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writes: Ok well it's sophomore year and my friend J(first letter of his name, not gonna reveal his full name) finally is a high schooler but he's older than me by a month. Ok back to the story, we've been talking since I was in the 8th grade and he was in the 7th. Not a lot just the first day we met and the day after. During the summer after 8th grade he told my friend to tell me hi (I guess cause he didn't know I had a Facebook) so then durning freshman year I added him and he accepted it and we talked on there a couple of times, some funny ones too xD Now it's sophomore year and we haven't talk at all yet( not that I'm complaing cause its barley gonna be the first Friday of the school year. In 8th grade I really liked him but I didn't say anything cause 2 of my friends liked him so I kept quiet until I knew they both didn't like him any more so only one of my friends knows about him. I wanna talk to him but the thing is they have a separate campus for the freshmans' but freshmans could have some classes at the main campus but I'm not sure if he has any classes yet. I talk to one of his friends though. I wanna talk to him but I really don't know how he's not online a lot be he still is at certain times he is . I only saw him 2 times this week, 1 where he was walking to practice and 2 at the bus lot for freshman. I really wanna talk to him but don't know how :o
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (5 September 2013):
Hi. I think it will be a golden opportunity for you to get to know him.
And to talk in person with someone, is always much better than simply chatting online.
Although chatting online is easy to do, it is still rather limited, and can leave room for misunderstandings, in the same way that text messages can.
And so to be able to actually talk face to face with someone, is always going to be far superior - in really getting to know a person well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I was thinking the same thing @DorothyDix . Cause if we talk we'll get to know more about each other then we could plan other events with our friends & meet again c:
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (3 September 2013):
Hi. I think you ought to go to that fall festive in October, as it is a chance to actually see him and have a chat with him.
Look upon it as an opportunity.
Sometimes we need to create our own opportunities, and do whatever we can.
This friend of the guy you like, most likely will say "Hi" to him, for you.
And when it gets closer to this fall festive in October, you could also mention to this friend of the guy you like, to say to him that you might be going, and so you might see each other there.
And this creates another opportunity to see each other.
Sometimes in life, we just have to do whatever it takes, to get what we want.
And any other activities that might come up in future, you could also get the message to this guy you like - through his friend - that you will be going, and that you might see him there.
It's a great way to see him and talk to him.
And all being well, you will see each other and have some fun together and talk and laugh.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I literally have no other way, I don't have any classes at the freshman campus, I don't think he has any classes at the main campus, & he doesn't even get on Facebook anymore . This is really the only way , his friend that I talk to said him & J are probably gonna go to some fall festive in October at the main campus so that will also be another opritunity, if I go .
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI get on the bus at the main campus, then we head over to go pick up the freshman & that's when I see him . On Friday I told one of his friends to tell him I said hi & he said he will on Tuesday so hopefully he does ! ??
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (30 August 2013):
Hi there. You could use the opportunity when you are standing at the bus lot for freshman, to get to know him.
You have already broken the ice, by talking with him a bit on Facebook, and have had some interesting and fun conversations, so that's a good start.
You at least know a bit about each other's sense of humour.
And so that's something at least.
Maybe while standing at the bus lot for freshman, you could look his way and catch his eye, and when you do, just give him a little smile.
And most likely, he will smile back at you.
Because you have already said here, that he asked one of his other friends to say "Hi" to you, and he wouldn't do that if he wasn't at least a little interested, would he now?
And this proves he is thinking about you.
And if you see him regularly at the bus lot for freshman, well then after you have caught his eye and smiled at him a few times, what might then happen, is he might walk over to you one day and say hi, and start a conversation.
And when it gets to that point, the rest will be easy.
Because it is not like you have not spoken at all, is it?
Conversation on Facebook and conversation in person, is really no different at all.
You are still the same two people, after all.
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