijuana on and off four months ago.... he is clean now- i had him take an at home tes...

We don't want this kid!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I'm 19, a freshman in college and I'm five weeks pregnant. I know who the father is because he's the only one I've ever had sex with (he's 18 and still in high school), but I honestly don't want this kid and I definitely know he wouldn't, either. He ...

I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - hi, I'm 2 months pregnant, I was just wondering can I predict how big my boobs are gonna be at the end of the pregnancy? I'm a 34e now so what does everyone think they will be? plz help I want to be prepared xxx...

How effective are vasectomies?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - How effective are vasectomies? Does anyone on here have personal experience with a man who has had one? How likely is it for a man to become fertile again after having the procedure done? Does anything change after a few year? 10 years? Does the ...

Single and pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Ok I was talking to this guy... we've been talking for a while.. And one day we had sex... Big mistake.. He used a condom the first time.. Then we went at it again.. But he didn't clean himself after he took off the condom... Although we waited like ...

Morning after pill didn't work?? Pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 11 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Me and my bf had unprotected sex about 2 and a half weeks ago (very silly, I know) so the next morning (within 13 hours) i had taken the Morning After Pill. Two weeks after I had taken it, my period was due, and I was confident that the pill would ...

My baby's father questions the baby is his, I'm hearbroken and alone...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I'm currently pregnant and due on Valentines Day, February 14th. I am depressed and alone. I mean..my family is around but having my sons dad around during my pregnancy would be grateful unfortunately, we've been in and out of our relationship...

Should I wait a few more days?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend had sex while i was on my period without a condom. i was spose to get my period around the 20-22nd of this month but it hasnt come. i dont have any signs of being pregnant so what do you think? should i wait a couple more days?...

Missed taking pill 5 days and now could be pregnant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Okay I have a problem I have been on birth control for about 2 months now well I forgot to fill the prescription for my 3rd refill and their were 5 days I didnt take to pill. Well on the 5th day I took the pill and then that night me and my husband ...

14 year old niece may be pregnant! What to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - ok,my niece is 14 and might be pregnant..she been having sex without a condom and she not on birthcontrol..she hasnt had a period this month and this morning she felt a heartbeat in her tummy. and again she might have felt her own.she been showing ...

Names for the baby?? Need help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted yesterday

27 December 2008 (F) - alright, i know i ask WAY to many questions, but im like sooo scared right now. i am 7 months pregnant and it is a boy. i was trying to think of names and i can only think of one but its kind of girlie. anyone have any boy names they wanna ...

Problems with birth control?? Pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - Good afternoon. I'm going to just get to the point of my dilemma. I've had irregular periods for as long as I can remember, I've had about 5 injections of the depo provera and everytime at my third month mark I'd have my period; been sexually active ...

After my son was born 2 years ago, I get sick after intercourse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - As strange as this may sounds after intercourse i often feel sick. Now this started after my son was born and i thought that it might go away but however it didnt. What i am wondering is what can be done about this if anything just keep in mind i am ...

Has anyone else experienced a late period after the morning after pill?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - About a month ago my boyfriend and I had sex and the condom split - so obviously I got the morning after pill. A few days after this I started "spotting", I went to the doctor and they said it was fine. But the other day we had sex, however this tim...

Use protection but still haven't had period

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - hii all, every month i get my periods regularly but this month im still waiting for it. 10 days back i had light spotting but its not my regular periods. i had sex with my bf but always safely with pill or condoms. how can i get my periods soon? pl...

What could be the possible date of conception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - hi everyone i just want to ask, i think my partner is cheating on me, i need to know this.. my partner is due to give birth on 16th dec, can u tell me the date of conception, roughly?...

Unprotected sex & pregnancy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - Hi, first of all, I'm just under 19 and my ex is 18. We broke up nearly a month ago after a two year relationship and neither of us are anywhere close to being ready for a child. Which brings me to this cluster-f*ck: we've hooked up a couple times ...

Pregnant, or just my period?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - well here is my problem in 15. i been in a 10 mnth relationship. so you know i know his the one. so i gave it to him. well we been having unprotected sex for some while now, but he always pulls it out.. well one night, we just did it and right when ...

Baby daddy drama!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - i just got a new boyfriend! i am sooo happy, but im also having a baby that is not his. he knows about the baby and is fine with it, but i feel i am not being fair to him.. i just got out of a bad relationship with the baby daddy, who wants a part ...

What do I do I think I might be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - Hey I'm 15 years old and my bf is 19 and I have a missed peroid and I don't know what to do.I don't want to get my bf in trouble but if I am perog what advice can you give me?...

I'm pregnant and need advice on how to deal with the babies father!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - I'm 20 weeks pregnant; the father has been around for the most part, throughout the pregnancy. But we had a falling out shortly before finding out that I was expecting and he began dating another women, this turned into one of those drama driven ...

I got an abortion, should I tell my ex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - This October I got drunk and had sex with my ex and I ended up going to the hosptial for an absess on thanksgiving, I found out at the hospital that I was pregnant.. to make a long story short when I got out the hospital the day after thanksgiving I ...

Lost my baby--looking for support

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - Hello Everyone... I'm looking for some support. I posted in here on November 23 about spotting during first trimester pregnancy. A few days later I had a sonogram and saw the little peanut with its heart beating and everything was fine. The spott...

My ex-wife is pregnant from another man, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 16 days ago

24 December 2008 (M) - Hi everybody I am involved in a situation and it is getting more and more complicated for me every day.... I was living with my ex-wife for four years and we had a discussion and she left the house and was staying at the place she was wor...

Problems and pain, trying to get pregnant, any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 15 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - why cant i get pregnant? me and my partner have been trying for a while, and it just doesnt seem to be working ........ but the strange thing is , when we used protection, when my period came, it was ok , a bit achey ,but not that bad, but after w...

I'm freaking out about being pregnant! Is there a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 16 days ago

24 December 2008 (F) - I'm 17 years old and I'm paranoid and worried to death that I could be pregnant. My boyfriend and I were dry humping recently with our underwears on but it was pretty rough (to the point where he was little inside of me, but with underwears in ...

Newly pregnant, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have just found out I'm pregnant and it's pretty early on in the first trimester. What are the consequences of me not taking care of myself during pregnancy? I would love it if you could state the really bad and even the small bad things that ...

I'm pregnant with my brother and need to tell my family.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - My brother is really cute and I have been havng sex with him. One time, we had too much to drink and we kinda forgot the condom. Now I am pregnant and my brother and family don't know. I am really scared and don't know how I'm gonna tell my family I ...

I want to leave him or should I give him some leeway as he is so young?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 17 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - hi i am a 24year old mum to a 2year old boy and am 5months pregnant with my second son.i have been with the father of both boys for 3years and we break up get back together all the time but i have caught him out lying about his whereabouts, he comes ...

Sister is pregnant and says she always feels dirty bathing so many times a day

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 17 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone! My older sister has a question to ask but she does not have the internet so I'm gonna ask for her. She is 5 months pregnant (on her fourth child) and has been having the worst pregnancy symptoms for the first time ever. One of her...

Unprotected sex for just a minute-could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

22 December 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm just a bit worried.. Last night me and my boyfriend had sex, and we were both drunk. At one point the condom split, but we replaced it with another one. And a bit later on, we had sex without protection - only for about a minute, ...

Confused - Pregnant wife, in love with another?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

22 December 2008 (?) - My wife is pregnant after many years of trying (together over 10 years). We have not been getting on for some time, but tried to work through the issues and kept trying to get pregnant.... This year one of my close female friends and I admitted our ...

How do I make her come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 18 days ago

22 December 2008 (M) - My girlfriend left me right we have been arguing quite a bit but last night my brother saw her with another dude he said they wasnt talking or even holding hands nothing like that, and we have been talking about giving each other sometime apart ...

My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

21 December 2008 (F) - My husband is obsessed with Johnny Cash and he wants to name our son SUE (I'm 5 months pregnant) as in the song. I honestly hate that name for a boy (and for a girl). He won't change his mind about it. I think he just is stressed about being a dad. ...