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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:ok my head is starting to be blagged , theres this guy i met and we are friends he likes me as a friend id like it to be more hes called me special and sends really flirty texts to me and even said thats what he would say to a girlfriend and not a friend so said sorry,i said ill see it as a bit of fun so he didnt feel an idiot, hes shy and so am i he knows i like him and would like more but i know all he wants to be is friends, he talks as tho we cud have a future but then says hell probably be single for a long time as he doesnt want to be hurt bad again i know what it feels like to be really badly hurt so understand how he feels and feel like this is him holding back and taking a chance do i continue to show him i can be the one worth taking a chance with or just give up ? what could i say to him (but not being direct and straight to the point) to give him a massive hint to take a chance with me , thanks for any helpful words ,
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reader, babalou  +, writes (15 November 2014):
 He will date you if and when he's ready and interested. It's your call on whether you want to wait for him to be ready or if you want to explore your other options and find someone else to pursue. If you think he's opening up, you should wait and see, but if he doesn't seem to be much more interested in a relationship with you than when this all started, it's probably best to let him go.
You could always express your feelings for him and your interest in starting a relationship, but he may feel pressured.
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