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Pregnancy: Help and advice

End of relationship and pregnancy is causing me much hurt

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30 September 2011 (F) - I met this guy in June and we started seeing each other until he dumped me through email in August. In his email, he said that he was leaving the country to rekindle things with his ex-girlfriend. I didn't reply to his email because I was very ...

My husband blames fertility issues on me being over weight! Couldn't it just as well be HIM that is the problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hello all, I have been with my man for 5 years, married for almost three. We havent been actively trying to have a baby but we havent not been trying either. For years I thought my husband had issues downstairs, and I found out I have fertilit...

Should we even try to have a relationship with all the things going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - In September 2010 my best friend told me about a guy she had met through her boyfriend who is in the army and stationed in Texas. She lives in Iowa and I live in South Carolina. She told him about me and vice versa. We got each others phone numbers ...

I'm 13 weeks pregnant but still have signs of blood when I use the bathrrom

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - im 13 weeks pregnent and when i go to toilet ( number 2) i always have blood when i wipe myself or in the toilet sumtimes its lots other times its not but never strong enought to go onto my underwear Whats wrong with me ??????...

If your son/daughter came home and told you they were pregnant or got someone pregnant, how would you respond?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - How would you respond if your son/daughter came home and told you they either got or is pregnant? And I mean out of wedlock, at a young age. Around 16-18 years old. Last week, my mom told me she would be dissapointed in me, but supportive. It got me ...

Can you get pregnant if a woman doesn't reach orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hi every one! I've been wondering and would like to know that can a woman get pregnant if she still doesn't reach orgasm? If yes how does it happen? Thanks for your time reading this and thanks for your answers in advance. ...

Pregnant with his baby and he said he wanted to get married but now he has changed his mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - hey im in a relationship and i am having a baby, i am having a boy, i am 7months and the guy im with we been together for 3years and were young lovers but he treats me like he loves me, and then another minute he acts dumb but i love him dearly. man ...

Is it weird that the only thing I'm really concerned about is what my body will look like postpartum?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - My fiance and I are both 21, been together for three years, we're both continuing our educations, and we're 2.5 months pregnant. I know we'll survive financially because we already have a few thousand saved up from working so much the last three ...

Is it a good idea to get pregnant, aged 16?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months we've been sexually active for 2 months straight and well he has told me he wants to have a baby. i dont really want to have a baby right now because im going through some legal problems ...

Why do people expect their significant others to stop seeing the mother/father of their child even though they are together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, I have seen alot of questions on this site an also on TV and once with my aunt. Why do people expect their bf/gf/husband/wife/fiance to stop seeing the mother/father of their child because they're together? For example, lets say a girl and a bo...

Do these crazy dreams mean we are meant to have one more child?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - i had a dream my ex got me pregnant and then another night had another dream that I GOT HIM PREGNANT ... what does this mean? and we have an 8 month old together does it mean we are meant to have 1 more child?...

My baby's father cheated and had a baby with her!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for two years and i got pregnat in may 2010 and while i was pregnat he had cheated on me most of my pregnacy but after my son was born i wanted my family together so i for gave him. i found out the girl he was cheating on ...

Yasmin Pill a month later

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Hello everyone thanks in advance for your answers. My issue is technical. My gyno prescribed me Yasmin pills and told me to take them August 6 because I wanted to be period-free for some time (Swimming-Lengthy Vacation). BUT! My period cam...

I love him. If he was doing his part, would I be cheating? But am I wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 9 months, known each other 3 years, havent seen each other in 3 months, spoke on the phone once in those 3 months. our primary form of communication is texting. And sometimes we go a week without a text, es...

I"m not sure if the pregnancy test was positive or negative?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - I took a pregnancy test the other day. I'm not sure I waited long enough or what. I waited at least 3 minutes before I had to leave, but im still nervous about the results. It had two windows, in one window, there was a verticle line, and in the...

My 6 months old baby from another relationship is upsetting my new partner. How can I make this better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - So, I know this duels as a parenting question, but since the point of interest is my relationship I figure I should ask it here. Some Background: I am married and have a child from a previous relationship. I'll spare you the gruesome details, and ...

Should I stay with my boyfriend or go after the other guy who has a 6 month old baby and a babymama?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4585 days ago

21 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months now, our relationship is pretty good, I love him very much. The thing is about a year ago I hooked up with some guy I used to work with, we decided to stays friends but with time we grew apart. ...

Is giving custody of my baby to my parents such a bad thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

20 September 2011 (F) - Im 19 years old and 6 months pregnant. I dont feel at all ready to give my baby the best life he can have. I love him with all my heart, but im just not ready. I want to give custody to my parents. They want a baby and would love their grandbaby ...

I'm pregnant by my fwb, and I'm terrified to tell him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hiya everyone I posted a question a few days ago saying I think I could be pregnant by my fwb I have today just done a pregnancy test and it has came back positive I have done three diffrent brand tests how do I tell my fwb I'm terrified I'm 25 and ...

I love this baby but can't have it! B/f and I both in college and not working!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

19 September 2011 (F) - Hi... I'm in a big trouble. My bf is 4 years older than me. We've been together for 4 years. Now he is doing his post graduate and he moved to a nother city.He is my whole world and i love him so much. He is also same because of that In every ...

Girlfriend is pregnant and our families are mad at us!

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

19 September 2011 (M) - I have been dating my gf for almost a yr now. She is 17 and I am 18. a few months ago we found out she was pregnant. Since we told our parents its been hell. Her parents were upset, her dad natural blamed me. Its been almost 2 months since we told ...

Should I have a baby with this married man?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4565 days ago

18 September 2011 (F) - I have a serious question that I know will ruffle A LOT of feathers but I'm sorry, I really need advice, I've been seeing a married man for a while and were very close, best friends more than lovers. Recently I have been getting urges to have a ...

Pregnant by fwb what do I do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - Hi everyone here is my problem I have a fwb didn't intend to I wanted a relationship with him he just wanted sex so that was that but here's my problem I think I might be pregnant but he doesn't want to be with me as we have talked about this before ...

One night stand, now I'm pregnant and uncertain of who the father is

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - Im not sure who the father of my child is. My boyfriend and I had been having problems for quite sometime then last month I just couldn't take it anymore. I had met someone and one thing lead to another. We only had one encounter. Now I'm pregnant. ...

I need ideas for an education that is shorter than college!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - Please take a little time to read my story everyone..So, to start with i'm a pregnant teenager (19), due in 3 1/2 months, and i just recently moved in with my mom. Things arent so easy and i need advice. I seem to be screwed from every angle i ...

I'm so confused! This unplanned pregnancy could cost me my job and I don't know how my children would react to this!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

16 September 2011 (F) - I don't even know where to ask this question. It is such a dilemma and heart wrenching. About 18months ago I had the worst thing happen in my life. My husband suicided and and left me with two sons 8 and 10 at the time. I have been strong and have ...

Do I tell my boyfriend I 'think' I might be pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

14 September 2011 (F) - Do I tell my boyfriend I think I might be pregnant? I'm 19 in a few days, he's 18 and we've been in a stable, loving relationship for 2 and a half years. I am on the pill and we use condoms everytime we have sex. I have been experiencing a lot of ...

I'm still in love with both of my ex boyfriends, I have a child each, by both of them, and I'm a mess right now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

14 September 2011 (?) - From the start, I was in a relationship for 5 yrs on and off he destroyed me, my self-esteem, everything! Then I went to a relationship that lasted 10 months, he did the same. I had a child by each of these men, the first one he took full advantage ...

Husband said he was joking when he said he wanted me to get pregnant. Now I'm pregnant and he doesn't want the baby!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4605 days ago

13 September 2011 (F) - I am pregnant, my brand new husband (9.9.2011)doesn't want me to keep the child. We both have children from previous relationships. When I wasn't pregnant he was constantly telling me that he wanted me to have his son (I have all daughters) and ...

I'm so afraid that I'm not going to be able to have a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

12 September 2011 (F) - Hi all. Im having some issues. Im really scared of my womb or my ovaries being damaged or getting cysts or cancer. All i want in life is to become a mother and have a happy family with my boyfriend. But im so scared that im not going to be able to ...

Is it normal to stop being excited for a new baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4607 days ago

12 September 2011 (?) - Last December my husband surprised me with a gift that made me the happiest ever, it was the best gift he could have ever given me. He said he wanted to have another baby. We already have a five year old son, and although I always wanted more ...

Can I get a sperm donor to sign over their rights to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4607 days ago

11 September 2011 (F) - I need some legit information people. I have been diagnosed with herpes and really do not feel much into dating anymore. I want a child, regardless of if i will be having he/she alone. Is there any type of way to pick someone to be my "sperm donor" ...

I'm very pregnant and he's spending all his time at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

11 September 2011 (F) - Hi everybody, I am currently heavily pregnant with my first baby, whose due in about 4 weeks, and I've been having a really rough pregnancy, despite all the usual complaints associated with having a baby, my dad's been in hospital recently, and my h...

How do I settle this overwhelming desire to be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I'm 22 and my best friend is having a baby in a few days, we've been closer than sisters since we were 14 and I was there with her when she found out she was pregnant. I even bought the pregnancy test for her lol! But coming closer to her due date, ...

Even though I've had my tubes tied, could I be pregnant???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

10 September 2011 (F) - I'm 44 and had my tubes tied but hadnt had period in 2 months. i also had some slight bleeding after sex, when i wiped it was light in color and only when i wiped it last thru the day and was gone the next day but happend again after the next 2 ...

How can I convince my Boyfriend to help me get pregnant even though he does not need to help me bring the baby up?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4608 days ago

9 September 2011 (F) - i need help... hi i am asking your help to convinceing my bf to get me pregnant but its not working. he does not want to have children or get marryed but i would like to some day soon for children and marry later on... he is 27 and i am 19 i k...

Should I have done things differently? Did I deal with this girl the wrong way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

9 September 2011 (M) - Ok, so I met my now ex-girlfriend this past December, and to tell you the truth, she was not that bad at first. However, in January she developed a stomach ulcer due to stress in college academics, which I don't get because they were easy ...

Who is the father of my baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - please help! Here are the facts: I stopped taking the pill birth control in april 2011 I have reguar periods and a pretty normal cycle. Last missed period: may 24. I found out I was pregnant: june 25 I cheated on my boyfriend on: june 5...

Should I keep this baby? I've already had 2 abortions but I think I want to keep this one, but my boyfriend isnt supportive...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - hi everyone. I am in a big dilemma. I just found out that I am pregnant. The problem is that my boyfriend is not supportive at all. He actually says that he doesnt want a baby with me.. I have already had two abortions, the last one in february. I ...

Am I wrong for taking my daughter away from this cheat or should I try and make it work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

8 September 2011 (F) - Long story short! I don't know if I can make my relationship work. I feel miserable!!! We have a daughter together she is 1 month and 1 week today, too be honest when I first found out I was pregnant I thought our relationship was going to change ...

Is my boyfriend hinting that he wants to have a baby with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

7 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is always making jokes. He's rarely ever serious. Just to give you detail, I am 20 and my boyfriend is a middled aged man who is divorced with 2 children. About a month into our relationship, he started making jokes about getti...

Is there any chance I'm pregnant because of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

6 September 2011 (F) - I was just wondering; is there a chance i can pregnant in this situation? : Two weeks ago i went on holiday with my bf, and we went to the local swimming pool. we were leaning against the side, and ermm... lets just say we got really kinky and...

I can't seem to get pregnant!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4613 days ago

6 September 2011 (F) - hi guys, I've been suffering from this for well over a year now. I can't get pregnant. Also I've not been having periods in over a year. Doctors have pretty much given up on trying to find out what's wrong so every couple of months I just have a ...

Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I ejaculate into her anally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

5 September 2011 (M) - Can my girlfriend get pregnant if I ejaculate into her anally?...

He says I'm immature and selfish. Am I being unreasonable by being upset that his family exclude me from family events but invite his ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4612 days ago

5 September 2011 (F) - Hi. I have been involved with my boyfriend for 13 years now and we have one child. He has been divorced for the past 14 years. The problem is his ex wife. My boyfriend has refused to marry me in the past citing his family doesn't like me. Aft...

How do I come clean with my man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4615 days ago

4 September 2011 (F) - hello all. I need some advice on how to tell the man ive been planning on being in a relationship that i have just been diagnosed with herpes. We have not had sex, as we have been taking it slow for about a year now. I freaked out over it so im ...

I want children but my partner doesn't & his ex is involved

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

3 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my partner for 3 years. He asked me to marry him, so we had the discussion about having kids, finances, religion etc. The sticking point was children – he said he thinks on balance doesn’t want (he has 2 already with ex) but that ...

Are there any good stories about being conceiving despite the odds?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4616 days ago

2 September 2011 (F) - I don’t quite know what I want to say here, I guess I am looking for some kind words, anyone who can say something inspirational, maybe I just need chearing up? Me and my bf have been trying for a baby for over a year and we havnt managed as yet. ...

She says she can't get pregnant and its ok not to use condoms

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

1 September 2011 (M) - She says she can't have baby any more... Hello, the girl who I am going to have sex with told me that she can not have any more babies...she said it is safe for me to cum gallons of sperms inside her, and she doesn't want me to use condoms...sh...

Devastated! Husband not happy with Pregnancy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4618 days ago

1 September 2011 (F) - I have two wonderful children and my husband and I love them very much. My husband has two brothers with schizophrenia and he watched in despair as their lives spiralled out of controlled. He always worries that one of our children could have ...