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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Would it be weird if I waited a whole year to date just her, knowing I like her? Or do I date other girls in the interim?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - There's a girl I really like in my school, (I'm a freshman in high school) and she likes me too, but her parents won't let her date until next year when she turns sixteen. What should I do? Should I date other girls? Would it be weird if I waited a...

Could his hug have meant something? Don't want to mess up again.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

27 November 2014 (?) - I like this guy in my class and we talk sometimes in class but I don't know how he feels about me (I'm 18 and he is 20). Usually when he leaves for his next class I say "goodbye (insert name here)" to show that I'm making the effort to say his name. ...

Can't tell if crush likes me back and is really shy, or is really rude

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3441 days ago

26 November 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. I've had a crush on a girl at college for a while now, and I just can't tell if she likes me back or not. We hadn't talked at all until over a month ago, when our class ended. When class ends, we always went different ways. But on that ...

In love with my cousin but she's to be married to my brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

26 November 2014 (M) - When I was 16 years old, I met my uncle in law's niece at a family function. Since then I had a huge crush on her. By the time we lived together for 3-4 days, my crush started turning into love towards her. But she didn't knew anything about it. ...

Crushing on my cousin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 and in a strange situation, (well for me). It's a long story, sorry. :l I kinda have a BIG crush on my cousin and he's about my age. PS. he does not know I have a crush on him. (now before you skip this question please try to understan...

Crushing for her, yet don't know if she's gay. If I make a move I could lose my Boyfriend. Should I tell her? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - So I have posted about this before but my head is still a mess.. Anyways, I'm a 20 year old girl, (not bigging myself up here) but I have a good job I've worked so hard for, and a boyfriend I've been going out with for 4 years who I know loves me ...

How can I demonstrate that I'm fun and that I like him without actually telling him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hi I have classes with a guy I really like we sit next to each other. We kind of have a love hate relationship. We have a laugh and I really like him but at the same time he annoys me so much! What can I do about this? How can I demonstrate that I'm ...

Have I given her too much space? Am I being too shy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

25 November 2014 (M) - So this shy girl I like and I have been talking a while now that I have a feeling likes me back. However she suddenly went quiet with me when I started giving her more space cuz I felt I was intruding her space being a shy guy myself. She seems ...

Is he asking me on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3442 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - There's this guy I work with and I was talking to him over snapchat messaging. he was talking about how he got a new car. I was like "can I please drive it?!" N he says yea sure "if u buy me dinner." N I said "hey no fair. I'm driving and buying ...

I always like guys that I know I cant have or who don't want me back and it kills me but I just cant seem to stop myself.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hey this may seem like a stupid question but I have no one else to talk to about it without sounding stupid! So there's this guy that I work with that I have had a crush on for a while now we are pretty close and flirt back and fourth all the time, ...

Have you ever felt drawn to someone you wouldnt usually find attractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - iam not a shallow person in any way but have you ever felt drawn to someone you wouldnt usually find attractive? there not usually your type but something about them makes you feel all warm and happy? my friends cant believe im going on a date with ...

I like him but I don't think he'll make a move! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3442 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - What should I do about this guy? Does he like me? So my brother invited me to his church convention and there was this guy there I liked. I found he is my brothers close friend at church. After the convention on the coach coming back this w...

How can I improve my social life and my chances of dating? What are your thoughts on the man I have been texting? Just found out he's married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a successful career lady but my social life sucks. I have never had a boyfriend or sex mainly because I always meet rejections (maybe because I am physically disabled thus, less attractive). I do not believe in FWBs but a decent r...

But is it the right time? I think I may have found my soul mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3443 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - So I think that I have met my soulmate. We were introduced by my godmother at a family party on Saturday. We immediately clicked! I have never had the experience of looking into someone's eyes and feeling like I can see their soul. I felt like I ...

I Like A Hipster Guy But He's Often Negative - Is He Not Worth It?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - I like a hipster guy I know right now, but, though he's cute, I'm not sure if I should ask him out or not. We share many interests, which is good, and he's really keen about some of them too, but sometimes he sees so ironic and cynical I can't ...

Is this guy flirting with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3444 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts, so I have a really stupid question, haha. I have a little crush on this guy that comes to my work place often, and I can't tell if he's flirting or just being nice. I have never been good at figuring out those sort of things, ...

Am I moving on too quickly, rebounding, or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

22 November 2014 (M) - Hi, it's been three long years since I've been here, but last time I was here I was talking about possibly getting with my lab partners let's call her "Vicki". We were in a relationship for the past 3 years and it just ended 3 months ago. We e...

She has my number, but doesn't text or anything, so what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - I'm confused about a girl at work. I've had a crush on her for a while, and told her that one evening when we were both working back late, alone. She went quiet for a little while and I thought that I'd made her hate me, but then she told me that ...

How I should react when he finds interest in other women of the friendly company?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3446 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - I continue to have interest in the man that we are still just friends. Although i like the feeling that we are friends and so there is a sensation of freedom, relax, and no need to worry about subjects of relationship on the other hand i can't stop ...

Is a guy reacting to a girl ignoring him a sign of interest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3445 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - When a guy pays more attention to a girl when she ignores him, or doesn't give him as much attention or leaves the area, does that mean he likes her? If the guy seems to be aware of how she feels and seems to react if she's sad, mad or happy, is...

Would telling him I'm going on a date with someone get his attention?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - theres a guy i like and would love it if he asked me out but i need to get his attention first. we are friends he said he liked me before but didnt do anything about it we do fun friend flirting that doesnt mean anything asfar as i know ,im too ...

Why hasn't she told her guy friend she has a boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

19 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend has a guy friend that she has known for two years and they used to like each other she has not told him that she has a boyfriend and she wants to hang out with him alone and won't introduce me or tell him that she has a boyfriend. I ...

She wants to get him out of her mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3449 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - One of my best friends told me that she thinks she likes our best friends brother. I think that she should go for it but our friend has made It VERY clear that her brother is off limits to any of us four (her best friends) because it would be weird. ...

How do I show him I was interested, I was just scared?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I met a guy through then summer he was very flirty with me, and always stared at me, he did come on quite strong that scared me a little. So I started ignoring him in the street. Wasn't being mean but I was nervous and little shocked as he is 15 ...

I'm worried he'll be scared off by my anxieties

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - Okay I just turned 19 an I've been going through a bit of a panic recently. I've never really had a serious boyfriend. I talked to guys I thought I liked n the past, but at some point in the relationship I would shrivel up and just drop off ...

Does he seem at all interested? I don't want to make a move only to find that I've not only made a fool of myself but lost a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3265 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - I feel like I'm at the age where I should be able to figure out whether or not a guy is interested in me but this is the first time I find myself drawn to an older man. I'd assume that indicators of interest would be the same regardless of age but I ...

My crush is a player!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3450 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - Last year, I fancied this guy for ages, he knew, but didn’t do anything and now when I finally got over him, he started sending all these flirty texts and saying how he likes me and stuff and I kind of went back to liking him but I know hes a player ...

I think I like my best friend's brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - Me and my best friend have known each other since before we started school and I've know her twin brother for the same time. Recently, though, whenever it see him I get butterflies in my stomach and when I told my other friend this she said I ...

Was he ever interested in me or was he just being nice and not wanting to reject me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - Hi all. I work at a retail job which is just temporary until I get into my career field. There's a guy at my job who I have a big crush on (let's call him V). Usually I do nothing about situations where I have a crush on someone. But I kept reading ...

I cant get my crush out of my head and don't know where its going

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3452 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid. I really hope you can help me. Im in a long term relationship but lately ive been having doubts about where it is going. Ive also just started a new job in the past few months and met a guy who ive developed a massive crush on. I have ...

How to stop loving my teacher?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3452 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - So I've had this teacher since my freshman year, we hit it off almost instantly and became pretty close. (not in a weird or inappropriate way, just a teacher-student friendliness) We talk every school day, and we get on so well. We have a similar ...

I'm afraid if I tell my crush I like her she won't talk to me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

15 November 2014 (M) - I have had a crush on a girl in my college for about 3 and a half years now.(we both are 16) we talk a bit like casual hi-hello( though I am always the one to approach her) . I never told her I liked her but I think she figured it out by the way I ...

I have the hots for the amazingly hot baby sitter

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

15 November 2014 (M) - I have an amazingly hot baby sitter, she is new to my family, just me and my daughter, but I have known her sister for while now. How do I find out if she has any interest? I wont lie I would love to see her in more ways than just my baby sitter. I ...

Why might a guy give out mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3452 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Why the mixed signals? I like a guy who is shy but with a very hyper masculine persona. He isn't much of a conversationalist and is quite to the point as a person. What I've perceived to be him maybe liking me: Looks at me a lot, gets a bit too c...

Hurt by his ex, all he's ready for is a friendship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - About a month ago, I met an amazing guy. We hit it off right away and we started to spend every single day together, as well as I stayed over every night. He asked me to come over every day and stay every night. It felt amazing to be wanted. He ...

How can I get close to my co worker? I have a crush on him. Do I risk it and make a move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I have a crush on a co-worker. I flirt just enough to not make it awkward. I want to ask him out but I can't seem to read him. My office is small, so if I put myself out there everyone will know and it will be uncomfortable if he turns me down. Do I...

Could I get him back or is there any way to help me move on ?? I still have a crush for my ex and now he has a Gf too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I need help I think I am still in love with my ex bf. But I can seem to stop emailing him and meeting him I have tried blocking him and it lasts for about a couple of weeks then my heart flutters when he emails me asking to meet. I know it's wr...

What are the chances? Is it really possible for a man to be addicted to a woman sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a question. Maybe everybody can give their view point. Is it possible for a man to be sexually addicted to a woman? For example, your boyfriend says he loves you but is having sex with another woman on the side becaus...

Should I go and see him after nearly 2 years apart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles I had a friendship with a man for just over 5 years. We were both in our late 40s (now early 50s) and divorced, so free and single. We slept together in the early months, but he stopped it because he wanted us to be friends...

In love with my friend, do I lay it on the line and ask where I stand?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3455 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - ok so straight to the point , i have developed feelings for my friend he knows i like him but he hasnt done anything about it(the ball is in his court so to speak) hes been flirty but then reminds the moment we r friends and he shouldnt be as flirty ...

How can he take a chance on love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3453 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - ok my head is starting to be blagged , theres this guy i met and we are friends he likes me as a friend id like it to be more hes called me special and sends really flirty texts to me and even said thats what he would say to a girlfriend and not a ...

Did he just hit the ball back into my court? 30 all perhaps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Hi, any help would be greatly appreciated. Apparently, I’m clueless when it comes to men. I’ve spent my life building my career, that I have failed to learn how to read situations such as this: This past weekend, whilst attending a conference, I ...

My friend tells me she's in love with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - I've met this woman and we have became really close friends and she says she loves me like her husband.but not in a sexual way but now I've fallen in love with her and I told her she said it's ok I decided to end our friendship she broke down in ...

I am not sure if this body language things are right, but I was wondering if maybe he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3452 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - There is this guy in three of my classes. I have met him in summer and then we ended up being in the same classes. He is pretty smart and pretty knowledgeable about a lot of things. We had lunch at the beginning of the classes. He asked for my ...

I've got a boyfriend, and kids, but this woman gives me butterflies in the stomach!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - Ok so I have been with my boyfriend almost 10 years an we have two kids together. Well I think I'm gay...this girl at my work really makes me feel some type of way! I also wonder if she is like me an is gay an feels te way about me like I do her! I ...

Should I break off contact with my crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - So there's this guy I've kind of had a crush on for a long time now, since I was around 16 (I'm now 19). The issue is that he's my ex teacher. I have him as a friend on Facebook and we chat occasionally, just about normal things like catching up, ...

My friend's girlfriend has cost me the friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

9 November 2014 (M) - I have a friend for many years. He's never had a girlfriend, just a few flings with women. He's a nice guy by all accounts and recently found a really nice girlfriend. After hearing about her for a few weeks we finally met at his fathers birthday...

He's seemed awkward since our first date. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I met a guy through a friend as he is her uni housemate. We met at a party and hit it off straight away. Since then I returned home after visiting her and we texted a lot - he was quite flirty and invited me on a date when I next visited my friend. ...

It's the end of our friendship ..........

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3458 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I have been friends with a man for 7 years and we are both married. We get along really well, but only get to chat a couple of times a month. I will shortly be leaving the school where we usually catch up and although nothing has ever gone on ...

How can I let a friend down without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3457 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have question well I dated this guy for awhile but our relationship never went no where the sex was a no go I mean as person he was awesome but his manhood was smaller than his eyes could see.Just last week I spoke to him over the ...