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What are the chances? Is it really possible for a man to be addicted to a woman sexually?

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Question - (12 November 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 November 2014)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone.

I have a question. Maybe everybody can give their view point.

Is it possible for a man to be sexually addicted to a woman? For example, your boyfriend says he loves you but is having sex with another woman on the side because he is addicted to the sex she gives him? Maybe she is more experienced? Knows what to say to him? What to do to him? And he keeps going back for more even if he supposedly cares about his girlfriend? Is this possible?

Wondering what your opinions are.

Thanks.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2014):

I say try the same line on him and see how he would love those apples.He is full of it let him have her you deserve better.:)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2014):

And if it is possible what then?

You stay together and tolerate his addiction to her?

I have to admire the man for being creative. For having the balls to say something so completely nutty and making you believe it.

Sweetheart, if he's addicted to her then he has no need for you. If he isn't addicted then he's lying. Either way, this dead horse is just about flogged enough I reckon. Move on.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 November 2014):

olderthandirt agony auntHe's a narsist and you are a facilitator if you buy thi limp rationalization. I predict a big problem about to unfold. Duck the is going to be a fan involved with this manuare.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (13 November 2014):

Tisha-1 agony auntAre you saying that he's blaming an addiction for his being a cheater? That's a fascinating approach to rationalizing cheating. And it sounds like you believe it? Oh dear.

Ok, granted there are some who do have actual sex addiction problems, but that's generally with multiple partners, I believe.

So your boyfriend is cheating on you with another woman and claims it's because she has some sort of sexual hold on him? *snort*

"It isn't me, my addiction made me do it! I can't help myself! That other woman is too amazing in bed!" *snort*

He's got something on the side and you're sticking around for it, actually entertaining this as an excuse for cheating. Oh dear. I really hope you aren't as desperate as this post might indicate.

He just likes to cheat and has come up with a fancy rationalization. I worry for you that you even had to post this question.

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A female reader, MSA United States +, writes (12 November 2014):

MSA agony auntDon't ever believe it if your man tells you that he loves you but is addicted to another woman for sex! LOL!!

Men may be attracted to certain sex positions, techniques, role play, etc.. If he truly loves you, he will want to experience it with YOU. Because no other woman out there, regardless of how good they are sexually, will be able to give him the satisfaction and pleasure that YOU, the one HE LOVES does.

He will want to explore his sexual fantasies with YOU and YOU will be the one that he will be sexually addicted to!

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