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Pregnancy: Help and advice

My ex wanted me to have an abortion, but now he wants visitation rights

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted today

21 November 2009 (F) - Im 18 years old and i have a 3 month old little boy with my ex whose 22. He wants to have some sort of visitation rights but i dont want him to. Since when i found out i was pregnant at 17 he left me for another girl and told me to have an abortion. ...

I want a baby and I don't care what my bf thinks! Is this bad to think this way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

21 November 2009 (F) - is this a bad way of thinking? if i want a baby i dont care what he [my boyfriend of six months] thinks if he wants to be around then he can if not then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it...

If I ever have a baby, I really don't care if the father hangs around! Is this bad way to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted today

21 November 2009 (F) - Is this a bad way of thinking? If i want a baby I dont care what the baby's father thinks. If he wants to be around then he can, if not, then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot ...

I can't stop thinking about having a baby, but I know I'm not ready.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

21 November 2009 (F) - I'm always thinking, "What if I get pregnant?" and my answer in my head is, no matter what i'd keep the baby since me and my boyfriend both talk about it all the time, we cant wait until we're older to have kids. i never had a good mother, she was ...

Does my aunt's dream mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 November 2009 (F) - My aunt dreamt that i was pregnant, but i don't have any signs except my stomach growing (which it always does when i'm gaining weight). I still have my periods. Wat worries me is dat even my colleagues think i'm pregnant. I'm not ready to have a ...

Has anyone lost weight while pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 November 2009 (F) - hiya well im 19 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am really confused. im getting a nice round bump but other than that have lost nearly 2 stone since i became pregnant and am worried that it could hurt my baby if i carry on losing weight ...

I want to get pregnant, how do I bring this up with my boyfriend? And after our last unprotected sex, is there a chance I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the same post] Question 1: When me and my boyfriend have sex we never use condoms. he always just pulls out. well the other night we had sex and he pulled out and came nea...

Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted yesterday

20 November 2009 (F) - Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...

Oh my god!!! Could I possibly be pregnant???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - hey, i have a question. im currently on bc, and i got my period last weds. but yesterday, when i was sitting under the dryer at the hair salon, i started feeling really sick, and ended up throwin up. then i drank some water and threw that up too. ...

Ladies! What were your pregnancy symptoms?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Alright, so I've been sick on and off for the past 3 weeks and haven't thought much about it until someone asked if I could be pregnant. I'm 20 years old and have never been pregnant or even had a scare so I have no idea. I've had extreme nausea on ...

Help me prepare... in case I'm pregnant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Please help! I'm worried I'm pregnant... Me and my boyfriend have never used a condom but I'm on the pill. We both got tested before we slept together. But I'm a bit forgetful and miss a few pills from time to time. But me and my boyfriend have ...

I missed a few pills, unprotected sex, and now I'm worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - this a bit of a hard and weird question to be asking but i am a bit worried, i am on the contraceptive pill and obviously i have missed a few pills in the month that i am now in and on the 16th nov a few days ago i had unprotected sexual ...

I haven't been myself lately and I am worried I am pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost a year he is 24, we are in love and are very close. there have been a few times over the past few weeks that the condom split...i put it to the back of my mind and told myself i'll be okay. ...

My boyfriend thinks I am too young to be the mother of his baby.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted today

18 November 2009 (F) - i am a virgin and would love to have sex with my bf and become his child's mom but my bf says that i'm very young to be the mother of his kid and he would make me pregnant only aftr i finish my college but i want it rite now and i have gone mad ...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

Ovulation, Pregnancy, The ex-factor. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, so I have some questions. See me and my ex-boyfriend had unprotected sex (he has a girlfriend) and Im like bugging out I may get pregnant. See I already have a two year old with someone else and this is the same exact time of month I ...

Is this normal? Am I pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have missed my period for five monts and I have had backaches and headaches, my breasts have been itching a lot lately and all I do is eat. I mean I always ate a lot but now I just can't control it. Can anyone help me out here? Am I pregnant? I ...

Could this cause pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I just registered now and really need advice. I recently bought two types of condoms to try them out. Anyways, had sex with my gf using one kind... funny thing is that it was smaller. I hadnt cum and my gf asked me to remove it and use the othe...

How long will my boyfriend stay in jail for assaulting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - am 17 years old and i was dateing this guy who is 19 years old. we currently brok on saturday. because the police arrested him for hitting me on the street i guess people saw him hit me so they called the cops so they arrested him becasue i am a ...

What was this thing I found in my panties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...

How can I gently break the news to my mother-in-law that I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Ok then. This is the first time i've used this site, so be nice! (And excuse the punctuation, my CTRL button is tempermental today) So I was wondering how to break the news that im pregnant to my mother-in-law. She is a wonderful woman, and has a...

36 years old, happily married, but not sure I want kids....will I regret this later on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

17 November 2009 (F) - Dear All, I am happily married to the love of my life - I am 36 years old and hubby is 37 - we have been married for 1 year, and together for 3 years. Hubby really wants kids, but I am not so sure. I love the idea of having a child around th...

Can you get pregnant 2 days after ovulation using the rythem method?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Can you get pregnant 2 days after ovulation using the rythem method? I cheated on my bf, and im not sure if my one night stand is the father of my child. I was with my bf 4 days before ovulation no protection and he ejaculated plenty inside me. Then ...

I am pregnant and ignoring two men. Which one should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I need advice on this one. Its tricky. Am pregnant. The father of the baby has not been very supportive. He buys food and well made me sign a receipt saying I owed him 100 quid so I did and will pay it back to him and get him to sign a receipt but ...

Help! He broke up with me and I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I am 7 months pregnant and 19 years old, my boyfriend who is 28 has just left me to go back with his ex wife, I am crushed, how do i win him back? how am i going to cope with a baby on my own i need him. please help me! x x...

Trying for a baby

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Hi I have a question I really would love some advice on. My long term boyfriend and I are trying for a baby. In anyways I have been off the pill for the last year and now no longer using condoms. My boyfriend and I had sex umprotected sex on the ...

My boyfriend wants a baby and I don't. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Im 18 and im in college and my boyfriend is 20 and he wants a baby. Now i dont think he ready for one and plus i want to wait but he dont. I love him so much that i dont want to loose him. So everytime we get on that subject and i say no he gets mad ...

My first time and I think I've fell pregnant. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - hi i am 16 years old and i had sex the other day with my boyfriend. I have not been feeling that well lately and yesterday i was hungery even although I had been eating all day but today im hungery but i feel very sick. My parents and his are ...

Was I pregnant and did I kill my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I drank with my brother earlier, and i may be pregnant i went to sleep and when i woke up i was bleeding but not really like my period . It was there but it stopped. Could i have killed my baby? Or could it have been implantation bleeding ? ...

Can anyone recommend a good contraceptive pill?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I need some female advice, I am 27 (virgin) and currently not on the pill, I have been seeing this guy and we want to take things further, I have never really wanted to go on the pill because I think it messes with the female body, but I also don't ...

I'm pregnant - but how far along?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - ok so i am pregnant but really would like someone to say how far i am, roughly. i had my last period on the 13th septemeber....

Should I tell my ex that I'm pregnant with his child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Just yesterday, I found out I was pregnant and it was confirmed by a doctor. My boyfriend and I recently split and he refused to give me a reason. Then only thing he told me was that he loved me but couldnt be with me anymore. But the night before, ...

Could my symptoms be a sign of pregnancy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Last week, things got a bit heated between me and my boyfriend. We didn't have sex, but he had touched himself briefly before fingering me. I didn't notice any pre-ejaculate on him, so I didn't think anything of it. Later on I spoke to him about my ...

I am having fantasies about my pregnant neighbor!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - i have a young couple as next door neighbours. my problem is that the wife is 5 months pregnant. and i have started having fantasies about her. ever since she got the baby bump. its almost like a pregnancy fetish. and i am not too happy about ...

Caught my husband chatting porn site..please I need your advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Im a pregnant wife im 22,just having problem wtih my husband porn,even b4 i knew it but its ok i ignore but now i think its to much....now my husband is in georgia while me here in mississippi he'll be in gergia till dec 4 ,one time i open his ...

Late period, and pregnancy test is negative! What do I do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I just took a pregnancy test because I'm over a week late for my period, the test was negative... Should i take another one? If yes how long should I wait? And what should I do? I'm normally not this late!...

Nausea, fatique, body aches...am I pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I've been feeling nauseous just about all day for the past couple days. I've also had head and body aches, and have been more tired than usual. My period isn't expected for another two weeks or so, but I'm worried I might be pregnant. Could I be ...

He showed no concern when I had a miscarriage and I am at the stage where I no longer know what to say to him, should I leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have asked for help before and always received helpful and unbiased advice. My problem stems from the fact that I feel that I have not been treated very well and would like other peoples views on whether I should leave this relationship. I was ...

He doesn't like using condoms and says if I get pregnant, so be it!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hi All, Im 19 and have a 23 year old BF, I love him very much and he loves me too. The problem is he doesnt like using condoms, Im not on any form of birth control and I dont want use any, except condoms as I feel more safe. I really DONT want a ...

Is a school guidance counsellor obliged to tell my parents I might be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - if i tell a school guidance counselor that i think i might be pregnant will she tell my parents? does she HAVE to tell them is what i mean. is this a situation in which she is obligated to inform them or can we jus talk and keep it to herself? t...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend blames my anger on hormones!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I just have a question...how many of you women out there had a baby by a man and felt like he couldnt understand what you were going through? Im getting so fed up with my boyfriend because everytime we get into a fight he wants to blame it on the h...

Am I making a mistake by having an abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is an alcoholic. I just found out I'm pregnant. I would love to have the baby but I don't feel its fair to bring a child into the world with an alcoholic father. I already have a 17 year old ...

Was I wrong to be upset, why would he lie and try to hide it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - hi i've been with this guy for about 4 years we recntly had a baby together, since before i got pregnant our relationship was rocky, but we decided to have the baby because we both thought it was the right thing to do, so far our baby is not the ...

I can't have children due to PCOS. Please advise!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted yesterday

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 21 year old married female that can't have kids due to pcos... I have looked into adoption agencies but they are all so expensive. I really wanted to have children and now I am really beginning to become depressed because I can't have ...

Could this baby be the other guy's???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have a 3 month old son who was born in August this year. About a week after my last period, I slept with 2 different men on the same night, one being my baby's father. I took the morning after pill the day after, but i'm now pregnant aga...

Should I indulge her rape fantasies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going through some rough times lately, and things look to be going downhill fast, no matter what I do. She's 8 months pregnant and I know her hormones are raging, so I've put my selfish needs aside in an attemp t...

How do I get past these horrible feelings I have?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I'm disgusted with myself. 5 yrs ago, I got pregnant, it wasn't planned, I was shocked, I was on birth control and there it was. My bf at the time was very supportive, however after a length discussion we decided not to have our child. A year lat...

What would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - what would the symptoms be of pregnancy 2-3 weeks into it? any at all? its about 4 days before im supposed to get my period and my nipples are sore, pains in my sides and lower abdomen and insideeee my vagina and im crying all the time sometimes ...

HOw can I control my urge to have a baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

10 November 2009 (F) - Im 16 years old and i want a baby! i have previously been pregnant two times and miscarried both, which left me very emotional. i have always wanted to have kids but over the past 6months i have wanted one more and more and it can get emotiona...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me !!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Im 17 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend does not want to have sex with me at all. I tried talking to him so he can tell me what are his concerns or fears and come up with a solution. But when i asked his answer was " i dont know" and walked away. th...