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Archived questions from: October, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

I'm pregnant and father doesn't want the baby... he wants the abortion pill!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - I am 23 and just found out last week I am pregnant with my boyfriends baby. He is 20 and his father is a pastor. We were very devastated that we were pregnant and I told my sister, he told his brother and wife. The people we have told are very ...

I'm 17 and have signs of pregnancy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 22 days ago

31 October 2009 (F) - hiya im 17 and are getting signs of pregnancy and im excited in myself but not really sure if my bf wants to keep it coz he finks im only young but wen i talk him in2 it he gets really in2 it x i have strong views bout adoption coz i havnt had a mum ...

At 16 I'm Pregnant with my teacher's child

This question has 42 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - MOD NOTE: Poster is in a vulnerable situation, aunts DO NOT give nasty or negative advice PLEASE!!! Oh my God!Even me myself don't know what to do. I'm 16 years old.For the past year,since I started high school(it's the way in Macedonia-from 15...

Will he leave his ex alone for good if we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy who lives an hour and a half away from me. We really conected and Ive been seeing him for about 5 months at this point. He told me he had an ex that he has a 2 year old daughter with and they were no longer together. But one ...

Can we fix this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 24 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - I have been with this man for a long time. He cheated on me and i cheated on him in the pass. How can we rebuild what we have and moved on with our lives with kids and marriage soon. After the hurt we put each other through with the question. I ...

What are the chances of a false positive on a pregnancy test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - i had my last period on the 13th of september, my next one took longer to come around so i did a pregnancy test and it was positive. i know it sounds silly but i found it hard to believe, even though i am in a secure relationship and we are happy to...

So do you think I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - I think i might be pregnant. I had sex about 5 months ago and i was on birth control and he was using a condum. I got my period for the first 3 months and than missed it the fourth month i than got it at the begining of the fifth month and i was ...

Will this pill have worked in time to keep me from becoming pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

29 October 2009 (F) - i was on the contreceptive injection and i came off it after being on it for about a year about 5months later i took the pill desogestrel (cerazette) it says on the packet, i took it before going to my boyfriends house about 18 hours before just the ...

Overhead my boyfriend say he would have sex with some girl!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - I am 23 years old and am almost 6 months pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We love eachother very much. The pregnancy was planned, we both wanted and talked about it before it happened. I have a hard time tusting ...

It can't possibly be mine as I didn't cum inside her!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

28 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 25 year old guy. A couple of months back i was seeing this girl. We had sex twice. One time we used a condom the other time we didnt but I didnt orgasm (i pretended that I did) just to get it over and done with. Now she is claiming she is ...

How do you know if the reason you get back with your ex is you, or the new baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Am 16 wks pregnant. Broken up with partner. He is unsupportive but acting weird. When we were together - he would buy food cos he was practically living with me and I would cook it for him. He didn't want to go to any scans or hospital appointments ...

Could this mean I'm pregnant? I have no symptoms.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - my last period was on sept.19 and finished on the 24,had protected sex(condom)2 days after my period ended,2 days after i had sex i started spotting,light bleeding then it turned brown and had it for quiet a while that i even had to use a...

Would a baby be good for our relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I'v...

14 and pregnant...Help!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 18 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP...

His cheating has left me feeling so insecure...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Ok this is a little confusing but here goes... I am 6 months pregnant and really don't enjoy having sex. My partner cheated on me before, and I'm worried he will do it again if we stop having sex. I've spoken to him about it and he said that...

I hate the idea that he was going to have a baby with his ex, even though they lost the baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - this may sound stupid to some of you. but i cant help how i feel. and i dont even know why im feeling like this. im 17 and my boyfriend of a year is 23. he is awsome! i love him to bits. when we first got together, he explained that when...

My girlfriend and I are 14, we want to have a baby, any opinions?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted yesterday

27 October 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and want to have a baby. Were 14...

What is so gross about breast feeding?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Why do other girls give me looks when i say im breast feeding my baby? why does people think its gross? i mean thats way babys are ment to be feed. i think with it being flu season and babys die from the flu it would be selfish for me not to breast ...

How do I get my husband to feed the baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I just had a baby a month ago and my husband worKs alot and when he is home i wont him to care for the baby to bond with him and also so i can have a brake to get things done that i cant do while i am holding a baby. well the baby does not realy ...

I have cheated on my husband resulting in 3 abortions and now he wants a baby!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - its been 10 weeks since my abortion im trying for a baby but it keeps coming negative.iv had 3 abortions. Due to careless behind my hubbys back.but now my hubbys really desperate for a baby.please help....

Is it possible that I can be pregnant even though I'm irregular?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - ok i need help. im 2 months late and i dont know if im pregnant or not. i had unprotected sex a couple of days after my last period. my periods are irregular so im thinking thats the reason why im late but then again i could be wrong. i havent t...

Is he trying to leave me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 28 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - i am 3 and half months pregnant and i have noticed that my boyfriend hasnt really wanted to have much to do with me anymore. he says it is my fault he is pulling away. is it really me that he is trying to leave?...

Is my husband getting bored with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 5 and a half months. I am 10 weeks pregnant and starting to gain a little weight. Before we got married, sex was not an issue. He wanted me all the time and gave me a look that always made me feel sexy and ...

How to tell my pregnant mother that I might be pregnant too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My mom is 4 months pregnant, and I think I might be pregnant also.. I'm 18 and live on my own but she still supports me a lot! I dont know how to tell her that I am pregnant, or that I think I might be. Help, please?...

Anyone heard of constant, negative pregnancy test results before?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hello. This is very mathematical so i apologise already. *I made a summary at the bottom Secondly please dont judge due to the age bar up there. Im engaged, we both work, we both have qualifications and we both pay our bills and tax. So lets get...

Sometimes I hate my baby because of her dad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and I have a baby, when I was 14 I was raped by my second cousin (my dads couisns son), he is 17 and at a new years party we were hanging out together, and we snuck some drink out to the park (its near my home) no one noticed we had gone, I ...

How can I deal with angry family members?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hi im having a bad time at the moment my brother pasted away 12 years ago and my family cant get over it my brothers daughter came to see us and she stayed with me because her mum only trusted me to take care of her and not say how he passed away ...

Is it possible I can get pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - hi i need some idea. i have sex with my boy friend 3 days after my minstration and he forget to withdraw it. is it possible that i can get pregnant? thanks...

Condom came off...could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Hello, My name is jayde and im only 16 and i need help on a question i got to ask okay well me and my boyfriend had sex 2 nights ago and the condom came off inside me and it all went every were is there a possible chance that could make ...

How can I unborn a baby?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 21 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - how can i unborn a baby i am 2 month of pregnat and if i tellmy dad he willkilll me and send him to jell i dient know i was pregnat me and him was pretecting are self but i dont know what happing and when plz help me dont tell me to go to a clinic ...

I can't tell if I'm pregnant and I'm afraid to tell my parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I had my period for the first three months and missed the fouth and got it the fifth month. Could i be pregnant? I havent had any symptoms and my periods are usually irregualar. HELP!!! Im scared that i was pregnant and that i had sex for the first ...

Sex after having a baby

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I just had a baby and during labor i tore real bad. i didnt tear down i tore on the side. and it goes real deep in my vagina. its heeled up now but it hurts to touch it and wipe and i have been holding off on sex till my 6 week doc visit. well its ...

Pregnant, and one side of my belly is bigger than the other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - hey there, I'm 6 weeks pregnant. and my left side of my belly is harder and is bigger than the right side. I got an ultrasound already so I know its not an ectopic pregnancy. has any of you had this problem?...

Have I been to harsh on him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Sorry this is a long prob! but any advice wud be gladly appreciated. Am 16 wks pregnant. Partner is being difficult. One min dying to be with me the next rejecting me constantly. So things were not great at dinner and he said he was going home t...

He says he needs space and now I'm confused should I let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - On july 10..i met the man of my dreams. We fill in love very quickly and they kicked off pretty good. We both said we loved each other and we did alot 2gether. I even found out i was 6 weeks pregnant on sept 7th. We were both happy about that ( i ...

How do I deal with this girl I got pregnant? She won't stop hanging around me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

24 October 2009 (?) - Yeah I kinda did it with my little sisters best friend awhile back, couple of months, and now she says she's pregnant and wont stop hanging around me like im her boyfriend. Im perfectly willing to help raise and pay for the kid and everything b...

Is there a chance I might be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - The last 3/4 days i have noticed brown discharge. My period is not due for another 10 days. I never get discharge a week or two after my period. I get some either on the day its due or towards the end of the period. Never just randomly. ...

I want someone to adopt my baby!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - hello,am new here and i will just want to find out certain things,am 8 months 3 days pregnant and i have being having this thinking in my head for some time now,it has being a hard decision to make but i think am reay for this now,i will want to ...

Pregnant and boyfriend not ready...have you experienced this and can you help me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - I'm 23 and I just found out I am pregnant. My boyfriend, 20- almost 21, is not ready to have a child... For the main reason that he doesn't want to disappoint everyone. His father is a pastor and his parents would be devastated. The people in the ...

I know this is long, but I really need help. any advice or insight will be incredibly appreciated

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 29 days ago

23 October 2009 (M) - This is the backstory to the question. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 years. We love each other very much. We have a stunning amount in common and a very powerful connection ie ( knowing what each other is thinking) calling ...

I'm confused and scared what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I'm 18 in college and I maybe pregnant and if my college finds out I can be kicked out and if my mom and family find out I might not have anywhere to live and I'm so scared because part of me wants to keep it and the other part says no. I'm confused ...

How can I save my marriage? He has told me he is only staying with me for the kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - I have been married for almost 9 years and I am pregnant with our fourth child. I recently realised that my husband will only say I love you when I say it first. I have since stopped saying it so now I don't hear him say those words. My husband used ...

Nothing I do is good enough!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Okay, so.. I have been living with my boyfriend for about 8 months. I am currently 7 months pregnant (obviously, with his child.) and I'm having major issues with him. I do everything I can to make him happy, but it seems like it is never enough. ...

Could I be pregnant if I forgot to take the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hello, i had unprotected sex a week yesterday (13th) and i forgot to take two pills (contraceptive pill), today i have been getting small craps and little heartburn and i felt sick and faintish this morning, im due on my period in 9days. Also when i ...

Can anyone tell me if I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi my name is Amelia it's my first time on here, I haven't have missed my period i think, I had a problem with my pill it was giving me cramps and my moods were ridiculous, so i stopped using it and i remember having my period fours weeks ago and ...

Is it ovulation or pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - My period comes every 30-32 days sometimes longer so I can never be sure but its usually around those dates. My last period was on the 6th October and I had sex on the 9th 10th and 11th when I still had my period but it was kinda light then. Its ...

The due date is coming up and I'm racked with guilt and worry about becoming a Mom.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are due to have are first baby next month (29 days). I should be really happy about this but I'm just not. She wasn't a planned baby, she was a surprise as I have a medical condition. When I first discovered my pregnancy I w...

To tell the truth or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - just out of curiosity ... i dont need negative answers im just wondering.. which is worse.. not telling your significant other that your pregnant? Or sleeping with someone else and giving your girlfriend the clap?...

Am I just being hormonal or is it a bit odd that he wont tell me who was giving him a lift home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - My fiance is just coming back from working from home. Im in the last stages of pregnancy and we love each other very much. Hes usually really open about things and tells me what he is doing. He told me on the phone that he was getting a lift hom...

Can a girl get pregnant from dry humping?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 30 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend went to the movies on Sunday. And we got caught in the moment so we started dry humping we both had our clothes on though. I ***never*** took my clothes off and neither did he. But when i got home i checked my pants and ...