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Pregnancy: Help and advice

I'm 8 months pregnant b/f cheated, he lied until the girl sent the video of them having sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I am 8 months pregnant and just found out my boy friend cheated, he said it was a mistake and he's so sorry but I don't know what to do, I want to be with him but I dont at the same time! The worst part is she filmed it and sent it to me, he ...

The light switch relationship--now she's pregnant with someone else's baby and I don't want kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - ok so. i got this on again off again relationship for about the last couple years. shes 20 im 23. seems every time we have a drink together we end up in the sack together. shes always telling me im the sweetest guy she knows. and stuff like that. i ...

Fiance walked out on me while pregnant, I found out he's living with his ex. He wants me back but I can't get over the hurt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - he walked away without a word and left town when I was pregnant. two days later said he left to give me space. I was hurt so I didn't allow him to come right back. then I had the baby he said he was so sorry about hurting me the way he did by ...

Is it reasonable for your fiance to demand that you never speak to any exes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3983 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - My fiance and I recently got engaged, mostly due to the fact that I got pregnant. We were having some problems but when we found out, we decided to work on it. It hasn't been easy but things are slowly improving and we're both excited about the ...

Can a man who lies to me about everything be a keeper? Should I carry on with him or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3984 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid.It was a LDR but we are livin together now in Gauteng,6months now but we've been in this for 4 years nw. My problem is that-I visited him so many times at his province of residence,he introduced me to his family BUT he lied abt his mom ...

I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3982 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so...

How can I deal with my husband's need for sex when my sex drive is low due to pregnancy. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3986 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I'm so stressed out at the moment me and my husband split in November last year I had a couple of one night stands and ended up pregnant. Time has gone on and my husband wants to try again I have decided as I am almost 7 months pregnant I want to ...

Why a sudden change of mind for us so soon after deciding we didn't want a child?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3988 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend, we had the "baby talk" and both decided it was right timing right now, but I've been panicking about the unprotected sex we had. I asked him as we cuddled in bed last night what he wants for us in the future ...

My wife got pregnant by her lover and had a secret abortion!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - This is difficult but I will just say it. My wife had an affair with a person I considered my friend and got pregnant. She made arrangements with her lover (also married) and had a secret abortion one year ago. We have been married for 6 years and ...

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3992 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...

Pregnant and lonely, husband is always working?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3987 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I don't know what to do or who else to talk to about this but I really need to let it out. I'm halfway through my pregnancy with my first child and I'm feeling so down all the time. It was planned and I'm not unhappy that we're havin...

I'd like to wait until Father's Day to tell my husband I'm pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3993 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Hi! I just found out, Im two and a half weeks pregnant via blood test, so its very early on. ( I was getting a blood test anyway and had missed my period so I asked if my doctor could order a blood preg test also) Anyways its very early on and I ...

My only problem with him is his parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

19 May 2013 (F) - Let me start by saying my partner and I are 27 and 28. We have pretty much the perfect relationship. We never argue, fight, lie or hide anything from eachother. We are so happy together. We have had problems in the past from outside influences but ...

What birth defects could have been caused from caffeine, smoking and being fed by bottle?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - My mother smoked cigarettes and consumed a lot of Caffeine while she was pregnant with me. I was also always bottle fed, never breast fed. I'm wondering what birth defects (if any) could have been caused by those three factors? ...

My ex is trying to change, should I get back together with him? How do I tell my mom?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3994 days ago

18 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my fiancé in late January this year. I loved and still do love him dearly. I left him because I was unhappy about many things about how he chose to live his life. he chose to hang out with loser drug addicts and got himself ...

I'm worried that my smoking and drinking could delay or event prevent getting pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, so basically what it is is that I really want a baby (so does my partner) I came off the mirena two months ago, I drink on weekends socially but quite a lot and smoke 8-10 cigarettes a day, I know that's awful to do when trying to ...

Why is the smell of his cum so strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3996 days ago

17 May 2013 (F) - After sex if my husband cums inside me afterwards some comes out and if it gets on my panties(specifically lacey ones) it turns the color of my panties. Like bleaching them. Also it smells really strong even when dry. Is this normal what could cause ...

I'm sick of his ex! Will she ever be out of the picture?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3981 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - hi all thank you for taking the time to read this. i have fallen in love with a man who is 25 yrs older than me and im having his baby. the problem is, is that his stupid ex wife will not get it through her head that i am with him now. i had to w...

Our marriage has went downhill since I've been pregnant. He just doesn't seem to care how I feel!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3998 days ago

15 May 2013 (F) - I've written about this topic before, and every time I try other's advice, it just goes no where, and I'm not sure what to do. I'm now 8 months pregnant (fit and all belly). Since I started showing, my sex life has dwindled. It's pretty much beco...

Is it too soon in our relationship to consider starting a family?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

13 May 2013 (F) - Boyfriend and I are together 8 months. I'm on the patch so this may be a silly question! I finished my period last week and had sex with the boyfriend and now my breasts are very very sore, all over and nipples and a bit veiny. I also felt dizzy and ...

I found out I'm the other girl and I'm pregnant!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4000 days ago

12 May 2013 (F) - I went on three dates with a guy(who said he was single)I had just met. We hooked up twice, and now I'm pregnant. We tried to make things work as a couple, but he ended that after less than a day, because he said it felt forced. We both decided to ...

Do men feel guilt at denying paternity, when they are informed about a pregnancy? Or do the men just move on and feel no guilt? Should I feel damaged by their actions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Hello, friends, aunts, uncles etc I have a question again.... I am pregnant thanks to the advice I got I'm keeping my baby God will provide something for us. My question is do these men who abandon they children really move on or they do sit d...

My boyfriend's drink was spiked and the woman he woke up with now says she is pregnant!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4001 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - Help me, please. My boyfriend of a year just told me that about a month ago, he went to this girl's house to help her with her abusive ex. He didn't have a way home, so he sat down and she asked him if he wanted anything to drink. I guess it was ...

I want a man who wants me and wants to have children.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4002 days ago

11 May 2013 (F) - When I was 15, I got into a 3-year long relationship with a then 17 year old boy. The first year was great and yes, I lost my virginity to him (he did not lose his to me). But then he went off to university five hours away and we only saw each other ...

We had unprotected sex. Should I ask if everything is ok with her cycle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4003 days ago

10 May 2013 (M) - okay, awkward subject: I've been dating a girl I really like for the past 5 months. We've been having sex on the regular basically every time we see each other. Only thing though, last month (the 25th specifically) she was on her per...

How can I stop obsessing about the fact that my Bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

8 May 2013 (F) - My bf used to sleep with his baby momma after they separated, on and off from what i can gather. I know its not while he has been with me, but it makes me feel insecure or that he still has feelings for her. How do I stop obsessing about this?...

He is drunk every day and flirts with others. Does this mean he'll cheat while I am in hospital giving birth? Or am I having pregnancy paranoia?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4005 days ago

7 May 2013 (F) - if a man is drunk every day and will flirt in front of you. Does this mean he is likely to cheat when you're not there? I am weeks away from giving birth so i am not very attractive at the moment. not sure if it's pregnancy paranoia or not......

I just want to know which method is highly risky or if both methods are equally risky? help me

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3999 days ago

6 May 2013 (F) - Dear friend, I had unprotected sex with a guy but he ddnt ejaculate a week later I had protected sex with a different guy. I jus want to know how safe are condoms compared to non ejaculation? Nine months is far for me to get a partenity test a...

Miscarriage and breakup right on top of each other. I can't cope!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4008 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - Hi i am going through a really bad time at the moment i have just recently had a miscarriage my boyfriend split up with me the day after we had all these plans of marriage and children he said he needed space and he is a loner what did he mean i ...

We can't get married so what happens if he leaves us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4009 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I have a relationship with my cousin olmost 8years we have own baby son 6 years old his healthy.... my question what if he found another and leave us alone.we cant be merried? ...

Excited to be pregnant, but I am not married.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - So I am a teacher in a middle school and I've been seeing a co-worker of mine for about seven months now. We're the youngest teachers (23) by far and three weeks ago I found out that I'm pregnant with his and my first child. There are a lot of ...

What to do now, do I say something else to him? I feel lost and crushed by his lies and his games

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

5 May 2013 (F) - I am going to try to make this as short as possible by giving enough info but it's a long story. any advice is welcomed. refrain from judgement and ill comments please. My fiance and I got into an argument one day. very stupid argument and...

Could I get pregnant still if he didn't ejaculate inside me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4009 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - We had sex before one week but he didn't entered me as he was rubbing my vagina with his penis and ejaculated outside my vagina. Can it cause pregnancy?...

How to make a tough decision when you're pregnant and it's unplanned?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4009 days ago

4 May 2013 (F) - I'm 26 and been with my boyfriend for a year. It's been stressful lately and I got laid off from my job (company downsizing/ folding). I hate not working and get depressed. Ive been sick and my boyfriend took me to the doctor. He told me I'm ...

I'm pregnant again and all the old problems with my boyfriend and the last pregnancy have resurfaced

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4010 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 4 and a half years and we have a 2 almost 3 year old. We have been trying for a few months to get pregnant and I'm 8 weeks pregnant. Our son wasn't planned but it worked out ok, and he's a lovely little boy. When I wa...

How do I handle the visitation of my ex seeing our baby after its born? He left me and is an alcoholic

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

3 May 2013 (F) - What to do when the father of my baby wants to see her after shes born?? I am now 20 weeks pregnant and alone. The father left me for dead and I havent heard boo from him. I have accepted the fact that Im going to be a single parent. The father is ...

I've just found out my boyfriend has a second child with his ex, I don't think I can deal with him having so many kids but I'm pregnant with his baby! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4004 days ago

2 May 2013 (F) - Just found out my boyfriend has another baby with his first baby mama, they already have a son I knew about. im also 5 months pregnant with his baby, he said he just found out that her daughter is his, he didn't cheat with her the baby was before me ...

What are the consequences I'm going to be facing being a single mother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

1 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, This question is for all the single mothers out there, please encourage. I have decided to keep my baby because he/she can't suffer for my mistakes but I want to know how does it feel when the father denies the pregnanacy and y...