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Mind playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - i had unprotected sex 3 times in one day (april 13, 2009) with my partner. im am on the pill, however i missed my pill for that day. ive noticed sum symptoms but it could jus be my mind playing into the situation. it has been 17 days since the sex? ...

What am I doing??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - Okay so long story short i cheated on my Boyfriend of 6 years for a year and a half with the same person no he was not the other guy just a "buddy" if you get me ... the truth about me and him only came out because i got pregnant with his baby now ...

Should I keep trying to hold this relationship together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5473 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - well me and my fiancee have been together for 3 years now.But he has changed alot towards me he hardly says he loves me he is not that caring anymore he hardly tries to make conversation but we always seem to argue over ridicuolous stuff.He gets mad ...

I had sex on my period whilst taking the pill. Can I fall pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - Hiya.... I've been on the pill for 3 months now, me and my boyfriend had sex whilst I was on my period but I was taking the pill at the same time, so I had sex on my period but took the pill on the same day. What I want to know is... can I fall ...

Man whore got me knocked up!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - sooo im not in the best situation right now im a very privalaged kid. i have alot i have a nice flexible job my own car my own house a nice allowence. yeah i have my far share of partying and all that jazz. but i have been hooking up with this guy ...

How do I tell my dad I'm pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have to tell my dad i'm pregnant tonight, and I havn't got a clue how to start the conversation. How would you react if your 17 year old daughter told you she was pregnant? I took precautions, and still ended up in this situation, so i'm hoping ...

Can you trick a pregnancy test into showing a positive result?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Is it true that you can trick a pregnancy test into saying "yes"? If so how is that even done?...

My boyfriend wont spend any time with our baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hi..... i need some advice on my relationship. my boyf and i have been together six years and we have a seven month old baby. when i was pregnant we discussed what i would do when the time came to go back too work and he said i could stay at home ...

Lied to him about smoking and now he doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - when I met my boyfriend we were both smoking until I fell pregnant and decided to stop for my babies sake. a year ago my Mom passed away and the stress made me start again, I have have been smoking for a year now, lied to my boyfriend that I have ...

Financial support for single mothers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant (I was on the pill, so definately not intentional). I've decided to keep it, and i've made an arrangement with school so I can carry on with my education. I'm a bit stuck with what to do as regards to ...

Could I get pregnant after only 1 depo shot?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I just took my first depo in January and I'm do today for my next. If I had sex yesterday is there a chance I could be pregnant?...

Don't think I can have a baby that's a product of rape

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I have an issue I hope you can help me with.I am currently pregnant with my second child. My first is almost 7 months old-I am about 2- 3 mo along. Dilemma #1 I am seperated from my husband and divorcing him as soon as the papers get thru...it's not ...

I'm pregnant and he leaves me home alone every night!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5170 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together more or less two years with tons of ups and downs. We've lived together for a year and a half. And we more or less were together every night. I'm 8 and a half months pregnant now and the second one of his ...

Am I pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been trying for a baby. I was just wondering how high of possibility that when I take a test next week if I will be bfp. I sort of had a period that lasted 3 days then spotted one day and completely stopped. I had a sip of c...

Having a child with a man who doesn't know what his sexual preference is!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5418 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I started dating this guy about three years ago before we ended it. We dated 3 months before we had sex and after that we only had sex once a week for about 2 months. I asked why were we only having sex once a week or 4 times a month - his answer ...

She's become mean and selfish after becoming pregnant and I can't take it much longer!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

28 April 2009 (M) - I've moved in w/my fianc'e, but, after only living together for just over a month, I'm not sure if I want to be with her anymore? She has changed dramatically! She is very mean, she seems to be very selfish now, and she doesn't seem like her old ...

Had sex missed alot of b/c pills and now I'm scared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex on Saturday (4/25/09)... i have been on birth control 4 a month...but ive been missing aloooot of pills, i know i missed a whole week one time! sound crazy? He didnt use a condom and we went all the way...i'm terrified now ...

Can you get pregnant from a dirty towel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - i was wondering ,, i was using the toilet and then i wipped my unders with a towel,, i then knew that this towel is my brother's and ther is aprobability he have wiped some sperms with.. so i am so worried of being pregnant,,can the sperms live in ...

I don't want to get depressed again..pregnant and can't take certain medicines..help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - Hey I sort of have a problem I think. I have been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder. Apparently you can't have a personality disorder without being bipolar, but you can be bipolar without a personality disorder. ...

My married girlfriend (my friend's wife!) says one of their children could be mine!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - i m 20yrs. i m in physical relation wid a married woman who has three chidren. hers husband is very good pal of mine. she says that the second child is mine. i had used the contraceptive that time during sex with her, what should i do now....

How do I tell my boyfriend I don't want to get pregnant at 15?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I am 15 and my boyfriend wants me 2 get pregnet and I'm not ready what do i do???...

Pregnant, keeping the baby, and want to stay in school

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I'm 17 and pregnant (due to failure of the pill) and i've decided to keep the baby. However, I really REALLY want to continue with my education, i'm predicted 3 A's and a B this year at AS level and so I really want to do my A2's. Apparently at my ...

Could I be pregnant and how do I find my nearest family planning clinic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - i am 13 year old and the other night i was messing around with this lad cutting a long story short i sucked him off and he never spermed in my mouth but he wiped it away a short while after he fingered me and then he tried to have sex with me but i ...

Would a pregnancy test come back inaccurate at this time of my cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - my period is late. usually my cycle is about every 42 days. after taking the morning after pill twice, my period came faster and i had it within 28 days. it's been more than 7 weeks now since i have had my period. my boyfriend and i had sex about a ...

Pregnancy after a vasectomy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - What are the chances of pregnancy after a vasectomy after 18 years?...

He's angry because I want to keep the baby!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 April 2009 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago, from the get go I knew he had a girlfriend of four months at the time. We got involved and had a intimate relationship. I recently found out I was pregnant and i told him and he flipped and told me to get rid of the ...

She's playing the pregnancy card on me...!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - I found love, I really did but it didnt work so i pulled the plug. She is playing the pregnancy card on me. She claims she went to the doctor and got tested. She said the doctor is saying since she is on the pill she might have a miscarrage. ...

What are the odds of pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 April 2009 (M) - what are the odds of getting a girl pregnant ? her period was at easter it is now april 26. i'm only 16 an rreally dont know what to do advice please?...

He hasn't told his daughter that I'm pregnant

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I am five months pregnant and my boyfriend has told everyone except his nine year old daughter should I feel offended because I do.........

Who's baby could it be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Got a situation.Met a girl who is married but seperated from her old man because he is in prison for beating on her.She just had a baby a few months back, he is like five months now.She got an order of protection..etc..I was his buddy long before he ...

Could she actually be pregnant and telling the truth??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

25 April 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I had a rather rocky relationship, there was continual suspicion by her as previous post will explain. When our relationship seemed it was going great over night she called it all off and stopped all contact with me. Telling...

How did this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - I messed around with my bf and genitals were touching after that I went on birth control because I was afraid. My period came about 3 weeks ago but it was short and light. I started feeling pregnant and took a test just to ease my mind. It was po...

Do I need to go to the doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - I am/was pregnant for about 3-4 weeks. I began heavily bleeding and I had a miscarriage. Do I have to go to the doctor, cause I haven't been yet? I really don't want to. And how do i tell my bf?...

Strange period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - For the past week or so I have been experiencing mild cramping in my abdomen. I also feel twinges / pulling sensations in my pelvic area. While walking down the stairs one night I felt something pulling on the right side of my pelvis for just a ...

2 periods in the same month, could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - i been tring to get pregnant this month i had 2 periods in the same month is the normal or could i be pregnant ...

My friend is desperate for a baby and is sleeping around!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I have a friend who wants a baby but she is 17 years old but she keeps sleeping with all kinds of guys so she will have a baby. What should I do, be a good friend and tell her not to do that or just stop talking to her?...

Could my daughter be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5479 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - my daughter has had unprotected sex 4 days and 2 days before her period was due, she had her period 2 days after sex but could she be pregnant, i dont want to sound silly but my children are 21 and 18 and i really cant remember....

Effectiveness on Implanon contraceptive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5258 days ago

23 April 2009 (?) - Hey aunts and uncles I'm on the implanon contraceptive (rod in my arm) when i went on to this type of birth control the doctor told me it was completely effective and the risk of getting pregnant was something like 0.05% however im getting worri...

Want to get pregnant -- any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and i have recently decided that we want to start trying for a baby. I came off my pill last month and we had lots of great sex, however i got my period the other day although it only lasted three days. This is confusing me as ...

My story of being a teen mum

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - This is my incredible story on how i had my head on gear and at 13 year old gave birth to twins one girl one boy my little girl is called 'sky marie archer' and my little boy is called 'mason alex james archer' i got pregnant and had twins at only ...

Somehow I got pregnant and I'm just not sure what to do!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I'm 17, and i've just found out i'm pregnant. I really can't understand how, as I was on the pill, and even the doctor said it just doesn't add up. But after not having my bleed after day 21, I knew there must be something wrong, and so took 3 ...

Pregnancy from this?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - can you get pregnant if a boy has came in your mouth then fingered you ...

He wants to put our baby plans on hold for another year and I'm so upset about this.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I am 37 years old, I have always dedicated my life to a successful career. For the last 6 years I have been prepared to travel the world and live in a suitcase. This may seem glamorous, but I always felt alone. Even though I had a busy life, my ...

Second child is on the way and I am worried about the consequences "down there"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Ok,i am going to have my 2nd child in 2 months time and am worried about what"damage" this may have"down below".My partner says that after the birth of our 1st child he felt no difference,but i'm not so sure as i can feel with my fingers that there ...

Help! Am I pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - I had unprotected sex then some blood came three days after lasting for four days and my period usually came for a full seven days. My period was really due 9 days before I saw this blood. I'm feeling really sick lately, urinating often etc. Am I ...

What IF??????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

22 April 2009 (F) - Hello, Here are the facts - Man's natural lube (aka precum) may contain traces of sperm if he ejaculated previously. Me and my boyfriend get VERY intimate without having actual intercourse. We let our bits touch - his penis sliding on top o...

Didn't take the morning-after pill; could I be pregnant?

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21 April 2009 (F) - I had sex on Monday of last week and I didn't take the morning after pill i had some bleeding for four days starting on thursday of last week and ending on sunday the 19th of april. i did some research and found out that the bleeding might not be my ...

Why would they wait until 24 weeks to deliver?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I am pregnant, due on July 25th. About a month ago my sister lashed out on me [she has a drug problem, something I'm trying to help her with]. She punched me hard in the back and sides. After that I couldn't stand up and I began to have ...

I had tubal ligation, but could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I would really love some feedback about this, it is important. 7 years ago I had a tubal ligation done, but last month I found out I was pregnant only it was in my tubes. Now it's the following month and I am experiencing some of the same symp...

I'm not on birth control. Can I get pregnant?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5167 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I'm not on birth control but when I have sex with my boyfriend he doesn't ejaculate inside my vagina. He normally ejaculates on my stomach but last weekend he was a bit slow pulling out and some of his sperm went in me. It was mostly outside but ...