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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need help I think I am still in love with my ex bf. But I can seem to stop emailing him and meeting him I have tried blocking him and it lasts for about a couple of weeks then my heart flutters when he emails me asking to meet. I know it's wrong because he has a gf and have been together a while do you think he still likes me or his he using me? I just love him so much and I think I am scared I will end up alone as well. Could I get him back or is there any way to help move on ?? Thanks
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (13 November 2014):
 He has the best of both worlds. YOu on the side and the GF. You cannot make the decision for him and also why do you want to be with someone that does value you and nor has any respect for his GF. I can understand that you are struggling to let go but I promise this pain and heartache will continue as long as you give him that power.
Move on, go cold turkey. No calls, no sms, no contact at all. You will feel a lot better than you feel now. He is an addiction that you need to break. YOu get your fix, you happy, it wears out and you are miserable, get your fix - happy again and the vicious cycle continues. You can only help yourself and that is by taking the stand to move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2014): Well first of all, If he likes you and is dating another girl, talk to him and confess your feelings. Soon enough he'll learn which girl to choose. But the second thing is, technically you can't get back together with your ex, no matter if you still like him, unless you do my suggestion of talking with him about how you fell.
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