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Pregnancy: Help and advice

I'm bigger to begin with, but now I'm having a baby! What can I expect in terms of my weight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - im expecting my first baby. When i told my mum one of the first things she said to me after congratulations was oh no your going to put on more weight! Im a size 16 uk so not a little person, but now im worried that my antinatal apointments are ...

I'm worried my pregnant girlfriend is seeing her ex. Now she's not answering my calls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Hi to all, I am not sure whether I am at the right place. I have this big problem. Me and my gf of 20 months are expecting a baby this days. We got in 2 arguments lately. She chat with her ex behind my back and she knew that I don't like that at ...

My husband's sperm count is too low but he thinks the doctor is lying!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - hi,i have been trying for a baby for 7 years but nothing happened so the docter decided that we do some test mine was fine bur it turned out my husband cant have kids and theres nothing that can be done his sperm count is too low no treatment can ...

Baby Blues.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I've been really getting down lately a lot of friends have been having kids lately, I'm 23 and I've been broody for over 2 years. I just haven't been in a place to have them, I know have a lovely partner, but he isn't ready for them. I've got ...

After her miscarriage and being diagnosed with cancer, she somehow seems less interested in me. Why is that?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - hey agony aunts, im in a pickle and need some advice. Ive been with my girlfriend for a little over a month now, and the first few weeks went great, but then she started feeling sick and went to the doctor and found out she was 6 weeks pregnant f...

Do you think he is using me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi I'm a 23 yr old woman iv been with my boyfriend for almost 3months he never calls me unless I ring him,he hardly texts too. Three weeks ago I tried ringin him contiously as he did not pick up my calls and rhe next mornin he dumped me. When I m...

No sex after having a baby....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - My gf and me have been in a relationship for about 7 years. we live together and have a 10 months old boy. everything is great except that we have had sex once this year. I would like to have sex 3-4 time a week, at least. not 1 time in 5 months. ...

Pregnant at the same time as my mother...how do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I am pregnant the same time as my mother and i cant tell her please help me?? i am really scared as amy father will really kill me and also i am still in college as well as my boyfriend we both have part time jobs wat cn i do,??...

How can I get pregnant quickly?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - hi i am currently trying to conceive i would like some advice on the any quick ways to get pregnant? or anything i can do to get pregnant faster? i have been with my bf for 2years and have had one misscarraige before we have been trying again for...

He gives me mixed signals about having a baby but I really want one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Hi any and everybody... here is the deal... I've been seeing this guy, I'm in love but I can't tell if he is... he hasn't told me but when I'm around I can feel it... my biggest problem is I want a baby, he talks about it..."we gonna make a baby" "I ...

I'm trying to conceive and my ob-gyn tells me that testing negative is "good." What gives?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - I went to my ob/gyn for a check up and she did a pregnancy test. When the test came back neg she said the it was "good" that I was not pregnant. Why does she say that when we are actively "trying to conceive?"...

40 weeks and no sign of labor starting

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - im 40 weeks and my baby's head is not yet straight down and im showing no signs of labour soon as im not dialating or anything. what do you presume my doctor should do?...

Boyfriend turned on by pregnancy porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I'll make this quick...me and boyfriend just started dating a few months back... We have amazing sex life as his very open and so am I! We have totally fallen for each other and his wonderful to me and my 2 kids... However...he recently told me ...

Why do my co workers want to pry into when I will have children? To me it's rude, and I'm single.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - My co workers always ask me when am I going to have children, even though they know that I'm single. I find this extremely rude. My co workers are all older and most married with children. Married people really annoy me as they don't remember what ...

Just found out I am 4 months pregnant--and I had no symptoms! Is this unusual??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - So, simple question to all the couples/moms out there. My boyfriend and I just found out I am near four months along, I had NO idea, just 2 random positive pg tests! So my question to you all, has this ever happened? An undetected pregnancy, or a ...

Every time we are apart I find myself wondering if he's cheating on me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 May 2011 (F) - hey everyone, so if u havent read my past questions, i am 17 and i have a 16 year old boyfriend. we dated from august 22,2009 to may 17,2010. we broke up then because he cheated on me. . .but we got back together in december 22,2010 and we are still ...

She's pregnant. All good. But why does it seem I care more then she does in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

20 May 2011 (M) - I am in a relationship with an amazing woman for over a year. We live together, are planning on marriage soon, and recently discovered she is pregnant. All this is wonderful and she is constantly on my mind. I really love her she is wonderfu...

Should I leave the husband I don't love and never have loved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4655 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - My situation is a simple one: I married a man I've never loved. We met at 16, started dated at 18, we got married at 26 and now, at 33, I just want to end it all. He is my best friend, I like to hang out with him, but I never loved him. I kn...

39 weeks pregnant--can how I sit affect the baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - i am 39 weeks pregnant. can how i sit affect my unborn baby? i also sleep on my sides and sometimes it seems as if he is on the side that i'm sleeping on am i hurting him? Thanks a lot for your answers....

Best friend going off into the military but wants me to have his baby. He already has a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I am a senior in high and my best friend is going off to the military. He wants a baby... by me... However, he has a girlfriend. I don't know the girl and she doesn't know me. I do love this guy ever since I was a freshman though. I am also a virgin ...

I am not ready to be in the delivery room with my wife!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

17 May 2011 (M) - Hi, my wife is about to give birth and I am not ready to be in the maternity ward when the process begins. I have no one else to be there with her as we are in a foreign country on our own and this is freaking me out. My wife thinks I will be there ...

Could my abusive past be the reason I'm desperate for a baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I was wondering if my abusive past is linked to my desperate need for a baby. For as long as I can remember up until I hit 12 I was sexually abused by my biological father. I was wondering if it could be causing me to want a baby so badly. I'm...

I feel so stupid, so ashamed and so abandoned! Do I let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

15 May 2011 (?) - Ive asked questions up here a few times and have gotten good advice. some of which i wish i would of listened to before now. this guy who i thought was a very good friend ive known for a year and told him i was inlove with him in nov.2010 and he ...

I gave out TMI to a gossipy friend and now I'm afraid my b/f won't forgive me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I'm 19 and this guy I was sleeping with for a while is 20. We were really good friends and he told me alot of things in confidence. He told me his ex-girlfriend miscarried about 8 months ago and it hurt him deeply. Well I found out the other day I'm ...

Wife cheated, got pregnant then didn't have the child. Why did she do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (M) - Hi my wife had an affair 20 months ago, when she was pregnant, said the baby was mine and had an abortion. A few months ago I found out that the baby she made me grieve for was not mine. She would not talk to me about it. Eventually I have got so ...

Don't want to live in my bf's parents house anymore but don't know what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4729 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I don't think I need any advice as such... I guess I just need somewhere to say how I'm feeling about things at the moment. I'll warn you now, this is going to be very long. Just to give you little insight - Me and my boyfriend met over the int...

Please tell me, is this repairable, how I can fix my relationship with my friend who is the sister of my Bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - my best friend of 4 years and i have lately had a falling out, it happend about a year ago, and i was wondering how to fix it? here's the the story, all names were changed My friend 'A' and I have been best friedns for forever. Her older brother ...

I'm pregnant at 15 and scared to tell anyone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Please don't judge me, but I am pregnant. It was a mistake, but my own fault. I live with my Grandparents, my parents died. They are really strict. I need to talk to someone and the only person is my Head of Year. She has been really comfortin...

I've given him 30 days to decide if it's her or me. Am I being fair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I started seeing a new guy about 4 months ago. In the beginning he made it clear to me that he wanted to take it slow and not rush into anything. So of course we were both still seeing other people, and I appreciated the time. As things have pro...

How do I get my bf to move out of my place when I am pregnant...he won't leave??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I am currently pregnant about half way through. My bf - 41 is currently living with me but I am thinking it would be much better if he left. Last night we were having a good night together, I cooked him a v tasty meal and we watched tv for a bit. ...

Should I have an abortion? I don't know who the father is!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

10 May 2011 (F) - Should I go through with an abortion? My partner and I have been together for a year and recently have been arguing none stop about our financial situation, it resulted in me having a one night stand and I have just found out that I am pregnant. I ...

How to test if Contraceptive is Actually Working??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4735 days ago

9 May 2011 (M) - Hormone contraceptives are supposed to be 99% effective... is there a way to test the patch/pill to see if it is defective preventing pregnancy? - rather than just wait for my period every month...?...

Why am I dreaming about being pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I have been lately dreaming about being pregnat...... Like one dream the other night, there was something happening but we all got rushed to aN evacutaion are because tgere was bomings but i found out i was pregnat i could fell its heart beat, like ...

Do irregular periods mean you won't be fertile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - Question for the girls mainly: Hello. I am a 22 year old woman. I started my periods a lot later than everyone else, and they were very irregular - once every two months for a while, then once ever 6 months. I have had an internal test and there we...

Women over 40 and experiences of getting pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4735 days ago

8 May 2011 (?) - My partner and I are trying to concieve. She is 40, I am 42. I have had 2 children, over 13 years ago, with another partner. She has never been pregnant. SHe has been taking prenatal vitamins. My partner is having surgery to remove polyps in...

Will he ever show me gratitude for what I do, or should I just throw in the towel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship with my son's father for 10 yrs (since 2000). It was bad at first but after I left him in 2008 he changed and our relationship became exactly what I dreamed of. In 2010, we both got blackberries. Well, actually I got mine in ...

Is she using me as a baby maker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4737 days ago

7 May 2011 (M) - Here we go, it started early 2009 wen i got my new job, i was a virgin and i met my work mate late that yr (8yrs old than me) let me call her freedom. She stays near my township so we use 2 walk together after work. So i became more attracted 2 her ...

Worried about my contraceptive pill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hey there. I'm currently on the microgynon contraceptive pill and I'm having a few queries and was wondering if anyone could help? Ive been taking them for about 8 months now. I was told at the doctor to take them everyday for 3 weeks and then s...

I'm pregnant and wondering about being induced before the baby gets any bigger

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I'm 5 ft 1" and I'm pregnant. The last ultrasound I did the baby's weight was 7 lbs 8 ounces and that was at week 36. I did one more at 38 weeks and he is 8 lbs 4 ounces. I would really want to deliver the baby vaginally. Should I talk to my doctor ...

I'm pregnant and I am not getting along with my fiancé. Any advice would be appreciated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4737 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Hi I need some help. My partner and I have been together for four years we are engaged and have set a date to be married. Yea I know I'm young I've heard it all before. Anyways he recently started at Uni and suddenly he has become all secretive. He ...

I did a favor for a friend and now my daughter may be pregnant. How do I handle this and not have my husband blame me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - 8 months ago one of my dear friends came to me upset. saying that her new husband and her 18 yr old son were not getting along. Her son (M) and her husband were always fighting so M moved out and was staying with friends. Since M moved in with his...

He says he is accepting the baby, not both of them. Is this true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - A month before he met me, he met a girl and he started dating her. It was after sometime that he left the girl because of me not knowing the girl is pregnant for him, now that the girl is back into his life with an unborn baby, i dont know what to ...

I'm pregnant and he's dumped me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - 2months pregnant for a married man that played me for the fool i've been. am now 21 and he is 41, he has left his wife for not me but another woman with whom he is clearly in love with. i was there before her and he promise me the moon and stars but ...

Boyfriend has lied and cheated throughout my pregnancy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I'm 33 weeks pregnant my boyfriend has lied to me cheated on me threw my pregnancy everytime I catch him his excuse is "I'm scared your gunna cheat on me or I thought you were cheating on me" I have not not gave him any reason 2 believe I am. I have ...

Do I end the relationship? He has made his ex pregnant. We had planned our wedding for the end of this year

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4742 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - I am in a dilemma,my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend and now she is pregnant. The girl, my boyfriend's ex, will have the baby. This girl sent me an email detailing that my boyfriend is being horrible to her and that he doesn't ...

I'm 17 and scared! Am I going to lose him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - ok so me and J are doing perfect in our relationship. but i am only 17 and he is only 16 and jus recently i found out i am pregnant... will our relationship go downhill? will he leave me for another girl again? will he continue to smoke weed even ...

My boyfriend's addicted to porn! How can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend of 3 years is addicted to porn, and he has asked me to help him quit. how can i help him? are there any hotlines i can have him call, or a meeting he can attend? i told him if there is a class and he doesnt want to attend it alone i ...