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writes: Ok so, school starts Next Monday and that means I get to see my crush again. Yay! But I'd be happier if I can actually talk to him. I'm extremely shy and find it impossible to talk to him. It's not even funny, whenever my mom always ask me to buy something from a little convenient store near our house I always freak out. I have no idea how to overcome that shyness . It's probably the only thing blocking me from actually talking to him . I always told my self last year when he first moved here(in April ) that I'd talk to him . and what do you know, I didn't do squat ! I'm makes me so depressed not talking to him. Help please, I want to start the new year actually talking to him. Maybe even becoming his friend, or even better GIRLFRIEND! Yeah no, me being his girlfriend = 0 chance ?? Haha, ok please help . cx
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reader, UnstoppableHips  +, writes (19 August 2013):
 Only you can help yourself in this situation. You have to think this way like for example he's just a boy and a human being just like you .. OR maybe there's another girl who likes him and wants to talk to him and if shes does you'll be too late and regrets are nothing but waste of time. Do you want to talk to him and make it all good OR start your school year with disappointments and regrets? Try to encourage yourself and be confident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2013): It takes a little courage, but you have to warm up to people.
It takes practice, and you mom sends you to the store to get you to face the public. It's and exercise to get you to open up and you have no choice.
You don't have to wall right up to him, but it would help if you got really close so you can make eye-contact. If he looks your way, smile. Do it a few times and you'll feel comfortable enough to talk when you know you have his attention. Just remember, once the school year starts, there are going to be a lot of other girls who aren't so shy. They will get his attention before you do. So you have to get up a little courage and just try to say hi.
If he rides the same school bus, try to sit close by; or even next to him. Boys usually speak first anyway, so you can talk about who you got for certain subjects and find out if he will be joining any team sports. Wouldn't it be cool if he's in one of your classes? Maybe he will be.
Good luck!
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