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Have I given her too much space? Am I being too shy?

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Question - (25 November 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2014)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So this shy girl I like and I have been talking a while now that I have a feeling likes me back. However she suddenly went quiet with me when I started giving her more space cuz I felt I was intruding her space being a shy guy myself. She seems absolutely fine if I talk to her first and we talk a lot if I keep the conversation going. Could it be I've given her too much space? Should I maybe talk more often and text her outside of college more?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2014):

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Thanks for the advice. I was kinda trying to pluck up the courage to ask her out face to face. Were I to tell her I like her over text, how could I go about it? I'd say the fear of rejection is also holding me back

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2014):

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I've actually been trying to build up the confidence to ask her out to her face as opposed to text her and tell her through that, to kind of show confidence. But if I were to ask her out over text, any advice on what to say?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2014):

The problem here is you two are like two shy peas in a pod. Shy people often lack self confidence when talking to someone they are attracted to, they tend to question themselves and their actions and over think things. The reason she went "quiet" on you was probably because she though she was being too forward, too needy or coming on too strong and thought she would give you some space. Like wise you thought you were coming on to strong and gave her space resulting in this situation. She probably thinks you have lost interest in her and is wondering what she did wrong. You should certainly text her and let her know that you really like her and confess your shyness as she is dealing with the same gremlin.

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