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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

He wants nothing to do with me or the child but I want him back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4834 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - after years of dating, my boyfriend broke up with me when i told him i was pregnant. i due next month. he said at the time he was to young(25) and wanted to enjoy life but he didn't want a serious realtionship. in october 2010 i talk to him over an ...

I had a miscarriage and am afraid to tell my boyfriend

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I was 3 months pregnant and started having really bad tummy pains... My boyfriend, who i live with, said its just something to do with the pregnancy and told me not to worry about it, whilst he was doing his paper round i decided to talk to his mum ...

I'm not feeling validated in this relationship and she can't fully commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4835 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Alright, this is going to be slightly long, but bear with me for a moment. I started dating this girl when I was 19. I've always had a lot of trust issues, so opening up to people wasn't something I was good at. For about 6 months things were goin...

Can I get pregnant if he came but I didn't?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Is it possible that I can get pregnant if my boyfriend came in me but I never came? And I start around the 5th of every month?...

Honeymoon & Birth control

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4830 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - My fiancé and I plan on not using protection on our honeymoon except for when she says it's time to start "being careful". That should be about the last few days of our week in Florida. She isn't okay with birth control so I will use a condom. Her ...

Pregnant, cheated and guilt

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend now for a year and a half. Awhile back I did something really stupid that I totally regret, I cheated on him one time with an ex of mine, which is so totally not me and I didn't mean for it to happen,and I realize how ...

Younger husband wants to have a baby even though I am 48 with tubes tied and had major back surgery

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My husband is from another country he has just finally arrived in the U.S. about 10 months now, before we got married he said he wanted children, but I told him my tubes where tide and not sure if I wanted more, but I love him and I know he would be ...

His kids are always sick!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a ...

I am 18, pregnant, and can't figure out what's going on with my boyfriend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I am 18 y/o and my boyfriend is 31. I am just now finding out that I am pregnant with an at home test. I am always the type of girl to be happy, outgoing, and talk loud..., and lately, I've been a lil bit cranky. Now, he has decided to seperate ...

Married lover wants me back into his life after everything he's put me through!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - I was dating a married man who never told me that he is a A pastor as well, we were so much in love I got pregnant with his child but then he begged me to Terminate the pregnancy as I was not planning to have a child With him I terminated ...

Rinky dink relationships but no serious relationships at 23!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

27 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 23 years old and I never had a serious relationship before. I've been in rinky dink relationships, but nothing long term. There's not really a reason for it, just bad luck, bad timing and me focusing on other things (Like work and going to ...

He's trying to make me feel bad and down about myself and our relationship! And I'm 8 weeks pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and just found out I'm 6 weeks pregnant a couple of days ago. I'm over the moon about it and wanna just settle down with my own family! I've never been out clubbing, don't drink, don't have any friends I go to work and literally come home ...

Does my ex want to get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4838 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - so my boyfriend and i broke up 7 days ago because he wasnt happy, we are going to have a baby and we both are 18. we hadnt seen eachother in 8 days because i didn't wont to see him. he still texts me everyday and ask how im doing well last night he...

We used to have sex 4 times a week now we only do it once a week

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - I'm almost 7months pregnant me n my bf hav been togethEr for 4yrs I love him but he has been wrkin out of twn n only comes over the weekends we only have sex once a week we used to have sex about 4 times a week I'm really confused I don't no if its ...

Help me, I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

26 January 2011 (F) - Hi My boyfriend and i been dating for 2 years im 6 months pregnant and ever since i got pregnant we've been fighting alot. First of all our biggest issue we have we aren't financially stable at all. I work 45 hours a week and my boyfriend doesnt ...

Would it be better for everyone if I had an abortion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4837 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - This is complicated but here goes... I got back together with my ex boyfriend about 4 months ago. He is going through a divorce. We have two kids and 5 and 9. I found out last week that I am pregnant. We have been keeping our relationship on the ...

Should I keep my married boyfriend's baby?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4838 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a married man for almost 4 years he has been married 6 yrs. I know I will be judged and for the most part for what I have read on this topic, answers seem to be one sided. Always blaming the mistress. It takes two selfish,cheaters ...

He found out I was pregnant and he changed his phone number!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4841 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - so me and my ex were together for over a year and lived together for about 7 months. He broke up with me a couple of times bc things were "too stressfull" him not working ect. We've been broken up for about 3 weeks now. The last thing we talked ...

Can I do anything to make twins more likely?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

25 January 2011 (F) - Can you do any thing to make it more likely to have twins if your trying to get pregnant? Thanks for your time....

Should I be worried about the condom breaking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

24 January 2011 (M) - My girlfriend is on the pill. She was prescribed it for acne reasons around 6 months ago but kept at it now that we're active. I use a condom every time as well, but I feel like kind of whimp for doing so. A spermicide lubricated condom broke the ...

I do want to be with him but there's no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - Please dont judge! I need advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We broke up for about 2 months from April-June last year and he started talking to this girl, I always believed in if you love something let it ...

I feel guilty but I don't want an abortion!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4841 days ago

24 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for little over a year. He is 35 and I am 30. He has 2 kids and I have 2 kids. I just recently found out that I am pregnant. He wants me to have an abortion but I do not want to. I have had an abortion before and ...

My husband just doesn't get it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

23 January 2011 (F) - my husband just wont get it. we got separated and just got back 2 years ago the reason being he used to hit me and had a drinking problem. all that is changed now he doesnt drink never has hit me or even raised his voice he chenged for that matter. ...

I am pregnant, we broke up, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4842 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and i broke up like 3 days ago. and i was panning to move on so i asked him if that was okay since i am having his kid. he said that he didnt wont me to move on because i have his kid. he said he didnt wont me to give his kid a ste...

I'm pregnant, his ex just had his baby and I don't want him going back and forth between us!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - im in love with this guy i been with for about a year, a few months into our relationship, i found out his ex was pregnant from by him.He didnt bothered to tell me he said he was scared he lose me. once the ex call me and told me , i was very upset ...

I'm sad that the father of my child didn't care for either of us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

22 January 2011 (F) - my ex and i were in a relationship for almost 3 years and when i got pregnant (on birth control, a true accident) he left me. during my pregnancy he started dating another woman. to me this is very disrespectful as at the time i needed his support ...

My husband is obsessed with porn, we have a second baby on the way, live with his mother, and I had a summer romance!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - I am 24 and married to a 25 year old firefighter that is obsessed with sex and continuously is on sex sites, looking at porn, answering personal ads, and talking to and having sex with other girls on a virtual chat site. I am unhappy and have been ...

Should I be worried now that my boyfriend is hiding his porn use?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend started watching porn when I became pregnant. When I found out, he told me that he was stressed, so he watched porn. After the baby was born, he continued to watch it, saying that he was a grown man and would do what he wanted. He ...

He's with me, says he loves me, but he isn't happy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4845 days ago

20 January 2011 (F) - okay so im 4 months pregnant. and my boyfriend and i had a little break up like 1 and a half ago and we worked things out. but he said he only did it because my mom asked him too but she didnt she told him that if he wanted to work things out with ...

Should I tell him about the baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4846 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - My ex boyfriend was married and i finished it for that reason, i was just lonely after my husband died, i have now met somebody that is single and we have been going out for 5 months and i decided not to tell him about my married ex boyfriend, we ...

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated with me, now that I'm pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I really need advice from a non judgmental view point. I had been in a relationship with this guy for the last 2 years. He is in the army and so naturally things were always kind of difficult. But now I know that he was lying to me and cheating on ...

How do I ignore this woman and all her antics?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4846 days ago

19 January 2011 (F) - I fell pregnant and the father of my baby denied paternity of the baby, he has now started dating someone i work with and (truly and honestly) i dont have a problem with their relationship, the problem i have is that this girl seem to be boasting ...

Should I tell my wife I cheated on her with over 30 prostitutes?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4843 days ago

19 January 2011 (M) - I'm 35, my wife 36, we have 2 kids, married for 7 years. Before our kids born we have really great relationship and have sex every day. Sine she got pregnant the first kid her interest for sex declined sharply. No matter what I tried the most we can ...

He fathered a child to another woman

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - I have been in a wonderful new relationship for 3 months with someone i have known for many years and we were best friends, we didnt get it together before because of past relationships we were in. We just found out a girl he had a one nighter wi...

Guys!! Help! My guy prefers porn and his xbox to real sex... what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4839 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - Ok, so my b/f and I have not had sex for a month now. I'm 5.5 months pregnant- but I'm not overweight. I've gained 10lbs and am at 130. The first trimester sex wasn't really something that I felt good about, being nauseous, etc., but now my hormones ...

How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

18 January 2011 (F) - how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child ...

Emotionally Confused And Sick Of Playing Games!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - So usually when I come to agony aunts with a question you all always help me out and I'm looking for that same positive help this time. In November 2009 I met a man online and we talked for 7 months until he came to visit. He said he was in love w...

I'm pregnant but my BF of 9 years has left to live with his new GF. I feel so vulnerable. What can I do to protect my babies and me from being homeless?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant and have two toddler daughters. My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years and we just bought a house. This is the first year he has made a lot of money since he opened his own business. He recently left the home stat...

She's the partner of my guy's best friend. How do I deal with this bossy woman? I'm all stressed out about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

17 January 2011 (F) - Big dilemma! I have been together with my boyfriend for almost 12 months - during this time we discovered that we were pregnant and have decided to go through with the pregnancy. Because of his income, we both decided it would be better if I moved ...

Opinions about using Plan B

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

16 January 2011 (F) - What are people's opinion on using Plan B as emergency contraception? Has anyone ever felt guilty after taking it?...

Does he love me... or the baby momma number 1???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - okay now i am 18 and i am seein this guy that go to my school but the problem is he has a baby and he still talks to the baby momma every day but he is telling me he aint dating the baby momma but every time i turn around she is there. i know he ...

Pregnant by my foreign b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

15 January 2011 (F) - SO im with my bf a year now n realized im pregnant oh but shit hes from brazil and we live in ireland and hes only on a student visa we had no plan 4 this and yes were happy just thing is were scared out of our wits were going to be separated we ...

She's carrying my child, says she loves me, but dumped me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4850 days ago

15 January 2011 (M) - Ive got a big problem my ex is seven months pregnat and she dumped me but i swear to you i love this girl more then anyhting what do i do and and she says she loves me im confused i want her back ...

Should I have a one-night stand to get pregnant as I really want a baby!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

14 January 2011 (F) - Hi cupids. Im 18 now and id prefer if i werent prejudged but when i was 14 i fell pregnant to an older man who was abusing me for 2 years 12-14. When i fell pregnant i spoke to a lovely lady nurse about what had been happening and she helped me ...

I want my girlfriend to experience sex without a condom but she refuses

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

14 January 2011 (M) - I want my girlfriend to experience sex without a condom but she refuses? We're in our late 20s and have been dating exclusively for over 7 years. We started having sex about 2 years after dating, I'm her first. I've had multiple sex partners bef...

I feel like girlfriend's sister is forcing us to get married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4849 days ago

13 January 2011 (M) - I'am 20 years old my girlfriend is 8 weeks pregnant,she is vietnamese and im mexican/dominican we both have very different families, so we told her sister about the pregnancy and shes very excited,but now I feel like the sister is forcing us to get ...

My pregnant friend is getting an abortion and I'm the only one who knows!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

12 January 2011 (M) - my best friend, who im in love with, told me today she thought she was pregnant. When i asked who it was she told it was one of my best friends who knows i love her. she really dosent want a baby because it was a mistake and dosent want her parents ...

I tested my boyfriend and he failed!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - so i had my friend send my bf a message on myspace to see if he would cheat on me she sent him a message asking him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. I found a different reason to break up with him and after i broke up with him i asked him why ...

My fiance watches porn on my teenage daughter's computer!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - Is it unreasonable to confront my Fiance on his recent porn watching on my computer that my young teenage daughter uses as well? I am another one who is not thrilled about him watching the porn, but he can do what he wants (I'd rather not know ...

My boyfriend of 3 months is away a lot in Army. is it a good idea to have a baby now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

11 January 2011 (F) - I'm 19 (20 at the end of 2011) I'm currently with my boyfriend who is 22 we have been together for 3 months and are living together (ano sounds crazy) he is in the army and is away a lot but recently we have decided to have a baby after a ...