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writes:well here is my problem in 15. i been in a 10 mnth relationship. so you know i know his the one. so i gave it to him. well we been having unprotected sex for some while now, but he always pulls it out.. well one night, we just did it and right when he pulled it out some sperm came out, he promised he didnt get none in me. so you now i trust him and believed him. the very next day my period came, and was normal only 2 days longer. well now i been getting some signs of pregnancy but also like my period is about to come likemy breast are tender, not really but still kinda hurti been getting light head achesand lower back painsand i was bloating and cramping a week ago butnow a week befor my period i have not beengetting none of that.so could i be pregnant, or is it just my period????please help im panicking!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Okay...unprotected sex at 23 when you don't want a baby is unwise...unprotected sex at 15 is stupid.
You need to be educated about sex before you can have it. A 10 month relationship and he's the one???? Do you want to marry him? Do you want to have children with him? Probably not since you are 15!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay...today I'm 27. When I was 23 I used the pull out method with my ex-boyfriend...BAM I got pregnant! Had an abortion because I knew I wouldn't want children with him. We were together for 3 years after that thoguh.
I live with my current boyfriend. He and I have been together for 1 and 1/2 years. BUT because we are financially stable...live in a house together (minus parents)...and 27 we decided it's time to have a family. My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex (duh, how else would you be able to get pregnant?) for the past 3 months...I have been off of birth control for 8 to 9 months now. I thought I got my period on Monday, January 19, 2009...but it stopped Tuesday night. I did notice it was lighter than usual. I hope I'm pregnant!
But...you are 15. If you don't want a baby...use condoms at least. 15 year old boys ARE not experienced enough to use the pull out method. My ex was in his early 30s and he didn't use it correctly (obviously). I used this method with him for 2 months before I got pregnant.
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reader, headphonejunkie  +, writes (27 December 2008):
Actually, A_decent_1 is incorrect. Women can actually still have their periods while they are pregnant. The lining of the uterus can still partially shed monthly... it's not really that uncommon.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2008): after a condom split, i had to take the morning after pill. then a week later i had light bleeding, lower back ache, and cramping, as well as always needing to pee. turns out i had a urniary infection. dno whether it was because of the sex or the pill...
but it's a possibility...
go get checked out!
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (26 December 2008):
 Again feeling to pee can be a sign of a sexually transmitted disease.. All the pregnancy symptoms can be symptoms of stress and disease and nobody can tell on the behalf of symptoms that you're pregnant or not.. My advice would be to get a Home Pregnancy Test Kit, if they give it to under aged kids like you. But you don't need to worry.. As i said, you won't be pregnant so just take the test and clear your mind.. G'day
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reader, Howsyou?  +, writes (25 December 2008):
 Well, you can still get a short period after having sex and still get pregnant. This is because the Zygote (Fertilized egg) has not implanted itself and so your body releases the lining of the uterus as usual untl the ygote plants itself and it stops. So, you could be pregnant, which would have caused the small period as two days later the zygote would have implanted (which is about normal time depending on the women)
Your best check would be to have a pregnacy test. Also, the pull out method is not effect. Pre cum is more fertile than actual cum. This means that all those times you were having sex you were risking the chance of a 3rd person getting involved(Baby)
Like Alice Coopers song - Loves a loaded gun! (so be careful when you pull the trigger ;) )
Well, the answer is, yes it is possible, so get a pregnancy test and check. You might want to take 2 or 3 tests as they can give a false reading. Also, if you arn't pregnant consider contriception (The best being no sex at all). Dont just let it fly by and continue because you dont want another scare. If you are pregnant then that is another matter we can discuss.
Please Mail me to keep me up to date and if you feel you woud like me to help further.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): Dont ruin ur life. Have protection or wait till sixteen.
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reader, gabi93 +, writes (25 December 2008):
gabi93 is verified as being by the original poster of the question and one more thing i been having the feeling like peeing, and when i go like barely nothing comes out
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reader, gabi93 +, writes (25 December 2008):
gabi93 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso that same day I had very light bleeding and I really don't know why, and my period normally, last 4-5 days.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (25 December 2008):
 I think it is highly unlikely that you are pregnant , a period that day or the next day would normally indicate that pregnancy is not the case. I imagine you are delaying your next period by worrying. The signs you have mentioned mostly come into play at around 2/3 months and I would imagine your body is just getting ready for another period. I did become pregnant by my husband using the withdrawal method as sperm does leak out during intercourse so as the other aunts and uncles have said this is not a reliable safe method. Also although you are very young and probably have little sexual history please try to use a condom as chlamydia is rife and normally lies undetected for many years until you want to try for a baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): I don't know where Georgia is.You are too young to have sex.
Unprotected Sex is a definite No No.
To answer your question When I was a month pregnant,I had lower back pains and most of the symptoms you mentioned.
At times I get all of these before a period too.
I suggest you do a Blood test for pregnancy which is very accurate.
If that is not possible please do a home pregnancy test.
Please keep us posted.
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (25 December 2008):
You got your period the Next day.. That's it .. You're not pregnant.
Now PLEASE understand that the PULL OUT METHOD IS NOT SAFE as you can get pregnant from his pre cum.. He won't even know..
And here is an example for under aged sex couples.. This is what happens when you're short of knowledge..
G'day
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (25 December 2008):
Also to mention Lower Back Pain does not happen as early as this.. It happens when you are in about 4 months of your pregnancy..
G'day
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reader, a_decent_1 +, writes (25 December 2008):
If your period came the very next day, you're not pregnant. But then you say it was just 2 days long.. How long do they last normally.?
Here is a lesson to be learnt for all the kids, WAIT TILL YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING..
Pull out method is NOT SAFE.. You can become pregnant even if he does not come inside you.. His pre cum can make you pregnant. And he won't know when his pre cum comes out..
Use condom and take emergency pills if you have unsafe sex.. But NEVER HAVE UNSAFE SEX in the first place and for God's sake this PULL OUT METHOD IS NOT SAFE..
Don't panic, breast can get sore without reason.. Head ache may be due to tension.. If you get another period, you're safe..
G'day
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2008): go to your doctor or get a pregnancy test at home
and by the way unprotected sex isnt a good idea if you dont want a baby!!!!!!!!!!
good luck xoxoxo
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