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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Will having a child make things worse in the long run?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - im 25 and pregnant. Its been a bit of a rollar cosater but i have got over the hurdles of telling my parents etc and i thought i was on the roasd to happiness. But now me and my boyfriend are arguing. I have gone off sex and been feeling a bit ...

15 years old and pregnant, with a strict Mom who doesn't know. What do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 years old and my mom is already is thinking of me having kids!! Almost every day when i come home from school she asks me if I'm still a virgin, and obviously i say yes(the thing is my mom wants to arrange me with someone from our ...

My hearts in prison, but I'm with my ex and our baby, am I committing a worse crime??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. I haven't been on this site in a while, but now i'm in desperate need of it again. My situation is very unique. I fell head over heals in love with someone I met in my past that i've always loved. The thing is, he's in prison for 1...

1 last thing before we settle, should I let him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been friends with my guy for over 10 years and we hooked up at new year, 2010. We are both in our late 30's and it feels very serious and we are discussing getting married and having kids. Basically he booked a holiday to Thailand before w...

Baby on the way, when is the right time to.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

27 February 2011 (?) - I found out a few weeks ago that I am 12 weeks pregnant. Me and my partner are very happy, we have been together 1 1/2 years, I Know that isn't a long time but we love each other. We want to keep this baby because with his job and me working part ...

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...

Three months pregnant and he gets on my nerves all the time

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am three months pregnant and ever since I have lost complete interest in the father/boyfriend. He gets on my nerves ALL the time and is always loveydovey and sensitive and it pisses me off. i feel like our relationship will fall apart through this ...

We are both unfaithful and he asked me to marry him what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4801 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I am a gorgeous girl who never lacks male attention, however, one year ago I met a man who I started dating long distance. We are in love, or so we say. He has children, I also have 1 child. We both have been dating other people since about the 2nd ...

We want a baby but no luck...any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - My husband been together for three years and we been trying to have a baby and we are not having any luck I just wanted to know what are your suggestions for me and my husband. If you can help plz tell....

I can't get my baby's father to help unless its convenient for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

25 February 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old and I got pregnant with a guy I never had a relationship with. I went through my whole pregnancy alone, but when I was in labour, my baby's father showed up. He was really great for the first few months and my baby absolutely loves ...

I'm 14 and pregnant - what will happen to my child, and the father?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I'm 14 and pregnant and i'm not getting rid of it, but if I don't what will happen to the father of my child?, and would social services take it off me? ...

Do breaks work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - He wants to take a break. He's already made plans with a co-worker to find a new place for both of them, which implies signing a lease and agreeing to contribute to another household. I'm 7months preggo and I haven't been the easiest to get alon...

I don't want him in my baby's life, am I right for feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - So I got this problem, I moved 4 months ago out of the country to study some courses. Before I left I had a guy (we weren't dating), we did sleep together. But just a week or 2 before I moved, he left on a trip for a month and I didn't hear from him ...

Once I fell pregnant to him he told me he was already MARRIED!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - I'm 23 yrs. old. I have met a guy last year at a club. After a week of dating, we agreed to have a commitment. At first I agreed to it just for fun then I realized I am falling for him. After 2 months of dating, I found out I am pregnant with his ...

15 and pregnant need help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

24 February 2011 (F) - im 15, get good grades, live in a good home but am not very close to my parents. i go to a vocational school and take an automotive shop. ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, and we lost our virginity to eachother. the condom didnt work, and i ...

Pregant and scared of my dad's reaction...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i am 10 weeks pregnant and it has just started to sink in after finding out a few weeks ago. My partner in over joyed and i told my mum the other day who is also pleased at becoming a grandmother. However she did say that my dad will be sad and ...

18 & pregnant: I'm scared of being alone, but I don't think this relationship can be fixed either.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - i have been with my fiance' for over two years now and we just found out were having a baby.we have been on and off for uite some time and i think its because i don't want to loose what we had when we actually had it.... everythin that goes wrong is ...

6 months pregnant, 16 and boyfriend treating me badly

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - well i am 16 years old. and i am now 6 months pregnant with a son of my boyfriend for 3 years. he wanted me to get an abortion but i couldn't bring myself to do it. he kind of got used to the idea or so i thought. now he is treating me like shit by ...

Would you hide a pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - if you are in your mid twenties, would you hide a pregnacy? ...

Pregnant by narcissistic ex, he doesn't know...but should he?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

23 February 2011 (F) - Ok, I will try to keep this as short as possible. My ex has Narcissistic Personality Disorder (he was never diagnosed, but I've read about it and I'm positive that's his problem). He has abused me in every way possible - emotionally (tha...

He left me for another woman while I was pregnant. I need advice. Has this happened to others?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I feel like am going through an emotional hell just now and any advice would be welcome. I am 20 weeks pregnant and my ex broke up with me just when we found out. To cut a long story short, we have had a very close friendship for over a year. We...

American Dad, Canadian Mom.....Baby in the middle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

22 February 2011 (F) - I am a Canadian citizen who recently found out Im preganant with my American boyfriends child. After discussing the pregnancy with him he has expressed that he'd like the baby to be born in the US however because Im not a citizen the matter of ...

I'd like to approach my wife about using a big dong on her. Need advice. Also, does anyone have experience with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

21 February 2011 (M) - I would like to approach my wife about using a dong in our sexual relationship, but would like some help on how to approach her. Since having 3 children, things aren't as tight as they used to be...and that's just fine. However, because of this ...

Can I still have children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4778 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - hi is it possible to have children if you have been treated for candidas?...

Should I tell my boyfriend I had a miscarriage? I don't want to stress him out...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

21 February 2011 (F) - I just found out I had a miscarriage,I didn't know I was pregnant so you can imagine I'm still a bit shaken, my question is about my boyfriend. We have a long distance relationship, things have been a bit rough lately and he's really stressed out ...

What are the chances of getting pregnant through fingering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

20 February 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I had sex the first time together last weekend. We were quite drunk and I don't remember a lot about it. Last night he confessed that he was really worried as he remembered fingering me with cum on his hands. We used a condom but ...

Could have sex too many times make you sick?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I had sex for a whole week. monday we did it twice, wednesdsay we did it once, and thurday three times. We always use new protection at all times. Could having sex this often make you sick? My Bf is not getting sick but i feel ...

Can a girl get pregnant without having sex or get pregnant two different times from sex once?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4807 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - hi. i just want to know if you can get pregnant without actually having sex, and if you can have more than one child, with then have a big in between gap, by having sex just once. ...

How do I deal with the change in my body, after having a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - Okay so I have been with my partner for three years already and have already had a child with him. I used to not be afraid to show my body off because my boobs were bigger and perky size c, my body was nice and big I even had them lil dimples on my ...

I told him I'm pregnant today. He became abusive and aggressive with me. Where do I go from here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

19 February 2011 (F) - hi everyone, im 22 and this guy is 20. i need some good advice here. today i found out that i'm pregnant this is my first time being pregnant and the guy im pregnant for he's a player. its been nearly 3half weeks i havent heard from him. he's been...

Will I ever conceive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

17 February 2011 (F) - Am 19yrs old i was married immediately i completed high school,my marriage is now one and a half yrs old,since i have been trying to conceive but it doesnt work i recently went to a doc he examind me nd said that i am okay, my husband is very ...

He wants to go out, but I want him to stay. Am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - me and my bf are very close we do everything togther and realy we dnt go out much without eachothr our relantionship is good but latly he told me hes bored and wants to go out to the bar i knw he wants sum alone time but i just dnt see it fair that ...

I'm in love with my ex, pregnant by a rebound, want the ex back - how can I now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4810 days ago

16 February 2011 (F) - I moved on too quickly with this new man. I was upset about my breakup with the ex and rebounded to this new man. I used protection but my body resisted the pill I used and have fallen pregnant. I painfully told the ex who I want to get back with ...

We're stuck sexually, I'm going to Mexico soon and she's freaking out after I fingered her. Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

16 February 2011 (M) - So I've been together with a girl for like 14 months and things are going pretty good but kinda suck on the "sexual" side... She's beautiful and kind and I really do care about her but not much happens in our "alone time" other than lots of kissing ...

My mother treats the dog better than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

15 February 2011 (F) - Okay My mother has been out of work for over a year my mother is obese she is 400 pounds and im 6 months pregnant and I'm going to go get my g.e.d and my mother keeps on calling me a low life peace of shi* and tells me that hopefuly m...

Do I tell my fiance that I had an affair and the baby may or may not be his?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

15 February 2011 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for 4 years and we are to be married June. We have a great relationship but I recently made a mistake and had a brief sexual relationship with a co-worker. It was over the span of 2 weeks, and it actually brought me closer ...

Ideas needed for gifts for my pregnant bestfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4810 days ago

15 February 2011 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles!! Your input is appreciated though this is not a relationship question. So, my best friend is pregnant. She is the best friend a person can have and I love her to bits. I decided that during her pregnancy she should get one ...

I'm not ready to have a baby yet...I want a career first. Does that make me selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

15 February 2011 (F) - hey. ok ive been in a relationship 4 a while and we both quite serious now he has started talking about having babys which is fine in our culture and everyone does it it is the accepted thing. but i dont want to im afraid to tell him so, it is a sig...

We had unprotected sex three times and now she's scared she's pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

14 February 2011 (M) - My girlfriend started dating about 3 weeks ago. We had unprotected sex 3 times within a couple days of when we started dating. She also is not on birth control or anything. Last weekend she asked me to give her space cuz she is scared about being ...

I'm 20, and I'm desperate for a baby...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4809 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I want a child. I put child because I mean it; I want to be a Mum. I'm 20, so if I say Baby people will think I'm some young kid that just likes the thought of not working and having someone to cuddle... I recently asked my boyfriend and he said ...

Pregnant and I don't know which ones the father! What do I tell them!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - Hey, I just found out the other day that I am pregnant but I had sex with 2 guys around the time my doctor said I got pregnant. I was having sex with my boyfriend at the time but I was with another friend and we just got carried away. I don't live ...

Pregnant again by my married lover, and I'm not sure that I want to have the baby!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4517 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I dated a man who I fell in love with. We had a baby last year. During the time that I was pregnant we had a falling out and he started seeing someone else and married her. I was a complete fool and had sex with him again. I am now pregnant again. ...

Six months pregnant and in love with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4814 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - So I have been with my bf for almost 3 years now and I am 6 months pregnant. Well not to long ago I met this amazing man! Turns out he is my third cousin. But we have been talking ever since. I don't even have feelings for my bf anymore. My cousin ...

Does having a baby really hurt ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

13 February 2011 (F) - I heard having a baby really hurts . I'm excited about having my baby buy I'm scared too I'm afraid to push the baby out I don't enjoy pain very much and I'm also worried my boyfriend won't be there because he goes to work during the day and comes ...

Intense urge to have babies...and I'm only 15!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I want a child, but I am too young; what should I do? I am only 15, but I feel very intense urges to have many children. I have been able to have a child for 5 years, biologically, and I have been in puberty for half my life, but it is only in the ...

Pregnant, extremely unhappy, terrible boyfriend and still not over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4815 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - what do i do? i am 14 weeks pregnant and in a very unhappy relationship. my boyfriend treats me like shit he has hit me since ive been preagnant and pushed me he dosent do anything special for me sinc i found out i was pregnant. honestly he has ...

I am pregnant and my boyfriend doesn't want me to have the baby.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - I'm 4 months pregnant my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion and I don't want to. Me and him have been fighting over it every night. When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy but now he doesn't want it. He said when his child is born he...

I am obsessed with getting pregnant!! Is this abnormal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4811 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - hey, i'm just wondering how normal it is for me to desperately want to be pregnant. ever since i was young ive always known i wanted to be a mother, there has never been any doubt that i want children. i am currently living with my fiance and we ...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend won't stop talking to other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4814 days ago

12 February 2011 (F) - Right now, I am 7 months pregnant by my boyfriend and we've been together for 2 yrs. My problem is that we made an argreement that we would both stop talking to other men and women. I've held my end of the deal, but I see that he is having a hard ...

Baby in June and we need some names!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4813 days ago

11 February 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having a baby in June and we need some good names for it . I all ready thought of the names Patrick after Patrick Swayze or Morticia after Morticia Addams . But we can't decide. ...