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Pregnancy: Help and advice

Why does he want to have a baby with me and not get married?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4559 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for nearly a year, and living together for over 6 months. He's in his early 40's and I'm in my early 30's. We both have been divorced. He recently expressed that he wants to have a baby, and we agreed ...

Do I tell my boyfriend that I want an abortion? Or just go ahead and do it anyway?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4531 days ago

31 October 2011 (F) - Well... I am 28 years old and have been with the same guy for 10 years... Yes, 10 years. We're not technically married, but do plan to stay together for the long hall. And, I just found out I was pregnant. Obviously we've been being careful over the ...

Why would a woman refuse to do a DNA test to prove to him that he is the father, if she was certain that he was the father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4536 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - I had a friend ask me for advice and I was just wondering if I can some other people's ideas before giving him any advice. My friend had a one night stand with a girl (I know for certain it was not a relationship, just a once off) anyway a few ...

I'm not sure whats wrong, could I possibly be pregnant even though I'm on the needle?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4560 days ago

30 October 2011 (F) - Uh, i have no clue how to put this. ill just try my best. Lately iv been feelings a bit weird. i feel like im going to vomit pretty much all day every day. I get full off like nothing pretty much, i pee millions of times. i havnt had sex sinc...

Is it right for my husband to leave me despite having a high risk pregnancy to go on holiday?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

27 October 2011 (F) - i have been married for a few months. i am 34 weeks pregnant, with a history of heart disease, and classified high risk pregancy. my husband lobied for a paid for 2 months vacation out of the country with his employers and really excited about it. i ...

Can it really be so weird for a guy to sleep with his pregnant woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4570 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - I am currently 26 weeks pregnant. I have not gained any weight but my belly has grown seeing how there is a baby in there lol. I've been with my boy friend who is the father for two years. Over the past couple weeks I've noticed our sex life is ...

Pregnant and on bed rest which is why I'm living with my parents, but should I move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4571 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - i never thought i'd be in a position asking people for help but i have no real friends that at this moment i would care to really hear what they have to say . you see I'm married and just recently i found out that i'm now expecting my 1st baby in ...

Is is possible to have a 4th c section if you want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - Is it possible to have another baby after you have undergone three c sections - first one was an emergency and the child died a few days after birth, the second was an emergency though was awake and thankfully she is alive, third one was an elective ...

He said if I ever fell pregnant he would leave me if I didn't get an abortion.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

20 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, we plan to have a future together, have even spoken about marriage and kids, but kids would be at least 10 years away. (I know sometimes relatioships don't work out, but we do have a good ...

Is getting him back a realistic aim? My bf went back to his wife, will he ever come back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4566 days ago

18 October 2011 (F) - I am 29, 5 months pregnant. My bf left me after I called him COWARD because he was too afraid to show his face to my parents and stand up for our baby. After a day, his sister told me that he's gone back to his wife. I am in so much pain right no...

Why am I feeling so broody all the time? Has anyone else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

17 October 2011 (F) - I'm just wondering why I'm feeling this way and if anyone else has been through this? I'm in my late 20s and have been living with my boyfriend for the past few months. We've been together for six years and have what I believe is a solid relation...

How can I tell my boyfriend that I've lost our baby?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

16 October 2011 (F) - I was 8 weeks pregnant until 2 days ago I lost the baby. Inside I feel so sad and desperately lonely. This is because I dont know how to tell my boyfriend I have lost our baby. I am in a LDR with my bf whos in the military. We have been togeth...

I don't want a baby, but I really want to be pregnant!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4575 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - Hello! I just wanted to know if anyone has had these feelings before, and why you have them and how you've dealt with them/got rid of them. Recently I have been wanting to get pregnant, but before I go any further I am going to assure you...

Started thinking about a baby

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

14 October 2011 (F) - I am 26 years old with NO kids, recently like the past couple months i have been thinking of wanting a baby. But then i think 'not every women is meant to be a mother,' I still have at least 5 years of my life i want leave to myself and my man. I ...

To me my wife is perfect. How do I help my wife to accept that I love her? she's still blaming herself for something that was not her fault, before we met.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - I need advice on how to help my wife. We've been married a little over 3 years, have 1 daughter, and she is pregnant again with our 2nd. If our 2nd child is a boy we are going to stop, if it's a girl, we will have a 3rd trying for a boy. I ma...

Does her recent breakup explain why she was so ready to have sex with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4578 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - I met this girl aged 20 years. She just fell into bed with me. I like her stacks and her availability was too much for me to resist. It was unplanned and unprotected. She is pregnant. She has recently broken up with a guy she loved. He chose another ...

I'm 18, single and unemployed but I want a baby

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4564 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I have posted a question on here before and received good advice, therefore I wanted to ask for opinions on something that has been puzzling me for some time. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20, despite my young age, I am desperate for a child. My ...

She had sex before we met, now I can't trust her.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

13 October 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I need some advise on what I should do. I have been with this girl for the last 5 years. The problem is that I cant resepct her or do anything nice for her. She has a past, she lost her virginity when she was 15 years old and stayed in ...

Miscarried, should I tell the dad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

13 October 2011 (F) - I want some advice as its a very sensitive issue. I recently had a affair with a married man which I posted about on here and after getting advice I ended the affair however I have since miscarried our baby and I just don't know if I should tell him ...

Is 9 months too little time to start a family in our circumstances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - Hi All, I dont really have a "problem" so to speak but more a situation that I need advice on, I hope some of you can help! :) I have been with a lovely girl now for 9 months, and we had an amazing 5 or 6 month start to our relationship tha...

How to keep independence once you have had a child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hi. I have just found out I am pregnant. My bf and I have been together for 2 years and we have just bought a house together so the timing is good. I’m 38 and he is 37 and it’s our first child. We have had a lot of problems in our relationship and ...

Help! do I tell his family of secret child?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hey, never used one of these sites but really need impartial advice... Were do I start... Few years ago I met a guy.. we split up and met up again last year when he was with a woman who he has child with and this start an affair they have recent...

I'm 14 and planning on getting pregnant. How do I tell my dad?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - I'll be honest. I'm 14 and planning on getting pregnant. I've been with my boyfriend (19) for a while. He is going to propose and is okay with me getting pregnant. He wants a child as do I. I understand I am only a child. Yet I'm not. I...

Why can't I move on from the time we each cheated on the other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months i am also 26 weeks pregnant with our first child we had a fall out one night and we both ended up sleeping with someone i cant forget the memory of him sleeping with this girl and i never want him...

Condom break!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4569 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - I'm panicking right now. My boyfriend and I had the condom break on us two nights ago. I had forgotten to take my birth control for two days (and so was on my period) before he visited (I took my pill the day we had sex, but I didn't not take two ...

Can a school nurse give a pregnancy test?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

10 October 2011 (F) - Hi im 15 and i think i might be pregnant the last time i had sex was early september and i had a period since then but it was kind of weird. A little over a week after my period i started spotting and my bras are leaving marks on me i know its ...

He said I can't get pregnant because he didn't cum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend broke the hymn in my vagina and didnt wer a condom after he broke it he put on a condom he said You cant get pregnant as he didnt come is that true?...

Should I tell my ex that I aborted his baby?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me through email in August to reunite with his former girlfriend in another country (I had no knowledge of her existence until he mentioned her in the email as the reason for leaving me). He dumped me in August this year and left ...

Should I confront my cruel sister for what she has done? She's ruined my education, I miss my husband and she destroyed my passport.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Help help help Please. I got married and was to travel for honeymoon with my husband the next day. as we were to pursue our masters degree in england. On The day, we went to the aiport but We couldnt go. We had to return home because we found out ...

I don't think I took my b/c pill when I had unprotected sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - hi, i have been taking my pill as normal, about 5 days in i had unprotected sex then today, about 4 days later i found one of my pills on the floor... it can only be from this month as i just moved out. i will be taking a pregnancy test when i a...

He says he is over his love who died 8 years ago but I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi.. whoever is reading this I do hope I can get some good advice or some kind of understanding as to why I feel the way I'm feeling at the moment! I met a wonderful Man back in July 11 -still together.He has not had any sort of relationship in the ...

I'm pregnant. What else can I do to make this work? He speaks abusively to me. I hit him. He's lazy. Drama all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi im 19 years old and 21 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. Ive been with my bf for a year in October. We have a lot of issues in our relationship. We've been okay i guess. But the issue is the way he treats me and how i react. He likes to call me ...

He has commitment issues now that I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

1 October 2011 (F) - So, I'm 32 weeks pregnant expecting a little boy. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. Our little boy was unplanned but we're both excited. My boyfriend has a 5 year old daughter who I have raised and learned to love as if she is my own. I ...