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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Will going on the pill mean I will put on weight? Or should I see a gynacologist instead?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4681 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - i'm currently in a relationship with an amazing guy. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had and the first person iv'e had any sexual contact whatsoever with. I also recently lost my virginity to him as well, and he wore a condom both times we'v...

No pregnancy options?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I haven't had sex, and I don't plan on it anytime soon, but I am curious. If I were to be on the pill, have the guy have a condom on, make him pull out properly, and take the morning after pill...what are the chances I would become pregnant? Is it ...

In the midst of my feelings for this girl, I ended up getting married to my ex fiancee. Now my marriage is crappy and the girl I love(d) is pregnant with her abusive BF's child..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 June 2011 (M) - Well, this is kind of a long story. I'll do my best to keep it brief, but many of the details are significant, so I guess we'll see.. About 3 years ago I started a new job, and consequently met a girl there. We became close, and began dating. ...

Is it safe? Or am I getting paranoid about accidently getting pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4668 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so two of the guys I've slept with can't figure out why I have to jump up and stop them before they put their fingers inside me after they just came and, long story short, got a little bit or even a lot of come on their hands. And if I was blow...

My job is being threatened because of my pregnancy, has anyone else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Hi everyone, currently I'm four months pregnant and I inform my job the doctor gave me a letter stating that I can't lift twenty pounds, no strenuous activity, and no exposure to toxins. So they told me they cant accommodate me. Now let me say, This ...

He really wants another baby, but I'm scared of getting sick again

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - Dear Ageny aunts, I have been married for about four years and have a two-year old baby girl. I had hypremesis gravadirium throughout my first pregnancy and I have been to hell and back. Now my husband wants another baby, I'm scared to death of...

My boyfriend has changed his mind about keeping the baby, and now he and his family are ganging up on me forcing me to have an abortion!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and his parents are 'forcing' me into an abortion but i dont want to go through with it. what should i do? im 17 years old and im 5 weeks pregnant. my boyfriend told his parents i may be pregnant before we even knew. when i found out...

Any advice/stories of your experiences of taking a decision about an unplanned pregnancy and ways in which can affect your relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - Hi, my bf of 10 months and I have found out we have an unplanned pregnancy, and that i'm probably 2-3 weeks pregnant despite taking the oral contraceptive pill. We found out last week and have been talking things through. Neither of us has a child ...

I don't know if my partner is emotionally abusing me or whether I need to get a grip and stop causing arguments...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4613 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - im 28 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My relationship with my partner has been up and down the past couple of years, we have had some amazing times and also some pretty upsetting times, typical of any relationship. My partner runs his own busi...

15 and might be pregnant......Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - i need help . i am 15 years old and there is a big chance that i may be pregnant . i come from a very strict household that doesn't even believe in sex before marriage we. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 7 months and i know we ...

I kicked him out when I found out he was married, but now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

27 June 2011 (F) - I was dating my ex for about a year and i was happily in love until i got a phone call, this lady asked me was i screwing her husband? i asked what was she talking about and i just could have died when she explained to me that she was doing an ...

I terminated my pregnancy and then lied and said the baby had Down's syndrome. What do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - A few months ago i was trying with my boyfriend for a baby, we have one already and i just wanted to have one more. We tried for a few months then i got pregnant. I was supposed to be happy and excited but i wasent, i felt scared and worrid about ...

I really want to get pregnant -- should I?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4671 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I want to get pregnant but I know I'm young... I'll be 17 in two months and I've been in this relationship for almost three years. My boyfriend is in the Navy and I love him very very much. We've had a miscariage and it hurt both of us very badly...

I think I will be keeping my baby, does anyone have any advice for a young mum to be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - I've recently discovered I'm pregnant - and I'm not really sure what to do. I've been to the doctor and gotten an appointment for the termination clinic, as the doctor has said I could be 7-9 weeks and if I'm at the upper end of that, there's not ...

My two boys love their stepmother but hate the idea she is pregnant with my baby?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

23 June 2011 (M) - Hi there, i was a single father for 8 years rared two kids by myself mother isnt in the picture then i met the love of life the kids love her too! and we all have a blast! We are having our first baby together its due in september .Well at first ...

Told my boyfriend I'm pregnant, is he exited?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Hi i posted a question here yesterday about should i tell my boyfriend im pregnant i did today just to re-cap im 10 weeks pregnant have a 4 year old son he takes care of my son as if it was his own child. I didn't plan on having this baby at all and ...

Listen to my head or my heart?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I need some advice on whether it's best to follow head or heart when making a decision about an unplanned pregnancy, please :( I found out at the doctor's today I'm 2-3 weeks pregnant, unplanned, and a big surprise as I have been taking the contr...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend or my baby! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - Hi,well i have been in relationship with a guy for 9 months we get on well we are a 4 hour drive away .Usually we take turns in who goes to who's place and now ive messed up BIG TIME.im 24 he is 36 and a great guy i mean it he even comes to my place ...

I'm not sure myself how I feel about this yet, as I'm in shock. Should I wait until I've worked out whether I wish to keep the possible baby before speaking to my bf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - Hey, I really need some advice...I'm 30, been with my bf for 9 months and love him dearly. We don't live together, but he's talked about wanting us to 'settle down', get married and start a family in the next couple of years, but today I took a ...

Someone told me I coudn't grieve about my miscarriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I had a miscarriage several months ago. It was an early miscarriage, I didn't know I was pregnant till it happened. I'm still young, only 18 nearly 19, and although I've been with my boyfriend a few years I would probably have had an abortion as ...

What is it like having an abortion?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - I am about 5 weeks pregnant and i am going to have an abortion I dont know anyone who has ever had an abortion before Does anyone know what happens? Do they have to do a scan before hand? I just think if they do a scan i will want to see it and e...

LDR boyfriend refuses to talk about my miscarriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - Hey guys, I posted a while back about wheather to tell my long distance boyfriend that I'd had a miscariage. I didn't know I was pregnant and there was complications with the miscariage I was very ill. Of course I told him and ever since thing...

Lied about being pregnant now I have to fake an abortion

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - I dont a very stupid thing My boyfriend and i broke up two weeks ago and i am absolutely heartbroken Wer were trying for a baby before we split Like a right idiot iv went and told him im pregnant and im getting an abortion even though i dont think...

I am pregnant and don't want to give the baby away but am unsure about keeping it either

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - So I found out I was pregnant about two weeks ago. I'm still not sure how far along I am but after two at-home tests and a blood test from the hospital I know for sure I am pregnant. I'm not on any birth control, because I thought for sure I ...

My pregnant partner seems to have broken up with me over a lost phone! Surely this cant be the real reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

17 June 2011 (M) - im 34 and my x partner now for 3 weeks, has after 4 years of a rocky relationship, though very loving when its just us. We have a 2 and half year old daughter together who we love deeply, and a boy each from our previous relationships, her boy 6 ...

Cheated on my girlfriend, in love with the other woman and my girlfriend is pregnant!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

16 June 2011 (M) - I am in a sad situation and don't know what to do. In October of last year I met a woman on the internet. We started seeing each other and things were going well. I thought I was falling in love with her. Then a monkey wrench came alone in the form ...

I am upset by my bf's remark that he is "bonded together" with his ex, who once carried his child. Should I be??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4694 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) - I don't know what to think or how to feel right now. My boyfriend told me something about his romantic past the other night that has made me question my feelings towards him, my own attitude... everything. Maybe I'm a terrible person; I've only ever ...

First time, split condom, could I be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) - i'm freaking out, i had sex for the first time this weekend and the condom split. how much chance is there that i'm pregnant? i'm on the pill, he hadn't ejaulated yet, and there was no pre-cum because he had ejaculated before we had sex. do i...

Unexpected pregnancy, lost of grandfather and boyfriend and now my mom wants me to give up baby or move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

16 June 2011 (F) - I am 23 years old and have a 23 months old daughter with a lad i was with for nearly 4 years. Sadly my granddad died of cancer 11 weeks ago and i have been grieving for him alot. Me and my boyfriend split up on the same day that was 11 weeks si...

Ex and I had sex, he did not try to avoid pregnancy, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

15 June 2011 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend broke up a year and a half ago. He contacted me and wanted to explain why things happened the way they did back then. long story short, He chose to try to make things work with his son mother and it backfired. They have been ...

Trying to come to terms with being 3 months pregnant and getting hate texts from the father and his wife.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4688 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - i started meetin a fellow which i taught to be very nice. was seeing him for about two months when he told my sister that he would like to get me pregnant but for as i have 3 kids myself i felt like i had my lot and was in no way interested in havin ...

I want his children, but after we are married and in a more stable relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - Hello, I am writing because im currently 6 weeks pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. Its the second time we are trying things. We met 3 years ago and dated for 7 months . I got pregnant with him then and we decided to have ...

I'm 16, tried to get pregnant and succeeded. Now I don't think it was such a good idea.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

10 June 2011 (F) - So, I'm sixteen and I have a boyfriend who I am completely in love with. We get along great and though we have some issues (mainly being that my parents are irresponsible and leave me to take care of my five younger siblings which my boyfriend ...

What should I do I feel used and betrayed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - hello everyon, im here looking for advice about my relationship with this guy im 5 months pregnant with my first child im 23 yrs old and he is 21 yrs old. sunday he came to my house we talked about him telling his mum about me and the unborn ...

When would be my most fertile time of the month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - can anyone help me with my most fertile times of the month? as im trying to concive, im on my period now and started it yesterday so i should be finished by saturday as my period lasts for 4days when am i most likely to get pregnant next month? ...

I want to leave my job, but I'm worried that because my co-worker is pregnant she will be off sick and the company wont have anyone to cover for us....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - I have been an admin assistant at a job for four years. It is basically me and my coworker doing alot of tedious things. I have been trying to leave for awhile now. My coworker recently told me she is pregnant. It was sort of the final push for m...

Should I be worried by his threats to take custody of my baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - So my fellow dearcupid friends, I have a serious question. I am nearly 3 months pregnant, me and the man have not been together in a while. Soon after finding out I was pregnant I began working and putting money away for my baby when he or she ...

What could my parents do legally to my 19 year old boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

8 June 2011 (F) - I'm 15 years old 16 in a month, my boyfriend is 20. We had sex when he was 19. I got pregnant but he's been by my side through it all, my parents knew his age and never complained. Until recently when we told them that he will soon be getting a ...

Afraid of gotten my girlfriend pregnant by rubbing my finger that had touched my penis with pre-cum on it on her vagina. Please Help !

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

8 June 2011 (M) - My girlfriend and I were fooling around. I became excited and some pre-cum came out of my penis. I remember touching it and then rubbed my girlfriend's vagina afterwards multiple times. Her period won't start till the end of this month. What's the ...

How do I know if my feelings toward pregnancy are normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

8 June 2011 (F) - I am 25 years old right now going to be 26 years old this year, All 4 of my Best friends have Kids, and so i am a bit Confused about how i feel on wanting to have Kids, I feel scared when i think of me being Pregnant, I mean like i am confused on if ...

I'm pregnant and sick of my boyfriend and his behaviour.

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8 June 2011 (F) - hello everyone, I am 4 months pregnant and have a boyfriend currently living together, I am just getting sick of him constantly questioning me, having a high sex drive, just little things he does and people have said its just hormones but I f...

Is it a crazy idea to have a baby at 15? Or a good idea?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

7 June 2011 (F) - im 15 and i really want a baby. i know this is not really the best idea ever but i feel like i was born to be a mother. i have wanted a baby since i was 11 and like the idea of being a teenage mum. i currently dont have a boyfriend so it wouldnt be ...

I need all the information I can get on how to get pregnant??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

5 June 2011 (F) - I need as much advice and tips as possible on getting pregnant naturally! Been trying for 2 years now and nothing. I did go through a patch where for 7 months i didn't have a period and doctors sent me for scans and did all sorts of tests but they ...

Is it normal for sexual attraction to fade?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

5 June 2011 (?) - Hi there. My and my bf of almost 18 months have just recovered from a massive argument. Basically what started it is that I tried to initiate sex last night and he didn't want to. We had had a few drinks at home and I asked him if he still fancied ...

Tremendous sexual tension with this guy at work, we got together against all odds, and now his dominating ex (who he broke up with, for me) claims she's pregnant. He's back with her, says I was just a shoulder to cry on!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - Hi, all and any advice will be greatly appreciated as I've gotten myself into a bit of a emotional pickle. In May last year I started a new job. In September a flirtation began between a colleague and I, one who unfortunately was in a 3 year rela...

Why can't I stop spying on my boyfriend's ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - I am a 20 year old beautiful woman with a great boyfriend to compliment me. But I have a dirty secret, I spy on his ex girlfriend. It really roots from her calling him and trying to see if we were still together when she got bored. Everytime she ...

How to get thoughts of a baby out of my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

3 June 2011 (F) - i'm 18, almost 19 and Since i was 14 all i have wanted to be is a mum. I have never tried to concieve and since becomming sexually active have always used contraception, but still cant get the thought out of my head! I've been with my boyfriend f...

Can a girl get pregnant from this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

3 June 2011 (M) - Can a girl get pregnant just by inserting tip of the penis without a condom and cumming outside the vagina?...

Had sex with fiance AND a one-night stand with another guy, and am now pregnant. Who is the daddy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

3 June 2011 (F) - In January, I had sex with my fiance and he ejaculated inside of me every single time we had sex. My period was the 2 of Jan and I have a 31 day cycle and I had a one night stand with a guy on the 13 and we didn't use a condom but we had sex for ...

Best Age For Birth Control?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

2 June 2011 (F) - Ok, so I don't want birth control, but I'm curious. What is, in your opinion, the right age for girls to get birth control? When did you get it? Would you have gone younger or older if you could've done it over? Thanks...