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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Could this pain mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, four days after I ovulated this month I had a pain in my ovary! I've been trying to get pregnant for few years now and this is the first time I have had a pain in my ovary after ovulation. Could it be something related with pregnancy?...

Confuse on what to do, birth pills question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I have a question on birth pills. I just started it a week ago. My period started on Tuesday, then I took the pills on the Sunday (end of the week) following the days on the strip. I had sex exactly a week after (the following Sunday) and no cond...

Do antibiotics affect contraceptive pill? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - another "could i be pregnant" question, sorry. I know you guys get a lot of these but i have read through a few and not found any like this, so here goes. Im on the contraceptive pill but have been taking antibiotics for over a week now, Will t...

I'm so close to giving birth and all I want is for him to be around with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend exclusively for about 8 1/2 months and am 7 1/2 months pregnant. We've had alot of drama in the past, but ever since I started dating him exclusively I've been the happiest I've ever been in a relationship. I hone...

Is it wrong to have a baby now when we're so ready?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - I want a baby. I'm 16, I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and he's dying to be a father. I started college doing childcare because I thought I'd love working with children, but soon discovered that nursery work really was not for me so qu...

What should I do about a potential "False Negative" Pregnancy Test?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I am NOT using birth control pills, just condoms. I have regular periods but am now 7 weeks late. My breasts are very tender and the areola has become darkened and slightly larger. I do not feel sick at all but I decided to take a pregnancy test ...

I lied to him and told him the baby was his... when it wasn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - There is a guy that I met 7 years ago and we were never in a relationship.. but occasionally slept together. We had that "understanding" with one another I guess. Well to make a long story short of course I secretly had more feelings for him than...

I want to wait for a couple days to see if I have my period before I take a test. What do you think?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - My husband ALWAYS uses a condom when we have sex. I am not on birth control. Now, I am 7 1/2 weeks late on my period. My boobs are about the most sore they have ever been. But I am NOT sick at all and have had little mini-cramps as if I am going to ...

Is there a possibility that I may be pregnant after only 4 days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Well me and my bf had (unprotected) sex last Wednesday. We've been toqether for 2 years. I'm just very paranoid because even though he said he didn't cum I'm nervous. We didn't go all crazy and I didn't do anything to make him cum cause it was our ...

Could her nausea indicate she's pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I don't use condoms but she takes the pill religiously every day, but for the last 4-5 days she's had a stomach ache, could she be pregnant? I don't know if having a stomach ache means she might be or not, all I really know is t...

Will this stop her from being pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (M) - We have had lots of problems, all of them stopped =]. Last night we had sex for our first time and we were drunk, i came in her but she is on birth control, will this stop her from being pregnant? She had just got off her period the day before and ...

I'm confused. When do you ovulate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey,im just wondering when do you ovulate? Is it 14 days after or before your period.? Isn't the same thing,how do you know you are ovulating If your menstrual cycle lasts 28 days and your period was the 11th and you had sex the 23 could you stil...

Today I lost my virginity. Could I become pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - Hey. Today i lost my virginity. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. The strange thing is, it didn't hurt. I've always been told it's sore and i'll bleed but nope neither happened. Is something wrong with me ? And afterwards because...

What happens in the 1st weeks of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Hey,im just wondering what happens in the first week of pregnancy?do you have certain syntoms or you feel different?if you drink is there a risk of loosing your baby?my friend is not sure that she's pregnant but she's been feeling weird this past ...

I'm wondering if its an STD

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...

Birth control options & opinions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - I posted a question like this yesterday but I didn't get many replies. So, I'm posting again and hope to get a few more answers than last time. Anyway, I'm 13 years old and I'm getting put on Birth Control next week. I was wanting the shot but my ...

I dumped him...how can I win him back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Last night i broke up with my bf.About a minute later i regretted it and ive tried texting him saying sorry and i love him.I said im sorry if i sound like im playing games.He hasnt text me back.i dont know what to do! i love him so much.Were ...

Which birth control is better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - So here's the thing. I'm supposed to get Birth Control next week. My mom wants me to get the shot but my grandma says it'll make me gain weight and in my opinion, I would hate that, But my mom says it stops periods completely sometimes and really ...

My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - Should i stay with my spouse after i have forgiven him twice for impreganating **PERSON-A**,who happened to miscarry on both occassion. I gave birth to our daughter (**PERSON-B**) three months ago and he is now telling me that **PERSON-A** had a ...

Negative pg test and you turned out to be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - So I havent had my "normal" period since the first week in December. In January I had alittle bit of bleeding for 2 days but then it stopped and I havent had anything since then. I have taken 3 urine test and 1 blood test recently and they all ...

He's misunderstanding my reasons..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - I've been in my current relationship for a few months now. It has its ups and downs. But here comes the low. My bf has 2 kids and I have 1. We talked about having kids and first he said he wanted another kid by the time he's 30. He's 25 now. Then he ...

I don't trust him and everytime he goes out I wonder where he is, and who he's with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - I am in a 3 year relationship, have one child and am 8 months pregnant for my second. My partner and i used to have a real good relationship but since october its been different. in october i found some txts on his phone and found out tht he had met ...

Have I been stupid in trying to help her conceive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I'm in a crazy situation. One of my friends, a girl my age, has asked me to do something for her. Let me say that I have always been attracted to her, she is quite the beautiful lady, but it could never go further than friendship. She's one of thes...

Possibility she's pregnant even though the condom did not break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend where having sex for the first time today. I wore a condom and shes not on the pill. After we done it I pulled out and I cant remember how but I found cum on my hand (not sure if it was mine or hers). Anyway I checked the cond...

1 of 2 guys could be the daddy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

26 March 2009 (F) - Ok im 15 years old im goin to be 16 in november. My boyfriend is 24 whom will be 25 in october. Come to find out im pregnant. The thing is, is that im not so sure who the father is...It can be one out of two people.... my boyfriend that i have been ...

I'm worried about my husband being an older father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - hello, i hope someone out there can help me. i am almost 30 and my husband of three years is 12 years older than me. the age difference was never an issue because i loved him and i still do, but now i find that i worry about his age. this is mai...

Should I leave him take the baby and go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - i dont no what to do. heres the story i slept with my bf losing my virginity to him and i thought he was losing it to me but the day after i found out he'd slept with his ex gf Whilst he was still with me and lost his v with her,and he knows...

I'd rather give my baby up for adoption than to let him have it

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'm 7 months pregnant my boyfriend and I have since split up it live in the same apt I'm trying to find a new place. He has a daughter from a previous relationship. I want to give the child up for adoption I just think he would have a better life. ...

Pregnant in a foreign country..what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'm pregnant in a foeign country. (exchange student) What do I do? I don't want to tell my parents neither the guy.. is there a way I can abort withut them knowing? and after the abortion., do you need to like stay in bed? ..please. someone ...

Why is my period late and should I take another test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Please! I am almost crying of panic! I am like a week and so late in my period. but i have not had unprotected sex, ever! what should I do? I had a pregancy tst done two days ago, and it came out negative.. so why is my period late and when should ...

Questions for pregnant or formerly pregnant women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - Hi there. I'm a little over 5 months along and and I have a lot of questions. Even if you only answer a few, I'd really appreciate it. 1- my breasts are pretty large now, will they stay that way? or be bigger after I'm done breastfeeding? I...

Should I have a baby by this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and he asked me recently do I want to have a baby with him. He already has 2 kids already and I told him if we do decide to kids and if we're still together maybe within the next 1-2 years. The mother ...

Teen mums!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'd just like to know your opinions on "teen mums". If the legal age to have sex (in the UK) is 16, why do parents age 16-20 get frowned upon? Also what age do you think is appropriate to be a grandparent? ...

Should I cut him off now or wait until I the abortion?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - So, I was with my ex boyfriend for over two years. It was my first real relationship and I loved him very much, we did everything together. Well two weeks ago, we were arguing and he had told me he cheated on me out of anger. The next day he tell...

Can't keep erection while entering her...please help

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

25 March 2009 (M) - Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have a unique problem. I was a virgin until I got married. However, I used to masturbate a lot and am theoretically educated about sex and protection etc. Now the problem is, during foreplay which both of us enjoy ...

Can you get pregnant if a guy touches your vagina with his erect penis?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I've looked everywhere but I cannot find the answer to this question. Can you get pregnant if a guy does not get an erection but touches your vagina with his penis? ...

Can fingering cause pregnancy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - My fiancé has last her periods on the 12th of February 2009, after which we have not be much sexually active, but yes we have had some fingering/masturbation session, and i don't remember if I touched my genitals b4 I fingered her, but have not had ...

Husband wants me to have family in room when I give birth...im not so keen..

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hi, im preganant and baby due in august. Me and my husband are both thrilled but theres 1 aspect im not happy with.... I am having a hospital birth and so far a vaginal birth which is all good but my husband wants his parents and possibly som...

Period question .. Attention ladies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - To the ladies.. How many day s were you behind on your period. Ok let me explain lol. If you were suppose to start the 14th and you didn't. What was the most days after you were suppose to start that you missed.. Like me I started the 20th last mon...

I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant from a 20 yo....will he go to jail ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - im 15 years old and im pregnant from a 20 year old....will he go to jail ?? i mean when i have the baby i'm going to be past 16 ..could he still go to jail?...

What do I do to make her leave him and me alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - ok im 17 and i'm pregnant. my boyfriend of 2 years who got me pregnant is 28 and there is a huge problem and it's not the age gap its his ex girlfriend. he has a 3 year old daughter by his ex girlfriend and his 3 year old daughter looks nothing ...

Am I being selfish because I want to be a mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - I've been married for a year and a half together for four. I believe I'm ready to have a child, I'm in my late 20s and I want to be a mother. My husband is not ready. Throughout everything in our relationship I always have to be the submissive ...

Peeing and pregnancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Ok I I need some advice from previously pregnant women or girls and currently pregnant women or girls. I have reason to believe I am pregnant but not sure. I'm going to the clinic Friday but I would like to know when you're pregnant and you pee a ...

Should I tell ex of 3 year relationship that I may be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm currently nineteen, and have just gotten out of a three year relationship with someone twelve years my senior. He and I met on the internet, and when we did he lived nine hundred miles away. He moved to me a year into our re...

Best time to have sex without pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - which time is safe to do sex with my gf? whether 7days after or before 7 days of her period for which she will not get pregnent?...

Even though I've taken my period could I still be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Ok around 4 days ago I slept with my boyfriend 3 times, twice with a condom and one time without. I came on my period yesterday and I told my mum everything and she says I could still b pregnant (she used to be a midwife) Could she be right? Please...

Trippin out!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - In the middle of February I had unprotected sex. I got my period at the beginning of that month, but now is March 23 and I haven't gotten my period. It's already going to be April and I am worried and stressed out. HELLPPPP:)...

Why would he even what to try for a baby knowing I would be her dealing with it alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - I married my high school sweetheart and he is the love of my life, he joined the army shortly after we graduate (a few yeard later we got married). He knows that he will be going overseas before summer. I don't want him to go and have expressed ...

Should I be worried about our fertility?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Me and my partner have just started trying for a baby. Without meaning to be graphic, during my last ovulation period (and, in fact, most of the month) we had sex at least once a day. Now I am on my period? Should I be worried about our fertility? ...

My beautiful baby was born dead and I'm finding it very difficult to cope... Please help me...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - On the 27th of February my baby was born dead... I'm finding it very hard to grieve and do anything. I have an 18 month old baby and I can't seem to hold her... I don't know how to go on. Please I need some help. ...